LesbianBoy:


Lil bro wey dey fvck am?

Na so tiwa dey do Lil bro with am before he chop tiwa run, now she stopped following him

Youdonminit! Tiwa stopped following him? mama is pained. By the way, Tiwa never did the Lil bro tag with him, she shamelessly allowed him grope her in public severally while she curved her 40 year old lips in a sheepish smile saying, shout out to my bestie.

She said my Lil bro

FernandezPablo:
Great Wizkid..the greatest thing is that Wizkid is not a wannabe redpiller if not he would have been purposeless as all wannabe redpillers on this forum..

Now this is loud

thorpido:
Lekwa ndi sis.

Hahahaha. This cracked me up soooo bad.

TheSimiloluwa:
I just finished an interview then met with this... Well, I upgrade my confidence when ever I see my interviewers


Talking of other interviewees, me just see them as less potential beings and mind my business and purpose for me coming

You see them as less potential beings? That's condescending and proof of your poor interpersonal skills.

OMG! I know grandpa Charlie is a lot of things but I didn't see petty as one of the adjectives to describe his person.

Coming from someone who's daughter dragged online for being a painter of fake life pictures. Pathetic MEHN...

TheStakeHolder:
SHAMELESS MUGU. HE EVEN INDICATED A PARTICULAR AMOUNT

He stated the amount he needs now. That's not being shameless, it's being specific.

Ayanwukoma, I'm so sorry you had to go through such traumatic experience.

I pray God helps you achieve your concluding paragraph because like you said, the experiences you had has shaped you to becoming an angry, aggressive man.

I recall Chris Brown's interview with Tyra Banks, where he described his dad as a terrible man who constantly physically abused his mum. He also vowed never to be like his mum.

Next thing, he was on the news for beating Rihanna to a pulp.

Studies have also shown that kids raised in toxic environment mostly end up as toxic adults cos that's the only way of life they saw and knew.

So my dear brother, the only way you can't end up like your dad is to deal with the anger issues and choose to liberate your self from the pain, hurt, unforgiveness, anger and hate you feel.

Sending you hugs.

Ayt27:


Lolz! I welcome your expression.

Is that a real thing, getting high off of cow shii?

And the whole thing sorta goes back to how here's isn't the best of place to do the dm's.

LOL, not sure if it's real.

DM's? Maybe not. But you get to enjoy the anonymity the platform offers.

Kobojunkie:
Yes, I moved back to Chicago about a year ago and have been staying with family since.

2. There are two helpers... the Spirit of Truth(Jesus Christ) and the Holy Spirit(God Himself). John 14 vs 15 - 25 & John 16.

I'm going to have to request that we continue this conversation tomorrow? It's past 12am here. LOL.

Kobojunkie:
How did the disciples start the churches you mention? I want to understand what you mean when you say these things.

A church(in the world) refers to a group of people who share similar belief or doctrine. The apostles wrote letters to such groups of believers in different cities, that is why we read of in their epistles.

The church is a group of people who believe in and follow Jesus and are reminded of and revealed to, the teachings of Jesus and the ways of God.

The first church started in Jerusalem on the day of Pentecost with 120 disciples and spread thereafter.

Kobojunkie:
1. He just makes it available. I haven't been to a store - I don't even buy anything - in more than 8 months, yet I lack nothing. He provides by using people around me to do it without my even asking them. I don't solicit donations from anyone.

2. Yeah, I worked as a consultant for all that time and made big money too. But I wanted more than just the typical existence... had always desired it but didn't know how until I found God some years ago.

3. He did. God decreed this so in Ezekiel 34 vs 1 - 16, and Jesus Christ repeated this in His teachings and commandments- God's New Covenant agreement and Law in the Kingdom of God. In the Kingdom of God, not only is Jesus Christ the only Master, over each of His followers, He is also the only Shepherd, Teacher, Helper, Head/Authority, Comforter, Counselor, Guide etc. , over each individual who belongs in His Church. He alone is the vine and His followers are branches directly on the vine.

But you do have family living with you?

Is the Holy Spirit not the teacher and helper that Jesus sent when he departed to Heaven?

Kobojunkie:
You have to be specific about what you mean by "planted" here.

Christianity was spread by the disciples through the churches they started. The Bible references various churches in the new testament.

Kobojunkie:
1. The only structure Jesus Christ taught His disciples of is His Church, built and managed by Him and Him alone...

2. I was a software engineer for about 16 years prior. I had to give it all up, including possessions , in order to gain Heaven- Matthew 13 vs 44 - 46 - and right now, I don't do anything for money. He gives me what He will when He will and I live as He leads - "seek ye first the Kingdom of God , and His righteousness, and all other things will be added onto you"... that's the process I am still working through.

3. Away from Nigeria, this is my 22nd year.

4. I don't mind the questions at all.

Point 4: thank you.

So how does He give you what you need? People donate to you?

You had an interesting career, again, would never have guessed.

Christ never taught that the church would be managed by him alone. Why then did He need disciples?

Ayt27:


I would,

I haven't used twitter since before the ban, only use snap for the pice and only semi-active on Reddit, but there are few Nigerians on there so Nairaland is pretty much my circle and I am effin disgusted by it.

You are? I think I can understand your frustration, seeing as the site seems to be flooded by teenage boys with an all time high on cow dung.

Forgive my expression.

Kobojunkie, what about the churches referred to in the new testament? The churches planted by the disciples of Christ.

Kobojunkie:
1. HELL NO! Ministeries aka churches are nothing but social businesses built by men for the glory and benefit of men and their kingdoms here on earth. Jesus Christ never asked anyone for such foolishness in His nakme so all that has nothing to do with what He in fact asked His followers to do.

I am a follower of Jesus Christ and my job or task as a "fisher of men" generally entails doing works of righteousness, this addition to trusting and obeying God's New Covenant which is the Law for every citizen of the Kingdom of God,

To become what I am today, I had to abandon my former career/occupation , and for good reason - one has to abandon it all in order to obtain His Kingdom.

2. Growing up in Nigerian wasn't easy for me at all. Hard to find those who reasoned as I did, and I struggled since I found it really hard adjusting to the way things were back there. So, since I am still not in a rush to go back, unless I am deployed back there for work maybe.

Hmmm, you're certainly not regular. So are you on your own? You don't belong to any body with a structure?

What was your former occupation and what do you currently do for money?

How long have you been away?

Please don't get weary of my questions, I have a curious mind and I'm hardly fascinated by people so when I meet people who fascinate me, I want to peel each layer they have on.

Wow such an interesting read. The word play felt like a caress upon my intellect. And the humor, a welcome relief.

Kobojunkie:
Occupation? Good question! Long story but short of it is that I believe I am a "fisher of men" but awaiting deployment, or something like that.

2. I live in Chicago.

You're in ministry? Wow, didn't see that coming. I saw you in communications.

Me, I'm a highly skilled smart money woman. So I get plenty occupation from interior architecture to organizing and hosting corporate events to professional writing.

Do you visit Naija at all?

trailblazar:

Ok. Cool.

But hey, let's crack each other up often, on here. Deal?

Kobojunkie:
No, I actually call that the "thinker" moniker... my chosen TM here on Nairaland....

Oh, that's what you mean? chei, it's good to ask questions.

Yes, that's your trade mark.

What's your occupation? I'm guessing you live anywhere else but Naija? I hope there isn't any line I'm crossing?

trailblazar:

Dilemma lol. realfyne@yahoo.com then

Let me still be looking at you through a telescope.

Kobojunkie:
I don't think I am that hard a nut to crack though. I simply require convincing evidence is all. I remain quite teachable as an individual, I learn knew things about self and the world around me everyday, so it isn't the case that I am some closed book.... i am quite the opposite as I am very open-minded, however, what I refuse to do is ingest trash.

Anytime!

You are fascinating. But many people confuse fascinating for controversial.

Why the undecided look+ don't you trust me?

trailblazar:


Let's just say i know just enough about sugar to make a good guess.

Send suggestions to "The head of strategy" I'll inbox you the info.

LOL. You try small.

I can't access my inbox oh.

Kobojunkie:
1. I may be opinionated but I don't go around imposing those opinions on others. I instead try to see things, as much as I can, from the viewpoint of others. Ofcourse that don't mean I will ever come to agree with 'em though.

2. Thanks! Make I grab the compliments before you change your mind abeg!

1. Your last sentence, you're a hard nut

2. I am not that fickle

Let's converse more often. I get time for shakara oh, so if you like do shakara

trailblazar:

Yea, it's part of the strategy for tackling somersaulters. Feel free to suggest changes in the context of both genders realising they need each other to achieve their designed potential.

Ok. I'm curious, do you use high heels to dish out punishment?

Truce

Hahaha, say what now? That's hilarious. How can you know me so well within such brief timeframe?

And who would I be suggesting such changes to? Seeing as you have sense.

Kobojunkie:
Everytime... i don't trust my own self, so how I go trust someone else. I prefer to live and let live, tackle each issue as it comes.

LOL. I'm curious to know how you apply the live and let live mantra seeing as you are opinionated and can be resolute in holding unto your beliefs.

By the way, this has been one of the most intellectually engaging conversations I've had on here. Thanks for being a worthy challenger

Kobojunkie:
1. I have never really considered humans trustworthy.... I mean by default we are fallible beings by our very nature so what does it mean to say you trust an intrinsically fallible being? The idea simply doesn't compute for me.

2. Exactly!

1. Very interesting perspective. But you do give the benefit of the doubt?

trailblazar:

Yea, i just saw it as collateral damage and hoped youd come around eventually. Helinues is an incorrigible somersaulter by comparison.
I take somersaulters personally.

LOL. So rather than confront your opponent you chose someone you thought was an easy prey.

I still intend to "come and beat you"

Truce?

Kobojunkie:
1. Trust ke?

2. However,in relationship, negotiation is what the process ought to be - when dealing with adult egoes, you negotiate your way to a resolution instead.

3. Again, adult egos at play here.

you have trust issues?

From the ego perspective, I agree with you that the manner of approach should be carefully considered.

Kobojunkie:
1. I don't have a problem with the word at all. I am stating instead that a relationship is meant as process of negotiation not of corrections.

2. Negotiations come from listening and reasoning with the other individual you are in contract with.

3. Agreements do take place overtime, not all of them being instant.

1. I see your point and agree that issues in productive relationships be addressed from a process of negotiation. I also think that if you trust that your partner respects you , you should be able to accept corrections from them.

2.So does correction.

3. I agree, not all of them will be instant. It could however be instant if both partners decide to instantly see reason.

siofra:
Hello nairalanders, I just saw an entertainment news headline where Tboss said dark skinned girls are jealous of light skinned girls and in the comment section a lot of dark skinned girls were saying they are usually refused ushering jobs because they aren't light skinned. And that they are more discriminated because they are dark skinned.

Has this happened to any nairalander before? Please share your experiences irrespective of gender or job.

I find it amusing that Africans are discriminated against by other Africans on the basis of their skin color. That is not only hilarious but some deep insecurity by the perpetrator.