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obadiah777: scripture says 3 or 4 generations of rest in the spirit world. so not your grand-mother but it could be your great grandmother or your great great grand mother

Can we have that scripture please

obadiah777: well the church is you. you are the temple. so going to a physical church is organized religion. God does not do religion. ( acts 17 vs 24 ) ( acts 7 vs 48 ) ( isaiah 66 vs 1 ). however do not neglect the company of brethrens. and thats what you are doing on nairaland. you are in the company of brethrens here

Thanks, I have been called weird for the above but I will survive.

obadiah777: 5-YES ALL SPIRITS HAVE BEEN CREATED AT ONCE FROM THE BEGINNING AND WE ALL JUST KEEP REINCARNATING BACK. WE DIE. REST IN SPIRIT WORLD. REINCARNATE BACK AGAIN AS BABIES. I HAVE SAID THIS NUMEROUS TIMES. WHEN PEOPLE ARE BORN, SPIRITS ARE NOT CREATED. ALL SPIRITS HAVE BEEN CREATED FROM THE START ( GENESIS 2 VS 1 )

Please do not get pissed at me Obadiah but this is cracking my skull.

I need to know something about the people coming back to life, an old friend who smoke weed like there is no tomorw once said this to me and I brushed him off and changed the topic, never to be reopened again but now its staring right at me.

Let me make an example of my grandmother, say she passes on. Then we get a new born baby in our family, is that the spirit of our grandmother back or?

I really don't know how to ask this but I hope you get my point.

obadiah777: what you mean ?

thanks heavens there is no bold letter

I meant if she doesn't go to church, whom will she get moral support from? Don't we need each other? To worship together and stuff?

Truth is, I had six months without going to church, I was very sick not that I wanted to stay away, when I got a little bit better my family pushed me to go to church and my little sister leaked out some information I gave her. I had told her about you and how you do things which she claims weird. My family told me I can't rely on things I here from you to make heaven, or I can't rely on listening to stuff you say online to grow spiritually.

The other thing, we need friends who are cut out from the same cloth, I semm to clash with a lot of people because I don't let them temper with my faith, or tell me how to do things as long as those are not in the bible.

I have started going to church and it feels great, so I think going to church isn't really a problem here or m I wrong?

TinyPurpleBaby: Okay the bible it is, and I'm a female .

Hurray for no church.

All I need to do is not to take the "whole" bible literally, but when I get stuck.....?

@ bolded, that's what I am worried about.

fellybabe: Dear KEMMY,


I know the counselor said we shouldn't contact each other during our "cooling off" period, but I couldn't wait anymore. The day you left, I swore I'd never talk to you again. But that was just the wounded little boy in me talking. Still, I never wanted to be the first one to make contact.

In my fantasies, it was always you who would come crawling back to me. I guess my pride needed that. But now I see that my pride's cost me a lot of things. I'm tired of pretending I don't miss you. I don't care about looking bad anymore. I don't care who makes the first move as long as one of us does.

Maybe it's time we let our hearts speak as loudly as our hurt. And this is what my heart says: "There's no one like you, Connie." I look for you in the eyes and breasts of every woman I see, but they're not you. They're not even close.

Two weeks ago, I met this girl at Flamingos and brought her home with me. I don't say this to hurt you, but just to illustrate the depth of my desperation. She was young, maybe 19, with one of those perfect bodies that only youth and maybe a childhood spent ice skating can give you. I mean, just a perfect body. Tits like you wouldn't believe and an ass that just wouldn't quit. Every man's dream, right? But as I sat on the couch being blown by this stunner, I thought, look at the stuff we've made important in our lives. It's all so superficial. What does a perfect body mean? Does it make her better in bed? Well, in this case, yes, but you see what I'm getting at. Does it make her a better person? Does she have a better heart than my moderately attractive Connie? I doubt it. And I'd never really thought of that before.

I don't know, maybe I'm just growing up a little. Later, after I'd tossed her about a half a pint of throat yogurt, I found myself thinking,

"Why do I feel so drained and empty?" It wasn't just her flawless technique or her slutty, shameless hunger, but something else. Some nagging feeling of loss. Why did it feel so incomplete? And then it hit me. It didn't feel the same because you weren't there to watch. Do you know what I mean?

Nothing feels the same without you. Jesus, Connie, I'm just going crazy without you. And everything I do just reminds me of you.

Do you remember Carol, that single mom we met at the Holiday Inn lounge last year? Well, she dropped by last week with a pan of lasagna. She said she figured I wasn't eating right without a woman around. I didn't know what she meant till later, but that's not the real story. Anyway, we had a few glasses of wine and the next thing you know, we're banging away in our old bedroom. And this tart's a total monster in the sack. She's giving me everything, you know, like a real woman does when she's not hung up about her weight or her career and whether the kids can hear us. And all of a sudden, she spots that tilting mirror on your grandmother's old vanity. So she puts it on the floor and we straddle it, right, so we can watch ourselves. And it's totally hot, but it makes me sad, too. Cause I can't help thinking, "Why didn't Connie ever put the mirror on the floor? We've had this old vanity for what, 14 years, and we never used it as a intimacy gadget."

Saturday, your sister drops by with my copy of the restraining order. I mean, Vicky's just a kid and all, but she's got a pretty good head on her shoulders and she's been a real friend to me during this painful time. She's given me lots of good advice about you and about women in general. She's pulling for us to get back together, Connie, she really is. So we're doing Jell-O shots in a hot bubble bath and talking about happier times. Here's this teenage girl with the same DNA as you and all I can do is think of how much she looked like you when you were 18. And that just about makes me cry.

And then it turns out Vicky's really into the whole anal thing, that gets me to thinking about how many times I pressured you about trying it and how that probably fueled some of the bitterness between us. But do you see how even then, when I'm thrusting inside your baby sister's cinnamon ring, all I can do is think of you? It's true, Connie. In your heart you must know it. Don't you think we could start over? Just wipe out all the grievances away and start fresh? I think we can.

If you feel the same please, please, please let me know.

Otherwise, can you let me know where the fucking remote is.

LOVE,   TUNNDYYYYYYYYYYY

Wow....atleast he was being honest but damnit

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Happy birthday yetseyi

You know that verse that says heaven rejoice when a single soul is saved? That's how I feel everytime I see someone new....your welcome dear.

Feel free to pop by now and then, to chat, pray, ask for prayers, share your joys or pains if there are any.

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idnoble135: Oh no! I cant believe i wrote something that long. I tried making it short... Its well.. lol.
Though i dont really know you, i still say "happy birthday" to Yetseyi. Wishing you many more years of fruitfulness, success and fulfillment. God be with you. Amen.

Thanks dear for sharing with us, you shed some light into the chapter and I believe you were closing it for us?

How was church everyone?

And you are welcome.