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The time has come for Nigeria to make it a law that only rich ladies with rich parents or well paying jobs or business should get married, enough of kashamapes robbing guys in the name of marriage, Nigerian guys deserve rich/pretty/humble spouse







The wife is the number one qualified spinster in Nigeria; beautiful, sexy, hot, humble, smiling, cheerful, great career (dokita), USA citizen, rich parents.....Igbo girl again, haba na, Uche Mba this isn't fair na










Typing from my shop at Agege railway side

Nigerian youths of today have no guts! They have no sense! They lack unity of purpose! They can easily be bought with ewedu and gbegiri or a monthly stipend!


Nigerian youths of today are the reason Nigeria is so messed up right now!


Nigerian youths make up 60% of Nigeria's population yet they cannot challenge their oppressors occupying Aso Rock and the various State government houses destroying their present and the future!


Buhari, Danjuma, etc participated in the counter coup that killed Head of State Aguiyi Ironsi in 1966 at the age of below 30yrs......Obasanjo fought civil war at below 30 years.


Major Chukwuma Nzeogwu and his fellow fearless young military officers damned the consequences and carried out military coup that killed top Nigerian politicians and top military officers working for corrupt politicians, they were all below 30yrs when they did this!

Ojukwu challenged Nigeria and lots of world powers at the age of 30!! He stood fearlessly for his people!

Babangida nkor


But today, young military officers have become so cowardly that they allow corrupt military generals to be stealing money meant to buy good ammunition for them and to also pay them well and then send them to warfront with den guns and empty stomach to face well equipped Boko Haram terrorists........yet these cowardly young military officers cannot challenge these corrupt Generals and their corrupt political collaborators. Instead they prefer to be going after fellow young people putting on army camo to molest and intimidate....they prefer to be shooting at unarmed youth protesters protesting for a better life for them and their children that will be forgotten by the government the moment Boko Haram kill any of them.


The only thing the Nigerian youths of today are good at is singing and dancing useless, wayward compromising hiphop songs that make them more foolish! The guys chasing girls around to fvck and brag while the girls keep devising means to attract the highest paying foolish guy to foot their wayward lifestyle and once they can afford to buy a useless car, bleach their skin, buy fake weavon and put on tattoos....their whole life problem is solved, while the old fools keep looting away their generation and future.....and the foolish youths keep saving to run to other countries to feel arrived and achieved in foreign lands! Shame on Nigerian youths of today!

The worst set of people on earth right now are Nigerian youths!



Very cowardly, gullible, foolish youths!! Just look at her life's dream. If Nigeria is working, Justin Bieber will be struggling to come to Nigeria but because Nigeria failed and the youths are failing Nigeria just as their fathers and grandpas occupying Aso Rock and all State government houses, Justin Bieber, a US visa, Canadian visa, anything foreign visa is now the greatest achievement of a Nigerian of today.



Mankind is really ashamed of Nigerians and the entire black race



Writing from my shop at Agege, we will make Agege great again

Nigerian youths of today have no guts! They have no sense! They lack unity of purpose! They can easily be bought with ewedu and gbegiri or a monthly stipend!


Nigerian youths of today are the reason Nigeria is so messed up right now!


Nigerian youths make up 60% of Nigeria's population yet they cannot challenge their oppressors occupying Aso Rock and the various State government houses destroying their present and the future!


Buhari, Danjuma, etc participated in the counter coup that killed Head of State Aguiyi Ironsi in 1966 at the age of below 30yrs......Obasanjo fought civil war at below 30 years.


Major Chukwuma Nzeogwu and his fellow fearless young military officers damned the consequences and carried out military coup that killed top Nigerian politicians and top military officers working for corrupt politicians, they were all below 30yrs when they did this!

Ojukwu challenged Nigeria and lots of world powers at the age of 30!! He stood fearlessly for his people!

Babangida nkor


But today, young military officers have become so cowardly that they allow corrupt military generals to be stealing money meant to buy good ammunition for them and to also pay them well and then send them to warfront with den guns and empty stomach to face well equipped Boko Haram terrorists........yet these cowardly young military officers cannot challenge these corrupt Generals and their corrupt political collaborators. Instead they prefer to be going after fellow young people putting on army camo to molest and intimidate....they prefer to be shooting at unarmed youth protesters protesting for a better life for them and their children that will be forgotten by the government the moment Boko Haram kill any of them.


The only thing the Nigerian youths of today are good at is singing and dancing useless, wayward compromising hiphop songs that make them more foolish! The guys chasing girls around to fvck and brag while the girls keep devising means to attract the highest paying foolish guy to foot their wayward lifestyle and once they can afford to buy a useless car, bleach their skin, buy fake weavon and put on tattoos....their whole life problem is solved, while the old fools keep looting away their generation and future.....and the foolish youths keep saving to run to other countries to feel arrived and achieved in foreign lands! Shame on Nigerian youths of today!

The worst set of people on earth right now are Nigerian youths!



Very fearful, gullible, foolish youths!!

pozehnani:
His money does that for him, not him. Otherwise you try it as you are now.

When a woman is comfortable, why would she stress or cause trouble? Ned sure satisfies them all andmakes them comfortable. What else could a woman possible want again with such life.

I thiny Ned should bear a signature from now on that says "Don't try this at home".

I envy Ned Nwoko...the only man who controls a harem of happy women without stress

cathodekazim:
First two years of my marriage, I was earning just 30k. Glory be to God. I had my first child earning 30k. We pay house rent, phcn bills, transport, feeding in that 30k. My wife was jobless yet we survived. As God will do it, my 4th year now, my monthly income is roughly 80k and we are living happily. I can't imagine someone saying 80k is too small to keep a marriage. God is truly wonderful. I appreciate you oh lord. Better focus and look for your right girl ( the op) Material ladies are dangerous. Those Early signs are clear enough

I doubt you live in Lagos, Abuja or any of the top Nigerian cities.



I am happy that you are happy with your income.....but don't encourage others to take on the same dangerous route you took and survived by chance or luck....they might die in that same dangerous route.


The op need to forget anything marriage now and improve his life and finances.


He stand better chances of making it now financially than when he is married.



Nigeria is getting tougher by the day and international doors are closing everyday which helped lots of Nigerians escape poverty......he should forget about marriage now and hustle to migrate out of Nigeria or acquire a sellable skill that will give him better chances of improving his income.


Things will never get any better in Nigeria......it will continue getting worst, so every Nigerian youth now ought to plan well.


Ladies don't ever marry without a means of earning money to support your future husband.....don't commit that crime! it is crime to marry as a lady now without a job or handwork or business that earn you income, don't do it for the sake of your innocent unborn kids! They deserve good life pls.



As for you that I am quoting, please encourage your wife to get something to do....even if its business, handwork....or work from home business....don't let her continue to be idle while the family rely on your income alone, it is suicidal. Correct it now!!

Afikoo:
Good morning Nairalanders. I sure know you all fine.

I am writing this with heavy heart.
I know we have super rich people here who rose from poverty to riches.

This life isn't balance. Done with school. Been working as security administrator in my church and I earn 80k. I have been planning on getting married. Have met my fiance Parents, they were happy. I have engaged her she is happy. All of a sudden the elder brother who isn't around is angry that I haven't spoken to him about my intention. I have earlier tried his line severallly and it isn't going through. Had to chat him and he told me I am not serious that I should grow up. A bullet in my heart.

Her mum has suddenly changed and is accusing me for not calling her always.
This whole drama has gotten into my babe now she is talking about us suspending our marriage plan and try improving our income. (She is learning a skill)

I am fed up. Have suspended everything now. I have tried everything since I left school last year to improve my income. Apply for jobs here and there. Is just not cutting in.

Please, share your experience on how you were able to get out of this average life as a Nigerian.

Advise me and others still struggling to rise up.
You can recommend jobs for me.
I studied history and Diplomatic Studies.
Have some certification in Leadership and human resource. Trust me, I can deliver on anything legal. I have the capacity, but haven't gotten the opportunity.

Patiently reading.

You have no reason to cry fowl....the girl's family did no wrong.


Listen let me tell you, Nigeria has never been easy, but the truth is, Nigeria of today have become even more difficult for young people with no solid family background to give them a lift.


Don't gamble with your destiny and future. Yes some say marriage brings good luck or fortune....but if that is true and happens to all, I am sure we won't have poor, wretched married people who gave birth to hungry children that continued the poverty cycle we have today.


So in as much as your case might be different; as in, your own marriage might bring you luck....we can never tell if you are one of those destined for such.....so for now work on what you can control - fix your life financially first before embarking on any marital moves.


If you have 3million naira as a single guy in Nigeria, you are in fact rich in the Nigerian eye.....but as a married man, if you have 10million, you are not......why Too many responsibilities comes with marriage.


It is easier for you to travel out of Nigeria to seek for greener pasture as a single guy than as a married guy.


I will advice you put all your efforts towards looking for a way to migrate out of Nigeria to boost your income....and if you love Nigeria so much, you can go back to Nigeria haven raised enough capital to start a good business venture. If you are single, it will be easier for you to mingle with older white ladies online and get help to move out of Nigeria....if you are married, you cannot do that.....your chances become limited as a guy the moment you marry.



Don't be angry with your girl and her family, they really care about you.....marriage is not all to life......get your feat financially and your marriage will be sweet.

Dapcity007:
Dont be fooled by Leftist media CNN who seek to promote radicalized feminism , homosexuality, gay marriage, LGBTQ, abortion under the disguise of supporting End SARS look at their DJ Switch media talk and compare to their news of female celeb Adele divorce from her spouse, who after the divorce she will be feeding as their culture support female hypergamy creating broke emasculated men , my fellow youths let's not be deceived , the ends protest has been hijacked

Obviously its expected she married an emasculated Simp(a potential gay**t), because their society is so progressive and allows for female hypergamy hence the rise of weak nonvirile men , homosexual men, non binary men, She Male,Bisexual men,and other aborminations we see openly in these society,I commend her success as an individual , attaining these height in her music career based on her own merit but I'm against their society killing natural masculinity in their men via queerness,sexless,and genderless notion

The African Man is a natural redpiller , our conservative culture alone produces Alpha male,and also strong independent women who don't see men,babies,marriage,family as threats to achieving their personal set out objectives eg Mrs Folorusho Alakija(richest woman in Africa),Mrs Awoseka of first bank , Arch bishop Mrs Idahosa , Mrs Tara of house of Tara, Former senator Mrs Florence It's Giwa, Rev Mrs Adejumo, Aisha Yesufu of Endsars protest, Mrs Stella okoli the founder and current CEO of Emzor pharmaceutical,and a host of others

These compared to what the leftist american media who want to promote single motherhood,divorce,queerness and other progressive ideologies and we see in some of our female celebrities Toke Makiwa (divorce),Vanetta of big brother(divorce),Genevieve Nnaji (single mother),Waje(single mother ),INI Edo(divorce),Tiwa savage(divorce and single mother) and a host of others

Note I'm not against single women or men Apostle Paul was single,Jesus was single,Mother Theresa was single, you can be single and still fufil destiny, have peace of mind, attain happiness without needing the institution of marriage or family,what I'm against and I now see in some women is that they now see that marriage, family, .men, babies all as threats to attaining women right,and women independence hence the wave of radical feminism, toxic feminity ,progressivism,LGBTQ, genderless and queerness notion

An example is an NGO called feminist coalition that was headed by modern feminist kiki mordi and a host of other ladies who where one of the major sponsors and organizers of the End SARS protest specifically in Lekki toll gate protest under the guise of fighting for police reform,end to police brutality ,end to extra Judicial killing, were actual fighting for radical leftist ideologies like LGBTQ,abortion,gay marriage, etc which are against God and Nature, they were verified by progressive twitter owner Jack Dorsey to gain popularity and donation for these so called purpose

We are all complaining about Buhari today , his bad economic policies as we are seeing rise in fuel,food,transportion costs etc. poor govt educational policies keeping youths from school because of ASUU strike, dictatorial tendency by trying to ban social media,corruption by holding covid 19 pallatives ,etc. We see former pres Jonathan as a weak, incompetent , corrupt politician who could not handle the Boko Haram terrorist insurgency ,people don't see the reason for these was his refusal to accept progressive Obama Gay marriage policy,Jonathan not only refused these satanic leftist feminist ideology but also penalized homosexuals with new legislative bill of 13 yrs imprisonment of homosexuals,Obama punished Nigeria by refusing us the money and arms to fight these terrorist hence leading to countless loss of lives and properties,human displacement into IDP camps,violation of women body and right in the case of Chibok girls , and now these tribalist bigot incompetent president Buhari.

You don't have sense

Black race, especially Nigerians are the most wicked race on earth.

They derive joy in killing, cheating and destroying others. But once they are on the receiving end of the maltreatment, they start to cry fowl.


All Nigerians are wicked.


It is absurd that people are defending the murderous Nigerian army known for killing civilians for joy before now.


It is unfortunate that we no longer have no nonsense western leaders that will damn the consequences and invade Nigeria to arrest Terrorist Buhari to answer some critical questions.

America or France can arrest Buhari if they want without a gunshot.


America need to revive their global Policing that made the world praise and love them in the past.


In fact, all West African countries, especially Nigeria need to be recolonised by the white. Colonial era is far better than what wicked Nigerian leaders are doing to their own citizens without any form of shame or remorse.


National army is meant to defend the citizens against external aggressors not to kill their citizens.


Nigeria is shameless

Gory

CalliDora1:
Long post. Please bear with me.

This trait seems to be common among some Nairaland men (with apologies to all the men here though) cos I never really experienced such attitude with men ive met offline. So don't know whether they have a nairaland men's association (not the red pillars or mgtow kinda thing though) where they agree to behave likesome. The way they reason sometimes just baffles me.

Ok. So, I met someone here as a friend and I wanted it to stay that way. Along the line, he wanted more than just friendship but I just kept dodging because I don't want any issues as he's a good friend (a born again) and I like our friendly chats and all that. So didn't want anything serious that could jeopardize that but he kept pressing on and stressing until I naturally began to feel relaxed (against my wish) you know how that constant checking on someone tends to make one want to compromise their Stance. So I sort of got trapped.

Now here's the issue. He would always want to know about my biz and job. If I went or not. So I decided to test him. He would always call and ask if I've eaten. So that day, I said no (was fasting) but didn't want to divulge it to him that I was fasting. He called later in the day and asked again, I said I've not eaten, he dropped. I now felt he prolly thought I wanted him to feed me huh??.. I observed he reduced his calls. Third day he called and asked again, I said no. And he said "na wa o" I was like why, he said I'm sorry I can't help. Huh?? I don't remember asking him so I decided to play along. He called in the evening, I still said I've not eaten ( cos I had not broken my fast then) and he said I'm sorry ( I was just laughing within). I asked him, for what? he said because he couldn't help. And since then he stopped calling only to chat after a week to ask if the biz I was pursuing was through. I ignored him and for two months no contact.

Just last night he chatted me up again asking if I've resumed work and I said yes. he then asked if he's free to call me bla bla. And since last night hes been trying to keep up chats but I'm kinda cold towards him and he asked why I'm so cold. Acting like nothing happened.

Now, this is what I feel. so if someone is truly dying of hunger (God forbid) you'll abandon the fellow? or that they can't date someone who's biz is shaky or has not resumed work due to a global crises that affected everyone? I'm not saying anybody should carry someone else's burden ( there was really no burden anywhere as God has been faithful.) but I don't understand what actually played out there and why he's all of a sudden interested again after learning I've resumed work. I don't just understand because I don't want to be rude. Was that a right thing?

I'm really confused here because.. I mean.. I never asked you to help me with anything but being there would have been enough. Calling and chatting would have helped me scale through the bordom I felt that period of compulsory break from work and biz but he went into Oblivion even when I never placed any demands on him.

I bow to men and the way they reason o.

Shebi your fellow ladies here say all the teaching abi learning threads telling guys never to date broke ladies or marry one or spend a dime on a lady na wash


Guys are upgrading oh, ladies need to be worried and amend their ways



I went to the bank few weeks ago after a very long time cos I can't remember the last time I visited a bank but because it was a forex stuff and the bank said only account owner can pay so so amount of foreign bills to a Dom account, so I decided to go myself bcsuse I needed the money lodged into that account urgently.


There was a queu, in the queue and the one I met inside the banking hall again, I got to meet a pretty damsel; don't ask me how


We exchanged contacts. I later discovered the girl was a student at a private uni lol

A week later she started that crap talk of I need to tell you something please lol, I started laughing when I heard that cos I already know lol


She said she need an urgent help bla bla bla, I burst into laughter and ended the call. She sent pages of messages, I never read till today.


Few days later she called and apologized and said so because she asked me for a favor that she knows I am bigger than, that I stopped replying her messages or picking her calls, I laughed it off.


See, ladies have abused those little privilege from guys....ladies and girls must wake up and realize that guys no longer cherish those their I need a help. No guy want to be tagged mugu or maga or hoodlum lol




In years to come, relationship will be like business transaction; give me this and take this strictly defined, no more hiding under relationship or dating to milk guys while laughing at them behind.


Many guys now are scared of broke ladies.....many guys are single and financially settled to marry but they don't want to marry any jobless or broke lady who also comes from poor family and still lack humility and respect

If a known terrorist supporter, an uneducated hoodlum like Buhari can become Nigeria's president, nothing is impossible in Nigeria!


If an ex drug baron and wire fraud ring boss can become the Governor of Lagos state and the lord of Yoruba land, then nothing is a surprise in Nigeria!


If a well known Yahoo boy can become Imo state Governor and appoint popular ritualists into his cabinet, then impossibility does not exist in Nigeria!


If a Governorship candidate that came 4th in an election he never campaigned for, later became Governor through a corrupt supreme court, what else is a surprise in Nigeria


If a country's military created to protect the citizens of that country can confidently kill protesting citizens while the world watches, and later comes out to deny it even with clear evidences and some citizens continue to support them because of politics, tell me what else is a surprise to you


If Police officers meant to bring peace and confidence to the society can boldly brag and tell citiznes that "I can kill you here and nothing will happen", and when he does, nobody questions him, and truly nothing happens....tell me, what else amazes you about Nigeria

If terrorists can end up being in charge of Nigeria's government and freeing Boko Haram terrorist while killing ordinary protesters, tell me what other thing could surprise you

If a hoodlum like Buhari can become Nigeria's president, nothing is impossible in Nigeria!


If an ex drug baron and wire fraud ring boss can become the Governor of Lagos state and the lord of Yoruba land, then Rochas can dream on!


If a well known Yahoo boy can become Imo state Governor and appoint popular ritualists into his cabinet, then impossibility does not exist in Nigeria!


If terrorist can end up being in charge of Nigeria's government and freeing Boko Haram terrorist while killing ordinary protesters, tell me what other thing could surprise you

Who is this wan we are talking about the latest hot couple in town; Uchemba and his Holy wife you are here talking nonsense....all these hoodlums self

pocohantas:
Let me tell you something, women run things with men who have things to lose. It is not always about money. Hoodlums have nothing to lose, so any small thing- drama! If hoodlum make mistake and press your breast lasan, the whole internet go hear am.

LAFMAOOOOOOOOOO

Ishilove:
Seems this lady is older than her husband.

age no matter oh, she is cute, carry front, carry big bakasi, come carry US citizenship plus medical certificate, ah mogbe, to hell fire with age biko



The lady want a celebrity husband.....the dream of many young ladies of today!


The guy need a US citizenship and some other goody bags, so its a match made in hell

pocohantas:
It is just the way life works, no hard feelings. Nobody will send a hoodlum message. For NL sef, before people send you PM, them done run scan for your profile. Before you sef reply, you go run your own. She wasn’t the first girl holy spirit ministered to, Williams saw what he liked, na why e reply.

At least we won’t hear how he trained her and she absconded from duty.

hahahahaha.......you mean Nigerian ladies' holy spirit is selective



"Hoodlum"


APC Buharist spotted......no be small hoodlum, na miscreant, my stomach oh

I love the way Holy spirit minister to Nigerian ladies; it only ministers to them to go for the rich and made husbands. Speak, ya son heareth, speak

So these foolish old politicians moving from one looting party to terrorist party don't known that before 2023, a revolution will kill most of them


Instead of seeking for ways to douse the tension and bring youths to calmness through massive job creation and business empowerment, they are busy scheming how to become next foolish President in 2023.


You all will be shocked!!

Moferere:
I am vindicated, this is how to discuss politics.

I told some of my friends on this platform that at the end of the day, it will come to, how many registered voters do you have in your zone? .

They said that I am wrong. Someone even asked me to deduct Igbo votes from Lagos registered voters


IBB has said the same thing about numbers of votes from North Central, South West and South South Geopolitical zones.

However I want to respectfully disagree with IBB on the quoted excerpts below:


The above statement is misleading. Yes, North Central has more votes than South South, but the South West has more votes than North Central.
Here is the distribution:
SS — 11, 918, 097
NC — 13, 366, 070
SW — 16, 292, 212


TYRO POLITICAL CALCULATIONS
Since Kwara is dominated by Yoruba,

Kogi West Senatorial District is Yoruba,

some Nupe people are Yoruba extractions,

there are plenty Yoruba (most especially from Ogun) in Jos,

and Abuja is a no man's land

we must minus Yoruba votes from North Central.

Funny political calculations.

Cc:
Bkayyy
Cktheluckyman
Dukeprince50
SpecialAdviser
Ikology
Klinee
Okoroawusa

Please note: I have mentioned you to enhance discussion, not to look for troubles o.
I respect everyone of you.

Remember to also minus Igbo votes from Southsouth (Igbo speaking communities/LGAs and from Lagos and other regions Igbos are in numbers.)



What many people don't know but the past military generals and heads of states know is that Igbos are the second largest tribe in Nigeria after Hausa.


The past heads of states know this sad truth.


They know how they worked hard to reduce Igbo population and states by carving out Igbo communities from Southeast and adding to Southsouth in an effort to reduce Igbo power and resources, and to discourage Igbos from making any effort to secede from Nigeria again.



But the gullible ignoramuses think that Buhari's 5% vote statement after he won the election meant Igbos are 5% of the Nigerian voters.



Buhari was talking about percentage votes he got from Southeast and Southsouth in 2015, and he was right because Southeast and Southsouth gave him less or around 5% vote.



There is a reason why every former President of Nigeria respect Igbos, they know the secrets, they know what they did. E get why

Zzor:
Some men commenting here are still out there sending money for upkeep and what have you lol.It is natural and your statements here can't change that.As for me ooo, I won't reject money I didn't request for and I can never demand from any man but it's fine if you decide to be doing volunteer work.

Threads and topics like this make impact if you don't know. You may think guys are typing for typing sake but many are learning....and of course there must be fools in every gathering of 12!




There must be guys who are destined to be foolish and daft towards women, maybe out of inability to get other girls or maybe out of insecurity and fear of losing the one and only girl they were able to convince to date them after several attempts.....their case is different and pathetic....but take it from me, many guys are learning and have learnt a lot from threads like this on Nairaland, Twitter, Facebook.



You should ask yourself why the increasing number of mature single ladies and why many guys abroad now are scared of marrying ladies based in Nigeria when compared to 20 years ago


Ask yourself why many guys no longer chase girls in real life for like 6 months as the girl keep posting them like guys did in the past



Internet is exposing a lot of ills of the society and the smart and wise people are learning but the perpetually foolish people destined for destruction will never learn from others, they always prefer to learn from their own mistake which end up consuming their life

pocohantas:
Thank you!! The guy himself is a user!! If that was a boy-child he trained, will he expect marriage and sex in return? There are young guys that need help, men will not help them because they can’t give them anything in return. He thinks if her parents have money to train her in school, they will allow one advanced bachelor to be doing rough play with their daughter because of school fees? Toor!!

Even girls born into rich family backgrounds do same but in different forms.


DJ Cuppy have been using different guys to climb up the ladder of entertainment, once she sees a more popular guy, she shift post.



Its not because she was from a poor family......women are generally selfish, including you, don't you get it


You may never know how selfish you are to men in your life, except your blood brothers until someone tells you.


A Nigerian lady who is a citizen of an advanced country like US, Canada, Australia, etc will rather die single and lonely than ever go back to Nigeria to pick a struggling or average young man and marry and team up with him and build a happy home....she will tell you none-existing stories that only exist in her imaginery brains of how one lady brought one guy to America and he left her.....ask her who is the guy or lady in question, she will begin to tell you her friend told her.....meet her friend, that one will tell you her friend's aunt's cousin told her....and it will continue....but the main reason is women's wickedness and selfishness towards men who arent their blood brother.



Money in the hand of a woman is like money put in prison, but the same money in the hand of a man is like powder spread into the air; both ladies and guys will benefit from the money in the hands of a man, but nobody except their children and maybe preferred siblings will enjoy the money in the hands of a woman.


Women are born selfish, wicked and stingy. It is the fact!

AnonymousRebec:
Well, I hope in this life you will eventually meet a good lady that will prove you wrong

even if I meet, I know I might have met....I don't believe a Nigerian or black lady can be naturally good to a man who is not her blood brother. To me, its for a hidden agenda or reason best known to her alone, which makes her a suspect to me

AnonymousRebec:
I agree with you. Anytime I speak with my brothers, they always tell me of businesses and parole they are running with their friends (guys). I like all the close gees of my brothers because they have made my brothers better people. Anytime I speak to my brothers, I always ask after their friends. God bless all of them. I love the way they support one another.

Myself, I try to support my lady friends the way I can. Sometimes, i buy their market even when they sell to me at ridiculously high prices. I close my eyes just to support their businesses.
In this life, just surround yourselves with good people.

Many guys today are helping their close pals, no doubt..guys should be wary of foolish friends, you can sense them even while in school; they hardly appreciate others, they rarely give out, they are always receiving, and never give the little they have..if u are a guy reading and u have any guy friend with the aforementioned traits, please unfriend him asap!


As for your own side, I just don't ever believe that ladies can be genuinely good...every lady to me is a suspect and bad person..if she is good, I just naturally believe that she is acting or hiding something lol

pocohantas:
Actually she has always been like that, I can’t type somethings- I don’t know who is reading. No one deserves bad people. However, I think many people are not realistic, they run on more emotions than logic. If you make peace with the fact that humans will always be humans, you have solved 90% of your relationship troubles.

yeah.


My life rule = expect less from people! Especially women!


I don't expect much from people (women in particular), and everyone is a suspect to me!


If you are too good to me as a lady, I will start to suspect you want a favor or something cunning!



I always have this innate suspicion for ladies sha.....I don't trust any lady. I believe by default that ladies are born bad, and anyone of them that seems good is acting.



It seems the good guys get this kind of callous treatment from ladies the most.


I have never heard that a lady broke up or broke the heart of a bad guy or playboy, why



Guys, don't ever keep one woman, be it as wife or girlfriend.


Beauty of women is in having them in numbers and the more of them u have the more they behave well towards u

AnonymousRebec:
No no, it's not because of boobs and ynash. There is just so much movement right now to support women in technology. It's not really because of boobs and ynash. Many companies have just decided to give more slot to ladies to contribute their own quota to this movement.

I'd like to advice guys to support themselves more. As a woman, our lives is already subsidised. Parent give their female children more pocket money than the male children. If I meet my father that I need money, he will not ask too much question. He will give me the exact amount I'm asking for. But my brothers will meet my father, he will ask them so many questions as if na exam them dey write. If they are able to convince him, he will give them the money. Many people are willing to help just for being a woman or a child.

Men, support each other to grow. That does not mean when a woman merits some stuffs you don't give it to her. But if you have an opportunity to help, help your fellow man.

I see the relationship my brothers have with their male friends and I must confess, I love it. Guy help yourselves. Women already have so many helpers.

whatever I am today, owe more tribute to my friends (guys).


Among us, we have raised a lot of money to support some of our course mates who couldn't secure good jobs for them to start a business to stand.


I have gotten contracts, no interest loans from my male friends.


A course mate of mine once left $50,000 with me for 10 months. I know how much I made with that his money.


Some of the guys in my click have given their house projects to some of our guys just to assist them come up.


All the guys in my click building one building project or another, na one of our guys must execute the project from foundation to roofing.


One of my guys got job with Dangote Refinery through another of our guy who is close to Dangote Brother's PA!


That's why I cherish the guys I know..only few useless ones, and we have already disconnected from such fools anyway