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SweetCunt97:
So who wanna marry the broke man? U go just dey type from a pained perspective

a broke Nigerian guy never wishes or daydreams to marry a rich Nigerian lady of course. Nigerian guys are very realistic with life, they know they can't get one, but your sisters will be dreaming of marrying Dangote just because they managed to buy Mary K and spaghetti top and tight that brings out their pankere ass

I have been following that guy....he will end up the richest in years to come.



He has some madass ideas that make me envious

Gone are the days successful men marry broke ladies and bring their girlie fantasies to reality!


If you want to marry a rich guy as a lady now, you need to work hard and become successful in your field or come from a rich and popular family at least, if not, na Lekki big boys and abroad based Naija guys and Yahoo plus boys go de use your pussy to learn how to fvck like a IndecentStar with nothing to show for it at the end other than few wards of currency



Only few unexposed local traders who jam money by luck and those mumu Yahoo boys who sold their kidney for yahoo plus marry broke, lazy ladies

Great woman!


The only sensible Mu***m woman in Nigeria

Fake news from lying Nigerian military!


Show us their dead bodies!


Show us their relatives crying after you bombed them!


Show us the moment the bomb hit them clearly as they are running and falling!


Lying devils!! Keep using your Northern brothers and sisters to enrich your foolish pockets! Keep chasing shadows in the name of fighting Boko Haram which is you!

99% of men don't cry after a breakup....the few that cry cry if they invested so much and couldn't see the lady's pant So they are not crying because of anything called love, they are crying because they made loss. No man who have seen a girl's pant repeatedly cries when the relationship ends


Ladies cry most times, and they don't usually cry because of any romantic love, they cry when they remember how much they gain from the guy in terms of money, gifts, take away, academic support, fantasy of having a future husband that will be spending stupidly on them, etc......




The truth is, romantic love is a fallacy, it does not exist!


What we call love is all infatuation borne out of selfish desires met.....when our selfish expectations are met, we unknowingly develop serious likeness for the person mostly because of the things we benefit from them! Take away the benefits, we start to search for a replacement, which is were lovers claim they have fallen out of love, all na scam.

Liar Mohammed
Lauretta Onochie
Gabar Shehu
Femi Adesina


These people are the true replica of who Buhari is - a multiple faced man who cares for nobody but himself, his cow and family alone!


It's so sad that Buhari and these charlatans are the people representing Nigerians as their leaders. God have mercy

greymiles:
By 20, you should have your own house, a car starting from 2010 upwards, at least 2 investments, a girlfriend(not compulsory) and at least 10m in your acct
Anything less than this, then you’re a failure already

you forgot to add that he ought to have been an ex Governor or Senator, wereh

Ever8090:
This people should stop this plenty talks already and announce the band on all Nigerian politicians and their families,send their children back to Nigeria then send all Nigerians all over the world so that the war will start.

The reason why Nigeria is yet to experience the kind of revolution that has never happened before is because, is because escaping from the country for greener pastures in other countries is an option.

If Nigerians can't escape, we will have no choice than to fight back and make all our leaders dead and alive vomit every thing they have embezzled over the years...

But truth is,..if corruption stops in Africa,many European countries economy will suffer...that is why they keep talking but won't announce the ban and stand by it..

They won't implement the ban.



It will end in debate, no action. Is it not UK, the home of corrupt African leaders. Foolish people acting like they care when they don't really care

Not just them, their children starting with Liar Mohammed and his entire family should be banned from entering UK to school or for any reason.


If UK, US, Germany, Canada, France, Australia can do this for Nigeria, then our problem as a nation is half solved

Aziishyco:
see the money I have been looking for almost two decades now, Baba God do and my pick my call real soon

hahahahaha

BananaPeel:
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I didn't have 100k when I started my wedding preparations. I spent about 1 million naira for both traditional and wedding. It works differently for different people. Don't get scared, just man up Only boys who are afraid of becoming men get scared of marriage. How long do you want to remain a boy?

Your case maybe different from his so don't use your case to judge and to advice him to follow your path which may not work for him.


Maybe you have good friends and family members who contributed to your wedding success....some people don't have anybody, in fact some guys are the lifeline of their generation; every family member is looking up to them, so how do you expect such guy to get married with empty pocket



The time has come for we Nigerians to realize that the life of a man or woman is not tied to marriage. Although I won't advice any lady to remain single if she can find a husband because it is more honorable for a lady to be married than to remain forever single.......marriage helps replenishes women......but for guys, they need to get their financial life sorted out to a good extent before embarking on that journey called marriage.


Paying house rent, taking good care of a newborn, helping his wife's family side (it must come so long as you are a Nigerian), etc all come with a financial burden that requires adequate preparation to avoid early death rampant among Nigerian men.

If you check, life expectancy for Nigerian men is around 53yrs while in USA its 78yrs and Ethiopia is 66yrs.

setobaba:
Hello Nairalanders,

I’m 30yrs of age, and I never for once consider getting married, I lost interest totally, but this should incase i decide to tie the nut, how much should I have in my bank account to be on safer side before dragging myself into a life time contract with someone else daughter??

I currently own a car, and managing a salon plus other bussiness thag comes once a while, I’m working towards having a building of my own before getting married, but you see the country is so messed up right now that building a three bed room apartment for yourself is so difficult.
Families and friends are dragging me to get married without considering my financial status, they all felt I have what it takes to get myself a wife......lol tho I’m not moved or shake by their claims but I really need to know this.

Can one settle down with an available balance of a million naira and feel safe?

If you recently get married here, can you pls do a cost implication of the said wedding and cost of running your marriage since inception??
Many guys are scared, I swear

Your savings is not as important as your continuous income. What you need most is steady means of income, not a static savings. You need a steady, sustainable income of at least NGN200,000 every month for the first 5 years of marriage if you live in Lagos, Abuja, Portharcourt....and an increase to like NGN400,000 - NGN600,000 within the next 6 - 10 years of your marriage to run a healthy, truly comfortable family.


If you are talking about wedding, you can plan wedding with NGN500,000.....in fact plan the wedding now that COVID-19 restricted number of gathering and don't center the success of your marriage around flamboyant wedding. Wedding day does not define how great a marriage would be.


I have a friend whom I was his best man some 7 years ago.....the wedding was so dull like it was a burial ceremony - all thanks to lack of money.....but today, this guy is worth over NGN200million from his legal business deals not through crime.

He married a deserving lady....a virtuous lady who helped to push him to greatness. Whoever he is today, owe tribute to his wife. His wife turned his life around. His wife provided the capital he used to catapult his business empire today....not that his wife was rich though, but she came from a well to do family and she cried to her family members to help her husband and they helped him with no-interest loans that turned his business fortune around.


Marry such lady!

To lessen the burden, make sure your wife-to-be is earning monthly income too.

Be it from her own sustainable business with growth prospect or from a well defined career path or handwork.


Never you make the mistake of marrying an unemployed, lazy, not-making-effort-to-earn lady. That is the beginning of solidifying family poverty.



Marry a lady of vision. Marry a lady who have zeal and burns for success!


Marry a lady who is working to earn a living...a lady who aspires to be like some great women, don't marry a lady who reminds you that so so and so man married and told his wife to stop working because he is rich enough to take care of his family.


Run from ladies with this dirty, foolish mentality......it is the mentality of ladies who land men into perpetual poverty with time, flee from them no matter how pretty she is!

RuudVanNisteroy:
Gowon-Took 50% of the Central Bank
IBB- Took 60% of the Central Bank
Abacha- Took 70% of the Central Bank
Abdusalami: Took 90% of the Central Bank and left OBJ with nothing in the coffers.
Buhari- I wonder how much Buhari has taken

Buhari is using Nigeria as a collateral to collect enough foreign loans in trillions for his generations to remain forever rich.....he then dishes out crumbs to Nigerians in the name of survival fund....and he uses Osinbajo to front such mediocre

Originalsly:
Really?... didn't you read he will continue his fight in court? Do you know what the Constitution says concerning the election of a President? If you knew... then you would've known that Trump has a chance of regaining the Presidency if he drags this out until January 21. The Constitution made provision for Presidents like Trump.... who want to hold on to power.... they have options.
As a Christian... so you said... you are speaking from both sides of your mouth. If God makes a man a President for a certain purpose.... why are you saying at times the man go astray and God's purpose is not achieved? Really? And why should Trump be fixing African problems?... is he the Saviour?.. why should he allow all those suffering in other countries to enter his country? Have you even thought of fixing the problem in your own country? When it rains and your house is leaking.... will you grab your wife and run over to your neighbour banging on his door for shelter?... and dislike him if he shuts you out?
A true Christian is never lazy nor dependent neither does he ever look to man to solve his problems or improve his circumstances.

Most of you claim to be Christians but you don't know your Bible. You don't even know the ways of God.


Listen, have you ever asked yourself how Israelites ended up in Egypt

Let me educate you small.


Israelites landed in Egypt during Joseph's era, many hundreds of years ago then.

There was a time famine happened in the land of Canaan where Israel lives and before that incident, God knew something like that would happen, so He positioned Joseph, one of Jacob's children to migrate out of Canaan to a foreign land known as Egypt for a purpose.


Joseph got sold by his siblings to merchants who later sold him to Egyptian royal kingdom of Pharaoh.


Years later, famine came upon the land and Israel and his children were dying of hunger....nowhere to get food or something to eat......they learnt food is being sold in Egypt a far away country.....they had no option than to migrate to Egypt to buy food to save their family members and dying aged father Israel (Jacob).

Unknown to them, it was their sibling; Joseph who was in charge of foodin Egypt the foreign land......Joseph hid a gold stuff in their food bag after selling to them as a way of getting them arrested and brought to Egypt.


Joseph didn't pray for God to end famine in Canaan land, he rather sent for his entire household (Israel) to be brought to Egypt where food was in surplus due to their king's early planning for the famine.


That was how Israelites ended up in Egypt and started living and giving birth in Egypt.


It was after hundreds of years have passed that Joseph's era and the then Pharaoh era have passed that Israelites started suffering persecution in Egypt which made God to raise Moses to bring them out of Egypt back to their original land of Canaan that was then fertile and flowing with milk and honey (probably with lots of natural mineral resources).




So migration is as old as man.


Pharaoh the King of Egypt then because of his love for Joseph allowed Joseph to bring his entire household to Egypt to live.



Kings in the Bible helped other Kings to conquer their enemies and rebuild their nations to become great nations. Trump can do same for West African nations if he truly cares, but he does not care!



So quit wasting your prayers on Trump....and pray for God's will to be done in your life no matter who wins!

Finally, the stubborn man is gone


For those supporting Donald Trump on the guise of Christianity, let me tell you guys what you don't know....


Nobody can fight for God Almighty. God is God because He can fight and defend Himself. God does not need any man or any President or King or Prophet or mob to fight for him or defend His words! The living God that we Christ lovers and believers serve is not a docile God nor a powerless god that requires some strong men or militants or irate youths or rampaging extremists to defend His cause. God can do and undo! God can raise a warrior anytime if He needs one for any reason.

God is love! Christ is love! Being a true Christian is all about spreading love not hate! Love your neighbors! Don't fight anybody condemning Christ or Christianity, don't be like the other religions who fight for their prophets and gods......the living God that true Christians serve is powerful enough to fight His battles and win!

Donald Trump *may have become President out of God's will to achieve something only God alone knows....but remember, even in the Holy Bible, there were kings whom God anointed to become kings to save the people but these kings got carried away by power and derailed from the original plan God had for them, and what happened to such kings God caused a situation to happen to ensure such incalcitrant kings are dethroned and disgraced before the people.


Almost all the people occupying the country called United States today are migrants or immigrants......including Donald Trump; whose great grandparents migrated from Europe - Germany I guess.....and even Donald Trump's wife Melania Trump migrated to American from Yugoslav Republic of Slovenia....yet Trump don't want other migrants who are facing challenges in their home countries for several reasons beyond their control to come to America to achieve their own life's dreams.....he wants them to remain and die in their home countries where they have limited opportunities to survive, isn't that man's wickedness to fellow human Is that how someone that loves God behave


You don't want black people from Africa to come to United States, you want them to go back to their countries in Africa to fix it, how What have you done to sincerely help African nations catch up with development; did you ever make serious efforts to confront the useless, failed African leaders to fix their countries and stop human right abuses and give all their countrymen and women equal opportunities to survive; yes you can do it if you truly care.....you have the influence to do this, and if truly you love God, you ought to love all humans and also help other humans to succeed and fulfill their God's destiny here on earth irrespective of their skin colors.


No man chooses his race!

No man chooses his skin color!

No man chooses the country he or she is born! All these were chosen by forces beyond our control.....so why can't you help the black African nations catch up and stay in their home countries if you truly care You watch idly as black African leaders like President Buhari and co supervise the massive killings of their own citizens by all forms of gun wielding militants and terrorists, you have the power, you have the might, you have the influence to caution him and in fact order him to stop such atrocities which was the one major reason Igbos supported you massively in 2016 and thereafter, yet you never offered any help only minor talks and tweets that made no impact!


Donald Trump go and rest! You failed the mission God sent you! You failed humanity!


You watched Mexican, Cuban, etc kids starve and die in immigration camps while struggling to come into US to look for a greener pasture with their suffering parents. Is that the heart of a man that loves God


Yes you tried in clamping down on Islamic terrorists, but they are not the only pressing issues......your hatred for black nations and immigrants from Africa, South America, etc brought your downfall!


Many of you didn't know Trump stopped American citizens from filing to bring in their spouses into America since the beginning of this year, and he even have a new immigration policy he was warming up to pass into law after he wins reelection which will allow only Europeans to immigrate to America.


What a heartless man, please go and make peace with God, you failed your mission!!



To all the Christians praying for Trump to win at the court, stop wasting your prayers......God cannot be mocked! Nobody can fight for God! Trump cannot fight for God! If God needs another US President to do what He wishes, He would change Joe Bidden to start doing what pleases Him. That is who God is.


God can raise a stone to worship Him if all humans fails to worship Him!


God is so powerful to fight and defend His own!

Hope these ladies proposing marriage to guys are rich and financially settled enough to foot the wedding and family bills


Of course all guys will say yes on the camera out of pity, and to avoid disgracing the girl on camera, guys are that kind, but behind the scene he will tell her that he is not fully ready to embark on marriage journey.


To a reasonable young man, getting married does not start and end in fancy proposal and beautiful wedding gowns and dresses and topnotch (talk of the town) wedding ceremony.


After all the gram and camera lights and action, who will fund the family

What will be the future of the innocent unborn kids that will follow


As a lady jumping up and down I want to marry I want to marry, what do you do for a living How much do you earn in a month How sustainable is your career or business for the next 10 years Are you aware that marriage is not about social media posts and hypes Don't start what you cannot finish. That he works with a big firm and earns a certain amount does not mean he is fully ready to start a family. You don't know his mind and he plans for his future family, can you fund his dream family or you just want to lure him into what he cannot sustain Don't entrap a man into marriage with all these nonsense proposal, make sure you are financially ready to encourage, support and boost him. Money is the new marriage now, do you have the money lady


Guys be careful don't let any lady rush you to your early death. Plan well before you marry. If she is in a hurry to get married let her bring enough cash not just for the wedding but to set up a full happy family with sustainable revenue. Marriage does not start and end on the wedding day

chatinent:
Is Nigeria not the hell people talk about?

it is of course.


Any Nigerian who was born and raised in Nigeria, especially those born poor should not be scared of hell fire again because they have already lived in hell fire called Nigeria

Nurses and Doctors own is as a result of work pressure with very poor pay.

A Nigerian nurse working in a private hospital earn between NGN40,000 to NGN95,000 at most, while those in government hospital earn between NGN80,000 to NGN130,000 and these people are expected to care for critically ill patients cheerfully....they see injuries and blood and what have you every minute till they close from work, mostly under poor working condition, and poor pay, while their mates abroad earn their monthly salary per hour and working under favorable working condition with improved equipment.


Tell me why a Nurse or Doctor in Nigeria should be happy and smiling while caring for patients


The money she is earning cannot take care of her needs yet you expect her to take care of you with joy, how


Same with Doctors. I pity Doctors and Nurses in Nigeria, those guys are being cheated in Nigeria.




The worst people are Nigerian higher institution administration staffs; they are all mad people!


To collect ordinary certificate or transcript, you will spend months all because of wicked and inhumane non academic staffs.


In fact Nigeria need to be demolished completely

The dream of every man even though they will never admit out of fear of losing their free pussies reading

Lleigh:
This write up got me thinking. Is it emotion women attach or wariness of the danger that could be involved. I.e. rape, violence etc. Could that be the reason men are less selective. They don't think of danger first?

it is natural. PM any male moniker here and initiate a chat and exchange pictures and tell him one day that u feel like fvcking and watch him devour you without thinking twice.


But let a male moniker message a random female moniker ask for sex, the whole world must hear it, why

Sex is sacred to women by nature. They are selective with sex partners and also attach emotion to it.


Any guy walking on the street is ready for action to fvck any random girl without knowing her name but a girl cannot do same because she needs to be emotionally connected to the man first unless she is a love vendor selling sex for money.


You ladies should pity men, men are created to desire sex with any female that entices them at that moment without any emotional attachment, and men naturally don't have strong self control for sex like women have.


As a woman don't fight your man for cheating, it is beyond his control, he needs the help of God to flee that natural desire to fvck different women. It's not by power. Cheating and desire to mate with different women is in every man, including the most powerful men of God you know. It is their extreme religious practice and fear of God that helps them to control that natural urge of man.

Fake news!

Where are their bodies

Where are their relatives crying publicly

Give us the video of when they were being killed!


Fake news to loot more money in the name of security vote and heavy military budget

Turn down better suitors because of one unseious lover boy

Playing wife roles even without being wifed


Getting pregnant with the hope of solidifying the so called love


Telling every guy that asks them out that they are taken

sponsoring a girl through school in the name of love

Paying her school fees in the name of love


sponsoring her to travel abroad as a girlfriend in the name of love


Buying a girl a car in the name of love


Spending more than you spend on your parents on a girl in the name of love. Na thunder go fire the guys that do this

Lleigh:
I write about it
No fixing date, I have enough people I need to juggle around

sighs, you just proved my points.


Ladies keep arguing blindly, women can't be like men sexually. Women are naturally selective, men aren't selective with sex partners, they sex anything that entices them at that moment even without remembering her name...but women attach emotion before they can have sex unless they are professional call girls motivated by the financial reward.



Stop arguing this, yes some married women cheat but women can't be like men....and ladies cannot use that wack line of married women also cheat to intimidate men into being faithful.


Men cheating are only exhibiting their natural form....women being selective with their sex partners is not because women are good, it is because that's how women are naturally designed to function.

tunde82seidat:
Well,women also get bored at some point in marriage afterall variety is the spice of life.Women are human too and just like men polygamous n that s why many ladies now cheat discreetly on their husbands .Don't get it wrong o they still love their hubbys

it is a very welcome development if ladies can start fvcking carelessly like men without asking for money or favor, just for fun. Please can we fvck

AlexBells:
I'm Igbo, I feel and see what you feel, I'm just telling them that all the policies had given us a new push, but it too late even if they revert to regional government now, Igbos had infiltrated all the regions again but if they installed a regional government after the war, it could have been harder for we Igbos given that, we could have found it hard to rebuild the economy with 20 pounds for every one with a bank account but instead Igbos withdrew the 20 pounds used it to for transport fair to other regions, I dont think you exactly need to insult me if you understood me

You aren't supposed to be talking this nonsense here if you are Igbo that truly cares.


What's the benefit of this nonsense you posted to the Igbos

Some of you lack sense. If you cannot find what to do with your time, learn to compose short stories.

You are tarnishing the image of one of the greatest race on earth. Be careful

The next President of Nigeria is a lucky man. He doesn't need to work, he just need to buy enough agbada and be snapping fine pictures and post on media platforms. Buhari have set the world worst record as a President. He has reduced the bar, so even a mad man now can act as Nigeria's President and still be seen as performing when compared to Buhari the disaster of Nigeria.


President that supervises and condones the massacre of his own citizens by the nation's army!

A President that releases terrorists with loads of rewards and orders shoot at sight for any unarmed citizen protesting for accountability and good governance.


The only President that never addresses his nation live on national TV, only records speeches and edit and send to media houses and nobody questions why.


The only President that doesn't listen to the people, keep terrorist military officers as service chiefs while terrorist overrun the country's military

Lleigh:
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Then why do we have sex addicts? Both male and female.

are you a sex addict Can we have sex; let's fix a date and venue

Please we need this at Aso Rock, president's bedroom to be precise, we must encourage our local engineers by using Naija made to grow Naija starting with the cow man at Aso Rock

LikeAking:
The best time to find a woman that will truly love you/good wife is during your secondary schools day.

I and lots of people made this big mistake. I wish I can turn back the hands of time.

secondary and higher institution.


After those, na moneyrelationship