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Sagamite:

No one owes you help, apart from your parent/guardian and that is pre-adulthood.

Help is not your entitlement, it is a favour that can be refused to be offered.

kindly read the whole sentence and understand before you start criticizing. I didn't say/type that anyone owes you anything. My point is if you are in a position to help (in terms of teaching how to fish not just hand-outs) then don't hesitate to help. Don't be like those that always wanna be the richest in the family.

All of una in favor of r@pe being acceptable in marriage shld be ashamed of yourselves. So the only way to get your wife to sleep with you is by using force? Instead of you to ramp up your sexu@l repertoire (dat na d wife sef go wan tear una clothes off), na force u dey use. Smh.

Also as d husband y not find out the reason behind ur wife not always being in the mood. It cld be stress from work, family, not enjoying sexx with u etc.

Watever u want 2 do 2 ur wife, imagine it being done to ur lovely daughter. If u can stand ur daughter coming to u with tears about being constantly r@ped by her husband and u still hand her back, then u seriously need mental evaluation.

There are 2 sides to giving money to relatives. Some poor relatives feel entitled that you should feed and cloth them and their family but on the other hand, some rich relatives don't want to help out (not hand-outs but a way to teach them how to 'fish), they rather want to be known as the richest in the family.

If one is in a position to help (money, biz advice, strategies or connections etc), don't hesitate to help. Don't condem those that are less fortunate that you. Remember, noone knows what the future holds.

Am not stating this as a fact, but I believe the younger brother knew the elder brother was in a position to help. But he went the wrong way of getting the money.

Instead of building with low amount, why not lease the land. Lots of houses around lagos (can't remember specific areas) are contructed with inferior (low-grade) building materials in the bid to cut-cost (stick to budget) or complete construction in records time. Such building sink overtime and might eventually collapse.
So if possible lease the land and use the proceeds for other investments.

if una dey U.S.A or where u can receive mails (parcels), contact Bewaji, website: bewaji.com.
she's like one of the best "talior" around.

chei, there is nothing one can do to please guys. my 2 kobo is be careful what you wish for, cos you might just get it. i wish you the best and apply wisdom so as not to regret your decisions.

What if at the end of the season, the winner is presented with the prizes but backstage (when the camera stops rolling) the prizes are reclaimed. maybe they chose these set of girls cos they won't question or "start trouble" when the prizes are reclaimed. like girls that can be easily manipulated or controlled. just wondering.
they had a good thing going on but it lacked proper execution. there are sooo many activities they could do in the house. if there will be a season 2, they should do their homework, cos this season is just crap.

Yes, i know, i brought back the thread. there was this girl (true life story) that met this guy final year in high school. They went to the same University and were very close. The girl met the guy's family and the guy met the girl's family. the girl thot they were dating (the guy never asked her to be his girlfriend) cos they were always hanging out together and doing couples's things (not sure whether they had sex). After graduation, the girl was waiting for the guy to ask her to marry him. few years after graduation, the guy came and brought her an invitation to his wedding (she didn't know he was dating even though they were close). My 2 kobo is that if you have a really close friend (opposite sex, and it applies to both gender) ask in a direct or indirect way about whether u guys are dating or not and also where the relationship is going, so as not to waste time waiting or miss out on a great relationship due to impatience.

I have heard enough true stories about girls that did shakara and it came back to hunt them. my advice is that if you like the guy, don't do to much shakara. My No means No. We women should stop playing games, our no should mean no and our yes should mean yes and if it is maybe, let the guy know. shikena.

do the master card wedding to him. catching ones husband or boyfriend cheating once is enuff grounds to call it quits. u will forever be suspicious. anyways none of it will happen if u pray to God or Allah (or watever god or God u serve) to give u the bone of ur bone. wat if u marry him, and he becomes a gigolo, wat will u do then?
the master card wedding:

This is a true story about a recent wedding that took place at Clemson University. It was a huge wedding with about 300 guests.

After the wedding, at the reception, the groom got up on stage at the microphone to talk to the crowd. He said that he wanted to thank everyone for coming, many from long distances, to support them at their wedding. He especially wanted to thank the bride's and groom's families for coming and to thank his new father-in-law for providing such a fabulous reception.

To thank everyone for coming, bringing gifts and everything, he said he wanted to give everyone a special gift just from him. So taped to the bottom of everyone's chair, including the wedding party, was a manila envelope.

He said that this was his gift and told everyone to open their envelopes.

Inside each envelope was an 8x10 photo of his best man having sex, with the bride. He had gotten suspicious of the two of them and hired a private detective to trail them weeks prior to the wedding.

After he stood there and watched the people's reactions for a couple of minutes, he turned to the best man and said, "F*CK you!" He turned to his bride and said, "F*CK you!" Then he turned to the dumbfounded crowd and said, "I'm out of here!"

He had the marriage annulled the first thing that Monday morning. While most of us would have broken off the engagement immediately after finding out about the affair, this guy goes through with it anyway, as if nothing was wrong.

His revenge:

1) Making the bride's parents pay over $32,000 for 300 guests for a wedding and reception.

2) Letting everyone know exactly what did happen. And, best of all,

3) Trashing the bride's and best man's reputations in front of all of their friends and their entire families.

This guy has balls the size of church bells. Do you think we might see one of those MasterCard "Priceless" commercials out of this? Huh?

Elegant wedding for 300 family and guests -- $32,000
Photographers for the wedding -- $3,000 Deluxe
Honeymoon accommodations in Maui for 2 weeks -- $8,500
The look on everyone's faces after seeing a photo of
the Bride and Best Man having sex -- Priceless!!!

dumbass poster.

ayoappeal:

with respect to all the female folks, i am talking about intellectual maturity, some of you just did get it, but that's just the truth, if you want to engage me in an intellectual discourse test then buzz me.

women with any intellect will not stoop so low as to say hi to you talk less of having any conversation with u. u disgust me. with all ur grammatical errors, u still have the GUTS to post that nonsense. any lady worth her salt will have nothing to do with u. monkey.

part one of the movie really sucked, i was sooooo angry at myself for wasting time watching it. part 2 was soo much better.

if your nipples itch once in a while, it can be a sign of breast growth.

if its food that am allergic too, which kin love be that, i can't eat the food. but if its food that i outright hate or dislike, i will eat it (if it was a surprise). but if my boyfriend or husband (when the time comes) knows that i don't like the food and went ahead to cook it, i will just wish him "bon appetite".

wonders shall never end. if na the wife that caught her husband cheating, people will say that she should pray and fast so that he will come back to her. but na wife that is cheating and its a different reaction.

i don't condone either spouse cheating. if the victim (the husband in this case) thinks he can forgive and the wife is ready to stop then they should heal and continue the marriage if not then they should go their separate ways.

staying in a marriage solely because of the children is really not advisable. if one spouse is not happy, this can lead to resentment and eventually affect the children.
only stay in a marriage for the children if both parties are willing to work on their issues.

the only time that i have seen this much celebration was when Abacha died and everybody was singing.

we had a watch party in my skool (a university in Maryland), come see how people were crying and shouting.

a truly historical moment in the WORLD'S history.

something like this happened to me with a guy that i was dating. we went to his best friend's house and we were about to go out (3 of us). on getting to the car (i was already opening the back door with the intention of sitting there because it was the best friend's car), the best friend said that i should sit in front but the guy (the one i was dating) started to grumble and was like "no o, i want to sit in front because i want to discuss some things with u" , believe me, they didn't even discuss anything.

its the little things that count the most. sitting in front is no big deal, but it's the way its handled that matters.

thank you sista jay

sista-jay:

@ Poster

You never hear say, money sweet pass deek! Please change the damn record about Nigerian girls and their love for money and what they do for it. So what if they desire the finest things in life, abi na crime, na jealousy dey worry you o. If you do your home work right like a good boy would, you'll find we can't  do without money, ok some of them are greedy but that's life. Make I see you open that mouth again and begin yab my fellow sistas.

if u think Nigerian girls are materialistic, then wako go and look for the ones (or non Nigerian girls) that are not. nobody wants to drink garri for breakfast, lunch, and dinner. if u are poor, then go out and get a JOB (very simple). So stop complaining.

its not only about love, think about the children. if one of the children was SS, do u know the pain that they endure (lots of pain) and some of them even die at the end of the day. in this present time where people are being educated about genotypes and u go ahead to marry, i see it as the parents being selfish.
Not only will the child (and may resent u) suffer, but the parents also will have to be financial sound for all the medical expenses.

but the only solution is if u believe in God that u won't have SS, then go ahead, but remember that thou shall not test the lord thy God.

i got 2 options for u

- leave him in God's hands or
- be cool because REVENGE is best served COLD.

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is it only me dat noticed, that the guy looks gay in his profile picture.

or when did straight guys pout in pictures


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i want to open domiciliary and savings accounts in GT Bank but i live in United States. What are the steps or process?

sista-jay:

And behind. . . . .every successful MAN there is a WOMAN. We can make or break a man.

na true talk be this, for real.

i receive a lot of scam mail every week, and i usually reply with heavy epe on them. it's only greedy and desperate people that falls for internet scam. really, i don't blame the scammers one bit, its the victims that i blame. God gave us brains to think. how can people continue to fall for mails that states that can they be used as next of kin in order to lay claim to a "dead" person's money. y should they now come crying that were duped when it was illegal. and are women so desperate to get married that they will send money to a stranger to come over to their country.
am constantly amazed that people fall for internet scams, because left to me internet scam should be the easiest scam to outsmart. this is my own 2kobo.

People please make una start thinking with ur brains

90% of guys saying she should stay and continue to love her husband are a whole bunch of hypocrites. am very sure that it will be the opposite if it was the wife that did such and also got pregnant.
     the decision is left to her, if she thinks she can forgive him and let go of all the resentment, then she should stay and lay down ground rules, and if she can't the husband and sister should leave (not her) the house and then she should sell it and buy another house. she has to be emotionally stable because she is pregnant.
     i hope that she is financially independent (because she might decide to stay if she is not).

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i've been to ghana (Accra to be specific) and i spent one week in a 4 star hotel and bought lots and lots of ankara and i didn't spend anything close to 400k.
i went by road

so 400k is more than enuff to honeymoon in Ghana or obudu. also ask the question in the travel section, people there will be able to give u more specific details and estimates.

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