₦airaland Forum

vedaxcool:
Yes most of the idiots cannot leave SW especially Lagos. They will use any opportunity to destroy.

you are a fool. what did Igbos do to you? EndSARS was a collective struggle of those who are being harrassed by Police..but you bastard turned it into a killing mine and try to rope innocent Igbos.

Na ogun go scatter your skull

Eriokanmi:
dem dey show am oo, though they don't say it verbally. There's a girl like that. She still regrets till date. She told me to get a life, imagine, and by the time I got a life, e don late for am.

my brother, one said she cant date someone that is not financially stable. I say no wahala. I move on.

na who no know him worth go dey make girls word affect am. I know figures I control and the worth of projects that I am working on. we go meet one day.

SaintAlbert53:
no, she isn't.

Okay. A part of you still love her. It is obvious. In whatever you decide, never take her back. Find someone else and stick to her if she is willing to make effort.

ayomikuolatunji:
Never be kind to a woman..!!! Be ruthless and heartless... I comfirm that today and I will make sure I will never be nice to women.. Seen this same comment and talks from different women..

That is it.. as long as you are not yet ready to marry her... do not be kind to anyone...

KevinDein:
One thing you have to admire about women. They are really ruthless and won't think twice before cutting you off when they meet a better man. Give it to them.

very very ruthless and mean.

SmellingAnus:
irony about life be say na one boy wey no spend much go chop you like fresh fish for bed...

Na so their life just be lol... yet dem go dey raise shoulder.

fineboynl:
It’s seems to me I have a Foresight and sometimes people think I see visions, but it’s just my too much sense and instinct. I always walk out from relationships before it get to that point or the worst. There is always signs which many of you ignore. And beside I never put my mind fully in relationship. Always wearing an amor when going to into it as I see relationship as war and battle you have to be prepared for the the worst. That why I can like you today and dislike you tomorrow. And the next thing is to discontinue

You have never really loved or trusted enough to love... perhaps, you have been betrayed somewhere...

SaintAlbert53:
No, she met the guy right there and perhaps the bonding was quicker than expected.

Is she married now?

fineboynl:
trust me she has been dating the guy before then. Maybe The guy proposed to her immediately she went for service.

exactly. Dude didn't know about this until now!

IamYourNeighbor:
I just heard from someone that "being quiet is almost same thing as being weak." What a society we live in! Being loud is taken as being strong, and being quiet is taken as being weak !

What's your assertion to this ideology people?

I am a quiet person and I can tell you for fact that between quiet and loud person who should you be afraid of and I will tell you the quiet one.

I for instance can very very vindictive but quiet. I can use 4 years to carry out my plan on someone when I mean them. I will never be the one to hurt you first when you have never done anything wrong to me but if you punch me when I hadn't done anything to you, be ready for retaliation... guaranteed!

A guy I met here is taking my quietness for granted and because he is far away in Lekki-Ajah and has moved out of the house I know, he thinks I can't get him. He knows me as a very gentle and always smiling person. So, he feels I can't do anything.

Until the day I will meet him and bite his flesh off in full glare of public that is when he know I am behind that smile, there is cold soul. He thinks he is heartless? he will learn!

stonemasonn:
Don't play politics with people's lives.

leave him... the blood of innocent lives taken since inception of this country is still crying for justice, which is why the country is enmeshed in so many crisis that might even claim his life... let him continue. They were same people that gave a genuine course political coloration and up to this moment, they are still giving it.

Penguin2:
I think they are planning to make Tinubu accept to present Osinbajo as against himself.

I think it's the reason for this recent frolicking with him.

The North cannot let a Christian represent them. So the person from the South must be a Christian to allow for a Muslim VP.

Now APC may have seen that destroying Tinubu , which might make him pull SW out of the alliance, might spell doom for them. Reason they've chosen to go back to him now. With Buhari accepting to chair his colloquium.

I hate Tinubu for his insatiable greed but that doesn't make me deny the fact that the man is a political colossus that can pull a lot of strings and influence a lot of things.

With that said, there's need to understand that Ganduje has always been Tinubu's ally.

I don't like Tinubu either but the man is good... really good. However, his strategy will not work for him much this time around...

Please what station is showing it in Nigeria ooo. We can’t seem to find a station. We don turn every station but nothing is seen

In Nigeria today, you are more likely to be taunted for being a nice guy and all effort is meant to turn you into a monster, so much that you might become crueler.

The male folks see you as a "mumu" and the female folks see you as a weakling and spineless but I say there is nothing wrong with you.

There is nothing wrong with giving someone care and attention and the fact that most Nigerian ladies take this for granted does not mean you are a fool.

So how can you maintain a balance in a world where doing right is almost becoming taboo? I will share my personal observations, culled from my own experiences too.

Understand one thing: THE GOAL is to PROTECT YOURSELF at all COST! because women on the other hand arE very very intentional in their mission

Know Who You Are: Knowing who you are and what you carry is very very important. Understand one thing, your kind is very very rare and you must always proclaim this when you are in a relationship. It is not every guy that will see that nice handbag and say "let me get it for this lady" As a matter of fact, a lot of ladies rarely get gifts from their supposed men in a relationship.

So, if you are an exception, that makes you rare. There are other qualities that make you rare and you know them. SO, never let a lady make you feel that she can run you over.

Be Firm: One of the things that make girls take nice guys for granted is their lack of ability to exude masculinity. When a lady does something that is wrong, be SUPER FAST to put her in her place.

For instance, if she yells at you because you queried her over something that demands a query, especially when done in a calm tone, DO NOT... I repeat, DO NOT let it slide. Immediately give her a stern warning never to yell at you ever again in her life.

Do not take nonsense from any girl... While doing this, there are 99% chances that she will NOT admit her wrong openly for egoistic reasons (I don't even know the one that is an exception to this). But deep down, she knows she messed up. Her admittance might come like months later or even years. That is how these ladies behave.

Set Standards: You need to set standards to weed out the kind of girls that come into your life. Do not accept anything just because she has a pretty face, boobs, and pussy, especially if you are the highly intelligent kind with good prospects for the future. You have to be highly selective and never date anyone below your societal standards.

My point, for instance, is that just because you met a very pretty lady with a nice ass and figure is NOT enough reason to date her. Have you considered what she can offer?

In setting standards, do not, like me, erroneously assume that you are discriminating against your fellow human. This is why I got it wrong. I will explain.

I met one lady on here in one of those threads where you make your intentions known and people loved the way I presented my points and reasons etc. In fact, I was the spotlight on that day and discerning ones could see the genuineness in my approach. Ladies and Gentlemen, it ended in tears .

Do Not Date Girls From Poor Home: Now, this sounds pretty harsh but I am sure 8 guys from 10 guys here will agree with me in my following points.

This section is a subset of setting standards and I must let you know that women on the other hand are very intentional about this. That is why you hear them say they can't date a broke boy or they can't date a guy without car.

So let me explain. In setting standards, if I had done that early enough, the girl I met here wouldn't have insulted me the way she did.

How do I mean? She was not a graduate in the true sense vs I who went through the whole process and even did NYSC to serve Nigeria. Economically, she has never earned 300k consistently but because of the little privilege, she blurted " I can't date someone that is not financially stable" and all because I was going through some financial crisis which denied me the opportunity to get what she requested for. SO, in her small mind, she above me just because she has no other thing aside boobs, ass and pusssy.

Now, if I had set a standard at that time to never allow a girl from a poor home (one where feeding is a problem), one that is at least a graduate, working, that insult might never have happened because looking at the whole thing, it is I who was supposed to discard her on the ground that she is NOT up there.

The funny thing is that sometime later, after using my financial state at that time to weed me out, she wanted me to me loan her money. Funny?

Be Very Critical About Background: Another reason why you need to stay away from girls who are from poor homes as a Nice Guy is that there is every chance that they can't reciprocate affection because where they come from lacks that emotional expression. It is popularly said that " You can't give what you do not have" Nice guys are generally known to be overly loving, caring, and giving this to someone that is not used to it is a complete WASTE! You will hear something like " I don't fall in love easily" " I don't know how to communicate" "I am not good at this or that" Does these words sound familiar? If yes, RUN!

This is not discrimination or segregation because, on the other hand, women do it ALL THE TIME. So why shouldn't you?

Have an Abundance Mindset: Always have an abundance mindset such that as soon as she starts giving you attitude, do not make her feel you that you can't get another girl or you will die without her.

Only Date Stay With One That Makes Effort: You do not want to be in a relationship where you are the only one that makes all the efforts. If a lady does not give same energy as you are giving, even from the first day you met her... STAY FAR AWAY from her for your own emotional safety. You will know this from the way she responds to your chat on the first day

lol.. party that is still on life support and will eventually die.

SarkinYarki:
You can only freeze the account you paid into but you need the police to assist you get a court order for that and it would cost you some money .. I don't know how much this guy scammed you but if it's not substantial then it's not worth it

Well, there is more reason why I want to have the account frozen than just the money.

Thanks.

exsodus:
I honestly don't know where to start from, but all I can say is that I'm madly in love with my boss at the office. I always think of her any time I see her pass by.
Sometimes I think I should just walk up to her office and confess my love for her but I know this might cost me my job. Please advise me on how to get her attention and also convey my feelings to her

Youare not in love, you are being deceived by her niceness towards you which may be her way to keep your comfortable and do your damn job but you are misinterpreting her gesture as romantic. I pity you when she will sack u.

SarkinYarki:
It's easy to see why the dishonest man's account was frozen...go to his bank and I find out if his account is actually frozen and for what reason and then get him to come to the bank with U ( I know he won't come ) I even suspect that this is a new format.....where did you even get the account number from?

Please I need your advise... I lend someone money not much though but he later turned it to scam. I want to have all his bank account frozen through legal processes. Is that possible?

SpecialAdviser:
I don't really trust Yorubas when they fight for freedom or oppression or break up.

They do a lot of things for POLITICS .

exactly... it was here someone from the camp of Tinubu carelessly said this will be the plan if Tinubu/south west does not get the presidential ticket...

raker300:
It started with “I’ll vote buhari so he would deal with the igbos” to this?


God has a marvelous way for fighting for his people


This man has a noble cause but I fear the people he fights for would immolate him in a bid to please their masters for repose.

They have an amorphous political stance which hedges on voting to despise people of the East

don't fall for it. I read here on nairaland (quite carelessly) that this will be the plan should Tinubu/south west not get the presidential ticket. expect more..

wallay77:
Na forecast be this abi vision

lmaooo

Just read my post above and do the needful

Reyjavik:
I am scared another person getting this girl.

u are setting yourself up for failure. U see this emboldened text? when you are in that situation, girls will rubbish u...

Never make any girl feel that you cannot get any other girl as if she is the only one out there.

I know you won't listen but I will still give u my advice.

A girl I was with was abusing the privilege i gave her and taking me for granted. she told me she wanted to opt out of the relationship and just like you I didn't want to let go.

She rarely gives me attention or chatted me. I was the one initiating chats... even when the mum was ill, I still supported, when she need tools for her apprentiship, i supported... after getting the tools, u know what she told me? she said even though I did these things for her she just want to remind me that we were not dating.

I being myself held on until November last year (the whole charade lasted for more than 6 months). By November, after meeting her one last time, even bought her a gift, I didn't make it obvious of course...

I just quietly pulled out of the whole thing... e shock her.

I stopped viewing her whatsapp statuses or giving a furk about her. What surprised me was that she was the one that wished me Merry Xmas lol... and u know what? I read it and ignored.

as in, I gave her piece of her own bullshit.

I didn't stop there, I got a girl more classy than her, taller, slightly curvy... and I uploaded the new girl's pic too...

The result? she started looking for my attention to come back.. she called me in January... the long and short of it all is that she is trying to get my attention but my only plan now is just to furck her and move on.

WalexyWWE:
why would you say such a thing she took my ATM at my back withdrew 120k without my consent and disappeared into thin air and you are still asking me how she scammed me? are you trying to mock me or what

kai... I can feel the emotion from here bro. I feel your anger but that girl is gone.

OyigboUpdate:
Seun nairaland is so so slow

I have been thinking that I am the only one experiencing it ooo

illicit:
Ba mi ki Dagrin....

flokii:
What business could a tiny, landlocked enclave like SE not up to Oyo State in size have with transborder migration?

Your economic refugees and hunger-induced IDPs all over South West and North are already a concern. I wonder what will happen when Fulanis finally lay claim to SE.

The East was not land locked on Tiny... but if that makes you sleep well at night, enjoy ur sleep.

complexBoss12:
which Nigerians are you talking about?? If Nigerians can do anything, they would do it now, you don't have to wait till 2023. same noise was made about 2019.
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which 2019? is it the same 2019 that they sent army and thugs to disenfranchise voters and prevent them from voting in the South? did the will of the people allowed on that day? guy no annoy me abeg.

sarrki:
Johnson Usiegbodi Ogunleye writes :

Wakilu relaxing in police station.

Why will such a suspected hardened foreign criminal be seating so relaxed in Police Station Ibadan after discharge from hospital without handcuffs and leg shackles as usual with such criminals when arrested in Nigeria ?
Why are our OPC members that arrested him are in custody

LOL.. ARE YOU TIRED OF YOUR Buhari? lmaooo

Warripikine:
Sunday igboho Why did you betray the opc?

YOU ARE MAD!