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As much as we love staying in our marriages, it's also good to know that even the most wonderful, 'perfect' couple can end up divorced because of silly habits.

As much as we all want to stay married and/or enjoy a blissful marriage forever, it's also good to know that even the most wonderful, 'perfect' couple can end up divorced.

Two people start off genuinely in love but somewhere down the line, despite everything looking rosy on the surface, they shock their families and friends and announce they are ending their marriage because it couldn’t work out. How? What happened? They seemed so good and happy together!


This isn't unusual at all. Many couples struggle to maintain a 'happy relationship,' but their marriages still falls apart.

Here are 11 bad habits they likely left un-addressed that slowly but surely eroded love and connection between them:

1. Neglecting each other. Blowing each other off, forgetting to follow through on things promised, failing to pay attention. Neither of you necessarily meant to make other things more important than your spouse, but you did.

2. Letting disconnect become the norm. This is when couples start to say things like "I love you, but I am no longer 'in love' with you."

3. Not being on the same page with each other. Often couples lack alignment on the things that matter most, and feel like their own personal goals/feelings are the most important ones to focus on.

4. Allowing intimacy to dwindle. The affection, connection and tenderness you once shared dries up from lack of effort, leaving you merely roommates.

5. Not meeting each other's needs. Every person has unique needs they hope their partner will fulfill. But often couples fail to speak up about those needs or presume their partner's needs are the same as theirs.

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1. Don’t take your friends along with you when he invites you on a date

2. Don’t go to his house unannounced

3. Don’t ask him for money

4. Don’t compare him to your ex or talk about your ex, only if he requests


5. Don’t get drunk on your first outing with him

6. Don’t wear see through or exposing outfits on your first outings

7. Don’t bore him with all your family or personal issues ( my house caught fire, my AC is not working, my rent is due )

8. Don’t talk about Marriage on a first date

9. Don’t pry about the size of his pocket, his earnings or the car he drives ( Do you drive a G wagon ? Are you a millionaire ? )

10. Don’t be too quick to post his picture on instagram, Facebook, (social media) etc

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I can honestly say that from what I’ve seen, men and women going through a divorce experience or relationship breakup hatred that runs so deep, it’s frightening. I would imagine the reason for the hate is because they care so much. Think about it. People who don’t care don’t show or feel any emotion. They just shrug.

Hate in divorce stems from resentment, anger, fear, hurt, sadness, you name it. There have been times I’ve felt that hatred, and it’s almost hard to imagine how you could have gone from loving this person so much to the other end of the spectrum. Hence the phrase, “There’s a thin line between love and hate.”

All that said, here’s how I feel about hate. When I was experiencing deep hatred for my ex,— hatred I never even knew existed in me, it only made me feel worse. Why? Because I didn’t want to be that kind of angry, bitter, hateful person. That just isn’t me. It’s not in my core. I am so opposite of that kind of person. So, who I really started hating was myself.

That is why it’s important to try to let hate go. That’s not easy to do, but here are a few things you can do.

1. Write down your feelings.

Write down how much you hate his or her guts and why, and all the things he or she did to you to make you feel that way. Read it a few times and then destroy it. No one should see it. The purpose of it is for you to get rid of it. Validate all he did or she did and how it made you feel by writing it down. Write about his or her cheating, how he or she stole your best years, how they dumped you, how they abused you. Having it in print makes you feel like you have “evidence.” Tearing it up is symbolizing that you are too strong for it to hurt you forever, that you are choosing to be rid of it, and that you are survivor...Continue Reading Here >>> http://lovefac3..com.ng/2016/07/why-you-need-to-stop-hating-your-ex.html#more

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Many Nigerian ladies are sensitive about the way their vaginas smell, even if they, obviously, won’t admit it. Truth is it is okay to be bothered. Here are 5 easy ways to care for your vagina.


Actually, each woman with a vagina has her own specific scent person and for those with sexual partners, they most likely don’t mind. However, if you are unsure of yourself and how things are down there, take a look at these tips to make sure you are doing things right.

1. Natural effect:
Use a sponge with soft organic soap and warm water in washing your vagina. Stay away from scented soaps or gels or antiseptics that may upset the balance of healthy bacteria and irritate the sensitive skin around your vagina.

2. Your vagina is smart:
What most women don’t realize is that the actual vagina cleans itself. Thus, soap is going to upset the vagina if you try to wash it with soap. So, don’t worry about your vagina, just focus on the area around the vagina (the vulva)...Read More Here >>> http://lovefac3..com.ng/2016/07/5-easy-ways-to-care-for-your-vaga.html

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Shy girls are different; how they talk, their attitude, behaviour and demeanour have a stark contrast with the regular girl.

Being in a relationship with a shy girl could really be super cool depending on if you are able to cope with or understand her.


There are certain things to know about a shy girl.

1. SHE’S THE ROMANCE FREAK

The shy girl loves to be loved and cherished by her man; she loves the romantic guy — the type you see in the movies. If you can sweep her off her feet then you are the kind of guy she’s looking for.

2. SHE LOVES TO THE CORE

If you can win her heart, she’s the type that would love you to the core. Her love is genuine and long-lasting. Sometimes, the way she loves could even be her undoing, because she loves thoroughly in spite of her man’s shortcomings.

3. SHE’S LOYAL

She’s the type to support her man through thick and thin; she’s the loyal woman and also the faithful woman. To a large extent, she’s honest and trustworthy.

4. SHE DOESN’T LOVE TOO MUCH ATTENTION

She’s the behind the scene kind of lady; too much attention would rip her off. She loves to have everything low-key – from date nights, engagement and up to her wedding day

5. SHE DOESN’T NEED A SHY GUY

This is the perfect example of opposites attract. Well, she’s too shy to need a shy guy in her life; she’s attracted to guys that are totally different from her; if you are lively, confident and outgoing, she would love you the more...Read More >>> http://lovefac3..com.ng/2016/07/12-things-you-should-know-about-dating.html

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As HIV becomes a growing threat around the world, people want access to information that can help them to avoid this potentially deadly disease. Medical experts have indicated that condoms can be a good way to prevent an HIV infection, but there are other steps you can take to reduce your chances of contracting HIV.


Abstain
The most effective way to not contract HIV is to not have sex with anyone until you are prepared to get married. When the time comes, you and your significant other can get the tests done to determine your HIV status, and then make the informed decision that will affect the rest of your lives.

Be selective on your sexual partners
When you find someone who you have strong feelings for, it is important to have an open discussion about HIV prior to having sex. If you are extremely selective about the partners you choose, then you can significantly reduce your chances of contracting HIV.

Consider monogamy
One of the surest ways to prevent HIV if you want to remain sexually active is to be monogamous with someone who is not HIV positive.

Use only sterile medical equipment
Whether you are giving yourself a shot of medication at home or getting an injection from a medical facility, always insist on making sure that the needle is sterile. Avoid previously used needles when you are injecting medication, or when you are getting medical treatment.


Insist on tested blood
If you ever need a blood transfusion, then insist on only using blood that has been tested for the HIV and AIDS viruses.

Get yourself tested
If you get yourself into the habit of being tested for HIV a couple of times a year, then it becomes easier to insist that your sexual partners do the same. If you do decide to have sex with multiple partners throughout the year, then you should insist that they take the same steps you do in getting tested for HIV and having those results with them to show you. It seems extreme, but it is much better than the alternative....Read More: http://lovefac3..com.ng/2016/07/14-ways-you-can-prevent-hiv-infection_14.html#more


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People keep wondering why every relationship looks so great at the beginning; it’s sometimes more than a Romeo and Juliet story; the passion is so intense and the couples are so fond of each other but weeks, months and years later it becomes a different story entirely; the love is replaced with hate and friendship is sometimes replaced with fighting and arguments.


This trend of relationships starting off well but crashing later has made many marriages to end in divorce, so many engagements to be called off and so many relationships to falter with time.

The best reason to give as to why relationships start well and doesn’t continue so is the fact that couples stop doing what they used to previously do when the relationship started; that’s the major reason relationships turns sour no matter how sweet it started, and it could be different things for different relationships.
I’d share five things couples in relationships do that make their relationship a shadow of its former self,

1. NO LONGER PUTTING YOUR PARTNER FIRST

If you observe, when a relationship is new couples do things just to please their partner in order to make them happy; the man goes out of his way to show that he loves his lady and the lady does same; the problem is when the zeal to do this drops, the relationship would die gradually. When one start waiting for the other to show more love then the relationship might slowly but steadily burn out like a candle...


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We’ve all heard how important it is to encourage our men as women, especially our husbands; but how many women really go on to encourage the men in their lives? How many women even know how to encourage and inspire their husbands?

You can encourage your husband by your words and your actions, but a lot of women do the contrary.

Below are ways you can encourage your husband.


1. SHOWER HIM WITH LOVE

There is no better way to encourage your man than to shower him with love; love shows care, love shows understanding, love shows that you are his biggest fan and would always stand by him — by merely loving him, you are encouraging him.

2. AVOID NAGGING AND UNNECESSARY CRITICISM

Nagging and criticizing your man would only make matters worse in your marriage, and surprisingly, that’s what many women do. Nagging would kill the love, create disharmony and frequent quarrels and as well as make him feel bitter.


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agitator:
guys, this doesn't work in 9ja.

In 9ja;

1. Money
2. Money
3. Money again
4. try 1, 2, & 3 above
5. Money, proven to work.

Nobody is arguing that money is not important but if u look closely...when i say dating game am not talking about a poor boy without cash.

When you are playing the dating game, winning the “right catch” is mostly left to luck. At times, competition can be tough, especially if you are vying for someone who is already surrounded by ‘more than enough’ attention from the opposite gender. If you want to impress somebody so much that they do not have much choice but to choose you, why not use some ‘science and research backed’ ways to have them fawning all over you? Yes, let us reveal some sure-shot tricks that will make the scales tip in your favour. What’s more? They are backed by research. So, take a look:


#1. Dim the lights Renowned American psychologist, Kenneth Gergen, did a research on how ‘darkness’ can make people less inhibited. He found that couples are likely to talk, touch and hug each other more, when they are plunged into a dimly lit room. So, if you are looking for ways to make someone a little more comfortable, and less uptight, dim the lights, use candles and let the hazy glow of the night work its magic on them!

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“Between stimulus and response, there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.” ~Victor Frankl

There’s a big lie we tell ourselves during stressful times.
It keeps us feeling lost, afraid, and unloved, like we’re being picked up and carried away helplessly by a storm.


Our heads can fill with scary images, words, and stories about the cause and who is to blame for our unwanted pain.
Sound familiar? If it does, you’re not alone. You’re normal. This is how humans biologically respond to stress.

So what’s the big lie?

The big lie is that we have no control over our stress response. Actually, we do. A lot of control.

I’ve struggled the hard way through my fair share of troubling times. I’ve experienced money and job issues, battled with health, and been pushed in challenging relationships.
But that’s not the worst part. The worst part is I grew up a highly sensitive person, who would internally react to almost anything that could be interpreted as negative.
Of the feelings above, I hopelessly sat at the “feel all of them” end of the scale.

That was until a particularly trying relationship caused me so much stress and anxiety that I became sick of my unconscious reactions, and vowed to do everything possible to stop it (or make it easier).

Through research and a lot of experimenting I created a practical way to calm myself down instantly anywhere, anytime, when a meditation cushion or reassuring book was out of reach.

The technique was so simple and powerful that it pulled me through a harrowing experience in that relationship, and has held me together in plenty of experiences since.

It’s easy to remember, has an instant effect on your mind body, and most importantly, is simple enough to be remembered and used when you’re going through the eye of your own stress storms.

How to Calm Yourself In Two Minutes

Take a moment right now to make yourself comfortable and try these four steps yourself:

1. Freeze yourself.

Remember the game you played as a child when you suddenly stopped mid-motion, like you were frozen in ice? Do that now. Halt your body parts, emotions, and thought processes. Think of yourself as a cartoon character that’s been hit with a stun gun. You can even make it a little dramatic if it helps....

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Lol, its always about what ladies want,


No one cares about the guys

You are wrong, have you been following my post ?

Generally most of the men like to touch the breast, vag**a and butt of the women. But they are neglecting the other sensitive parts that induce women and give a lot of happy moments. If you touch these parts during the s*x or pre-intimacy she will get in the mood and feel special.


Think no more of a women’s chasm, and search the erogenous spots that will get more excited to your lady. But most of the men doing this mistake is that they go directly for the women’s vag**a, breast or other private parts, without thinking about her other nine sensitive parts. So, if you would like to want your lady get into the s*xual mood, then stimulates her other body part.

Here are some but important points where women want to be touched.

Collar Bone:

Collarbone is very s*xy part on women. So why not display your best for this beauty with touching and kissing? Pay absorption to this anatomy allotment while she’s still absolutely clothed, unbuttoning her shirt aloof abundant to acknowledge the clavicle and no further. You should come back on this part when the clothes have fully disappears as well to remind her of the anticipation it create when you started there.

Nape of her neck:

When you go to the nape of her neck, stay there few minutes and place few kisses there. In ancient Japan, the women’s back neck was like as very attractive by men, so this is one of the few place not covered by any cloth. In trendy times, the nape of the neck is usually neglected in favor of a lot of obvious pleasure centers, however never underestimates the facility of mild touches and kisses from her hairline to her shoulders...


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There are friends you absolutely cannot do without, and there are friends you should break up with right away! Yes, breaking up with friends is totally a thing, and here are a few types of people you should definitely call it quits with...


1. The one who talks to you ONLY at 3 AM

It's always an S.O.S call. The story is always some version of, "I am all alone in this big bad world and all my friends have left me!" Well, guess what ... There's a reason for that, and the reason is that you only reach out when you're in trouble. This type of "friend" never seems to be around for anyone else, and is in a word: selfish. Ain't nobody got time for that!

2. The one who is always broke

All of us are broke some of the time, but no one is broke ALL THE BLOODY TIME! No, really. You at least have money to pay for a cup of coffee. That same cup of coffee everyone has been buying YOU for years. How about returning the favour once every few ... decades? Not going to happen, so they need to go!

3. The one who abandons you for a boy a little too often

There's something sacred about friendship. We take a lot of crap from each other, cover for each other and look out for each other, because that's what friends do. So, dropping your girls and pretending that they don't exist when you've got a love interest is simply not cool.

4. The one who flirts with your love interest / boyfriend

No, missy. HELL, NO. This kind of friend can ruin your friendship on a higher level is best you avoid that by letting them go soon enough.

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You already know that sex has tons of benefits. Aside from the pleasure, a steamy session every night with your ladylove is good for your overall health. Sadly, not all women are able to orgasm every time you decide it’s time to do it. In fact, a majority of women fake orgasm for variety of reasons, which includes just to get over sex.


Admit it, this could be a major issue on your part. You may feel you are not doing your best to provide her the best pleasure and experience in bed. To make sure that she will get the best sexual experience from you, you decided to learn more about all the different ways to satisfy your ladylove. Here to help you are 13 of the many reasons why you should, along with some helpful advice.

1. Orgasm

How important is orgasm for you? It may not be a matter of life and death, but reaching that big O means a lot to you. The same goes with women. They may not be biologically designed to like sex all the time, but surely, they want to reach climax at least in most of your lovemaking sessions.

Why?

Orgasm, It’s because orgasm does matter. You don’t have to pretend that it doesn’t. Orgasm makes your woman feel good, eases any pain she feels down there, helps her get rid of stress and makes her feel better about herself. The challenge now is how you plan to do it.

2. Ego Booster

When was the last time you made your ladylove feel good both in and out of the bedroom? Does it make you feel good about yourself knowing she is happier because of you? By definition, the ego is your sense of self-esteem or self-importance. From the time you wake up in the morning, until you go to bed at night, you want to make sure that your ego is intact. This includes your experience in bed.

During your bedroom sessions, hearing your woman moan with pleasure and satisfaction makes you feel better about yourself. In other words, the fact that you are able to make her happy in bed validates your ego. You don’t have to post on Facebook and tell the whole world how good you are in bed. Still, there is no doubt that your ability to satisfy a woman’s pleasure does something to your ego.

3. Assurance You Are Doing Good

Satisfying your woman Aside from validating your ego, satisfying your woman every night gives you the assurance that you are on the right track in bed. The question is, how do you know if you are doing it right?

Here is a clue: Pay attention to her body language. Most women don’t like talking about their wants in bed because of a fear of judgment. Every time you do something, notice how her body reacts to it. If she is pulling away, then you need to move on to the next trick. Otherwise, you are doing well.

As you two get closer, start asking about the things she likes and doesn’t like in bed. This helps you adjust your tricks and makes sex even more pleasurable for her.

4. Orgasm Looks Amazing

There are tons of articles and studies saying women are having a hard time getting that big O. This doesn’t intend to scare you or encourage you to up your game inside the bedroom. The numbers showing more women are faking it don’t lie. Worse, this could be alarming. On the other hand, there are reports that say women are capable of having multiple orgasms.

This makes female orgasm even more intriguing. Since the idea on how women achieve it is foreign to you, you can’t help but be amazed when she finally gets that big O. After all, it’s epic to watch.

5. Making Sure She Is Having A Good Time

Enjoy sex women love it when you are happy with their performance in bed; however, this doesn’t mean you don’t have to return the favor once you’re through.

Your girl expects you to give the same level of performance she did, which is why you need to strive harder to fulfill the service.

There are many ways to check if she is having a good time or not. In fact, she could still enjoy sex, even without experiencing the big O. Still, it won’t hurt if you do your best to give her that to ensure she is having a great time in bed. Remember, you aim to please.

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Stress has an insidious way of undermining every aspect of our health and happiness. Nowhere is this more obvious then in our closest and most valued relationships. Have the anxieties and pressures of daily life or a constricting economy begun to seep into your home life?


When we are feeling the effects of stress, we need to feel that our home is a safe haven where we can find relief and comfort. A happy relationship can make all the difference during challenging times. Sadly, more and more couples are experiencing the divisive influence of outside stress in their relationship with their mate.

Growing closer while facing challenges

Are there steps we can take to protect the happiness of our relationship during times of stress? When the pressure rises, is there some way for couples to actually draw closer rather than allowing their relationship to be torn apart?

Handled correctly, challenging experiences can actually bring couples closer together. This is not to say that they will be immune to the stress. What it means is that working together and facing their challenges as a unified partnership can deepen their bond and add new depth to their relationship.

11 Ways To Reduce The Pressure in A Relationship

1. Avoid making negative assumptions. If something happens that you have no control over, don’t make things worse by assuming the worst. If someone loses their job it doesn’t help to conclude that you will also lose your home and everything you have worked for. Instead of focusing on the negative possibilities, sit down with your mate and discuss possible solutions. If you work together in a creative way you may be able to turn this challenge into an opportunity. Don’t let stress get the upper hand, this is the time to let your partnership shine.

2. Don’t be critical or assign blame. The blame game is very destructive to a relationship and it never contributes to unity. The goal here is to draw closer as a couple, not to alienate your best friend and life partner. The same goes for being critical of one another, all that will do is divide the relationship. Let’s face it, sometimes bad things happen, that’s just the way life is. Looking at each challenge as an opportunity to strengthen your relationship bond will help you minimize the stress load and avoid the temptation to blame your mate.

3. Acknowledge your partner’s concerns. If something goes wrong and we feel responsible, it is easy to turn defensive when our partner expresses their concerns. Rather than turning it into a confrontation by defending ourselves, we need to put our egos aside and acknowledge their concerns with an understanding heart. If we are truly partners then we are in it together. That means we probably have similar concerns that we need to work on in a spirit of cooperation.


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Why would any sane girl wanna claim such na.... Even mamagee can't lie about being raped na!!

lolz...Abeg make una leave mamagee o...b4 she go create one of her infamous threads now


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Successful couples are savvy. They read books, attend seminars, browse Web articles and observe other successful couples. However, successful couples will tell you that they also learn by experience — trial and error.

Here are 10 principles of success I have learned from working with and observing hundreds of couples:


1. Happiness is not the most important thing. Everyone wants to be happy, but happiness will come and go. Successful couples learn to intentionally do things that will bring happiness back when life pulls it away.

2. Couples discover the value in just showing up. When things get tough and couples don't know what to do, they need to hang in there and be there for their spouse. Time has a way of helping couples work things out by providing opportunities to reduce stress and overcome challenges.

3. If you do what you always do, you will get same result. Wise couples have learned that you have to approach problems differently to get different results. Often, minor changes in approach, attitude and actions make the biggest difference in marriage.

4. Your attitude does matter. Changing behavior is important, but so is changing attitudes. Bad attitudes often drive bad feelings and actions.

5. Change your mind, change your marriage. How couples think and what they believe about their spouse affects how they perceive the other. What they expect and how they treat their spouse matters greatly.



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Always feel under-appreciated by your significant other? Feel overwhelmed by housework? Significant other cranky in the afternoon/evenings? Here's your way to a happier house!


For the ladies who stay at home or do the majority of the housework. Here's a few tips!
Let's face it. Men's brains work completely differently than women's. So when it comes to cleaning we can spend the whole day doing the whole house and them think we've done nothing, or the total opposite. Us doing nothing and them thinking we've cleaned. The reason is to their simple minds they register a few things right off the bat to them that stick out, and depending on the condition of those things, their minds determine within SECONDS of walking through the door if the house is clean or not. Think I'm crazy? Just try it!

I know there are days when you just can't do everything, so what if you could give the illusion of clean to your man, and still get everything else done you need to for the day!?
The hardest part is being a detective. If you don't think you can casually ask him what matters to him (and actually get an honest answer, not what he THINKS you want to hear because he thinks its a trap haha) then you have to be a little more sly. Where does he go when he comes home? What's the first thing he does? Looks at? When he does clean, what does he do first? Those subtle things are clues into his mind.

*most* men don't notice when you've scrubbed the floor, but they WILL notice the smell. They won't notice you organized all the shelves, but they WILL notice toys all over the floor. They won't notice how much laundry is actually DONE, just what's laying out (clean or dirty). They won't notice you scrubbed the counters, and baseboards and range of the kitchen. But they WILL notice the stove top and dishes in the sink!
To us, we like details. To men they see the big picture.

Regardless of what you have time to do, always make sure your man's routine is done, and spend whatever else time you have working on the things that matter to you... organizing that closet, wiping baseboards, ect. I assure you if you do what they SEE first, then they will be in a better mood for the whole evening.
If you're still stumped on how his mind works, here is a default men cleaning routine that is likely to have your man kicking off his boots and kissing your cheek with a smile.

Tip time!
'The Eye Trick'
only have a few mins and not sure what to do first? Walk into a room with your eyes closed and notebook & pen. Be careful! And stand in the center. Open your eyes. Write down the first 5 things that stick out to you like a sore thumb. Clean those in order!

Kitchen:

Wipe down counters, put away clutter, food, ect. (find a spot he won't care if cabinets are disheveled just what's visible) Wipe the stove. Do dishes and PUT AWAY. (if you don't have time to do dishes, & you don't have a dishwasher like myself) rinse and place them in strainer under the sink, rinse out your sink and leave it wet. For some reason men associate wet sink with clean dishes and house work. If there are BIG spots on the floor, spot mop, otherwise you can skip that day, or do if you have time left over.
If your trash is over flowing, even if it's his job. Do it. It makes a difference, and casually mention you did the trash. You win brownie points and he feels crappy for forgetting. Win-win!
Chill him a drink in the fridge. He won't forget this.

Living room:

pick up toys, laundry, anything laying out. Do your eye trick! If a lot of crumbs are out, vacuum. If not, skip. Throw away any trash. Always leave your vacuum where he can see it, even if you didn't use it! You can put it away after he comes home, but just let him take mental note of seeing it and he will automatically assume you vacuumed.


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“Information is not knowledge.” ~Einstein

A few years ago I was lost. Frustrated. Scared. Unsure. Anxious. Trapped. Unfulfilled. Stuck in a dead-end job. Smothered by society’s expectations. Didn’t have a clue what I wanted to do with my life.

I cared for myself enough to change my life, but I didn’t have the slightest clue where to start. I spent my days wishing that things would change—that I could escape a life that my soul could no longer bear.


The worst part of all, I was living the life that society had always told me to live. “Find a secure job, work hard,” they would say. “Get a solid job and work your way up the ladder.”

I don’t know about you, but it turns out that for me, the “right thing to do” sucked the joy out of life.

Imagine feeling trapped in an unsatisying existence. Wasting your precious time doing things that you really don’t want to be doing. Being afraid to express your uniqueness. Having fun on the weekends then dreading the upcoming week. Maybe you don’t have to imagine it; maybe your life is just like mine was, few moments of satisfaction drowned out by a constant grind of work that doesn’t fulfill you.

Then something hit me. It was a proverbial hammer to my head. I’d heard it before, but it had never sunk in. Then, as if out of nowhere, a voice in my head spoke loudly and clearly.

“Discover who you truly are and fully give every aspect of your uniqueness to the world. This is your path to an extraordinary life.”

I followed this wisdom as if my life depended on it. And I can tell you that my life has changed for the better since I followed this guidance.

I can tell you without any doubt that the greatest piece of wisdom that I’ve discovered in my life thus far is this:

If you want to live an extraordinary life it is imperative that you know who you truly are, and to do so you must explore who you truly are.

These 6 questions changed my life forever. They will also change your life forever by allowing you to find your true self, and in doing so, discover why you’ve been born into this great world.

I’m not talking about the “self’” that others demand you to be or the self that acts a certain way to fit in and conform with what society accepts. I’m talking about the true you—the you who wants to authentically express your special and unique qualities to the world.

By answering these questions you will discover your unique passions, strengths, values, desires, and motivations, which are all yearning for your expression.

You have a unique purpose. Discovering the answers to these questions will allow you to align yourself with that purpose and bring real magic into your life.

Self-knowledge is the greatest knowledge that you will ever acquire. Why? Because your ability to fulfill your unique internal drive will determine your ability to fulfill your potential, which in turn determines the quality of your life.

The questions below are designed to help to know yourself deeply and find what is truly important to you. We all have an unexpressed potential; the exercises are specifically designed to help you find yours.

1. What do I absolutely love in life?

List anything that you love about the world and the people in your life. Think about any activities that get you excited and enthusiastic and make you feel most alive. This can be absolutely anything: music, sports, cooking, teaching others, learning, watching movies—anything. Within your love for these things lies deep passion.

2. What are my greatest accomplishments in life so far?

List all of the moments that you are proud of as well as the times that you’ve succeeded. To have accomplished these, you would have used some of your key strengths. See if you can identify why you succeeded. Also, list any activities, hobbies, or anything else that you do that you complete with ease. Within these lie greatest strengths.

3. What would I stand for if I knew no one would judge me?

List everything that you would do if you weren’t afraid, even your wildest dreams. This will help you discover your greatest values.

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If there is one thing that life has taught me over the years it's this: Money, especially a lack-there-of, has a way of making everything in life harder. Financial stress can translate to almost every part of your life, affecting how you view your job, your self-worth, your social life, and money can impact your relationship, too. But when you finally do decide to venture out into the dating world in all of your broke glory, your financial situation, along with your partner's, may make or break your relationship.


From starting out in the dating game, to pursuing a serious, long-term relationship, money will always be an ever-present unifier or divider. To find out the specifics on how finances can affect your love life, i have been fortunate to read a lots of books on this subject eg. Rich Dad Poor Dad by Robort Kayasoki, Your Road Map For Success by Napoleon Hill etc to mention a few and i have found out that cash, funds, money, box etc whatever you choose to call it has a pivotal role in making your relationships merry or annoying and frustrating.Below are six ways i found out money can impact your life.

1. It Makes it More Difficult To Date

For those who aren't in a serious relationship but are looking to date, money can definitely have an impact. if you're on the broke side and looking to enter the dating game, your options may be more limited, especially if you live in a bigger, more expensive city. Does having a near-empty bank account prevent you from dating? No, but it definitely means you need to plan a bit better.

“We wouldn't say that not being financially secure would prevent a person from dating, but it definitely requires more creativity and even a little bit of strategy, “Starting with coffee or a cocktail lowers your out-of-pocket costs until you're sure this person is worth your investment.”

Even though it seems super impersonal to think of someone as an investment, when you're dating this line of thinking makes sense. How much time should you invest in someone, and how much of your feelings can you put in as well? With money, it may be worth your while to regard a potential relationship this way too. Keep your dates simple and inexpensive until you guys become serious. Even then, going out doesn't have to break the bank.

2. It May Affect How Your Relationship Progresses on the long Run

If you're looking to get serious with someone, chances are you want a grownass man or woman. The easiest way to tell if your new bae is up to the task of adulting? How they spend their hard-earned cash. If your new partner doesn't have the wisest spending habits, splurging on things he/she doesn't need when he/she has ridiculous amounts of student debt, then this could become a problem later on.

“When you're in the early stages of a relationship, their bad habits are their problem, But if things progress, their bad habits become your problem and either you work together to find a solution or we strongly encourage you to find a third party to mediate and help you both get on track.”

Once finances start to be shared — maybe you two got an apartment together, and now have to split the rent — then those poor spending habits you noticed before become an issue. Necessary interventions and budgeting could help the problem, even though they may seem awkward at first.
But if your partner's need to splurge is a bad, unbreakable habit right at the very beginning of things, you might decide that there's no future there to begin with.....


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Every girl has her own idea of a ‘perfect guy' that she would love to settle down with; but before that, she goes through a grueling exercise of dating different types of men. It isn't as easy or fun as it sounds and finding your dream man is an exhausting job.
No matter what type of a girl you are, you would have come across some or most of the kinds of men listed below. Let's have a look at 10 types of guys a girl should date before settling with her the-one-and-only.

The intellectual guy who seems very impressive and captivating.

He might always talk about serious things and current affairs or wear slightly boring striped shirts. However, he will definitely make you feel like the centre of his world and who doesn't like that?

The party boy who can be seen in everyone's Facebook picture.

This guy is fun to be around and not to mention, very popular. He will take you to new night clubs where everybody knows him and you will definitely enjoy his company. That is till your relationship lasts.

The self-obsessed gym rat who cannot stop talking about himself.

This guy thinks that he's a catch and that a girl can't find anyone better than him. Girls generally don't stick around for long but this type always make us a good judge of people.


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There have been a thousand or more articles written about how to have a successful long-term relationship or marriage, but none that seem to capture some of the core ingredients I’ve found important in relationships. So here’s the straight dope, from my experience.


Before I begin, however, it’s important to dispel a common relationship myth — relationships are (or should be) easy. That is simply not true. The grass always looks greener in other people’s lives, because few people share the truth of the amount of work that goes into relationships (hence why 50% of marriages end in divorce). Relationships — even the best relationships in the world — require constant attention, nurturing, and work. If you can understand and accept the need for constant attention and work in your relationship, you’re started in the right direction.

1. Compromise

Relationships are about not only taking, but also giving. If you find yourself not giving very much, or feeling resentful of how much you give and how little you receive back, you may be in an unequal relationship where one side is taking more than they are giving.

For instance, couples sometimes mistakenly believe that “love” will help them deal with any issue that comes up, and that if the other person truly loved you, they would just do as you ask. But people are independent with their own unique needs and personalities. Just because we found someone we want to spend our lives with doesn’t mean we give up our own identity in the process.

2. Communicate

Relationships live and die not by the sword, but by the amount of discussion. If two people can’t find a way to openly and honestly communicate their needs and feelings to one another, the relationship doesn’t stand much of a chance long-term. Couples must find a way to communicate regularly, openly, and directly.

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There are a few potential health risks to keep in mind. Whether the upsides outweigh the downsides of taking a razor to your downstairs area is up to you.

Have you been rocking a full bush and you are considering having a trim? Have you wondered, apart from the fact that it makes a difference aesthetically, if there are any other reasons to shave down there?


There are a few potential health risks to keep in mind. Whether the upsides outweigh the downsides of taking a razor to your downstairs area is up to you. Perhaps taking a look at this information below will make things a lot clearer.

1. Shaving your vulva does present some potential health problems. Frequently shaving down there may irritate your skin and follicles, paving the way for pathogens such as group A streptococcus and methicillin resistant staph aureus (MRSA).

2. The hair helps protect your sensitive bits from friction and even bacteria. So if you want to err on the side of safety and let your locks grow, remember that medical science is on your side....

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“Happiness mainly comes from our own attitude, rather than from external factors.” ~Dalai Lama

If you get married today, there is a 60% chance that your relationship won’t last. Is finding true love really that hard or is there something else going on?



A research group from the Heriot-Watt University found that many people have a “warped sense of the perfect relationship” and “unrealistic expectations from their romantic partner.” They concluded that they got these unrealistic expectations from Hollywood love stories.

These movies have us longing for a Cinderella or Prince Charming who will sweep us off our feet and make us happier than we have ever been. But can we really expect our partners to make us happy? Is that even fair to them?

When I figured out this wasn’t the right approach to a relationship, I had already been in two failed ones. “Failed” may not be the right word, because I don’t regret them and I’m still friends with both of my exes, but these relationships were based on needs, from both partners.

After the second relationship, I was single for a long time, and that’s when I started working on myself.

When I started to see some changes in myself and in my life, I felt the desire to have a girlfriend again. I mentioned this to my mentor, and he said, “It’s not the girlfriend you want; it’s what you think she can give you.”

This was a real eye opener for me.

I realized that this desire was my ego telling me there was something missing in my life and that I needed to find someone else to fill this gap for me. I didn’t have a person in mind yet, but I was already being unfair to her by expecting so much of her. I was demanding love.

Demanding Love Vs. Sharing Love

If you expect your partner to make you happy, you are demanding love. If you were happy when you were single, you’re more likely to be happy in your relationship. And when you’re happy, you can focus on “sharing your love” instead of “demanding happiness.”

Do you see how this can make a world of difference in your relationship? When you go from “needing” love, affection, and support to fill a hole in yourself, to “sharing” love and happiness from a place of fullness, your relationship (and life!) will blossom into something truly amazing and lasting.

The Love Illusion

Not expecting anything from your partner doesn’t mean you can’t rely on them for support. It just means you don’t depend on them to ease the discomfort of being with yourself.

Even if it seems like they do that for a while, the absence of discomfort will be an illusion. It’s like taking aspirin. You may not feel the headache anymore, but what caused the headache is still there.

If you don’t like to spend time with yourself, you most likely don’t really love yourself. And if you don’t love yourself first, you cannot sincerely love someone else—or let yourself be loved by someone else.


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"Having sex regularly can do more than make you feel closer to your partner—it can actually make you physically healthier," says Hilda Hutcherson, M.D., a clinical professor of obstetrics and gynecology at Columbia University and author of Pleasure

Less Stress

If you're freaking out about tomorrow's job interview, slip between the sheets. Research from the University of the West of Scotland reveals that people who had intercourse at least once over two weeks were better able to manage stressful situations such as public speaking.

That's because endorphins and oxytocin are released during sex, and these feel-good hormones activate pleasure centers in the brain that create feelings of intimacy and relaxation and help stave off anxiety and depression, you don't have to climax to net the effects, but you'll get the biggest surge of soothing hormones if you have an orgasm. Just one more reason to shoot for a stellar finish!

Sounder Sleep

It's downright dreamy how an O can lull you to sleep. That's because the same endorphins that help you de-stress can also relax your mind and body, priming you for slumber, during orgasm, the hormone prolactin is released. "Prolactin levels are naturally higher when we sleep, which suggests a strong relationship between the two". But if you're wild in the sack, take note: Highly active sex can make you feel more energized than sleepy. Sex should never be a snooze, but if you want to use knocking boots as a sleep aid, skip the acrobatics and opt for a subdued session....Read More Here >>> http://lovefac3..com.ng/2016/06/the-hidden-secrets-and-health-benefits.html

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How can love not be enough? Is just like saying God's love can't be enough. Love is Evalasting. Unless you've not experienced real love yet or you don't know what love is.

Did you go through the whole article ? Well am not disputing God's love but God has commandments and he keeps his words, so don't forget that...

“Good relationships don’t just happen. They take time, patience and two people who truly want to be together.” ~Unknown

Take a story of this two couples and how they were able to solve their marriage issues and triumph as a couple, difficult times will always come but how you handle them is totally dependent on you.


My husband and I were going through a difficult time a few years ago. It felt like a pivotal time in our relationship. People say that marriage isn’t easy and you have your ups and downs. Well, we were definitely experiencing a low point.

We had been together for several years; we had been high school sweethearts and were each other’s best friends.

During this time we had several issues going on in our life, one of which was my husband being out of work, and suffering with anxiety, depression, and a lack of self-esteem and confidence as a result. Our relationship was in a bad place and we were being tested.

We were not spending any quality time together, nor were we going out together as a couple (my husband didn’t want to face anyone, including friends and family).

We didn’t feel like each other’s friends, let alone the lovers and best friends we had grown to be. At times we even felt like strangers—or even worse, each other’s enemies. We were forever fighting, bickering, and whining at each other.

After a lot of heartache and many heated arguments, we realized we could no longer go on like this. When we stopped to analyze the situation, we asked ourselves several questions:

Did we still love each other? Did we still want to be married? Had everything changed so much that we just couldn’t work things out?

Once we decided we wanted to be in our marriage, we each made a commitment to start treating each other differently.
We hoped that, with a new perspective and our mutual love and respect for each other, we could start working together and make the change we so desperately needed. We hoped that a change in attitude and behavior would salvage our marriage.
The following four elements became very critical in our relationship and led to us saving our marriage, as well as making it stronger for the future.

1. Communication.

During this rough period we stopped communicating clearly. It’s funny how, as human beings, we withdraw from each other when there is a sign of trouble or misunderstanding.
We decided to consciously work on our communication. We spoke in “I” statements rather than “you” statements.
We expressed how we felt rather than blaming a situation on the other person. “I” statements work because they show how you feel, whereas “you” statements create a sense of accusation and blame.
This helped us be open with how we felt, stopped us from shutting each out, and allowed us to talk about our issues in a productive and efficient way.

2. Appreciation.

We were feeling a lot of resentment toward each other, and not feeling loved and appreciated, so we put in place a daily appreciation diary. Keeping a personal gratitude journal is a great asset; it makes you focus on the positive in your life and leads to happiness.
Keeping a gratitude diary as a couple had the same benefits and gave us hope. It forced us to focus on the positives of the day and not just the negative events or what the other person did or didn’t say. It made us appreciate the other person and see them for the person we fell in love with.

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There's no relationship without it's fair share of problems, learning how to work through them determines how long you and your partner will stay together.
Communication and commitment matters a lot in every strong relationship, and both partners will end up sad if these problems aren't handled well. This may eventually breakup the relationship in the long run if they are handled the wrong way.


Here are some horrible ways to deal with your relationship problems:

1. Instant decisions without thinking:

Couples should learn to hear each other's side of the story.

2. Ignoring Your responsibilities:

Running away from what you are supposed to do and putting the blame on your partner won't make your relationship better.

3. Cheating on your partner:

Having a fling with someone else because you have problems in your relationship would break it faster than anything else. Cheating is no-no in any relationship your are willing to fight for.

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