₦airaland Forum

You have an adiction to this person . The thin line is you think you can't live without that person. But in reality you can.and you will.


1. The only person whom you can't live without is you yourself. Keep telling you that because it is true. You come alone to the world, you go away alone. It's hard to let go someone you really love, but it's necessary and sometime you'll find it was the correct thing to do, to keep on moving.

2. You take each day as it comes. Start by doing little things that isn't require them and gradually build it up. Tell yourself that you can do it every day- until you start to believe it. Realise that you're worth more than this ache and pain. I swear it get better.

3. Take it one day at time. The easiest way is to fill that void by surrounding yourself with supportive friends. You can do activities you and your ex used to do together with them, or you can just stay in with them, whatever you want. Sometimes your friends won't be available when you really need someone, so you can always chat to someone on Whatapp on Love&LoveFactory Group. Eventually, you'll find yourself gradually doing some of these things of your own, and you'll be ok with it.

4. Start by finding things are you are cool with doing by yourself. Next, cultivate relationships and friendships with others. Try new things. Develop new hobbies and activities. Before you know it you'll be leaving your ex where they belong...in the past.


Read More Here >>> http://lovefac3..com.ng/2016/06/after-break-up-how-to-start-to-live.html

Related Article >>> http://lovefac3..com.ng/2016/01/10-ways-to-let-go-and-open-up-to-love.html

More Articles Here >>> http://lovefac3..com.ng/

Follow us
Facebook: www.facebook.com/lovesfactory
Twitter: @lovefac3
Whatsapp: 08066824350

First dates can be a nerve-wracking experience. You need to dress right, talk right and read the signals right. It can be very stressful and we don't blame you for passing out, with a bottle of wine after you get home.

But, now that you've made the right impression and scored a second date, it's time to up the ante. You've used your best moves and your best lines on the first meeting and now you need something more to seal the deal. You also need to decide whether or not the relationship is worth a third date! Go big, or go home, or ... just keep calm and read our guide: The Second Date 101.

1. Relax and be yourself

It's clichéd, but we've got to tell you that second dates are really the chance to be yourself. On your first date, you second-guessed everything (if I order two plates will he think I am a pig?) so now is the time to let go and relax. Be yourself and let him see the person you really are as opposed to the first-date-polished version of you. (Just don't attack the booze, because the real you shouldn't be slurring).

2. Get to know him

While first dates are great for getting to know his hobbies and interests, second dates are when you find out if he is willing to accept you and your pets too. Ask specific questions instead of being vague. You need to get a hint about where this relationship is heading.


Read More Here >>> http://lovefac3..com.ng/2016/06/how-to-score-big-during-second.html

Related Article >>> http://lovefac3..com.ng/2016/05/7-reasons-you-should-finally-ask-out_23.html

More Stories Here >>> http://lovefac3..com.ng/


Follow us
Twwitter: @lovefac3
facebook.com/lovesfactory
whatsapp: 08066824350

You like what you have read ? share with with your friends below

theEYe21:
All dis Na long tin joor. Besides some women like to just go straight into action while others want the guy to go the extra mile. Op why did you put your number? You want girls to be calling you and you will be giving them abi?

Well i see you don't read carefully before commenting...anyway that line is for whatsapp only for your information, and am not some cheap guy u see on Nairaland, mind what you say...

No woman wants a man who just jumps into bed and straight into action because s*x for a woman is a mental and physical process. You must be willing to go the extra mile, if at all you want her to put up a good performance for you and also enjoy herself.


Women want as much from s*x as men want – orgasmic experience.Unfortunately, the average man only thinks about himself so the women are short-changed – and many of them don’t complain because they don’t want to expose the bad girl inside them.Deep inside, no woman wants a man who just jumps into bed and pulls out his p*nis, because s*x for woman is a mental and physical process.You must be willing to go the extra mile, if at all you want her to put up a good performance for you and also enjoy herself.
Here are 5 things she actually wants:

(1) Use your tongue on her body – your tongue has a lot of roles to perform when it comes to s*x. The average woman wants you to love her body with your hands, your pen*s and your tongue. If you really appreciate her body, why not eat it up – kiss, bite, suck, and nibble on her shoulders, upper back, indentation of her lower back…and the vagina itself. Just tongue her to orgasm.


Read More Here >>> http://lovefac3..com.ng/2016/06/5-bad-things-every-woman-wants-from-her.html

Related Article >>> http://lovefac3..com.ng/2016/05/30-secrets-every-woman-keeps-from-her.html

More Articles Here >>> http://lovefac3..com.ng/



Follow Us and Like Our Facebook Page

Twitter: @loveface3
Facebook: Faceebook.com/lovesfactory
Whatsapp: 08066824350

otipoju:
I told my single friends recently, the games you fight with your girlfriend is not the same with your wife..its a totally different ball game.

Yeah, you are correct...

Because I love Jim Collins and his business advice, and because I love love, and I love talking about relationships, I decided to combine my two loves in this article. When people contemplate marriage, they often think about this question, and wonder if they are making a mistake. We put our heads in our hands and ask ourselves: “So how do I know he is the one? I mean out of the millions of millions of people in the world, how do I know that this one guy is ‘The One?” Read this beautiful piece from Osayi Emokpae Lasisi

Ah! Baby girl I have come from the planet of Love and Jim Collins (shall we call it the planet of Loveollins?) to give you these answers that will rock your world and get you dancing because you are finally sure he is the one, or because you finally have a good reason to dump him. So let’s do this!

Do you share core values? – Okay so he’s fine, and every time you’re around him you think thoughts that make you thankful that we haven’t quite discovered how to read minds. You like the way his voice caresses you every time you hear it, and you like that his name rhymes with yours. All that is nice, but does he share your core values? If you are a traditional worshipper, is he also a traditional worshipper? If you like to steal, does he also like to steal? Hey I’m not judging your decisions, all I’m saying is that if you don’t share the most important things with him, then he’s probably not the one.

Do you need to tightly manage him? – So you find yourself checking his phone multiple times a day. You find yourself hacking into I mean reading his email multiple times a day. When he needs to buy underwear, or you need to get things done in your car, or in your house or anything at all, you know you can’t trust him to do it – or at least you can’t trust him to do it well. Well then baby girl, he may not be the one. If you need to manage everything he is doing just to ensure that it is done well, then it may be that you are dating a boy, and when you marry you want to make sure you marry a man. Why do you need to marry a man? There are just too many things to do in life, too many decisions to make, too many responsibilities… and if you have to stop every time to make sure that he is okay, not only will you be going much slower than you ought to, but you will also be very frustrated.

Does he understand that being with you is not a 9-5 job? – I mean does he understand that a relationship is just that – a relationship. He will never be off duty, he cannot say “Oh TGIF I can dump my woman now.” And if you think relationships are hard, then you’re definitely not ready for marriage. In marriage you are always on the job, always affecting your spouse for the better or the worse. If this guy is not willing to commit to a lifestyle change that removes 90% of the “I” from his vocabulary, and instead replaces it with “We,” then perhaps he is not the one for you. Or at least he is not the one you would enjoy being with in the best sense of the word.

Does he always do what he says he will do? – Ah! you know those guys, the ones that say they are on their way, and then they never show up, or the ones that say they will take your car to the mechanic, or to get it washed, and they never quite get the time to do it. Think about the ones that say they will buy that beautiful Coach purse for you, and they never quite have the money, even though they go shopping every weekend, or the ones that promise you a beautiful birthday present, and 6 years and 7 birthdays later, you’re still waiting. Consider the ones that say they will pick you up by 5:00pm and always end up picking you up around 11:00pm? Yeah those guys… it may be cute now, but by the time you’re getting married it won’t be cute anymore. You need someone responsible and reliable, someone you can rely upon, and build dreams with. So if you can’t trust your beau’s words, then perhaps he is not the one for a special treasure like you.

Read More Here >>> http://lovefac3..com.ng/2016/06/6-foolproof-ways-to-identify-your.html

Related Article >>> http://lovefac3..com.ng/2016/01/7-important-keys-to-long-term.html

Other Articles Here >>> http://lovefac3..com.ng/


Follow Us and Like Our Facebook Page

Twitter: @loveface3
Facebook: Faceebook.com/lovesfactory
Whatsapp: 08066824350

It is a well-known fact that active sexual life influences your health in a very good way. But would you know that abstinence could actually be harmful?


The lack of sexual activity could influence not only physical but also mental health. Bladder dysfunction, erectile dysfunction and depression are only few of long abstinence’s side effects one could experience.

If you are leading active sexual life – good for you, keep it up! It influences your general health only in a good way. Researches show that people having intercourse at least 2-3 times per week, have generally more positive set of mind, are less likely to suffer from hight blood pressure, have a better working immune system and are more stress resistant. However, in case if you haven’t found your significant one and seem to be in no rush, you should definitely know about these side effects total lack of sexual activity might result in. Here is what happens to your body when you don’t have a sexual life.

1. Deterioration of brain function Sex makes you smarter. Researches has shown regular sexual satisfaction is prone to heighten your memory capacity and better studying results.

2. Erectile dysfunction Men that have not sufficient frequency of sexual activity are twice more likely to experience erectile dysfunction than the ones who have sex at least once per week.


Read More here >>> http://lovefac3..com.ng/2016/05/what-happens-to-your-body-when-you-dont.html

Other Articles here >>> http://lovefac3..com.ng/



Follow Us and Like Our Facebook Page

Twitter: @loveface3
Facebook: Faceebook.com/lovesfactory
Whatsapp: 08066824350

SAINTSAMURAII:
hmm true bro but all married guys aint happy too

Not true bro...Not every1 in life is happy wada married or not....stop blaming marriage for what it does not know self

People say that kindness is the best policy when it comes to breaking up and that probably is what gave birth to "It's not you it's me." Because, it is easier to take the blame on your own head rather than try and make him understand why he sucks. But, you know what, we are done with taking the blame. We say to hell with ‘it's not you,' because hey ... it Is you.

You are the one making us want to punch innocent people on the street because they remind us of you. So let's start ripping off the Band-Aid by calling a spade a spade. Here are three honest things you can tell your soon-to-be-ex instead of blaming yourself. These will also ensure that he stays out of your hair and doesn't come back each time he is drunk or feeling emotional; because who needs that kind of drama anyway.

We Are Making Each Other Sad

It's a good idea to keep the balance right and admit that both of you are not gaining ANYTHING from this relationship. Sit him down, and talk to him about how his behavior makes you unhappy and frustrated and at the end of the day, both of you are left searching for something more. While we understand your need to be kind and less cruel, it's better to be honest and tell him that he isn't who you are looking for. Be brutal unless you want to be drunk dialed all the time.



Read More here >>> http://lovefac3..com.ng/2016/05/the-new-commandments-of-breaking-up.html


Related Article >>> http://lovefac3..com.ng/2016/05/11-signs-you-need-to-leave-your.html

More Articles >>> http://lovefac3..com.ng

Follow Us and Like Our Facebook Page

Twitter: @loveface3
Facebook: Faceebook.com/lovesfactory
Whatsapp: 08066824350

SAINTSAMURAII:
One of the things that scares me in life is the thought of getting married. it scares the hell out of me to say those marital vows and there after know that im forever bound to just one single lady in commitment, sex, loyalty and all that. I dont even think marriage determines happiness to someone's life, well apart from the kids that i will get, i dont see the unique happiness and satisfaction that a soul called wife will give to me that every other lady that i am not married to cannot give to me. forget the crap about having a shoulder to lay on or having someone to stand by you, i think that is bullshit because over the years my mother, sisters and brothers and friends have always stood by me through every difficulties and they have provided me a pillow that i can lay on when im streesed. so what benefit can i possibly gain from having a wife apart from kids? if its sex, i can get wonderful sex anywhere in the world, if its love, my mom and the love of GOD and family and friends is enough for me.

Attention seeker!!! Weldone...u know d truth u jst won disturb us small sha

SAINTSAMURAII:
looking at the lifes of cristiano ronaldo, chris brown, seun, lalasticlala, even the late king micheal jackson that are not married but are happier than those in marriage, i dnt see how marriage determines happiness.

And who told u they are n were happy...did u leave with dem ? Just because ppl smile n jump on d stage, don't mean dey are happy bro

It’s no fun for her (and embarrassing for you) when it all ends... too early. Top sexologists reveal eight secrets for having longer, better sex.

As a guy, the bedroom is probably the one instance where you don't want to finish first. Sex experts (and we assume you) agree that nothing makes you feel more insecure than coming up short when it matters most. If you're plagued by this sexual shortcoming, relax. There are numerous ways to last longer in bed.



“All men have their own extending technique, from thinking about football or baseball or counting backwards in their heads,” says A.L. Harper, a sex expert and former editor of a UK-based men’s magazine. “However, these distraction techniques can result in making them worse in bed because they aren't paying attention to their partner's pleasure.”

If you’re curious to find out the real ways to last longer, so you don't kill the mood for the both of you, check out these tips. We asked three top industry experts to share the advice they give their clients—no Viagra required.

1. Study the Kama Sutra. “There is a technique mentioned in the Kama Sutra for delaying ejaculations that basically comes down to training yourself to last longer,” says Harper. She instructs men to start slowly—with no more than one “in/out” stroke every three seconds. “He should then build more strokes slowly over the course of 4 or 5 minutes, until he is moving one stroke per second.” If the man starts to feel like he is going to come, he should stop and “hold himself inside his partner until he feels in control again. Then he begins the whole process again.”

2. Get Out of Your Head. “Performance anxiety is the number one killer of sustaining an erection,” says sex coach Dr. Patti Britton, a board-certified Clinical Sexologist. “Shift your thinking to a more confident inner voice, as opposed to a worried voice.” Britton explains that a “self-debilitating mindset” is what shuts guys down. “When you begin to feel anxiety, the strategy is to stop, take a breath, and then focus on how things feel in the body. Stay out of your head and get into your body—focus on the feelings that your body is producing for you.”

3. Change things up. The best thing to do if you’re getting close to the edge? Alter your speed, advises human sexuality expert Catherine Toyooka, the founder of Catherine Coaches sex workshops. “Try teasing her. Take your penis out and rub just the head of it sensually up and down and between her labia. Vaginas have lots of nerve endings clustered in the lower portion of their vaginal canal, so this move will still be very enjoyable for her to experience.”

4. Slow down! “Instead of the fast-paced jack-hammering style that many men are so fond of, try taking your time,” says Toyooka. Sex at a slower pace leads to a more connected experience for both people. “It’s more sensual because you are caressing and exploring the rest of her body. Kiss her neck, nuzzle her ear, let your hands gently explore her body,” she says. The most important thing to keep in mind that will help you last longer? Enjoy the journey that leads to your destination.


http://lovefac3..com.ng/2016/05/last-longer-in-bed-sex-experts-tell-you.html


Related Article >>> http://lovefac3..com.ng/2016/05/six-easy-ways-to-make-her-beg-for-more.html

Other Articles here >>> http://lovefac3..com.ng/

Follow Us and Like Our Facebook Page

Twitter: @loveface3

Facebook: Faceebook.com/lovesfactory

Whatsapp: 08066824350

The following story is a story from an 18 year old girl, found it interesting so I decided to share it with us here.

For a few months after I broke up with my ex, I had this constant feeling that something was missing. I was always sad, always lonely and always wanting to talk to him, even though I knew it was the last thing I should do.

I lay in bed, sifting through old photos of us. I listened to depressing music while I looked out the window on my rainy bus ride to school. I swear it was like I was starring in one of those bleak Lifetime movies. You know the ones.

You really hope to have an uplifting ending, but it just never comes. Maybe I was a bit dramatic. But it was my first real love and my first real breakup, so cut me some slack.

I was living in a dorm with five other girls at the time, and they were always there to hear my complaints and watch my theatrical sulking. They constantly told me all I needed was to “go out and have fun” and “meet someone new.”

My naive, 18-year-old self thought they were right. It made perfect sense. If I was missing a boy, all I needed to do was find a new one. Genius.

This was my first mistake >>> http://lovefac3..com.ng/2016/05/having-rebound-sex-is-last-thing-you.html


Other Articles here >>> http://lovefac3..com.ng/

Follow Us and Like Our Facebook Page

Twitter: @loveface3

Faceebook.com/lovesfactory

Whatsapp: 08066824350

If you feel depressed, it's best to do something about it — depression doesn't just go away on its own. In addition to getting help from a doctor or therapist, here are 5 things you can do to feel better...


Exercise

Take a 15- to 30-minute brisk walk every day — or dance, jog, or bike if you prefer. People who are depressed may not feel much like being active. But make yourself do it anyway (ask a friend to exercise with you if you need to be motivated). Once you get in the exercise habit, it won't take long to notice a difference in your mood.

In addition to getting aerobic exercise, some yoga poses can help relieve feelings of depression. Try downward-facing dog or legs-up-the-wall pose (you can find these poses on yoga websites). Two other aspects of yoga — breathing exercises and meditation — can also help people with depression feel better.

Nurture yourself with good nutrition

Depression can affect appetite. One person may not feel like eating at all, but another might overeat. If depression has affected your eating, you'll need to be extra mindful of getting the right nourishment. Proper nutrition can influence a person's mood and energy. So eat plenty of fruits and vegetables and get regular meals (even if you don't feel hungry, try to eat something light, like a piece of fruit, to keep you going).

Identify troubles, but don't dwell on them

Try to identify any situations that have contributed to your depression. When you know what's got you feeling blue and why, talk about it with a caring friend. Talking is a way to release the feelings and to receive some understanding.


Please click Link to get full tips for ( Five ways to help yourself when you are depressed ) >>>

http://lovefac3..com.ng/2016/05/five-ways-to-help-yourself-when-you-are.html#more



Follow Us and Like Our Facebook Page

Twitter: @loveface3

Faceebook.com/lovesfactory

Whatsapp: 08066824350

More Articles at >>> http://lovefac3..com.ng/

kossyablaze:
Can I answer out of the box?

Yea...let's hear it?

Question of The Day ?


A, Too Much digital Life
B, Sex Before Marriage
C Lies and deceit

For me is A. because it leads to B, and C...My opinion though, Whats Yours ?

Please Drop your Comments Below, you could be helping somebody out there.



Follow Us on Twitter and Like Our Facebook Page

Twitter: @loveface3

Faceebook.com/lovesfactory

Whatsapp: 08066824350



Visit >>> lovefac3..com

To get latest articles about relationships, marriage, breakups and how to handle your love life, we are not God but we can help by his grace!

We aren’t perfect beings, and that’s OK. We f*ck up. When you look back on why things went wrong with all of your past relationships, you start to realize you had some part in it, too.
In a world full of an abundance of information easily accessible through our fingertips, anxiety and insecurities can grow. Self-doubt can take the form of irrational behavior that goes against who you truly are.
I’ve discovered some of the top ways someone can sabotage a relationship, as i am guilty of sabotaging myself. I am an imperfect person, but I’m trying to learn from my mistakes and hope that some of my errors can benefit other dealing with similar circumstances. Stay away from these behaviors, and don’t disrupt a relationship before it even has a true chance to start.


1. Coming on too strong.
When you meet someone new that you connect with, it can be so thrilling. The excitement of receiving wanted attention from someone can be so addictive that one person can start to come on too strong. This can be detrimental to creating a stable foundation for a relationship, especially if you are skipping steps and jumping too far ahead of yourself.
Excitement is good. It is one of the greatest feelings to experience. Just make sure that you are both on the same page and moving at a similar pace.

2. Acting too needy or clingy.
Having the need for constant contact can be a huge turnoff. Relying on another person for 100 percent of your happiness will inevitably leave you disappointed. Your happiness cannot be entirely dependent on one person. You have to make time for yourself, your friends, your family and your personal interests. An equal balance will leave you fulfilled in all aspects of your life.


Many of us are guilty of No. 4 click link to find out >>>> http://lovefac3..com.ng/2016/05/5-ways-youre-making-it-harder-for-your.html

So you were in love. It was the most perfect thing in the world, and then suddenly it wasn't. You never imagined it ending like that. You were left hurt, sad, disappointed and tempted to give up on love. But trust us; it's not the end of the world. Here's why you must move on; get out there and find your soulmate.

1. We live in world, with approximately 6 billion people, half of which are the opposite sex. So what if it didn't work out with one person?! There are still many who are on the lookout for true love, exactly like you, and you definitely have a chance to meet your soul mate. It's only a matter of time.


2. It was a learning experience. Probably the best one in your life. Every step in life, whether right or otherwise, teaches you a lot of things. Maybe, your experience with this guy wasn't as wondrous as you'd have liked. But on the flip side, it taught you a lot of things, not just about love, but also about yourself. For starters, you now know, what exactly is it that you don't want in your guy.

3. There's always a next time. Like for everything else under the sun, even for love, there's always a next time.

4. Love isn't to be blamed. It was just that a bad, probably hurtful relationship.


Follow link to read more >>> http://lovefac3..com.ng/2016/05/8-reasons-its-okay-to-fall-in-love.html

Chronic masturbation, also known as over-masturbation, excessive masturbation, self-abuse, and jokingly referred to as hysterical onanism and hairy palm syndrome differs quite significantly from normal masturbation, which itself is healthy, encouraged and has been prevalent since the dawn of human history (and even some animals).

Masturbation is part of a normal sex life (emphasis on: part of, it should not be the only thing in your sex life). It can boost your immunity, improve your mood, and used right, it can even help you to last longer in bed.

However, we are beginning to hear that ever-increasing numbers of people are suffering from a chronic compulsion to masturbate. It’s affecting their work, impacting their social life, destroying relationships and leaving them feeling like guilt-ridden, useless lust bags that have reduced themselves to only living for orgasms and neglecting everything else. The solution to this problem is further down the page, but first…

When does masturbation become over-masturbation?
Since there is no formal diagnosis of what constitutes chronic masturbation, how we define it is important. For many people, they consider themselves as suffering from chronic masturbation simply because they masturbate every day and feel guilty about it. Daily masturbation in and of itself isn’t necessarily bad.

However, we can presume that one is suffering from chronic masturbation when they are experiencing the following:

It is causing them significant distress
You are masturbating multiple times per day as a form of self-medicating or to escape from certain realities in your life which you’re unhappy with
You regularly cause damage to yourself (rubbing yourself raw)
You have little time to see friends, family or go to work because of the amount of time you devout to pleasuring yourself
You find the urge to masturbate is too strong to fight and constantly feel lustful

The main purported side effects of excessive masturbation:
Hair loss – To go bald two things need to happen. You need to be predisposed to male pattern baldness and you need an excess amount of DHT in your system. There is some correlation that supports DHT causing baldness, but it is not conclusive. That being said, there is plenty of anecdotal evidence to suggest it is true.

Persistent sexual arousal – This is that “lust ball” feeling I mentioned earlier. You’ve managed to rewire your brain to be in a heightened state of arousal. Rebooting will take care of this.

Memory and concentration problems – It’s hard to say if this is just down to masturbation or to porn use, but those that give up porn tend to find that their memory recall and concentration abilities significantly improve.

Erectile Dysfunction – While your spirit is still willing and urging you to masturbate and orgasm, your penis shows signs of suffering from exhaustion.

Continue Reading Here >>> http://lovefac3..com.ng/2016/05/how-to-stop-chronic-masturbation-and.html#more

Pls follow Love & Love Factory

Twitter: @lovefac3
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lovesfactory/?ref=bookmarks
Whatsapp: 08066824350

The first few weeks of dating are spent getting to know the new person in your life. The chase is exciting and you get butterflies whenever he texts.
Then comes the “honeymoon” period when you’re officially an item and you couldn’t be happier. You can’t stop beaming and everything just feels right.
It’s also during the honeymoon period when the pair of you get really close and tell each other sweet nothings about how you’ll be together forever and always.


But the honeymoon period has to end sometime. Once it’s over, life can so easily get in the way. Before you know it, he leaves the house for work before you’ve even woken up, and you don’t see him again until the sun has set.
It happens to all of us. Now that we’re all working more hours than ever before, it’s not easy to always feel close to our partner. Things just get in the way. He’s got his job, you’ve got yours, and you’ve both got your separate interests and groups of friends.
If you want to tighten the bond between you both and feel a strong connection with him once again, here are 10 top tips on how to feel closer with your partner.

Put Down Your Phones

You don’t get to spend much time together these days, so when you do, why don’t you both agree to put down your electronics?
Phones get in the way of conversation and intimacy, especially now that smartphones can pretty much do just about anything. Whether we’re quickly checking our Facebook notifications or finding out the basketball scores, our phones take us away from the real person that matters – our partner.
Take a break from your electronics and get to know your man again.

Workout Together

This is another good tip on how to make your relationship better. The new saying has it that couples who sweat together, stay together. We can’t quantity this right now, but it’s a good idea to start a workout regimen together if you want to spend more time with your partner.
Perhaps you both have your own reasons for wanting to exercise. Maybe he wants to get healthier while you want to lose a bit of weight. Whatever your reasons are, make the joint decision to join a gym together – or create your own workout regime at home or out and about.

Wake Up Together

It’s not easy to wake up at the same time when one of you has to get up early for work and the other can catch an extra hour or two.
But that window of time in the morning is super precious, and when you leave the house without seeing your partner, it means the first time you get to say Hello and give them a kiss is when you both return home from work.
At which point, it’s often already dark.
Wake up together, savour the rising sun, eat breakfast and drink coffee. Kiss, talk, start the day as One!


Click link >>>> http://lovefac3..com.ng/2016/05/10-tips-on-how-to-feel-closer-with-your.html

Other useful stories >>> http://lovefac3..com.ng/2016/05/six-easy-ways-to-make-her-beg-for-more.html

>>> http://lovefac3..com.ng/2016/05/30-secrets-every-woman-keeps-from-her.html

>>> http://lovefac3..com.ng/2016/05/how-to-make-woman-orgasm-fast-3-killer.html


Visit: www.lovefac3..com Regularly for more stories

Singledom does have its advantages, and I strongly recommend everyone to experience several people before settling in a relationship. For guys, this bee-like behavior that drives you to explore the female behavior, their turn-ons and turn-offs, as well as your abilities to rise up to their mark, represents the foundation of your maturity, confidence and manliness. It is the first phase of growth in becoming a full-fledged man.

However, your manhood ripens only through developing some meaningful relationships in your life. This is the phase that really puts you on trial and significantly helps you grow as a person and man. Though this is a pretty good argument in itself, there are many other good grounds to get involved in a meaningful relationship.

Here are some that I consider most significant:


1. You get to know yourself at a different level.

OK, I know you were your most precious and indissoluble friend of your own self from the first moment of life, but I also know that a meaningful relationship can bring out some of your qualities that you were never aware of and, also some emotions you never can truly understand and name until you feel them.

Attachment, compassion, support, trust or love for a partner are not at all the same as when you feel them for a member of your family, a friend, a pet or yourself. They open another dimension that, once you get to know them, you’ll look for it time and time again.

Indeed, not every woman in your life will appeal to your soul, yet when you do manage to find the right ones and get involved in a significant relationship with them, they’ll bring out the best in you.

All in all, you only get to know yourself thoroughly when you experience this type of love and all the other positive and negative emotions that it brings along.

2. Sex is much better.

This is perhaps the most straightforward effect that the stability of a relationship offers. Sex is not only regular, but it also tends to become better once you come to know your partner thoroughly on a physical and mental level.

There’s also the downside that novelty might bring about more excitement, yet as long as you are willing to make an effort, then you can refuel your sex drive and experiences every time with the same person.

Besides, when you’re in a stable relationship and have established a good level of trust and openness, then at that point it is far more likely to fulfill your fetishes and indulge each other’s erotic fantasies.

3. A relationship brings about positive emotions.

I’ve already mentioned some in the 1st point, yet the list is pretty long and starts with comfort and self-confidence and ends somewhere on the lines of longing, belonging and personal fulfillment.

Why are these so important to you (besides helping to know yourself better)? Simply because most of the time they will make you feel positive about life in general (including job, family, social life) and who you are in particular.

A meaningful relationship will make you value and enjoy life much more because it will instantly change your attitude, optimism levels and you’ll become more aware of your personal potential.

4. Stability can help you save precious personal resources.

The time and effort (besides financial resources) that you used to invest into going out and hooking up when you were single can be significantly reduced when in a stable relationship.

This does not mean that you’re not going to take your girlfriend out or spend time and effort on her, but instead of hovering around with no precise focus except getting a girls’s number, you will be able to direct such precious personal resources on meaningful acts that draw instant results like appreciation, reassurance, intensified emotions, sex, getting support, etc.

But I guess the main point to draw from this, at least in my personal experience, is that the moment you have a stable relationship with stable sex, the moment you stop looking and spending time and resources into getting laid, is the moment you can finally feel free about investing in your career and personal success.

I have said it on countless occasions that if it wasn’t for a girlfriend in general, I would have never been able to achieve half the things that I have professionally.

Follow link for full story, don't ask me why when you get there you will know >>>> http://lovefac3..com.ng/2016/05/7-reasons-you-should-finally-ask-out_23.html

If you are thinking about dating or you are actually dating a woman that shows the following character traits. You need to do one thing… and one thing only.

RUN.
Get away from that crazy bitch as fast as you possibly can. Delete her number, unfriend her on Facebook, stop reading her tweets, perving over her useless Instagram pics and detach yourself from her entirely.
If you don’t do this, then I promise you that your life will be terrible if you decide to make her your girlfriend or continue seeing a girl you’ve been dating for a short while.

Why?
Because the below character traits display very clearly that she is mentally unstable. Now this could be that she’s a full blown nutcase or it could mean that she has some minor issues which she needs to deal with herself. Either way, you are going to be on the receiving end of this broken woman.
Over time, you will slowly mould to her choosing, because it makes your life seem easier. You will begin to tell yourself lies like “I know she’s doing this because she loves me” or “What kind of man would I be if I didn’t support her”.
Having said that, you might even be the kind of man that would put up with her crazy nonsense because she’s hot. If you are that person… you deserve everything she throws at you. Because you’re an idiot.
Ok, so here are the top character traits “damaged” women will show and you need to stay clear of:


SELF ENTITLEMENT

Also known as a princess syndrome. Something happened during childhood (usually with her dad) that made her think that she was entitled to everything. If she asked mummy or daddy for something, they would usually say yes. So no, wasn’t really a word that was often used around her.
If a girl shows that she is self entitled, get rid. It’s not something she can easily get rid of as she’s had years of validation from her parents (and quite possibly past boyfriends) who spoiled her. To spot this trait, listen to the things she says… “What do you mean no? But I want it” or “Why can’t I have it, I don’t understand?”.

WHINING OR BITCHING REGULARLY

Damaged girls enjoy drama. They will seek it in the workplace, amongst her social circle, at home with their family and yes… with you in a relationship. This means they will take great pleasure in whining about something that they don’t like or which didn’t go the way they wanted (stems from self entitlement).
They will also bitch about anything and everything, just to make themselves feel better. Making a situation out of something small is something that makes damaged girls feel alive. It feeds that inner crazy voice.
Whining and bitching is cancerous and it will grind you down until you don’t even fight back anymore. If she’s showing this character trait… You got it, leave her.


If you think you know the rest piece, please don't click the link below>>>> but if not CLICK LINK

http://lovefac3..com.ng/2016/05/7-character-traits-that-prove-you-are.html

ur write up nids editing

Women tend to be overly-conscious about the way they look during sex. But guess what? Most of the things that women are afraid men would notice are definitely details that really don’t catch their eyes. They are set to noticing more than the physical; in fact, they are more into the details of how the whole experience will go.
Behaviors during the lovemaking and the chemistry are what guys see. They are more concerned about whether they are turning you on or not. If you still are confused, read the five things that men usually notice about you during sex

1. Your Initiative If we’re doing all the work and you’re just sort of hanging out to see what’s going to happen next, we’re going to think you’re not all that interested. So show a little excitement, eh? Take the lead in unbuckling or unclasping something. Roll us over, and get on top. Help us make this moment awesome.

2. The Way Your Body Moves If you’re stiff, it puts a chill on the moment. We wonder if there’s a problem or if you’re feeling self-conscious. But if you’re revved up and sensual, that turns us on. We want to feel your body writhe against us. We want your chest to press against ours, to feel your thigh slide up between ours. The more you engage your entire body in the moment, the more we feel like you’re excited to be with us.

Just CLICK the link don't ask me why you will find out when you get there ***winks*** thank me later

http://lovefac3..com.ng/2016/05/5-points-men-always-notice-about-women.html

thanx

habby51:
u right man, three create of beer for u

When it comes to love, and particularly women, men can experience difficulties in deciding if a woman loves them or not. There are ways to tell if a woman loves you by the way she moves, the way she speaks, and other actions she takes even when she is not with you. If you are in a new relationship, and don’t know how to interpret the signals you’re getting from the woman you are dating, here are ten signs she loves you:
1. You notice a change in her appearance
When it comes to a woman who are in love, you will notice a sudden makeover in the way she looks. Her makeup, hairstyle, clothes and accessories will change as she will do anything to try and impress you.


2. She shows genuine concern for you
When a woman falls in love, she will worry about you and won’t be able to stay away if she notices you’re having troubles. She will let you know that she’s there for you in case you need her, and she will be deeply concerned and interested in any problems you’re having.

3. She shows you off to family and friends
A woman who really loves a man is proud to be with him and can’t wait to show him off to her friends and family. She will constantly talk about you with others and will be deeply interested in wanting to know your parents and your friends.

4. She makes sacrifices for you
Another sign that she really loves you is when she takes the time to be with you and to do the things you love to do. It is easy for her when you do the things she likes to do, but if you’ve noticed that she’s given up these normal activities to be with you, it’s an indication that she cares about you a great deal.


Do not click the link if you do not want to know more signs, if she's into you >>>>

http://lovefac3..com.ng/2016/05/10-signs-that-shes-really-in-love-with.html

Finding what hits your social, single center of gravity can be a bit tricky especially for men who live in the populous Lagos city. But dating expert Ian Isherwood says these 10 easy tips can get you through the ups and downs of what to do, how to act, where to go and what to expect as a single man. He says it is like s-3x in the city, but from a man’s point of view.

Lagos is an amazing city to be a single man. With over 21 Million inhabitants and hundreds of bars and restaurants to choose from, going out and meeting single women couldn’t be easier.

Let us focus on the weekend: a single man’s playground. You can let your hair down (if you have any) and paint the town red. If you play your cards right, then it is almost like being a butcher in a meat market: the pick is easy, singles are everywhere and people are out to have fun but it depends on what you are looking for.



The first question you need to ask yourself before going out is “What am I looking for?” Are you looking to meet lots of singles, find your future wife or maybe just something casual? Going out with a game plan is essential. Just like productive people in plan their work and life in general, you need to set goals for your dates or nights out, and stay focused on what you want to achieve. Here are 10 tips on how to get a girlfriend in Lagos:

1. Loosen Up
For some people it’s natural to smile, say hello and chat with everyone.

Finding what hits your social, single center of gravity can be a bit tricky especially for men who live in the populous Lagos city. But dating expert Ian Isherwood says these 10 easy tips can get you through the ups and downs of what to do, how to act, where to go and what to expect as a single man. He says it is like s-3x in the city, but from a man’s point of view.

Lagos is an amazing city to be a single man. With over 21 Million inhabitants and hundreds of bars and restaurants to choose from, going out and meeting single women couldn’t be easier.

Let us focus on the weekend: a single man’s playground. You can let your hair down (if you have any) and paint the town red. If you play your cards right, then it is almost like being a butcher in a meat market: the pick is easy, singles are everywhere and people are out to have fun but it depends on what you are looking for.



The first question you need to ask yourself before going out is “What am I looking for?” Are you looking to meet lots of singles, find your future wife or maybe just something casual? Going out with a game plan is essential. Just like productive people in plan their work and life in general, you need to set goals for your dates or nights out, and stay focused on what you want to achieve. Here are 10 tips on how to get a girlfriend in Lagos:

1. Loosen Up
For some people it’s natural to smile, say hello and chat with everyone.

Whatever you’re doing and wherever you are, you need to always remember that your main focus should be on happiness, open mindedness and meeting as many people as possible. At the end of the day, the more people you know, the more chances you’ll meet their single friends. Being a happy, friendly person will always win you friends and attract attention from the opposite s-3x.

For some people it’s natural to smile, say hello and chat with everyone. But for most singles you need to constantly be aware of it and take action. One good tip is to think of a really happy time in your life and keep repeating it through your mind. Your face and body will instantly lighten up and other people will see your joy shine through even when you’re not saying a word. Remember, body language is very important!

2. No Cheating
Far too many people think they are ready for a committed relationship, when in retrospect they are not.

What are you looking for?

Continue reading here >>> http://lovefac3..com.ng/2016/05/tips-to-get-girlfriend-without-spending.html