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You may think you are not ready, but when certain circumstances arise, you may have to make a decision that involves choosing between your single status and the one you love.
Doesn't matter if you are in your twenties, thirties, forties or fifties and still single, you'll find that one person who'll make you want to sacrifice your single status and spend the rest of your life with them.

Compiled by Huffington Post, here are a few signs that you have met 'the one' and are ready for marriage:

1. Having kids with this person isn't terrifying to you.

2. You are comfortable with doing pretty much everything around them and wouldn't think twice about your actions.

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When a relationship grows stale, couples tend to believe something is wrong: Maybe I chose the wrong partner. Maybe my partner doesn’t care about me. But consider this: What if there isn’t anything wrong? What if this is just a speed bump in the normal course of a long-term relationship?


Some couples come in saying things such as
“Our relationship feels empty.”
“There’s no spark left.”
“We don’t hate each other. Our relationship just feels flat.”
"There's no magic left."

One thing I have found over time, both personally and professionally as a blogger and relationship expert is to talk about the start of the relationship what attracted both of you to each other.

Every couple’s story is unique: You may have overcome great odds to be together. You may have disliked each other initially, but then something changed. Or you may have fallen in love at first sight, feeling amazed that someone could understand you so well. Maybe you both came from backgrounds full of pain, and were surprised to be nurtured. All of these stories tell us about the foundations of a relationship, and depict the miracle of intimacy.
So what does remembering your own love story has to do with today?

First, it can take a brick out of the wall that may be separating you and your partner. Even one brick removed weakens the wall, allowing room for love to return.

Second, remembering can give you clues (or reminders) about the strengths in your relationship, strengths that you can build on.

Third, remembering can provide you with hope and motivation. Reminding yourselves that your relationship was previously fulfilling helps to point you in the right direction.
It’s easy to forget how hard you worked to build your relationship in the first place. It may seem like it happened magically, but it didn’t: You created the magic, detail by detail. You formed the special bond by paying attention to each other with the intense focus that characterizes falling in love.

The following are 16 questions I have set up to prompt couples to share their story. Even secure couples will benefit from this exercise. You can jot down answers to share with your partner, or use them as a starting point for conversation. Also: Even if your partner doesn’t want to do this with you, it can still be helpful for you to think about.

1. How did you meet?

2 What first attracted you to your partner?

3. What did you do on your first date?

4. When did you know this relationship could be something special?

5. What made you think the relationship could be special?


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How long you should last depends on a whole lot of things including sexual chemistry with your partner, how long it takes her to orgasm, how much pre-intimacy time you put in, etc.


A lot of men out there worry that they are not lasting long enough in the bedroom to the satisfaction of their partner. They wonder if there is a specifically alloted time range for how long is too short or too long. The short answer is, there isn't.
How long you should last depends on a whole lot of things including sexual chemistry with your partner, how long it takes her to orgasm, how much pre-intimacy time you put in, etc. Your main focus is her pleasure, and not the clock. If she is leaving the sex session feeling satisfied, then you are doing well. But how do you know that she is not satisfied? Read on.

1. Still very wet

Wetness down there is a sign of arousal in women. It usually begins gradually and tapers off as things go on. The wetter she is, the more aroused she is. If by the time you come, she is still as wet as ever down there, then you finished way to fast and it's time to head on to Plan B....Continue Reading Here >>> http://lovefac3..com.ng/2016/06/how-to-know-you-are-finishing-too-fast.html#more

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finalboss1:
all this useless gurls nor dey hear this words again ... its ur pocket

Yes a good pocket is necessary, but sweet words like this work 2gether for good...most ppl have all the money in the world but are always confused wen it comes to dropping a line for a woman...

If you have ever thought of what to tell your girlfriend to make relationship stronger here is a list to help you boost that relationship, you may show your love and care through actions on every single day. But that is not enough! In the long run, to keep your girl happy and satisfied, often you have to appreciate her by telling some cute things from your heart. Who would hate appreciation? Verbalizing your love through sugary coated words is like adding salt content to the final meal. Without that secret ingredient, the whole meal would become tasteless.


There are many things cute things to say to your girlfriend beyond the sweetest words “I Love You”. No matter whether you two are living far apart or you both are living together, telling these sweet things can make her feel happy and flattened. Not every word you say can win the heart of your girl, but rightly placed words can do wonders. Given below is a list of “70 cute and romantic things to say to your girlfriend”. Bring up these pickup lines at a right time and win her heart.

Cute Things To Say To Your Girlfriend

1. You are looking gorgeous today just like every other day.

2. How do you look amazing all the time?.

3. It must be difficult for you to be around metals because you attract me always.

4. I can stare at you all round the clock forgetting to blink my eyes forever. But I would still feel like it is not enough.

5 .I can’t wait any further to spend the rest of my life with you.

6. You could have chosen any guy in this world, but still you chose me.

7. I wish my arms could find you when I Wake up.

8. You are the only girl I love in this whole world now, but there would be another girl in about five She would be calling you “MOMMY.”

9.I like to freeze the moments when I’m with you, but even an hour flies past like a second.

10.The way you look at my eyes when every time I bade goodbye makes it really hard for me to walk away from you.

11. Do not change yourself even a bit, because I just love the way you are now.

12. You gave me a thirst to become a better man so that I can be worthy of your love.

13. I wanna kiss every bit of you literally.

14. You make me excited like a child at the theme park.

15.Hugging my pillow, I think of you and spending my every night.

16. I wouldn’t tolerate the pain of missing you when you are not around. Can you stay little longer?

17. Of all the things I have in my life, you are the one thing that makes me feel fortunate.

18. I am the happiest person on the planet when you are with me.

19. I treasure every inch of you. I will not give even a bit of you to anyone.

20.I didn’t believe the concept of soul mate until I see you.

21. When every time I feel low, I just close my eyes and think of you!.

22.I guess we are like swans; we are always meant to be together.

23. The whole world may cry seeing me beside It’s not my fault. Everything is fair in love and war.

24.You are pretty as a peacock, cute as a rabbit, cuddly as a kitten, chirpy as a lovebird, to put it straight you are just amazing.

25.You make every other girl feel so inferior.

26.You must be the god’s masterpiece. He must have wondered when he finished creating you.

27. I feel a racing heart beat when every time I see you!.

28. I love you more than you could ever Imagine.

29. I am afraid I would go crazy If I ever lost you.

30. We must have lived as the perfect couple in another life too because I feel the intimacy right from our first sight...Need more

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Relationships are a tricky business. If the goals, motivations, and expectations of both people involved don’t mesh well together, the whole affair is doomed to go down in flames. As easy as it is to shrug it off and blame it on the other person, there are certain things everyone needs to accomplish in their own life before they can be a good partner. If you want your next relationship to be better than your last one, tick off the eight items on this list before checking out another dating website.


Become Who You Want to Be

Step one is to ask yourself if you are the person you wanted to be growing up. What attitudes do you admire in other people? What are your personal weaknesses? Make a list if you have to of all the personality traits you would like to have and get to work cultivating them. Practice makes perfect.

Create an Amazing Life

If you aren’t excited about the life you are living why would anyone else want to be a part of it? Do things that make you happy and get you excited for each new day. Find things to look forward to and share them with the people around you. If your life looks like enough fun, odds are you won’t need to go looking for love. It will beat a path to your door.

Find Your Passion

Part of creating an amazing life is finding at least one thing you can be really passionate about. Maybe you love exploring the outdoors. Maybe it is art that really gets you excited. Whatever it is, identify it and make it as big a part of your life as you can.

Leave the Past in the Past

Everyone has had things happen to them that they would rather forget, but not everyone has baggage. Memories only become baggage if you dwell on them and refuse to move on. Learn to let go of the people who are no longer in your life and forget the ones who let you down. Move on and set your sights on the horizon.

Get Organized

When you feel like you are in control of your life you will be more confident and more attractive. Organize everything. Clean your house. Clean your car. Trim down your Facebook friends list. No one wants to be in a relationship with a panicky scatterbrain and odds are if you are one you have a hard time relaxing. Get it together, man.

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Julietcutie:
comparing other relationships with yours is one big relationship mistake to avoid

Good one u have der...

Diddyydiva:
* Asking for too much in a relationship

* Being overly possessive

*Cold treatment


And lots more....



Nice write up op

Tanx, "Nice Additions u have der"

So you have gotten past the initial dating stage and are now in a “relationship.” This can be the best or worst part of your life depending on how you proceed. I am coming at this topic with a five year (and counting) relationship with many highs and lows. Learn from my mistakes and triumphs and do not fall into these common relationship mistakes.

1. Losing the romance in the relationship is one of the key reasons why relationships fail.

It is easy to become complacent and slack on making an effort for romance. The truth is, relationships are work. Not that you won’t have any fun along the way, but you need to remember it takes a focused effort to be romantic with your partner.

2. Trying to control our significant other.

Many of us either have control issues or things that the other person does that drive us crazy. Both of these scenarios can lead to us wanting to control or comment on every move the other person makes. Think about it though, would you like someone telling you what to do every waking minute? You are not this person’s parent. If he/she is a grown adult, treat them like one

3. Expecting perfection.

We are all human. We all make mistakes. Do not hold your significant other to some unrealistically high expectation. This is especially hard for those of us who hold unrealistically high expectations for ourselves, but that’s another topic altogether.

4. Avoiding confrontation.

Fighting is not the way most of us want to spend our time, so it can be tempting to just brush all of the problems under the rug. The flaw with that plan is that the problems collect and multiply. This will ultimately end up in an explosive argument, or a parting of ways with the other person baffled as to what went wrong. Communication is huge in any relationship and should not be avoided.

5. Fighting about everything.

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Cutehector:
sometimes people read meanings into things... I could tell her I need sometime alone and she'll be like ooh, i'm now disturbing him.. alryt.. dah kind of thing.


Duno if u get it.

yeah, i get u very well...it's because she must have had a bad experience related to that statement with an ex if u know what i mean, if u nid sometime alone it must be for a genuine reason and it must be clearly explained, else it will be observed as u wanting to pull out of the relationship stylishly

Cutehector:
yea dats tru...



But why do people think because someone doesn't chat with them anymore, they feel the person dislikes them or smth. Wats ur opinion on that?


Let's say u happen to stop talkin with a lady and she keeps on pestering you abt what went wrong, what will u have to tell her to calm her down

Its not entirely a ladies thing men too ask for explanations when you suddenly stop calling, texting, n chatting etc like b4...it might jst be that u r passing tru a phase in ur life n need sometime alone which is normal, but it will do a lot of good if u explained things to her instead of keeping her in the dark.

Cutehector:
Silent treatment!

Saying “nothing is wrong”, Staying silent wen you need to clear the air is wrong, because it will push u away over time.

bqlekan:
There will always a time when you have to walk away. I will say, "Know when to walk away"

Even in relationships that worked there were always opportunities for each partner to walk away...so it all depends

ForeverYoung197:
How would I know anyway if I'm in the state of "serious relationship" ?

When you guys start thinking long term....you know u r in a serious relationship

Relationships can be tricky and they almost all come with some challenges. If you're lucky, you'll notice the red flags before they become too serious. There are the obvious ones, such as emotional, verbal or physical abuse, that are automatic grounds for ending things. And a lot of drama (yelling, crying, continuous bickering, roller coaster emotions) rarely indicates a happy union.


But then there are the less obvious mistakes. The ones that, if left ignored or uncorrected, cause strain and could even ruin your happily ever after. If you are guilty of one or several of the eight below, don't panic. All relationships involve learning and growing. Recognize where you can make improvements and then get to it.

1. Saying “nothing is wrong”

Some issues or insults can seem so obvious that you can't imagine your partner not realizing they did something wrong. So rather than discussing the problem, you stay silent and sulk about how they don't seem to care that you are upset. When asked, “What's wrong?” it's so much easier and less painful to say “nothing.” It's a momentary band-aid, but the problem remains. You either stay angry and resentful, or you move on and sweep the unresolved issue under the rug, which only gives it the opportunity to arise days, weeks, or months later with even greater ugliness.

2. Walking away

This should not be confused with giving each other space. Taking a breather to calm down or clear your head during an argument is a good thing. If you want to leave, ask your partner if you can take a few minutes to collect your thoughts—kind of like hitting the pause button. But cutting the conversation off because you're done is unfair play. “Never walk away, That sets a standard. Then the next time you argue, you'll need to walk away and slam the door behind you to prove your point. The next time you'll walk away, slam the door behind you and never come back.” Her point is that allowing this type of behavior once makes it easier to up the ante every time. Don't allow yourself to succumb to that slippery slope. Grit your teeth, swallow your pride, and finish the discussion.

3. Reacting on emotion

This is the hardest one for most women, is the fact that they are emotional, they like to express their feelings openly, positive or negative, as soon as they feel them. take this example, when Stella started dating her now husband, she would tell him right away when she was upset. Sometimes it was a good thing, but most times she made assumptions and reacted on those assumptions. one night was her breakthrough moment: They were watching TV and he was checking his Facebook on his computer when she saw over his shoulder that a certain ex of his had messaged him. Unlike usual, she resisted the urge to say something. she took a deep breath and decided to give it a night. The next morning he told her about the message on his own accord. By taking a step back, she had avoided a completely unnecessary fight born of emotion and assumptions.

4. Comparing your partner to an ex

The human mind naturally looks for patterns. When we experience a situation that's even remotely similar to something from our past, we draw conclusions based on that past experience. This is how we improve our lives and learn, after all. But when it comes to relationships, this logic can be detrimental. For example, let's say your ex took a long time to return your calls when he/she was losing interest in the relationship....Continue Reading Here >>> http://lovefac3..com.ng/2016/06/things-to-avoid-when-you-are-in-serious.html

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While saying “I love you” is essential, so are other phrases, each with their own positive ripple effects in your relationship. Here are seven things ladies want to hear more than “I love you.”


1. “I’m proud of you.”
When you finish that last bite of a healthy salad instead of your usual doughnut or kick b*tt at your work project, the best thing your man can do is swell with pride and express just how he thinks you rock. Knowing you impressed yourself is great in-and-of itself—but blowing his mind is a new level of awesome.............

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Marriage is about supporting your spouse - For better or for worse. There are going to be those days that are definitely worse than others. Because marriage doesn’t come with an instruction book, a husband can often be left in the dark when it comes to knowing how to comfort his wife on the days she is grumpy.


As a wife of nearly 15 years lets us into her experience on marriage, she had plenty grumpy days, and although she may not speak for every woman, I think she have a fair idea of what a woman needs when she’s not having a spectacular day. Here are the top five things you can do to help your wife’s day go better.

1. Hug her

The power of touch is vital to any healthy marriage. When someone you love gives you a hug, oxytocin hormone is released, helping to relieve stress and anxiety levels. This means that when you are holding your wife close, you are actually providing her with the physical remedy she needs to feel better. In addition to this, you are showing your love for her without saying anything at all. Chances are, she will greatly appreciate your silent service and your ability to ease her burden by giving her exactly what she needs.

2. Listen to her

The key word in this action is listen, not fix. Most often, a woman is capable of fixing her own problems. She just needs someone to talk things through with. A woman doesn’t need a man galloping in on a white horse to rescue her from her difficulties, she just needs someone to listen and acknowledge why she’s grumpy and why her day was so hard.

3. Compliment her

If your wife is having a tough day, one of the best things you can do is help her see the good in herself. If you don’t know a lot about women, let me share a secret with you. We are harder on ourselves than anyone else. When we are having bad days, we are most likely beating ourselves up inside, focusing on the things we didn’t do, the things we can’t do and the things we failed at. We are comparing ourselves to women whom we believe are goddesses in both beauty and skill, and it is a cycle that we have a hard time breaking, especially when we’re in a funk. The best thing you can do is help your wife see her strengths, focus on her beauty and accentuate the good.


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To prevent preg nan cy naturally without a co ndom, one thing you can do is to get a copper T. Women who want to prolong motherhood and enjoy their s ex lives can turn to this method. However, there are possible chances that you will not be able to conceive. The other possible way to prevent preg nan cy without a co ndom is to for the woman to consume the pill. Here again, the side effects are in number and one should consume the pill often.


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sinaj:
@ no 2, wot if d guy has okpolo eyes

Lols Funny you.... dats not the point ugly ppl get married right

Usually it’s the guy chasing the girl, that’s how history has unfolded for men. A guy sees a stunning woman and essentially joins a queue of dozens of other men all wanting the same woman.
If you’re a woman and you’re pretty, you will be rewarded with countless men, gifts, amazing nights out, free drinks and basically a pretty easy life.
But for men… that’s a whole different story. When was the last time you heard a story about a beautiful woman chasing a normal guy? It’s unheard of.


Well, guess what? It happens to me. Regularly.
I’ll be the first to admit that I’m no David Beckham and I’m certainly by no means… rich. But I have women chasing me all the time. Oh and these women aren’t your average woman, they are gorgeous. Some are even full time models.
Today I want to give you the techniques I use to make this happen. So sit down and listen up, because there’s some very interesting things here that you should start to apply immediately.

1. CONFIDENCE WITH WORDS AND MOVEMENT

Every single word you say, needs to come from a confident and secure place. What I mean is this, you should never say anything to a girl in person, over text, email or instant message that comes from a needy place. Always talk to her like you don’t really give a damn and that you have other options.
Same thing goes for body language and the way you move. Women will pick up on your nervous needy posture if you don’t fix it right away. Who are they more likely to be attracted too… a guy who fidgets, with his head down, while twiddling his thumbs? Or a guy who is looking like a boss… head up, chest out, firm stance etc?

2. USE SEDUCTIVE EYE CONTACT

Women love a man who can look at them straight in the eye and hold it. Some men find this extremely uncomfortable, if that’s you then you need to snap out of it bitch. Women find eye contact very seductive and trustworthy. You can get a lot from the eyes.
I like to use seductive eye contact when those awkward silences come up, so when you’re both sipping on your drink… or she says something like “soooo… this is nice” you should reply with “yes, it is” then keep the eye contact going. It will accelerate the sexual tension.

3. TOUCH HER LIKE A GIRLFRIEND

Imagine for a minute that the girl you’re with is in fact your girlfriend. Strange thought, but just stay with me. Now imagine how you’d touch your girlfriend. Would you be scared of what she might think? Or would you feel natural when touching her, without even second guessing it?
Your answer should be the latter. Don’t be scared to touch girls, just build the touching up. Start with light touches and then build up until you’re hugging her etc.


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What’s the greatest deal breaker when it comes to seeking a partner?
According to the Wall Street Journal, the biggest turn off for both women and men was “disheveled or unclean” followed closely by “lazy” and “too needy.”


A recent series of studies cited in the WSJ opens our eyes to what is happening in the minds of men and women as they contemplate possible relationships. People give more consideration to what’s wrong in a partner than to what is right. Granting more weight to deal breakers pushes people away from focusing on the positive qualities that they are hoping to find in a person.

Here is a list of other top deal breakers: no sense of humor, lacks confidence, talks too much or too little, and watches too much t.v./videogames. Women had more nonstarters and a sense of humor was more crucial. Men found “talks too much” to be a deal breaker and they preferred not to date a woman smarter than they are.

Where Do We Draw The Line?

How do you know if you’re being overly picky or not picky enough? Many singles are faced with these questions.
Of course we need to feel attraction. Relationships cannot be built while feeling repulsed. But I wonder how many singles are zeroing in on a negative, feeling overwhelmed, and not allowing themselves to see the positive in a future partner. This nature of directing our gaze to that which bothers us often blurs our vision. A wonderful person is struck from the list because we were not able to look past the way he dresses or how she does her hair. While people can update their clothing and redo their hair style, it is much more difficult to reshape character.

It is necessary to think about what really matters in life. What kind of person is this? What have you learned about his temper, his patience, her compassion and ability to listen when you speak? Is he able to turn off his iPhone and make time for you? Are they kind or judgmental to the people in their lives? Can they commit and be trusted when they take on a job or responsibility?
For husbands and wives reading this article, it is important to recognize that we, too, can get stuck on negatives like ‘a few extra pounds’ or ‘balding’ as years pass. Forgetting the positive qualities that brought us to love in the first place removes the appreciation we thought we would forever hold sacred within our hearts. Instead, we gripe, even look down with disdain, at our partners. The path to taking each other for granted is now cultivated. We begin to grow apart.


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ForeverYoung197:
So, you are a professional dating coach but let me guess. You are still single.

NO

You’ve heard of the definition of insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.

I have no doubt that men and dating have driven you mad before.
“Why does he look at my profile but never write to me?”
“Why does he hook up with me but not want to be my boyfriend?”
“Why does he tell me he loves me but treats me so poorly?”
These mixed messages are the hardest thing to take – and it’s hard to find any measure of objectivity when the subject is so close to home.
But I have to admit something that’s hard for me to say out loud:
Sometimes it feels like You’re going crazy, too.


As a dating coach, you know exactly what to expect when you post something on your blog, or share a quote on Facebook – and yet you are always surprised when you rub people the wrong way.
Sometimes the very the people we love – the very people we’ve devoted our life to – often have a negative reaction to our advice. And it’s always the same exact story.
I post something really positive about finding a quality, trustworthy man who makes a consistent effort to make you feel safe, heard and understood…

Within seconds, I receive comments like:
“Men are pigs!”
“You can’t trust guys at all!”
“There’s no such thing as unconditional love!”

As a trustworthy guy and a dating coach who has helped various people find love, I tend to take such false statements personally.

But I shouldn’t....

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Be careful where you decided to enjoy your sexual pleasures. Because what is perceived as fun could infact turn into a total nightmare.


What was the most unusual place you made love at? This couple decided that the sea sex would be a nice thing to do. Plus, they took it public and started making out with lots of people on the beach and swimming in the sea. What happened next is embarrassing and striking!


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When you’re on a date, no matter who she is, women want your attention. Here are five tools to help you show her that you’re interested, without turning her off.


Your face is public property.

If a picture is worth a thousand words, your face is doing a lot of talking. It’s the most public representation of your feelings. Unless you’re a seasoned actor, your face will tell her all she needs to know without you saying a word. When you’re not feeling it, she can see it. What is particularly challenging is when you’re not sure what you’re feeling – your face shows that too. It’s uncomfortable to be with someone who is still trying to figure out whether or not they like you. Do your best to put on a smile and enjoy your time together. Even if there is no second date, it’s still worth being present and enjoying your current date.

Show that you’re listening.

When she is talking, really listen to her. This isn’t an easy task. Active listening is experiencing what she is saying, taking her words, thoughts and feelings in. Just nodding along as she talks is not so satisfying. Move more than your head; get your whole body language involved. For example, if she says something you connect to, perhaps you can lean in as if to say, “Tell me more.” While you don’t want to be too intense, try not to space out. Women want to know you are really paying attention. She may not call you out for your inattention on a date, but she will likely say no to a second date if she feels you are more interested in your surroundings – or your phone – than in her.

Ask the right way.

How you ask questions is equally important to what you ask. If you say, in a hurried tone, “So what do you most enjoy about being a speech therapist?”…it may not show your interest. It could even sound accusatory, as if you’re asking “How could someone choose that job?” However, asking, “So, tell me, what do you most enjoy about being a speech therapist?”will be perceived very differently. Notice the commas. You want to have natural pauses in your speech. Asking a good question and slowing down your rate of speech shows interest. Slowing down your speaking can also help to calm nerves and relax both of you, bring depth to the moment, and add to your sincere interest.


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1. MYTH: The external matters more than the internal.

FACT: The external does matter, but not more than the internal.

Many people do get rejected due to their “look.” So how can this actually be a myth? Of course first impressions are important, and yes, people do reject the external sometimes before ever seeing the internal. However, there is more to this story.
How many divorced beautiful women or handsome men do you meet? Many, right? If external beauty mattered more than internal beauty, then good-looking people wouldn’t get divorced.


Beautiful people become ugly because of what they say or who they are. They are objectively beautiful on the outside...until they open up their mouths. Or until you see a roll of their eyes which shows their lack of patience or understanding.
Or how about the reverse? How many happily married people do you know who you consider to be not good-looking? This sounds like a funny thing to say, but if the physical appearance mattered more than inside, then only the best-looking people would be in relationships.
What matters more in a relationship? Looks, or the ability to resolve conflict, the desire to give, patience, respect, loyalty and love? I would go so far as to say that even when talking about the externals, the most important part, even more than the clothes and the looks, is the body language. A smile from someone “ugly” is more beautiful than a scowl from a “beauty.”
Both the internal and the external matter. Your job is to find someone whom you value both inside and out. But the inside absolutely matters more in a relationship.


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Because the little things count, people.
What are the keys to a happy and successful relationship? Laughter? Financial stability? Friendship? Communication?


These all seem like things that are important, but researcher John Gottman has been studying married couples for the last two decades and the lesson from the research is clear: If you want to have a stable and healthy relationship, exercise kindness early and often.
Kindness means you're being friendly, generous and considerate. Evidence shows the more someone receives or witnesses kindness, the more they are kind themselves, which leads to upward spirals of love and generosity in a relationship.

There are times when being kind is hard. When you’re angry or upset, kindness is not at the top of your list, but acting in this way consistently is the key to a happy and successful relationship.

It’s important to keep in mind that being kind isn’t about the big gestures once in a while. Kindness is found in the details, and when it's practiced daily, your relationship will thrive and grow.

If you need a regular reminder, here are 20 ways to practice kindness for a happy and successful relationship.

1. Don't put your partner down.

2. Pick up his/her favorite flowers, candy or take-out.

3. Respect your partner’s view of the world.

4. Laugh together as much as possible.

5. Give your undivided attention when your partner speaks.

6. Ask if your partner needs anything when you're at the store.

7. Make breakfast on the weekend.

8. Think before you speak.

9. Smile when your partner walks through the door.

10. Encourage your partner through his/her hard days.


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I've heard people completely disappear after what they claim was the most amazing sex they've ever had.

I know some guys stick around even if the girl is "bitchy" or "psycho" just because the girl is super hot and great in bed. Well...


What I don't get is that if she decidedly NOT "bitchy" or "psycho" - instead she fun-loving, cheerful, optimistic, friendly, have a good job and LOTS of hobbies and other pursuits (so she not at all clingy or desperate), why doesn't the "great in bed" part help seal the deal?

Why on EARTH would he walk away from mind-blowing sex? I mean, he personally, SHOULDN’T! Especially if who the guy is having the mind-blowing sex with is fun, charismatic, and they share common interests.

If you've ever had your heart broken, I'm going to give it to you straight. While every breakup happens differently, a lot of guys tend to come up with the same reasons. If we really think about it, it can't ALWAYS be something that the guys did ... can it? Of course, this doesn't fit every instance of a breakup, and this doesn't apply to every woman but it does leave us wondering. Check out these ten reasons why he may have broken up with you after sex.

1. Women don't listen. When a man says something, give him a chance to speak. Listen to what he says. The problem is that sometimes, guys will end up with someone who makes him feel as though he doesn't know what he's talking about. We're not always right, but we do have opinions, and it gets under our skin when we're made to feel like our opinion doesn't matter. Who wants to stay with someone like that?

2. Women listen to their friends too much. We understand the need for female friendship. We can go with the girls' night out deal. But when you start letting your single girlfriends (who constantly run guys off or haven't dated since antenna TV) get into the business of your relationship, that's asking for trouble. You want to think that your man has a mind of his own when he's out with the guys, right? We're no different. We expect you to talk to your girlfriends, even if it's about us. Just be careful what you decide to bring back from those conversations.


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