MPESA:


Don't mind that guy , newly admitted Jss 1 student will be challenging an out going seniors of sss3 or 2 .... No so everyone go dey make mouth for faceless forum.

ahmedzippa:
You don't have to show the whole world you are a feminist. Go and tell that to your children. Tell them.
"My beautiful daughters, do what you like with your body when you grow up. Okay."

ahmedzippa:
She should go and announce this in Kaduna or Kano.

But God didn't give her the breast to cover. Mumu. She should just open the two breast sef make we see.
Rubbish

descarado:
We beat cos we don't know how to communicate with our kids. Create soured relationships between parents and kids in the future and the cycle continues..


Kids nowadays are very outspoken. U can't silence them with beating and most times if u are patience enough to listen and assimilate, they make better argument than you. How a child should talk back at you is the problem.

U will have a friend if u see your child as a friend and confidant. Look at our society. Our parents beat the hell out of us. Are we better. We are very aggressive, lack patience and inherently wicked. These traits were formed when we were young. Thanks to beating and constant unnecessary nagging.

bizme:
Allow me to disagree with you on this. If we are to look at it objectively the oyibos have much better society using both economic and morality parameters to judge. So if we copy the good aspects of their life, it wouldn't be a bad idea at all.

Secondly, I don't think immorality is increasing everyday in our society like you have put it. Instead the ready access to the internet makes it easy for us to learn about things we wouldn't otherwise have known. Neither do I believe that this generation is worse than the previous. Our fathers and mothers and people before them were part of equally immoral generation, they simply like to be hypocritical when talking about the younger generation. Just like many of us might also feel like telling our kids that their generation is unnecessarily permissive morally speaking. It is all a lie. Our parents did their own kind of atrocities in their time, they were not saints.

Back to the oyibos, without flogging kids they somehow manage to produce more empathic and more human human beings that build the society. We continue to lay claim on a higher morality in our society yet we keep churning out terrorists, yahoo-yahoo, and corrupt individuals year in year out. It isn't a bad idea to copy their style of raising up kids.
I support this...beating hardly instills morals in children, it's just a way to vent out their anger and frustration

bizme:
I have been involved in quite a number of discussions and debates of this nature where some believe that the only way to bring up children is by beating them. Others believe the opposite is true. I was brought up by parents who considered heavy handedness as a parental virtue and they never spared the rod in dealing with us... I have noticed the same pattern in our educational setting where teachers prefer to communicate their emotion via the cane.
I personally think most of such beating comes from parents' and teachers' inability to rein in their temper, rather than the genuine interest in the child's well being.

I have my little children, and it is not difficult to talk things over with them, and even set up disciplinary measures that don't involve beating.

Looking back over your shoulders, would you say the kind of beating-filled/beating-devoid upbringing you received has affected your relationship with your parents? And would you accept teachers to beat your children anyhow?

I believe I am posting this in the right section.

Gyong:


Then no buy market. If the boy reported to the authority and they did nothing then I ll second. Six years in boarding school, infact a government secondary school, I never gave any senior the opportunity to maltreat me. U slap me, I go straight to the no nonsense house master and report. He punished them mercilessly, you give me better beating, I go straight to the principal office. Assembly beating is your lot and if extreme, the are suspended. I was a kid with guts, hated by all the seniors but could not do a thing to me cos I held them by their balls. They threatened him and he yielded. Either ways how the management handle the case after it was revealed determined if the school is safe for. Kids.

ModestGal:

People like you are the reason why I know Nigeria cannot be better, look at the trash you spewed. So because you were able to fight your seniors and the innocent boy wasn't strong enough means its no big deal? Did God create your fingers equally? Are we equal in strength? Both emotional and physical?

And how can a single person fight 10people and win them? Also, they are his seniors, You were lucky to have your master a good person, some people don't have such understanding master

In fact, you need treatment

danniyal:
This marriage won't last.

DEMZEE:



Now u don't confuse women's rights with feminism

They are both different ideologies entirely

DEMZEE:


Yes she must not be shamed or belittled for wanting to but she should feel joyful in wanting to cos it is her feminine nature to want to

DEMZEE:


You are right feminist has evolved into something so insensible and unrealistic. I'm strongly against 3rd wave feminist.

Women's Rights is liberalism while Feminism is Progressivism

Human beings are not equal so I don't understand how male and female can be equal

Women's rights fought for equity and not equality, feminism is fighting for equality and not equity

Equity is giving people equal playing field to showcase their talents and competency amongst others

Equality is allowing affirmative actions and doesn't necessarily need competency

DEMZEE:


Wats bad in a woman washing Clothes for her man and doing the house chores if she's working or not

DEMZEE:


Please don't sugar coat feminism abeg

Feminism can and will never b a norm as long as we have conservatives like me around

I am all for women's rights but strongly detest feminism with my all!!!!

cooooooks:
Who is 'they'?

If you are always meeting these 'they', change your environment.

kelvinrhs:


Your username fits your description

Will really love to be friends with a Angel in a human body


Hope you don't mind

Can I drop my phone number �

Dshocker:


Angelina abi na Angelica,You really made a point here,but when you look at those that have made decisions since the creation of the world,you will know that God placed men first and later gave him companion........Nne both traditionally and modern day constitution of the federal republic of Nigeria,a woman must come after a man.

CHoccolaTE:


Nice write up
Nigerian women should work to give themselves economic power and not to earn the the respect of men because a lot of Nigerian men don't apply common sense when it comes to giving women credit for work done, that is why young rich successful women are often called prostitutes that slept their way to the top or accused of having sugar daddies that fund their lifestyles.