Romance › Re: This Is The Work I Do For A Living Please Don’t Take My Work Elsewhere (picture) by IamAsiri: 2:26pm On May 26, 2023 |
nairalander2020: Too close to be a trainer those two be forking already on affairs mode. And how sure are you that she's not either his fiancee or his wife? |
Travel › Re: Emdee Tiamiyu In Nigeria Police Uniform Before He Left For The UK (Throwback) by IamAsiri: 7:20pm On May 25, 2023 |
[quote author= post=123364145]Quote : What's all these? As if the UK Government is oblivious to it. The UK already has the statistics. Nigerians aren't even the most populous migrants in UK. Indians and Pakistanis are doing this more than Nigerians and the UK Government knows it.
Addendum : The guy could have just held his opinion with tact and moved on, since the UK Government had already decided on the issue We Rise.
You are right. You have a good point here[/quote]The UK government was of course looking for who else to blame to justify the decision they already made instead of owning up to their decision with their full chest. It was unfortunate that the guy did not bridle his tongue and allowed the "video fixers" to "fix" and use him. |
Travel › Re: Picture Of Emdee Tiamiyu On His Way To UK In September 2022. by IamAsiri: 10:54am On May 25, 2023 |
NoToPile: Loool.
I am so indifferent about this matter.
What I do find very surprising is people thinking it's this guy's interview that made the UK revise their immigration policy, what kind of reasoning is that? We all know the truth. They only used his utterances to justify their revision of which he was prepped to utter, or why would you think someone who just got into the country less than a year got hand-picked for an interview by BBC. Of course, they preyed on his stupidity as it wasn't a random interview - it was pre-planned. |
Properties › Re: Tenant In Shock After Lagos Landlord Passed Toilet Pipe Through His Apartment by IamAsiri: 3:02pm On May 24, 2023 |
Waffarianman: D,s 1 good na, mine after paying for rent at Opic estate agbara I discovered 4 flat including my are using just 1 prepaid meter. Complained to the landlord that I can't use a single prepaid meter with other flats that I need my personal own he said NO. My neighbour's are not saying anything that they've been like that for years... I kukuma keep silent after my rents expired within a year I packed out of the house no time for quarrel So, you prefer this to sharing prepaid meter with three other tenants? |
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Family › Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by IamAsiri: 6:15pm On May 21, 2023 |
234GT: He is not talking about beating up his inlaws. He is talking about calling a spade a spade. What is bad is bad. There is no reason a MIL will choose to choke her daughters home. You can only try this with broke men. You are saying this because you didn't follow our conversations right from the very beginning. Anyway, I am tired of over-flogging this issue. You all have the right to insult your MILs the way you like because she has "disrespected" you. Peace out✌️. |
Politics › Re: What Ganduje, Masari Discussed In Leaked Audio (Full Transcript) by IamAsiri: 6:05pm On May 21, 2023 |
SwissMass: Waste of time, it is height of mischief, Peter girigory Obi and his miscreants at work, how will the two speak English rather than their language So, you don't know the meaning of transcript? |
Family › Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by IamAsiri: 9:49pm On May 20, 2023 |
ZIMDRILL: am not a religous person
You how we differ, i dont resolve issues by beating people, i talk and irregardless of who you are, i rather say what i feel and dealt with, that dying inside with anger
one of the reason why black africans we suffet from things like BP is anger not being allowed to talk simply becoz this person is an elder this and that Okay |
Family › Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by IamAsiri: 9:27pm On May 20, 2023 |
ZIMDRILL: if my boss wrong me personal level, i will respond on personal level, if its about work it would be different
lets not try to protect bad habit of in laws and suffer simply becoz you are daughteor or son i law period
on the bible that one keep to yourself or fellow christians, not everyone uses the bible as a general guidance like you i dont
i will ask you again who supposed to be more mature to avoid such talk irregardless that the message has been passed on nicely or not ?
Even married people, sometimes hubby or wife s/he will go and see friends. Meaning even married couple they give each other space
Learn to be missed so that u will be always welcome and to be always there and people end up being tired with u Hence the reason why I wrote "other religions". I am a Christian, so that is the only thing I can quote. See, I have tried making you see light of what I am talking about. No more abeg! If you so wish to beat up your parents/in-laws in future because they are disobedient and disrespectful, then...  . |
Family › Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by IamAsiri: 7:08pm On May 20, 2023 |
ZIMDRILL: and the mother in law everyday visits ? You still do not get it. If your boss wrongs you at work, do you talk to him/her anyhow? It also doesn't mean that you can't show your displeasure either; that's where diplomacy comes in. Some people have put themselves into trouble physically and spiritually because of lack of tact. As a Christian, the Bible says, "let your words be seasoned with salt" and I am sure that other religions will be of the same belief. Nabal (Abigail's husband) was smoten by God because he spoke stupidly to David. David wanted to destroy him by himself before but stopped. Unfortunately, nowadays, some will not stop at any length to destroy people, all because of the way those people addressed them - which could have been avoided with just being diplomatic (saying the very same thing in a much different and subtle manner). |
Family › Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by IamAsiri: 6:56pm On May 20, 2023 |
eben97: hello ma, what is bad will always be bad, despite your generation seem to be upturning evil for good. W all need be well cultured and mannered on in the public pls.For the fact you do not have direct contact with a person shouldn't make you mannerless and careless with words.Words are powerful you sure know that,and the way and manner you manage them depict who you truely are, whatever you have not counting . The OP was wrong, the man was wrong and you were also wrong. You were all wrong. |
Agriculture › Re: My Poultry Journey... by IamAsiri: 7:00am On May 19, 2023 |
Okealaaye: You must be a relation of the foolish farmer who forgot his cutlass at home! Pele. Just take your stupidity out of the Agric section and stop derailing the thread. In a bid to also do that, I will stop replying you and modify other replies myself. Do have a great day. |
Agriculture › Re: My Poultry Journey... by IamAsiri: 4:27am On May 19, 2023*. Modified: 7:01am On May 19, 2023 |
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Agriculture › Re: My Poultry Journey... by IamAsiri: 4:26am On May 19, 2023 |
Okealaaye: The tin pain Omo Eboe big! Interesting! I am Yoruba though - from both sides of my parents in fact! Pele! We Yorubas are not stupid like you are portraying us; only a few of you are. |
Family › Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by IamAsiri: 4:22am On May 19, 2023 |
Skyview01: Did she raise, clothe and shelter the man too.
That house belongs to both the husband and the wife.
I will never live in close proximity with mu in-laws to encourage regular visit.
Na tojubole most of em be.
The dude did nothing wrong by setting boundaries in his home.
The man must have been showing signs of discomfort about the mil's vists which the wife overlooked.
If the wife had observed the mood around the home and cautioned the MIL in the first place, situations wouldn't have escalated.
Imagine my mil wants to sit and talk with my wife for more than 6 hours non stop after the talk, we would go to bed and she would still come knock bedroom door around 11pm.
She will never have access to my home again. Yes, I agree with you that the man did no wrong setting boundaries for his home. It is however the way he has chosen to set these boundaries that is a very big issue here. I am at a loss for words at the way he spoke to not just an elderly person but his own MIL. Some of these young men of nowadays just keep getting dumber and dumber in the name of forming alpha male and redpiller, forgetting where their boundaries lie (I pity the young wife though while still hoping that he is faulted in just few areas sha). |
Family › Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by IamAsiri: 4:12am On May 19, 2023 |
ZIMDRILL: ok lets say he wasnt trained well to address issues, but what do we say about the mother in law? wasnt she also trained well too, everyday visit i wouldnt like them too
The way i see, the fact she is now a mother in law, age and mature wise she should know better. The only reason i would accept for mother in law doing regular visits is when the son in law is loaded and she is coming to enjoy the life style You are obviously not married and definitely still young. I am surprised at these things I am reading on Nairaland. An elderly person is not trained well because she is regularly visiting her daughter? Zimdrill, regular visitation does not indicate training; it only shows one's level of attachment. Being clingy (if at all that's the case here) does not even prove insensitivity. I apologize beforehand but you really need to learn more about wisdom. |
Family › Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by IamAsiri: 4:00am On May 19, 2023 |
ZIMDRILL: there is nothing to use brains for here
lets notr try to protect bad behaviour irregardless how he talked to his mother in law, who should be more matured here ? the mother in law should know better to stay away from the new married
the same applies to my mom, if my mum is regular visiting me my wife will feel abit of an outsider or she being regulary monitored
mother in law should respect the marriage by letting them free So, you wouldn't mind if your wife talked this way to your mum if she did not "respect" the marriage? |
Family › Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by IamAsiri: 9:45pm On May 18, 2023 |
Jovialjune1: Use your brain and understand
Op does not have the right to talk to his mother in law like that, you do not get to be condescending to a woman that gave birth to your wife, because you would not like it if your wife talk to your own mother like that. You wouldn't know if he talks to his mum that same way. He sounds like one of those stupid boys turned men who just had to get married because of age. |
Family › Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by IamAsiri: 9:43pm On May 18, 2023 |
ZIMDRILL: you are missing the point the fact that the guy noticed the regular visits and talked to her it means to him that he is not happy, simple
so yes mother in law is stopping him to enjoy his wife And he wasn't trained well enough to know the best way to address such an issue? He couldn't make light of it and laugh it off while passing the same message to his MIL? He has definitely put his mum into trouble - that's if she's still alive though. If she is, he'd better involve her in the reconciliation process. |
Family › Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by IamAsiri: 9:31pm On May 18, 2023 |
eben97: don't mind that weak soul, how do you go such low with insults on a public forum ??some of us no get sense of decorum both at private and public at all.By Thier fruits we shall identify them.Tje woman is not even your mother and if she is sef, she is over staying her boundaries…she's not showing some restraint in her daughters new home .She is supposed to be very mature about that.No be village marriage o!.Bros sef ought to have relocated out of that territory sefe if the marriage setting is a village to village or intercommunal joining together !! You are calling someone a weak soul but you don't mind speaking ill of OP's MIL. And the OP exclaiming "that's harsh" did not know that his so-called outburst/insult meted out on the poor woman was harsh. |
Family › Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by IamAsiri: 9:20pm On May 18, 2023 |
jaeyking: So when the woman was married was that how her husband's mother always came to check up on him
Learn to let go when your children are married, if your daughter is alone you could come
But when the husband is around try to give them privacy Do you know how they express their love or bleeping And how would you know this? |
Agriculture › Re: My Poultry Journey... by IamAsiri: 9:06pm On May 18, 2023 |
Buddha3: These are the kind of threads that should make it to the front page.
Not when someone will cook palm oil rice with titus fish and upload to nairaland, then fiam, it makes front page..  Threads like this are very good, but food threads too are equally very good. |
Agriculture › Re: My Poultry Journey... by IamAsiri: 9:04pm On May 18, 2023 |
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Agriculture › Re: My Goat Farm Startup (my Diary) by IamAsiri: 4:58pm On May 18, 2023 |
joycluv: I think goats feed on grasses? Not only on grasses. |
Sports › Re: Meet Chinonso Eche, A Nigerian Wonderkid With Four Guinness World Records by IamAsiri: 7:24pm On May 17, 2023 |
teewhydope: This doesn't make any sense though. even though, both are important Means you still don't get it. One will definitely be more celebrated. And I can see that you haven't watched that film, else you would have understood what I was saying. |
Culture › Re: Ooni Of Ife welcomes 6th Wife to Palace (pics) by IamAsiri: 10:16am On May 17, 2023 |
renderme: A doctor. Interesting. That 22yr old young girl left him. Then he got angry and married 6 educated wives. Women will break ur heart I tell u.  7 |
Agriculture › Re: My Goat Broke A Leg by IamAsiri: 8:01pm On May 16, 2023 |
Abojupupa: It's a kid, 3.5 months old. While trying to jump through burglar proof, it's leg got caught and the bone got broken, yes, literally speaking. I've tried to reset the bone and tied the leg. I'm a small scale farmer. What further advice would you offer me? Thanks in anticipation. Just keep watching it. I am not too sure but can you add a little dosage of calcium in its feed to probably increase the healing process? You can also ask around as I am not an authority on this; I just thought about it. |
Sports › Re: Meet Chinonso Eche, A Nigerian Wonderkid With Four Guinness World Records by IamAsiri: 10:02am On May 16, 2023 |
Igboid: You are the one who needs help and you need to get it immediately. The sky is too big and capable of accommodating all stars. Chinonso Eche attained more feats,4! While Hilda got just one that is still under revision by GWR. But Chinonso got no Nationwide publicity, because his parents didn't have access to celebrities or because Chinonso isn't a girl with BBL to show off his big yansh on Instagram and tiktok and draw fans to himself.
Now that the nation is in frenzy of GWR celebration, I'm using the opportunity to bring to the fore, Chinonso Eche and Kipo brothers achievements which dwarves whatever Hilda achieved.
The boys should be publicized and made stars so that they can get endorsements and grow bigger too. You need to go watch "the interns", so you wouldn't keep saying "just one" GWR up and down. A rabbit can give birth to 8 kits in a month and go ahead and give birth to another 8 the following month if it so wishes, but an elephant can only give birth to just one baby in 18 months. If you own the rabbit and the elephant, which animal's birth would be more important to you? Just asking. |
Sports › Re: Meet Chinonso Eche, A Nigerian Wonderkid With Four Guinness World Records by IamAsiri: 9:57am On May 16, 2023 |
Igboid: You are the one who needs help and you need to get it immediately. The sky is too big and capable of accommodating all stars. Chinonso Eche attained more feats,4! While Hilda got just one that is still under revision by GWR. But Chinonso got no Nationwide publicity, because his parents didn't have access to celebrities or because Chinonso isn't a girl with BBL to show off his big yansh on Instagram and tiktok and draw fans to himself.
Now that the nation is in frenzy of GWR celebration, I'm using the opportunity to bring to the fore, Chinonso Eche and Kipo brothers achievements which dwarves whatever Hilda achieved.
The boys should be publicized and made stars so that they can get endorsements and grow bigger too. You are being told the gospel truth! If you felt we all needed to know, why didn't you post this randomly a long time ago? Shows that you are reactionary. |
Politics › Re: Meet Two Nigerian Brothers, Victor And Confidence Kipo With A Combined 10 GWR by IamAsiri: 9:51am On May 16, 2023 |
Igboid: Victor Kipo and Confidence Kipo are brothers from same parents who hail from Akwa-Ibom state. While Victor holds 8 Guinness World Records, Confidence the younger brother holds 2 Guinness World Records both in football freestyling. Both boys are students of Chukwuebuka school of football freestyling that produced Chinonso Eche that holds 4 Guinness World Records as well.
While we celebrate Hilda who will hold only one GWR if ratified by GWR council,we should not forget these boys who first did it and hold multiple awards.
Anambra state government has tried and given Chinonso Eche scholarship. FG should follow suit and give Kipo brothers and Chinonso Eche more commendation. What does have to do with not taking a wink for 4 days and standing on one's feet cooking for the same number of days? Is the lady with the longest tongue not a Guinness world record holder? Does she have to stress herself the way Hilda did? What is being celebrated is more than the record, but the tenacity the lady displayed. I hope you understand and don't dig out a record of someone who killed the highest amount of lizards in comparison (even though that's also a great feat  ). |
Family › Re: UPDATE: Snake In My Roof by IamAsiri: 10:29pm On May 15, 2023 |
Egypt209: Different people have different ways to handle issues. As a Muslim it's very clear what we should do in such circumstances.
You find long big stick or cutlass and face the snake and tell her to leave three times after reciting some verses, if it refuses to leave them just say Bismillah and proceed to kill it.
There's no need embracing new faith because of snake.
Since you drop some lessons after your story, we should also gift you some lessons in case of another time.
Lesson 1: Don't Stay that long thereby putting your family in harms way before acting.
Lesson 2: Make every effort if It means climbing in or getting security cameras, make sure you see what is tormenting you korokoro.
Lesson 3: The fact that your ceiling went quiet doesn't mean, it's dead. It might resurface, therefore tel the cele priest that you want to see it death and not just dissappear into thin air. Which new faith did he embrace? |