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YoungDaNaval:
Is this even possible?

That one is dangerous o. You want to put her on the spot? What would you expect her to write with her husband breathing down her neck? Plus, it's also dangerous not to finalize documentation with dealers before taking the car away from their slot.

Evolutionlove:
Afterall What is good for the goose is also good for the Gander.

Make she sef Feel the heat so she go sabi as e dey be for body

Ndi Alfa Fe-Mail.

Google "women paying child support".

jeromestarks:
What's the problem there?
It's not like the girl is a virgin na.
Any woman who has been fvcked and mounted by many men should not complain about someone touching her indecently: her body has already lost all form of decency.

How can a public toilet complain of indecent usage?

Marry a virgin woman or you will train another man's children thinking they are yours.
Never commit to a non virgin, else, you're commiDEAD.

Don't suffer to pay bride price, sponsor wedding ceremony and take care of inlaws just to have a woman who another man fvcked with just two eggs and indomie.

You sound stupid everytime.

Aremwayne:
I lost a friend too

So sorry for your loss.

helinues:
May? When we are in August

Alase🙄

Emeskhalifa:
Do you buy a car without testing it?

Do you test your house before packing into it? Marriage is not like a car that moves around, but a house that stays in one place.

omooba969:
@bolded,
Delusion at its finest.

Will you give the same advice if the man were your blood brother or biological son?

Honest answer please!

Not everybody is wicked or unrealistic.

frozen70:
I think the problem here is you not the guy

These are my assessments

You are talking about bride price when you are in a pitiable condition that you regard as marriage, whereas the guy and his family has no regards for you to so what will be the value of bride price being paid to tye you down for nothing

For seven years you stick to a man with no future and you don't know the exit route or are you under a spell

Your son can be taken to your parents then you get out and find your bearing

What makes you think you have a future staying with someone who doesn't even have directions

His family are asking you when you will have another child but having another child will be a bigger burden on you

You said you were abroad before coming home, why not go back and leave your child with your parents, or does it mean you don't know how to leave him and go your way or you don't know where you parents are
Or have your parents abandoned you too

Very soon, you too will lose focus and balance and that is when it will be dawn on you that you are at the point of no return

If you want to librate yourself, you know what to do

And if you still want to be in this tight corner, remain there,

Na your time they waste not the guys time

She is abroad.

codemaniacs:
So what is the surname of children born in baby factories?

What's your point exactly?

tunjijones:
Cohabiting and they have 4 children? Even that does not give her the right to change the children's surname to that of her lover. It's an aberration.

Have you not heard of such cases before? And how is changing name to that of her husband an aberration? It is called adoption. Unfortunately, he only has right to fight over the last child as other children are now 18 and above and can decide for themselves the surnames they choose to adopt or stick with.

Moniya4Real:
She actually intentionally made a sarcastic response

One that is definitely partly true. It's a way of muddling a case .

DSS1335:
Your narratives reeks of bias!

We won't judge him until we hear his part of the story.

Even at that, I guess there are circumstances your have not been told or are not privy of.
Do you even know why your sister opted to keep quiet against such allegations? There must be something that prompted such an usual behavior from her husband. Mind you there is no smoke without fire! What if she was found guilty.
I know of a woman who was entangled in the web of adultery in her place of work...her marriage was saved but her relationship with her husband remained estranged despite him forgiving her for the sake of their children

Found guilty? That kind of man would not think twice before booting her out. She would still not be in that house if she was found guilty.

The man though made it look like his wife likes to mingle a lot while he is the insecure type.

updatechange:
Quite possible… I finished secondary school at the age of 16 and I have classmates that I am way older than in my class that we started together from jjs1 btw I repeated a class because of change of school so it’s quite possible.

Although I don’t trust anything Nigeria politician.



All of Una wey Dey quote me… Una go explain tire.
All I know is writing common entrance in pry3 is very realistic just as I sat for GCE when in ss2

It is true. So is writing being in Primary 3 at the age of 3, so one can write his/her common entrance and moving to JSS1 by age 4, so one can conclude Kindergarten to senior secondary school between 9 years. In fact, I want to believe that the Utsev guy is so brilliant that he started schooling immediately he was born.

Truthday:
Mad Jesus is a bloody terrorist

1 Samuel 15vs 3:

Now go, attack the Amalekites and totally destroy everything that belongs to them. Do not spare them; put to death men and women, children and infants, cattle ...

Do not think that I have come to bring peace on the earth; I have not come to bring peace, but. a sword
.

Luke 19:27
“But those enemies of mine who did not want me to be king over them—bring them here and kill them in front of me.”

You lack understanding. Why will you unleash violence when your old revered prophet gets mentioned inappropriately and be talking blasphemously about other people's son of God, saviour and redeemer?

Kindly have an understanding of whatever scripture you want to quote before you keep embarrassing yourself. Luke 19:11-27 is a story that never happened that was being told by Jesus (it was a parable i.e illustration).

1 Samuel 15:3 was GOD'S instruction to the people of Israel to destroy the Amalekites.

If not for Jesus, only God knows where we would be and what would be our fate now. Jesus Christ is the one who intercedes on our behalf to the Father.

lavylilly:
if I hear

Do you believe that it's only those 2 banks that increased their staffs' salaries?

Nvestor02:
Even tho, Tinubu doesn't promise us this, but e still do because of the love he has every citizen of Nigeria.

When I voted Tinubu, I knew I don't do mistake.

Now that tuition fee is free, will the people who are always eager to blame Government for their misfortune see that Tinubu is cooking something good behind the camera.

Now our education is going to be standby, the Children of poor will now be recieving high quality education.

You are either one of the obvious ignorant followers or a paid agent. How can children of the poor receive high quality education if they can't pay the exorbitant school fees that federal schools - both secondary and tertiary - are now demanding?

Curse777:





They will still blame Tinubu now


Give them optional student loan which you are not forced to take they complain

Give them Tuition free education but ask them to pay for accomodation, they still complain




.

Are you saying that accomodation is even part of the 100k+ bill for the simplest course to be studied in Unilag? Cos I went through their bills and did not see anything like accomodation in it. Just keep deceiving yourselves by shouting "tuition-free" up and down, thereby deceiving ignorant people up and down.

Greenscientist:
I'm a southern Muslim too and people like you are the types of Muslim who can't even recite a complete surah of the Qur'an.

Why should a sacred act of the religion be used in a Music video? For what purpose?

I didn't comment on the issue from the start but I hate it when a Muslim wants to be "woke" at the expense of his religion.

" O you who have believed, take not those who have taken your religion in ridicule and amusement among the ones who were given the Scripture before you nor the disbelievers as allies. And fear Allah, if you should [truly] be believers."

Qur'an 5:57

Learn your religion!

Hope you know that it can only be your "woke" muslims that did this video. Look at their beards and confirm for yourself. No Christian would want to be caught on camera bowing his head for a god he does not believe in all in the name of money. It just can't happen - unless he is just one Igbo-smoking who just bears a Christian name.

MuhammedDick003:
They don't tolerate that bro.

Please stop this rubbish abeg.

@nlfpmod, kindly help delete all these irritating and disgusting pictures.

FuckSilly:
Most x tain fools, hypocrites and real terrorists will still come here to say trash.

They have serious problem at respecting people's culture, way of life and stance.

A X tian can make fun of her religion by acting as a cporn star nun and absolutely nothing will happen. Muslims don't tolerate that and if you find that hard to understand, Fucƙ up first publicly with YOUR REAL IDENTITY, and not all these social media bluffing and see how you're made to learn your lessons - THE HARD WAY.

You really must be "fucksilly" as your moniker implies. How will Christians be pornstars or don't you even know what you are talking about? Atheists, anti-christians and even muslims make jest of Christianity and people don't draw swords; they just pray for them.
Is Olamide not a Muslim? When he sang poverty die die and did a video making mockery of white garment churches in it, didn't you dance? I had never encountered that video before but they played it on a channel like a month ago and it was disgusting. Disgusting that they can desecrate other religions as much as they like but bring out sword when same is reciprocated by those who just bear Christian names but are not truly Christians.

Amotolongbo:
That one is too far.

Why didn’t they sue Aregbesola(former Osun State APC Governor )who was the Governor and made himself the commissioner for works and infrastructure. Also his deputy, Titi-Laoye who was also made the commissioner for Education?

Na dat one sef tire me jare.

Okoroawusa:
Yes. No tuition fees

Tuition is not the only fee paid. So, why are you claiming that Federal Universities are free?

Jagabanarmy:
honestly, tuition in federal universities is relatively affordable but there should be no increment at this trying times. I sincerely hope things will get better pretty soon

Payment without tuition is still between 100k-190k in Unilag.

yarimo:
Developers una well done oo

O dabi wipe oju n dun e.

Supremos:
Writing rubbish as usual

Can't you see that the clown is looking for engagement? It would have been better if you had ignored him. That is what fits nonentities.

saxokay:
Good evening to everyone pls don't mind my write up.i been able to save 1m from my trycicle business,my Keke is still very neet but sincerely speaking I don't want to ride Keke beyond this year am planning to invest my 1m on pigry and poultry land is not a problem for pls for those that are in to this business hope am not about to go the wrong way? Or is there anything am supposed to know before I invested my money

You can still do both for a year just in case you have some financial challenges with your farm, so that you can still stay afloat. It is after you believe your farm is very much stable that you can then wind down the keke business to diversify into something else.
The keke, of course, will still be very useful for you in sourcing and packing of waste foods that can help you to reduce the cost of their feeding and in running of other errands for the farm.

Insecurity:
Tinubu Not A Magician, APC Did Not Promise ‘Miracle,’ Says Oshiomhole
“They know they were not electing a magician. And nobody promised a magical solution."

https://www.channelstv.com/2023/07/24/tinubu-not-a-magician-apc-did-not-promise-miracle-says-oshiomhole/

Oponu.

Pkgplanet:
The guy was right along,he was logical,you were emotional. You're the one who needs more lessons here. Next time even if you choose to believe a random Op with a new account, detailing tails of woes and anguish,and how the world has crumbled under her feet,learn to have reservations about every nairaland tale you will ever come across.
I'm not surprised by the outcome,we have been there, hundreds of hundreds of threads like hers have surfaced over the years,and 90% of them always end up being what 90% of readers suspected they will be " scam".
So next time,take a seat with your 1 year old account and learn from those who have been here over a decade.

And you responded with how many weeks old account?

nickyvil:
I told her my plan, that late this year, she can come to stay cos I have a farm I'm developing and there will be a building for workers to stay which I can still spare her to stay till she gets herself. Through this way she have access to her daughter. The reason why the farm is pending now, it's because of the rain. I travelled alot and won't want her to stay in my house because I have to be security conscience. At this junction, I'm don't think I can go ahead again with this. Thanks all

You have really tried your best. God bless you ma. Either she is not being truthful or she doesn't know what she is doing.

Nazgul:
Lol...you've logged back to your fake account. I thought you said you'll make me deactivate.

Use your original moniker to post if you want any sensible response from anyone.

Stop creating new accounts to appeal to our emotions. That format don cast tey tey.

How can you create an account today and expect people to take you seriously...did you know about Nairaland today?

You really are pathetic! I wonder if you are like this in real life (not your social media life ).

And you @OP, you are not being fair on people who have been sympathetic to your cause and tried to reach out in different ways to help out with the adoption that you requested for on this thread. You because of a handful of never-do-well people with unending criticisms decided to abandon all the people with highly thoughtful advices that are trying to encourage and help you out! That's not good enough.

fifehanmi938:
I sometimes don't want to reply to some comments like this because I'm emotionally downcast and very sad.

But all i will pray for you is that you never find yourself in a situations worser than my own

You label me a scammer
Which I said In my post that am ready to meet up anyone who wants to help me with my kid,I'm not trying to hide and not meetup of I see who will render a help for me.

Secondly I said my reasons for being anonymous which I'm surprised if you even read it from the start of you just want to say something because you're somehow depressed like me.

I came online to vent here which I believe I might get help here,but haven't got any from anyone..

But I believe God will not forsake me no matter what 🙏

I will keep calm and watch out how my life turns out,if God makes me survive this with my kid and of it's the other way round.

I will abandon this post and forget about anything and see what will happen in real life to me.

Because social media sometimes add to depression because of people like you who is not in others shoes but judge them , insult them and curse them.

Any unfortunate thing can happen to anyone,I have seen and gone through a lot in this life.

If you can't help ,you don't need to pour salt on open wounds or laugh at someone predicament because it's not you.

Everyone is wiser when it's not their story.

You can Insult me more but I will never reply anymore because people like you are always common on social mediaq.

Who troll people and label them all sort of names especially when they are seeking for help.

Love and lights

Leave the guy. He is actually stupid and he has displayed his stupidity severally on this thread.