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Your 3years old son gets angry whenever you give him a food he doesn't want and throws it on you, you laugh and say "�� children ehh"
Baby boy will lift his hands and slap you when he wants you to drop him... All you'd say is "you're beating mummy �"
No other child in that area messes with him... And you're calling him "A no- nonsense boy"
He picks up things from the ground and hits people whenever he's stopped from doing something... You smile and call him "action boy���‍♂️��‍♂️"
You expose him to all manner of violence and say "He's a man, man suppose get mind"
Few years down the line the teenage boy bullies his sisters, commands them around, shares slaps as souvenirs to anyone that dares to challenge him. You call him "man of the house"
He grew up having his way all through. Now he's a full grown man in the society. And it's not funny anymore.
Abusive husbands didn't fall from the sky, someone raised a boy wrongly.
It's easier to train a son than to correct a husband
We could address a lot from the root.
Mothers, Raising Sane Men begins from CORRECTING THEM AS SONS.
Rip to the dead.......

You are 100% correct sir. Unless he is suffering from mental illness, then he was probably raised indulgently. Make God help us to raise our children aright.

Ha!

bercarray:
Where maami water see attachment do hair.

Have you forgotten ? Mummy G.O said they are the producers of attachments .

seunlayi:
This bankers, I no dey trust dem

You mean government workers?

[quote author=oilmane post=112072249][/quote]As in! I am even scared to allow my kids to step out of my house to go to where they will have free rein to watch TVs nowadays. But to what extent do I have to continue that? They just need to be continuously taught and prayed for.

But honestly, I will say I am surprised at this rubbish. The truth is that the world is coming to an end because this is when weird and shocking things happen. Imagine cooking with what I can't even smell without getting a bit nauseated (spent blood?)! This is really disgusting!

VictorUSA:
I tell you that this gender f is nothing but nonentity.Very confused people.Very wicked.Useless and hopeless shits.I regret the existence of a woman.

Only God regretted that he made humans, not even just man or woman. At least if women had not existed, some dumb men would not have been created.

Mumusaphire:
60% rape allegations are false. And if the man is saying the truth because many people fabricate lies, just to trend on internet, I think he should get the lady arrested and face d law.

And where exactly did you get this your statistics from? You know you can share it so we can all learn.

Connected1:
I feared women when my supposed ex girlfriend ( I was dating myself then ) began saying I have destroyed her life and laid different accusations on me and cursed my life just because I found out that she was cheating on me with her ex who was the main guy and I exposed her in front of the guy and her parents.

After some months she came to apologize and pleaded I don't punish her because she knew I am a venom but I have moved on since the first week, she started coming around and wanted something between us again until i chased her away in a polite way before she accuses me of rape if I do it in a violent/disgraceful way.

To think that my entire family, my former boss and my friends even my neighbours too loved her because of her calm attitude and jovial baffled everyone that she could do such a thing, yes I showed her off to everyone.

Well, what do I know, but I now find it hard to trust women because they would rather put you in pains just so they could relief themselves of their mistakes, they don't take responsibility for any of their wrong actions, there's always someone to receive the blame.

To be honest with you guys, I haven't been a good guy to women since then and I want you to know that most bad guys you see today using women as rags and piece of shit have once experienced hell from them.

Then they in turn convert some other sweet and innocent girls into other monsters who in turn do the same to other men and the cycle goes on and on, spreading the deadly virus gradually destroying the society.

Abfinest007:
Example of big for nothing

You are blaming him for not having an aggressive nature? What if he married a female boxer or wrestler? Or a woman who doesn't hesitate to bring out a knife during fights? Should he now kill himself in the name of trying to fight back?
The thing is that we really don't know the circumstances surrounding their marriage, so it will be unfair to call the man a weakling.

emeogbo:
If its the other way round, by now the whole world will be seeking the head of the man.

I watched the chrisland school video, all I saw was a girl on top of a guy riding a cock, there was no iota of rape in that video, but because of the image of the girl I has to be termed rape. Don't be surprised if it was the little girl that taught the boys how to have sex because she was riding like a pro, but the boys always take the blame. God help the males.

Which one again is "God help the males"? Just ensure that neither your boychild or girlchild indulges in such a dirty act. The world, they say, has gone to the dogs.

MadamVanessa:




You won't see much of my fellow women in this thread condemning the action of the ex wife, assuming it was one of us women that said this, hell would've let loose.

I really hate the way and manner my gender reason most times.

Why won't we? It is highly unusual, compared to what many Arab women claim they face in their hands of their husbands. He really must have really loved her though she was unlovable. It was unfortunate that he had to love the wrong person.

immortalcrown:
Using your logic in this case, it would have been rape if the boys forced her. Both of them are minors and none of them was forced into the act.

Not in this case. Just telling you that underage do rape too though they don't get tried in a conventional way. Although, there was a case like that in the United States where a black boy raped and murdered. He was first sent to a juvenile home till he was 18 and then transferred to prison.

Guyman02:
Only Ukraine makes headlines as if there are no conflicts in Tigray, Yemen, Syria etc.
See how the white man manipulates our minds to one direction

That's because the war, if not properly managed, may spin into a world war.

immortalcrown:
If it minor versus minor, it is not rape. It is juvenile delinquency.

Could be rape o. Just that they don't go to prisons because they are young. I am not just saying what I don't know. I was shown children with such cases when I went for a visit to juvenile delinquent homes. There are even some of them that are murderers but can't be tried due to their ages.

immortalcrown:
That is not rape. Even the logic of statutory rape does not make that incident a rape. This is because neither the girl nor the boys are up to the age of consent. It is a case of juvenile delinquency because both the girl and the boys are minors and they willingly did it. The video shows the girl was not forced. The girl and the boys should be disciplined according to their ages.

Rape is evil. Pedophilia is evil. I do not support any of them. But this particular case is not rape. The school management should be severely punished for leaving underage students unmonitored.

I do not give a dam about fools who will call me a rape apologist here.

Minors also do rape younger ones. For example, a 12 year old boy can rape a younger girl or even his mate. It's just that since they cannot be tried in a court due to their age, they get thrown into juvenile delinquent homes. I have seen such cases before.

Double0h7:
I didn't see it this way... I read it as an awareness for men who are verbally abused by their wives. Unless you're claiming that such cases don't exist then there's nothing to correct here. IMHO!

Of course it exists! But further comments that I was reading were pointing at how only men get verbally abused and using the opportunity to pour bile at women. The truth is that both cases do exist, have been witnessed by me and that verbal abuse is definitely and utterly disgraceful and shameful.

TechSpecialist:
mynd44 lalasticlala seun dominique oam4j justwise rule 2

You didn't need to quote. He already generalized women and that included his mom.

Double0h7:
You're absolutely right but I'm just staying on topic. This thread is focused on the pain of husbands and it is insensitive to drag the focus away from that and discuss the pain of wives. That is another thread. Verbal abuse damages anyone on the receiving end whether it's a husband, wife, child, brother, sister... all humans are impacted by verbal abuse. So let's acknowledge the pain of husbands and condemn wives who verbally abuse their husbands.

This thread is making it seem that only men are verbally abused as against majority of women being domestically abused and that was what I tried to correct.

Double0h7:
I honestly believe verbal and emotional abuse is just as bad as physical abuse. If you notice in society we accept it when a woman complains about being verbally and emotionally abused by her man and we rally around her. When men say they are being verbally abused we tell them that that's just what women do, women are emotional and they say things they don't mean, etc etc.

We women need to control our tongue because our mouth is the equivalence of our muscles. We attack verbally which is still an attack and a form of abuse.

I am guilty of running my mouth and I speak to myself first

It is true but this goes both ways. I know of some couple that the husbands don't touch the wives (at least not to one's face) but can make their wives feel like ants.

Vinnie2000:
You and Pocohantas re arguing with sentiments or gender bias! Honestly, a 15yr old IS NOT a kid! @dat age, a girl is supposed to have learnt how to say NO to a guy/man and also have SENSE. One Tailor guy sew a cloth for a girl and when she came to collect it one nite when he had closed, he said she should then come pick it@his house! D girl gave him a big No! So u get it, right? Pls u guys should cut d pretence!

You still don't get it! Not everybody has the same confidence level or the same level of assertiveness. You will agree with me that not every adult can even say no affirmatively, much less a child.

We4all:
I totally agree with you. A 15 year old girl is old enough to know what is right or wrong. I have seen a 12 year old tell a man to go to hell and reported to her parents.

Obviously, she didn’t have a great relationship with her parents to be able to open up to them. It’s a case of parenting gone wrong.

Personality is also another factor. There are children who have developed confidence right from their tender ages while some are very shy and can't really open up to people. Seemed the girl is the shy type.

subsidywise18:
Good post, but still pass wording one's whatsapp is good to protect from hackers. That's the main reason why I did it for mine.

It's two-step verification that protects your WhatsApp from hackers.

KingOfAllIgbos:
Both father and son are useless.

Both should go and work hard like the industrious mother who worked for the same things you leeches are quarrelling over.

I am not sorry to say this... Both of you are very revolting and shameless.

Don't you have any principles at all ?

" I took my son to court over my wife's properties " or

" I took my dad to court over my mother's properties"

How do these 2 statements sound? Like Father, like Son.

That means you don't read!

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[quote author=Streett post=111967209][/quote]I want to believe that she wasn't expecting such, so that would be the last thing on her mind as the pain would definitely be mind-numbing. It could be a lump that dropped too.

Let me cite another example: hope you know that some people get shot without feeling the sting, didn't realize they had been shot until some minutes and lots of blood later, because of the situation that led to the gunshot.

Mikespecialone:
And has her baby Dey come out wey her t*t* Dey wide she nor go feel pain atall ??

Someone already numb with pain? Actually, for some people, baby pops out so easily that they don't really feel anything. Though for her case, it might be naivety or the fact that she wasn't expecting a baby in the first place.

Streett:
Birth canal no be Anal canal….. Which wan be almost flush her baby

Ah jus tire for some Headlines

Hope you know what you are saying though. When I had my first child, I had the urge to go poo and told the nurse who told me to poo on the bed. I told her I could never do that and insisted to go to the toilet. I sat there for several minutes but nothing came out and had to stand up. Some minutes later, when I got back on the bed, I pushed out my baby.

The story I narrated is just to paint the picture of what happens during labour: The baby's head can be touching the rectum, thereby putting pressure on it that the woman feels like she wants to defecate.

emmanuelbrown26:
I'm not disputing that their is no good woman, all I'm saying is that some of them deserves better beating to reset their brain. Some were very stupid while in their father's house and they still carried d stupidity to d husband's house, for how would d husband endure her stupidity.

So, that means you believe that some men deserve death from their wives too. Right? Like those we hear who stab their husbands to death?