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very right,I have noticed that too,they hardly marry such women,they would rather keep her as a spare tire.

ur problem,ur problem

haba!!!,few weeks only and u are already building up marriage idea in ur brain??,the important things that supposed to border u,u left them and you are busy worrying about irrelevant things??,oga,allow things flow gradually and stop reasoning like a boy.

If u really know how far women can go with pretentious attitudes,u won't reason marriage with any even after one year,care more about her attitudes. Age, family, first born issue, school level,etc,are all irrelevant!!!

receive sense bro

dis a very simple issue, simply tell your own man not to pay ur bride price instead of dragging all of us into it.

let her go,don't date Pple u can not comfortably leave at home and travel out,she maybe innocent but for the fact that u can't trust her,quit

switching off ur phon is more like kid's act,real men don't beat about bushes,they go straight to the point in handling issues,tell her ur mind,it's either she waits or she leaves,the choice is hers. The worst mistake you will make is start up a marriage bc of ur lady's desperation,if later you are unable to cater for her financially,all dat love will turn sour. Act fast,once she relocates to ur state,she will trap u with pregnancy and dis time, you won't only be talking about marriage,the welfare of ur unborn child will be included

I refused to the take post given to me in ss2, I was asked to be going to junior classes to teach, being an introvert,I couldn't stand it,I was heavily punished,my refusal made me popular

oga relax,don't be too fast,we all can do annoying tins out of anger,u both should come together and make tins right, every relationship has ups and downs,some break-up for years and still unite. Just make sure you shine your eye wella,the little things u neglect in d actions of a woman can be mightier dan u will ever imagine. Women always say one thing but do another tomorrow,love with your brain and keep ur heart safe

#IssaNigerianthing ,it's a habit in ladies,they don't call the guy who suffered to send them airtime. Distance relationship is not everyone,since u ar no longer close to her,I guess alot of tins have taken place,if actually she really loves u,u won't be as confused as u ar right now.
Since she loves airtime more than u, tell her to go date Mike Adenuga's son,don't b scared to quit

looking for a good girl is like searching for a needle in an ocean,only d patience and careful ones find Dem,they sure exist but not easy to find.True love exist,I can testify to dat.
Be Patience son!!!

early tomorrow morning, take a big bell and enter your street,as u ring d bell,gbagam!!!,shout that you are not gay, do it every morning for 6 months and u will be happy with your result

Pray he forever remains broke den

u have been played and it serves u right,u don't go extra mile just to please a woman,u dnt owe her anything,if u don't have and she refuses to cope with it,den 4get her. I don't know what some women feels like self ,do they tink men don't personal issues to solve with money? Why do they always make their financial
problems a "do or die" affair b4 their men?

In order to avoid u from asking for ur money,d best tin is to break up with you,dat her own way of being smart, learn ur lesson and move on

wives treat your husbands the same way you treat yourselves during your menstrual period to have a happy home

it's only an Igbo man dat will take u out on a first date but will first introduce u to almost all his relations and friends b4 going to Mama Nkechi's shop to scatter ur destiny with isi ewu and nkwobi.(he has his reasons for doing dat)

On a serious note, even if he is d son of Bishop Oyedepo,DO NOT VISIT HIS HOUSE, first dates are all about introductory talks,both of u shud go public

,I weep 4 u, if na like dis u and ur chi take sign am say na V go finally kill u, Rip.

very strong and dangerous statement,I can relate,d experience was a very bad one.

skip such question, just use ur head while playing ur path, you don't have to try for too long or spend unnecessary just to win her over,if u give her attention and she dnt respond,dnt waste much time on her,try another

Favouramani:
this is a screenshot with a girl I met yesterday

"your Face looks familiar" should be completely scrapped too,we all know it's a lie when they use that line yet, guys Will not stop using it. You talked to her for the first time and u started your move with lies,it's a complete turn off

maybe bc the first question u always ask in between ur toast is,do you have a boyfriend?,wat do u expect the answer to be?,if dats the case,scrap such question,when next u go for wat u want, don't bother abt whoever she is with,just do ur own path,over taking is allowed. Many ar with abusive boyfriends looking for sumone to pull dem out

they Neva break ur head b4 abi

2 nice birds having fun with you but later decided to fly to a tree to get some foods,wat if they get to the tree, got carried away and forgot to fly back to you? The worst u would do is sit down there and wait till God knows how long,many ladies once they get to uni,forgets that one guy that has stood with them all this while,many gets carried away by uni's Life styles, d age of the man isn't a problem,the problem is, will any of them still come back to him?

feminists should beta start submitting themselves under their Superiors, men's positions are too high for them to occupy

@below poster, you are right, done!!!

some men actually have d aim to carry out Al responsibilities ,that why even when they encounter financial challenges, they find it difficult to open up or ask for help from their wives. But then,every good wife that really cares about her husband must always try to find out where and when to assist him, she mustn't wait until he asks for help, thats why both of them are "help meet",responsibilities at home shouldn't be carried by one person, be it house rent, school fees etc

it depends on d type of bf u have,dere are some nice guys out dere dat even wen dey ain't married to u yet, dey always have ur wellness at heart,such guys deserve more dan just doing laundry from dia ladies.

dere is a limit to wat a woman can do,women can Neva occupy d position of men,it's not in d place of women to make d move towards starting up a family,it's a man's duty. The way men and women reason differs,b4 a man could tink abt proposal, he must have taught abt d future, his upcoming family and even his unborn kids school fees bc he will be the one to bear most expenses but place women in dat position,they will only consider their age and d numerous outstanding weddings of their friends.
Men remain men, ntin will eva take their position

Martinez19:
As a feminist, here is my take.

Male and female are equal and deserving of equal opportunities and integrity. If a man can propose, a woman can propose too. Infact, if a woman proposes to me and I like her, I will marry her. If a man can be the breadwinner of a family, a woman can be the breadwinner too. If a man can be a danfo driver.....

If a woman propose to me, I won't see anything wrong in that. Woman do fall in love and it should not be wrong for them to go after the one they love and make their intentions known to them. Feminism is a hallmark of a civilised mentality.

However if you want to stick to waiting for a man, no problem as we are all free beings.