Volkswagen90:
Of all accusations,i hate theft own,so embarrassing and shameful.

At this stage of my life. If person accuse me wrongly of theft or any other accusations. I fit burst d person head.

Ausval:
I'm very open in helping her and her family ,but i'm totally against the boy coming to live with me ..I have been sending them money even before she brought up her son's case

Bros abeg if any connect dey make u give me update. I dey Benin. What about you?

Bros abeg, any connect dey at all? Abeg help your guy. I even send you private email.

StacyO:

You understood the whole thing perfectly well.

I'm sorry with the way I sounded harsh. I hope you get the wisdom and guts to make decisions that will favour you.

StacyO:
Please read through.

I'm actually in my early twenties, not that I'm too old for marriage anyway. One of my top clients who I'm trying to polish out a business with, went ahead to arrange a mini impromptu by fire by force relationship for me and his brother.

Like bethrothing someone to someone else without their full consent.

It was a men's arrangement cause, I was surprised how they all came to that agreement.

I tried breaking up with him the first time and he told his brothers about it. Guilt almost finished me cause, I was blamed for the excuse I brought up. His uncle who is in charge of the contract brought us back together again.

The main issue now is that I want to break up with the guy once and for all but, I don't want to hurt him and I still have to save the contract at hand.

The guy is very much attached to me already and I won't fake it, I'm equally beginning to feel butterflies in my stomach.

I want to go about it in a very simple way. So that at the end, we all go our separate ways happy.

Any idea is highly welcomed. Serious and mature minds please.

Thank you.


Modified:: I told him my own part of the story and my reasons of not wanting to be in a relationship with him.
I'm not ready for any relationship now and I dont like him. Most importantly, I dont want to chop his money while deceiving him.

He is still not accepting reality but, I'm sure with time, he'll move on.

PS: His uncle isn't aware of this yet and I begged him not to tell anyone.

You still don't get it? You were given the contract so you would date him.
You either drop him and lose the contract, or date him and keep the contract.
And you asking him not to tell his uncle that you've broken up with him, shows desperation, selfishness, weakness and wickedness on your part.
You're dumping him because you don't want him, allow them terminate your contract if they want to. So, they can seek another lady (who may likely end up marrying their brother) that they would give the contract to.

That's my opinion.

McTominay:
Action films plenty
Missing in action... Chuck Norris
Hard to kill... Steven Seagal
Soldier Boys... Michael Dudikkof

How can you mention soldier boys and not mention American Ninja

surebona:
Please I need assistance, how can I survive a heartbreak from a relationship of over 6yrs. She was basically my friend, sister and girlfriend. I am not in a good state of mind. All I need is help and hope that I will survive this. Please help me. Even if it's one reply that can help me I will be very grateful

Go and listen to Robbery by Juice world repeatedly.

Adebami895:
Nairalanders!!! I Need Your Advice Please

Good day, my fellow nairalanders. permit me for the blunders, this is just the way I can put it.

I have this pretty and honest girl am currently dating, she is 18 while am 21. We have been dating for 8 months now. My parents knows her and her family knows me as well except her dad. She is really into me and I love her dearly too. I have been in relationships but this current relationship seem to be different because I have never been in love to this extent. Despite the richer and well to do guys disturbing her for relationships she still stick to me.

Although I never make her lack anything even when she never requested for it. she loves me so much that she can’t do without texting and calling me daily, sometimes she even tells me to send a selfie of my self so that she can see my face. This girl is just one of a kind and God knows I truly love her and I will love to marry her if things continue this way. She runs a small business online and am even planing to surprise her with some cash next year to make the business grow. I love it when a lady is hustling.

The problem am having right now is that she is a Virgin, We normally engage in pre-intimacy, although am not satisfied with that, but since I truly love her I just have to wait till she is ready. So recently she finally told me that she is ready to get disvirgined. We have already make a date for that and I have already make plans on booking a 5 star hotel room to make it special and memorable.

I started having second taught this morning that I should not disvirgin her yet because I will be leaving for school next year to further my education while she will start processing admission to gain entry into tertiary institution of her choice, with this reason I felt if I got her disvirgined she might meet some bad peers that will make her engage in some sort of negativity and definitely she might become a hoe or she might be craving for sex while am not with her, but i felt if she is still is still a Virgin she will have my fear in her heart and be for me only.

Should I disvirgin her? or still let her be a Virgin. Am confused, I just don’t want to loose everything. I don’t want to later end up a looser in the relationship. Please nairalanders I really need your advice!! Bashing is welcome as well.

My friend's "virgin girlfriend" called him one day to tell him that she has been raped. She claimed it happened when she went to a night party. And she doesn't want her parents to be involved.

Well here's the thing. They're no longer together. The rape wasn't the reason why they broke up. They had a misunderstanding. Her character turned really bad that he had reasons to doubt if she was really raped.

Now let me ask you. What are you planning for yourself? What are you planning for your future? I know you love her. But you should be ready for the inevitable. Have you even thought of the possibility of she not being a virgin?

Alaye, live your life, but make sure you hurt no one.

muller101:
We are patiently waiting for your next post how Mary Jane fooled you.

I see you didn't get the point, he was talking about weed

Mike7302:
Let hear your story, also how do you make the relationship intresting, because we introverts keep to ourself a lot. I just want to learn from u guys.

Most girls see introverted guys as gold mine. They think they can milk them dry.
Most girls mistake introversion for being dumb.

They're like twins

akure1stson:
That number 2..


Make i take 25k go drink moet?

I tire for the guy o.

SandraJane:


https://m.facebook.com/GovernorMikeSonkoMbuvi/posts/1829276933777313

I almost forgot that I was on nairaland. I wanted to record a voice note. I agree with all but two of the points raised. You don't have to be in a relationship to be prosperous in life. And, the quality of alcohol you consume has nothing to do with your success.

iamloyalty:
During an administration in a private hospital I witness 3 shocking incidents but the weirdest of them was:
During the nite when everyone has gone to sleep a vulture was found inside the doctors office that has been lock and on top of patient fies. The nurse that went to check before going to sleep raised an alarm all the men gathered and killed the vulture after a long race and it was later burnt to death. Funny thing is the vulture continue to use his feather to cover his head till his death and they exhausted 10 liters of fuel before it could be burnt to ashes. Later the nurses went to check the file it stood on it was a lady that has had an operation that has refused to heal and becoming rotten. In the morning her church members came to pray with her.

Inside life!

iamloyalty:



Their male doctors are even the worst, they are ready to sleep with a female patient right In their office.

Yeah, I've heard rumours about that before. Do you have any experience with them?

MOLOTOVcockTAIL:

Na so God punish this boy reach?

Remora Boyz everywhere!

���� very few will understand your last line. But as for me, I caught it deep. He's indeed a Remora Boy.

kennyflames:
Results are described as outstanding when there is an error on the part of the candidate in the process of registration or during the examination. If such is your case, the errors may still be corrected and after which you would see your results.


Meanwhile can someone with "HELD" written in their results still be released?

It will be released, but expect a subject or two to be cancelled. I'm talking from experience.

ukaface:
The best thing for a well thinking healthcare professional to do is to leave Nigeria. Cos most of these Nigerian patients no get chill, Chai....some patients too dey get scoin scoin for head. And most times they forget health workers are human like them .

Mind you, I know there are some bad eggs.

One crazy thing I've seen , a patent was rushed on account of collapsing after fighting with a neighbour. Her peeps with all the pleading didn't drop any shilling before commencement of treatment. We all rallied to revive her, she became conscious, and was receiving treatment.
Ngbanu, time to collect money, make deposit o. Everybody shift,until a man who identified himself as husband Abi Na husband friend/ brother came to question the deposit bill. Trust Yorubas ( sorry for the stereotype) Na so abuse and insult follow, almost beat me join, I kukuma shift. Doctor came to know whatsup, and it almost went violent. Las Las they carried on the revived woman without paying a dime. Nothing.
Now do you get why paying before treatment can be implemented in a setting??
Healthcare workers are human, you probably won't do better.



And please can y'all stop linking nurses to sex?

Most nurses are like that, especially those in private hospitals. I've had a handful of experience with them. The only group I noticed are quite decent are Pediatricians.

alexistaiwo:
While Watching Tottenham vs Liverpool UEFA final last year, I was eating rice and stock fish while watching the match and mistakenly swallowed the stick used to attach the tail to the head of the fish, immediately after swallowing it, I knew something was wrong because my throat started feeling funny.


The next day which was Sunday around 10am which should be 14 hours later, I started coughing up blood and blood was also bleeding from my nose and mouth simultaneously, I was rushed to a private hospital. You should see how unprofessional the doctor was, he was panicking, shouting that my lung is ruptured and there is nothing to do and I will definitely bleed out and I should leave before I do that he doesn't want any wahala.

I was then taken to a general hospital nearby, while waiting in the general hospital reception area, the bleeding started subsiding till it stopped and I was given injections and some drugs.


The next time I see that doctor, one of us will be paying a visit to baba God..

Did you end up coughing up the stick? And which of the doctor are you talking about? The one in the private hospital or the one in the general hospital?

mansakhalifa:
I must say this here and now:

I got hugely disappointed in the doc right after reading this story earlier today.

Hugely disappointed.

Aladdin lamp? Seriously

He even parted with roughly 40k USD(according to bbc) to buy it.

He's not worth being a doctor. His licence should be withdrawn.

RomanianNinja:
The doctor is dull sha. Is Alladin not fiction??

Got me wondering. I say his licence should be withdrawn.

ignis:
If mugu no fall, guy man no go chop.

A real guy man no suppose catch him fellow man mugu.

longetivity:
the cheats and the doctor are foolish8)

The doctor's licence should be withdrawn. He's too dumb to be a doctor.

dhardline:
Let them just Just hack Aso rock and put the video online biko .

Maybe if the protesters are moved to the Nigerian ports the government might wake up.

Same thing I was thinking.

king9952:
I am considering relocating my family, two still young boys and and a girl including my wife to naija, we are currently base in houston close to half a decade and have decided to give our children the gift of well african seasoned noutured upbringing like my wife and myself acquired gowing up, that brings my attention to initiating comprehensive feasibility study into haulage industry in naija specifficaly Dump truck a.k.a tipper,since we are relocating possibly permanently, i am looking at exporting 5 2006 MACK Model dump truck from here but decideded turning to naijaland first for an advice from my good ole folks out there. Questions,best dump truck model for naija, the best business tipper model as in management for best ROI(Return of investment)eg leasing out daily or contracting with established management company, and finally daily returns from one tipper. Thanks in advance.

I know it's been over seven years, but did you continue with your plan?

I dreamt and I was in a shrine in my dream. It was full of different idols and segment. It was on a hill side. It looked old and abandoned. I was with two guys (whom I knew in real life). I couldn't see them always, but I heard their voices and we were terrified and wondered how we got there. I was able to find the exit before waking up. Please what does it means?

chingle5:
Installed apps

What do u use "AdAway" for?

jerrythafinisher:
thought they said when a match accumulates 5 red cards the game will be cancelled

5 from a single team. This 5 is from both sides.

You see, just like that guy in the picture. I slept in the toilet resting my back on the water cistern. It's the most humiliating thing that has ever happened to me, considering the fact that it was a general toilet in a passage house.

I finished at 17 but entered uni at 25!

Zzor:
See the type of men this generation has produced smh

Will you blame only the guy? Why don't you say something about the cheap sisters? The older one is more like her younger sister. What's her business with her sister's relationship?

pabon:
Well deserved. He plays for a team like Leicester and still manages this feat. He deserves all he accolades he gets.
It's a pity his team couldn't make it to next season's Champions league.

it might be a blessing in disguise. I hope he wins the Europa league next season. I really like that guy's hard work.