Antimarraige:
You had millions and you couldn't invest? What a shame, my investment of 500k some years back is fetching me millions today

What did you invest your 500k in?

It lingered too long, that this success no longer makes sense. Did they have to wait this long to act? Or are they just trying to score cheap political points ahead of the elections? �

strangest:
Sorry but you don't really have a job... You need to look for one... If they finally remove the 30k from your salary just let me know so I ll send curses to your boss's...

I think say u wan help am fill am.

Highways:
Okay... During that 9weeks who were you phucking... The story never finish....

I swear. She need to talk.

Meteoritey:
Due to work, my husband and I live in states, and my husband lives in Canada. 3 months ago we had some serious skirmishes during our phone conversation and in the heat of the argument, I told him that he does not appreciate the fact that I am raising the kids and doing everything alone.

To my disappointment, he told me that he is overworked more than me. This really angered me. This got me angry and I hung up. Although He tried to reach me for 4 days, and also sent me some messages, I cut him off without replying, about 9 weeks later, I sent him just a message on an unrelated issue, he ignored my message, after another month, I sent him another message, he also ignored. It has been 3 months now we have not spoken to each other.

Recently my brother had a baby, and he only called once to congratulate them. Moreover my younger sister got admission to a university to study the same course that my husband studied, so naturally, my sister contacted him. My sister said he advised her on what to do and what she should expect. This was about 2 months ago. I personally did not inform him about my sister’s admission myself.

After about one month, my sister also called him for more information, but he has not been picking my sister’s call.

My sisters fiancee also called him to inform him about their upcoming marriage (my same sister that got the admission) he only spoke with my sister and her fiancee once, he stopped further communication with them on both issues of admission and marriage, and that he only spoke with them the first time about the admission and the marriage out of the respect he has for them.

He gave my sister the excuse that it was not proper, for him to speak with her fiancee' because he said that I have not told him anything about the marriage, therefore he can not relate further with my sister as per the marriage. And that it was out of respect that he even called my sister initially to advice her.

What are you thoughts and opinion please.

Aunty u try o. He called you back to back to for 4 days, you didn't answer. You waited 9 weeks (2 months and a week) to call him regarding an unrelated issue. Definitely, if that issue hadn't come up, you already made up your mind that he is not your husband. I know why you're angry. Because you're carrying the responsibility of the kids, and you hated to hear him say he's more worked up than you. He could be actually more worked up than you even though his work is not enough to carter for the kids. I don't have any solid advice for you because, at this point, it seems like you overdid it.

Put yourself in his shoes, if someone snubbed your calls for 4 days, and only called you after 2 months, how would you feel? What would you want the person to do to make it up to you? Go think about it, and try to do it to make it up to him. Don't expect him to be ok with what you did. Men are also sensitive. Men have emotions.

Cigarorealtyltd:
first off, we all know categorically, how boys are when growing up, it is an adjective used to relate to that in that aspect, secondly, the woman is Infact a complete Nigerian and resides in lagos.
Thank you.

You don't have to take it personal.

RichAbujaGuy:


Don't be a hater, crab in the barrel comrade.

http://www.cigarorealtyltd.com/

Block A1-133 HFP shopping complex, Abraham Adesanya Lagos, Nigeria

Hotline: 09168614668

Email: info@cigarorealtyltd.com

What's your reason for calling me a hater and a crab in the barrel. I only made an observation, and gave my opinion. If I'm wrong, you tell me I'm wrong. Not acting like an uncultured kid.

HarlequinLekex:
What is the full meaning of btw used on nairaland

it means Burn The Witch.

Wawelexy:
Some of the ladies that are in real estate biz are into prostitution... talking from experience, I worked with a real estate company during 2019 - 20, female colleagues do gossip themselves.. telling us how her female colleague would sleep with men before they could sell land or properties cos we re all on a target.. I left the company due to non payment of salary cos I was unable to meet my target...

But, why would a mother qualify her sons with the word WILD? That's weird.....

You need to realise something. This woman narrating her story is not based in Nigeria. She's most likely in the US. That's why her story seem interesting and smooth. And that's why she called her kids "wild"

Pells:
She was looking like an ugly witch from Benin before she died
Enough of her story
She is gone and gone for good,you all should stop sucking her di#k
She was never an important person in Nigeria History

Who gave us independence?

alizma:
Dumb girl, they are never satisfied. Imagine stealing the guy's passport, of what use to her is the passport biko?

No go there o. Black market tins.

Chidiesta:


Bringing her to Germany is not possible because I don't have papers , her father denied the pregnancy he has never met her

Is there not anybody you can strike a deal with over there? The person arranges papers for her or take custody of her on papaer, while you do the spending? And besides if you don't mind, I would like us to talk outside this site. There are some questions I would like to ask about the country you are in.

Chidiesta:


Me too I have a feeling she is not taking good care of her because most of the time she doesn't want me to speak with her on video call

Ah!� Auntie, take ur daughter from her. Look for a way to take her to Germany. I'm sure you can always find away. Even if it means you have to sign an agreement with someone. By the way, what about your daughter's father? Try to think out of the box.

Chidiesta:
Good day nairalanders,

I have lived in Germany for 3 years now i have a 1 years old daughter and I also have a 8 years old daughter who lives with my elder sister in nigeria.

She is married with three kids , I provide everything for them and I pay one of her child school fee but my sister is never satisfied with the money she keep demanding me for more money.

She knows it very well that I am not stable yet in this country , life is hard just because she is taking care of my daughter and she want me to carry the responsibility of her three children.

I make sure that I send a big parcel for all of them once a year as I am typing the parcel is on the way but she want me to pay school fees for all her children too and I can't afford to pay for all four.

I am paying her son school fees is 87k per term and my daughter own is 67k . On the 2nd I sent her 300k for school fees and foodstuffs she called on monday demanding me for 154k for her son and my daughter school fee I asked her what about the money I sent on the 2nd she said she bought foodstuffs for 120k and use the 180k for her two oldest children school fee and she want me to send the 154k for the youngest 2 , I was angry with her and I cut the call.

I am angry my own sister is draining me financially and I have a lot of bills to pay too and a small child to cater for.

I have spoken to my friend she is happy to take care of my daughter for me until I am stable enough to bring her to Germany. I like the idea because my sister is not helping me to progress.

I hope my daughter living with my friend will be a good idea.

I haven't told my sister anything yet because we are not in good term but I want to hear from you first please let me know if I should allow my friend to take care of her or I should leave her with my elder sister.

Look for away to bring your daughter to Germany. Don't be surprised if you find out your sister has almost finished her house.

DaddyGngeess:





Is ok, u can dm

I have sent you a private message.

DaddyGngeess:




I was driving taxi there and I was making like 100 dollars everyday then, racism, hmmmm, na Moscow then bust my eye, I still had that cut till today, their racism there is in another level, is too high but their beautiful ladies are cool and mix up easily

Quite disappointing about the racism part. Can we exchange numbers? Should I send you a mail?

slydog:


Na Canada open door for me o

Man, what do you do in Canada?

Consideratefish:



Brother, na story oh. Don't believe everything you read online. It pays but the pay isn't that fantastic.

Can we discuss it? Are you a bolt driver? If yes. Do you own the car? How much do you make after working a full day (excluding fuel money)

DaddyGngeess:
Really really nice, this is the kind of talk I like hearing, keep pushing it bro, the sky is your limit, I remember when i was driving taxi in Lagos from 2006 to 2007, after saving upto 800k plus also I had to use the money to travel to Moscow Russia and hustle more and come back to Nigeria and invest

What was your hustle in Moscow? I heard it's a very expensive city. What was your experience in regards to racism?

GAZZUZZ:
stick with the accord. Parts and mechanics available if required.

If I were to use the car for bolt, which one will you advice me to buy?

Please fellow nairalanders. I want you people to help me with the instructions on how to apply for federal government msme. I've been seeing posts about it here, but I didn't take it serious.
Please whoever has the link to apply should paste it here for me. I've searched online, and I couldn't find it.

princeemmma:
If you know do yahoo yahoo, you fit do any of these

gmail gmail
outlook outlook
hotmail hotmail
Play game
Watch film

Bjteensdes24:
@Mods please help me push to front page Hello ladies and gentlemen, please I need some ideas on how to apply for this job. Can anyone put me through. Main concern is what a motivational letter contain please! Thanks as you share different ideas

Motivational letter=Application letter.

Asabe4:
This gladens my heart..I hope you find the owner soonest.

Keep being kind...it's beautiful

Fine baby. How are you doing.

Sassy256:

Lol. I am female, I'm just being objective.

Can I send you a mail? Maybe we can get to know each other.

Sassy256:
She's a user. Some people are like that and don't even know it.
They are so self-absorbed that they always think of what they need to get from you and never what help they can render to you.
It's really a personality disorder but sadly no common name has been given to it.
You're right for blocking her, else she 'll keep taking from you, never give back and worse, such people are never satisfied.

Wow. You are the only female that openly condemned the actions of that lady. Are you really female or you just used a fake account to comment? If really you are female, then you are a rare gem. Keep it up.

equity1:
You think she is not in nairaland reading your comment?
Nairaland is popular oooo.

who cares? ��‍♂️

OlawaleBammie:
that is where u miss it bro, dont do like a toddler throwing tantrums.

If i were him, i will even be the first to greet her, even while she remain blocked. either she respond or not is not my wahala

baddest!

gulfer:
Run o

I dey tell u. E go trek d entire shomolu finish, e go con still chop gbese on top am.

Ndibuna:
So this female colleague of mine doesn't pick my call when I need to get information of the happenings in the office yet I pick hers and always ready to give her reliable information concerning work.
I urgently needed her one day and had to call again, she didn't pick my calls, she didn't apologise afterwards. I had to block her. So she needed me again and called my number and it wasn't going through. When she saw me she reacted negatively and wasn't talking to me. But do I care? She's not useful to me but want me to be useful to her

If I were you, I won't block her. I will just stop taking her calls. But the deed is done already. You can unblock her, but don't answer her calls. If she calls with a different number, once you answer and realise she's the one talking, tell her you're busy and end the call. When you see her, act like nothing happened.

geelite:
driving work.........which area are you in benin city

Bros how far na. U no even call or text me. If e no sure let me know na.

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