Nairaland General › Re: Share Your Experience With Weird People You Have Encountered by IAmTobore(m): 10:54pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
symbianDON: had this colleague while i was serving who was super weird. he had this insane habit of locking himself up in his room for, sometimes, 72hours at a stretch and no matter how hard anyone knocked, dude never opened the door. more weird was the fact that you'd always hear this eerie humming sound he was making from inside. till we passed out, no single lady ever got to enter his room. the guy was incredibly spooky. Na dem. I don forget wetin dem dey call that their crazy religion. |
Nairaland General › Re: Share Your Experience With Weird People You Have Encountered by IAmTobore(m): 10:45pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
Possiblegee: So I was taking a walk the other day and I seen a woman a blind woman pacing up and down the side walk ,she seemed to be a bit frustrated as if she had dropped something AND having a hard time finding it so after watching her struggle for a while I decided to go over and lay a helping hand you know , hello ma can I be of any assistance it seems to me that you have lost something I would like to help you find it ,she replied oh yes you have lost something YOU AV LOST YOUR LIFE ...then gun shots ...this happened in Compton in America ,police brutality who did the police shoot? |
Nairaland General › Re: Share Your Experience With Weird People You Have Encountered by IAmTobore(m): 10:36pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
joyfullyjoyous: There was a woman staying close to us. She used to come to my mum's shop when bored. One day my younger brother went to assist her in fixing sequence on materials. Then my mum asked me to go m call him after some time. I entered n saw they were tidying up her apartment. What caught my eye was an old pic that dropped on the floor. When I picked it n saw the picture my head got swollen. It was a picture of the same woman taken decades ago. It was a black and white picture. The woman was well dressed and adorned iin gold jewellery. Though the pic was taken like over thirty years before, the woman didn't look a bit older. Immeriately she saw the picture in my hand,she collected it n didn't utter a word. This was a woman who laid claim to having come different ethnic groups in Nigeria. There's no dialect she could not speak. When sdjef today she would say she's from Edo,another day she will say she's Yoruba. One day her apartment got flooded and she came to sleep in our sitting room In the midnight when I wanted to go ease myself I saw her wrapped like a corpse sitted on the chair. I almost fainted. A widower on the street saw n took her in. She gave birth to a baby boy but was sent packing when the husband discovered she had no single family member that identified with her . At a stage she begged my mum to claim they are related but she didn't oblige. God knows where she is now. It's really weird. Na dem. Those who died b4 their time. They usually roam about. |
Family › Re: Have You Been Betrayed Before? Share Your Story, You Might Heal by IAmTobore(m): 12:42pm On Apr 14, 2020 |
Olamsoh: When my dad retired from his regional managerial position in an oil company in 2007, things were super rosy for a bit and everyone (family & friends) were swarming around like bees to honey.
Fast forward 3 years later when Dad was duped in tens of millions, things started to wane and then we saw the harsh reality of life roared it's ugly head. Friends turned foes, family turned it's back.
My dad went for a major hip replacement surgery and was stranded in the hospital. Several calls to ex colleagues of his, friends etc seemed mission impossible and it was really surprising seeing these same people that flocked around and requested numerous favors from my dad act like they couldn't even recognize his name. My mum cried, my dad was bitter and there was this huge cloud of disappointment, disbelief and betrayal hanging over my family.
We felt Betrayed but better enough to use that as the fuel/energy for our comeback Your father was neglected not betrayed. Hope he is fine now? |
Family › Re: Have You Been Betrayed Before? Share Your Story, You Might Heal by IAmTobore(m): 12:37pm On Apr 14, 2020 |
OBelz: It was my birthday so I had a few friends around.
So I used the opportunity to introduce my best friend (she was my padi to the bone marrow) to my fiancé (now ex). She was so happy to meet him and I felt good because she had always wanted to meet with him. The party ended well and we all went home.
But after few days, kept getting calls and messages from this friend asking if I really want to settle down with this man. I wondered why she was really concerned and asking. So I asked her what is it that she isn’t telling me.
She said to me “Nothing was wrong”, I said, "are you sure?" She replied yes, she wants the best for me and she was just looking out for me. I didn’t bother asking again.
One very hot afternoon, my man(now ex) were together and he decided to tell and show me everything my supposed "best friend” said/wrote to him.
Firstly I was surprised how she got his number and I was so devastated.She told him I was no good for him because my family had issues and he would want that for him self.
Well I was flabbergasted to say the least now though �
The worst kind of hurt is betrayal, because it means that someone will willing to hurt you just to make themselves feel better.
Ever been betrayed? Tell us what happened and let's learn.
Ladies never introduce your friends to your man either ex, present or future. This is a clear case of betrayal. Hope you have gotten over it. |
Family › Re: Have You Been Betrayed Before? Share Your Story, You Might Heal by IAmTobore(m): 12:33pm On Apr 14, 2020 |
QuinModah: People will betray you, you can't escape it. What is more important is that you come out Better
Have you being betrayed before? Share your story, you might heal
Use share so others can learn
While I was working for a company. I got diagnosed of a kidney infection and was admitted in the hospital for two weeks. I was staying with my father’s elder sister at the time because my parents were here in Abuja
Two weeks of constant drugs,drips and injections on my *you know* and guess what, my aunt and her family never came to visit for one day. My friends(even tho I didn’t have a lot of them) were to busy to come see me. No company representative to pay me a visit.
Everyday I would walk to the little store close to the hospital to buy biscuits and yoghurt because no one would bring them to me.
Betrayal hurts so bad because it never comes from strangers but those of your household.
This is why I recommend people live like they are alone on this planet. Have zero expectations. Any human can become anything at anytime.When u expect so much from people, betrayal is inevitable. Live ur life without expectations. You weren't betrayed, you were neglected. Go check the meaning of betray. |
Health › Re: Francis Faduyile: We Are Not Going To Meet Or Interact With Chinese Medical Team by IAmTobore(m): 12:03pm On Apr 12, 2020 |
bestman6516: To say the truth,this govt has no idea of how to handle major outbreaks,like Covid-19 and that is why they could not even distribute palliatives well for its citizens. They don't know or they don't care. |
Politics › Re: Akure Explosion: I Didn't Know There're Explosives In My Truck, Truck Driver by IAmTobore(m): 7:36pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
So... U are telling me that the drive survived d explosion? With that crater. Someone should tell me something reasonable. |
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Told A Guy She Is Not In A Relationship by IAmTobore(m): 7:15am On Apr 02, 2020 |
primesoccer: I will definitely meet her with the evidence. But I still want to continue chatting with her to get more info from her before I make the move. Setup a date with her and let her come meet u there. |
Politics › Re: Dele Sobowale Apologises To Goodluck Jonathan. GEJ Reacts by IAmTobore(m): 4:38pm On Mar 28, 2020 |
Officialgarri: I prefer a government whose failure is as a result of unavoidable circumstances and world politics to a government who had all available resources to be successful, yet they looted all. Come make I knack 6 inches nail enter ur head wether ur brain go reset. |
Celebrities › Re: Idris Elba To AY Makun: Your Wardrobe Is Bigger Than Most People's Houses by IAmTobore(m): 2:41pm On Mar 27, 2020 |
Or11: Why do most Nigerians feel they need to change their accent when they speak with a foreigner? Nigerian accent is rated as one of the sexiest in the world. People should learn to embrace it. The reason why I change my accent when speaking to a foreigner is because I get tired of the numerous "sorry", "pardon" that they use to fill the conversation when I don't say words the way they understand. |
Nairaland General › Re: Pregnant Gaboon Viper With 30 Babies Killed (Graphic Photos) by IAmTobore(m): 10:40pm On Mar 26, 2020 |
southniyikaye: type trypophobia on Google and view the images then thank me later Damn you! Why did you make me see that? |
Nairaland General › Re: Pregnant Gaboon Viper With 30 Babies Killed (Graphic Photos) by IAmTobore(m): 10:23pm On Mar 26, 2020 |
southniyikaye: this shit is irritating naw, see me scratching my body I thought I was the only one who gives that kind of reaction to irritating things? |
Family › Re: Mention The Year You Will Like To Get Married And At What Age by IAmTobore(m): 7:23pm On Mar 25, 2020 |
anigbajumo: Bro,learn a skill so that u can be atleast financially stable.Still collecting stipend @26 is not advisable bro. I know. I start doing something. |
Family › Re: Mention The Year You Will Like To Get Married And At What Age by IAmTobore(m): 11:04pm On Mar 24, 2020 |
vickydankal: I’m married, if I knew what I know now I would have gotten married earlier. Maybe by 24 or 25. You see this thing called career mmmm don’t worry let me not shake this table If you married at 24 or 25, I'm sure you won't be marrying your mate? I need an honest response. |
Family › Re: Mention The Year You Will Like To Get Married And At What Age by IAmTobore(m): 10:55pm On Mar 24, 2020 |
Honestly, now I'm 26, in my second year in university, still receiving stipends from my older siblings with no means to sustain myself. No girlfriend, nothing-nothing. With that said, I don't know when I will get married. |
Computers › Re: Super Clean UK Used HP Core I7 8gb 55k - ITEM SOLD by IAmTobore(m): 6:47am On Mar 22, 2020 |
Can u open the page containing the device info and snap it? Also snap the keyboard from an angle that will make the Intel sticker clearly visible. |
Computers › Re: UK Used Core i5 4gb 500gb by IAmTobore(m): 6:39am On Mar 15, 2020 |
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Family › Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by IAmTobore(m): 6:39am On Mar 12, 2020 |
Oluwatunmise529: Hi people
I live with my aunt who is a pastor's wife. I got there four months ago due to the fact that my dad had some problems then.
But the first day I got to my aunt's place, I got the shock of my life. The house was totally dirty, even the sink in kitchen was removing maggots. She told me to clean and wash everything but being my first time with her. I told her I can't do them. Then she said she would slap me if I don't do her wish. I ended up doing them and since then am being used like a slave.
When I told my dad about everything.. She told my dad I need home training that I can't do anything and my dad told me to stay since he doesn't want it to cause a rift between them.
My aunt am talking about is an elder sister to my late mom but the same father and different mothers. There was a day she told me my grandmother was a witch and she killed one of her children before she died and she uses my witch grandmom to describe me to people in the neighborhood. I always feel ashamed.
She has a daughter who doesn't cook and clean or do anything... I end up doing everything and still it isn't enough, at the end of the day she tells me am lazy... Am always afraid to look when I pass by a mirror because I always look so dirty and haggard. Just yesterday rain fell here and she left some things outside. I ran outside to take those things inside and the next thing she did was rain insults on me because of that..
She has never raised her hands on me but only maltreat me.. I cried myself to sleep..I was always a jovial person before but now am always crying and moody and am beginning to hate her.
I don't laugh at all anymore even at funny things.. I only have hatred for her and her family...I don't want to hate anyone and I want to go back home and be myself again....am planning to run away now but am really scared of the outcome... Worst is everyone thinks she is a good person because she is a pastor wife....
Am so fed up and always unhappy... Someone pls help me I can't even finish your story. My dear, run away. |
Car Talk › Re: Accident Or Car Arson? by IAmTobore(m): 7:19am On Jan 20, 2020 |
oshe11: Is this possible even after I have parked the car for Hours?
If Yes, then this might be what happened because I asked one of my boy to change the battery for me I guess your boy didn't handle the battery well, and the battery terminals must have been coming in contact with the car's body. By the way, are you sure there was no cigarette around when you parked it, or are there any smokers in your compound. |
Romance › Re: Policemen Help Execute A Lovely Proposal To 'The Most Loyal Nigerian Girl' by IAmTobore(m): 9:12pm On Jan 06, 2020 |
Osobi32: Only 1% of Nigerian ladies can be this loyal to a man. She is a young girl. Pretty young and seems innocent. |
Travel › Re: Iran: Reconsider Travelling To Nigeria, US Warns Citizens by IAmTobore(m): 6:25pm On Jan 06, 2020 |
Orissodiq: I just pray this people should not drag Nigeria to their stupid war. But seriously each of the both country will want to drag Nigeria along because of some reasons. 1 Nigeria is the best location as ally because of population and power in West. 2 Al-Shabab striked the joint military base of US and Kenya yesterday night and American military commander in Africa has promised retaliation. 3 Iran have interest in northern parts of Nigeria to gain the Shia influence. But seriously NIGERIA HAVE BETTER TO GAIN IF THEY JUST FOLD THEIR HANDS AND DID NOT TAKE A SIDE OF OUR OIL AND DEMAND FOR IT IS GONNA INCREASE IF IRAN IS INTO WAR. i know those people that understand opec and warfare will understand better. Only those with oil blocs will enjoy. The common men will endure high petroleum prices. |
Travel › Re: Fatal Accident Along Lagos-Ibadan Expressway (Graphic Photos) by IAmTobore(m): 6:13pm On Jan 06, 2020 |
Youngsage: Speeding in a sedan or SUV, what's the difference Handling is the difference. But it wasn't necessary for him to add urus. |
Travel › Re: Fatal Accident Along Lagos-Ibadan Expressway (Graphic Photos) by IAmTobore(m): 6:10pm On Jan 06, 2020 |
Madaraa1: that is why I prefer back seat What if the truck run enter them for back. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Mourners Attend Qasem Soleimani's Funeral Ceremony. Iraq Asks US Forces To Leave by IAmTobore(m): 7:27pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
FlyoruB: The demand by the Iraqis that the u.s leave their country can be considered a major diplomatic coup by Tehran and a big slap to America, after spending trillions of dollars and wasting so many American lives, only to be disgracefully asked to leave by those they paid with American blood to 'liberate' American misadventures in the Middle East are always bound to fail from the very beginning. So.... You'll allow another man to leave his house and come to use your house as ground to fight your neighbour? |
Career › Re: She Absconded From Work, Now She Begs To Come Back by IAmTobore(m): 6:40am On Jan 05, 2020 |
Abujaexpress: Strictly professional. I took her like my younger sister Taking her as your younger sister ain't professional. |
Career › Re: She Absconded From Work, Now She Begs To Come Back by IAmTobore(m): 6:34am On Jan 05, 2020 |
Abujaexpress: My fellow employers in the house, I crave your indulgences to be guided on this issue, thus: I employed a lady as my secretary. She had worked for about 3 months before she failed to resume work on a particular day and all my phone calls to her were not answered by her. After a few days, a friend that brought and guaranteed her employment with my firm called me that the girl said I shouted at her and flinged a document towards her, as a result of which she left.
The following day, I called the girl, this time around she picked, albeit reluctantly and I told her that since she has refused to show up at work, she should return the office key which was with her. A few days later, I did not know when she sneaked into the complex and gave the key to my neighbour, which he delivered to me.
I subsequently called the girl and asked her if she does not want to work again, she simply said that she is attending to her health in her village. I did not hear from her since then untill the 2nd of the following month, December when she called me to request for transfer of her salary to her. I initially asked her to come to office to resign and handover officially for me to work out her salary, but I later allowed human feelings to take hold me and I calculated/substracted the numbers of days she did not work for that month and transferred the balance to her.
Immediately she called to thank me and she again called on new day to wish me a happy new year.
Then suddenly on the 3/01/2020, she sent me a message that she would pls want to talk with me. I agreed to listen to her. She called me to say if I have not employed another secretary, that she would want to resume and that if I will allow her to work with me again. I simply told her that I would look into it and get back to her. Am yet to give her field back.
The issue now is, considering the nature of her leaving work AWOL, and now calling to beg to come back, should I accept her back or I should her engage a different person (already I have some applications for the job on my table).
N. B. Kindly note that her brief stay in my office have exposed the girl as a dishonest fellow and her penchant for excuses from office citing sickness and flimsy excuses is very her.
I need advice please. If you are not having feelings for her, I see no reason why it should be a big deal employing someone else. |
Celebrities › Re: The Top Earning Instagrammers Of 2019: Cristiano Ronaldo Tops List With £38.2m by IAmTobore(m): 2:04pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Seetto:
how is the earning coming, I don't understand.. They get paid for ads to be placed on their page. |
Romance › Re: She Gets Angry Unnecessarily. by IAmTobore(m): 6:27pm On Dec 26, 2019 |
Martinez39: Hehe. You need to love her more and accept her sh!t. Worship her and apologise even when you are wrong. If she gets angry, insults you, and freaks out on you in public, don't set her straight or break the relationship, don't set standards in your relationship instead, you endure and apologise. Isn't that the price to pay for love? You still don't know what to do? Well, apologise even when you are wrong and accept her unnecessary anger and insults after all, you love her. Don't you? Endure, tolerate, and always be at her beck and call and always have the mindset that no matter what, her nastiness is your fault and there is something fundamentally wrong with you that you must change and be the man she wants. Oshisco. Guy u bad o |
Sports › Re: Floyd Mayweather Tops Forbes List Of Highest Paid Athletes - Full List by IAmTobore(m): 7:40am On Dec 26, 2019 |
drips8: Guys like that with huge earnings make going to school seem like a waste of time and effort. Ronaldo went to school. I don't know of the others. |
Sports › Re: Floyd Mayweather Tops Forbes List Of Highest Paid Athletes - Full List by IAmTobore(m): 7:37am On Dec 26, 2019 |
Abfinest007: is this earning just for 2019 alone For the decade |
Sports › Re: Edinson Cavani Signs A 3-Year Contract With Atletico Madrid by IAmTobore(m): 7:29pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
Angelfrost: If injury free, Cavani will outscore every one of them. Did he ever win golden boot in serie A? |