₦airaland Forum

lexy2014:
Oga, government & d general public are two different entities

Haba!!! Oga, theoretically they are different entities, in REALITY and in real life they are the same.

Odinaka00:
If only she was not drunk when she gave birth to you, you wouldn’t have become this pathetic idiot that you have become. Nonsense thing

Always making stupid and unnecessarily rude statements!!!

edoairways:
This is where you are ignorant. The church fund is for their members not the general public. Unlike government funds which entails compulsory levy, church's own is voluntary

The church is a registered social entity and it solicits funds from its congregation, who are public citizens of Nigeria. Voluntary or involuntary, any contribution made to the church belongs to the members of the church, NEVER the church. And since each member cannot reclaim that money individually the church management are holding funds and assets in trust as trustees for the general public (the GOVERNMENT!).

I know this concepts are too hard for the average Nigerian (corrupt and stupid).

beges:
Are you human or robot? Sorry I had to ask

Irrelevant question!

Ask a sensible question and you’ll get an answer.

BePrepared:
Church money, public money.

May sense fall upon you, this I pray.

The church is a registered social entity soliciting money from the congregation. The congregation are members of the public!!!! Too hard for your brain to understand?

ogbonti:
conjectures - contradictions - frustration, is all I see from your response. Your response does not remove the fact that I am a naturalized American citizen and you are not. I am not disputing that you have not visited the US but visiting is one thing, staying here and being legal and surviving America is another kettle of fish. Yes, no be to visit America be the thing oo na to stay and even when you become legal, you have to make money and live well so I am not your mate in this life and another life- and why are you running from pillar to post - been all over Europe and the world doing what exactly ? Ajala- travel all over the world

we wey dey travel for vacation and they ball we no fit talk- you small crayfish dey make noise up and down, guy go and fix your life, and stop constituting nuisance in a public forum like nairaland - America is not the greatest country in the world - ? Guy make I clear you sharp sharp- during this pandemic alone at least we can verify a few things

Even the poor have collected $1,200 $600 and now $1,400 for a single person oo not to talk of their kids - lump sum, this does not include unemployment money running into at least $30,000 per adult for the last one year - I mean a poor adult

multiply $33,200 by N475 = N15,770,000- That was what the US government gave to the poorest American as survival cash - we are not talking of the food vouchers to buy groceries at home ooo


Tell me - Mr America is not great, what did Nigeria give you for the past one year of the pandemic? Audio N50,000 abi ? and the only benefit you got was a bag of rice and packet of indomie and you stole it when you robbed the Oba of Lagos palliatives store house

Guy make u shorrop there - even Canada and UK and western European nations have not done as much as America for her citizen in the last one year you dey here dey yan dust- frustrated agbaya like you

See this low level economic illiterate!

Go and get some knowledge in finance and economics! And get even more knowledge on the economic structure of the world.

Loudmouth with a green card

Golan007:
Shut up.

Nothing special about living in America.

Perhaps it is the greatest achievement someone in your village has ever attained.

First from his village oooo!

“Oju o ri ola ri”

Trump has $5b in his account? That show you his poverty mentality. See as he is celebrating the USA I stayed for years in the 90s (California for that matter). I even enrolled at UCLA in Berkeley in 1991 (Business School).

Idiat got a green card and he is making noise all over the place.

I bet he is not even a professional in the US!

Foolish Ogbonti

ogbonti:
When I became a citizen of the greatest country God gave to Man : The United States of America, most likely you were in Primary 2. If thinking I stay in Nigeria gives you inner peace from your failure to meet up in life, so be it- sleep on lazy bones!!!!

Which effing greatest country on earth?
One built on genocide and other evil bloodletting....Abeg... FYI

I was in LA few months back. I stayed in Hawthorn, Inglewood, Hollywood Hill and Van Nuys in the valley. I even spent a few days in SAN Bernardino.

Been everywhere in Europe sef.

Stop making foolish statements on SM. Idi...t

PeaceLovJoy:
Oyedepo has just said the truth. I used to believe in Nigeria, but not anymore. Nigerians arent ready to change. Naija will not get better soon. The people must first change before she changes. Oil will soon be a thing of the past. It's unfortunate, but this is the truth. And personally, I am not willing to sacrifice anything for Nigeria again. I have done enough.

Keep this negative bad energy to yourself! Don’t comment and spread your negative energy around. Some of us remain positive so don’t pollute our positive mindset!

edoairways:
It is not the responsibility of the church to build factories. Hold your politicians accountable instead of chasing shadows

This is a FOOLISH and IGNORANT statement!

The church money is public funds, just that Nigerians are incredibly stupid people.

ogbonti:
And you - who borrowed N100 to buy Glo data promo to insult Trump who has nothing less than $5 Billion in his Bank Account - you are over fvcked by life already - O ma se o

Trump’s accountant, yet you have never left the shithole!

Let’s say he has $5b in his account (which is totally untrue btw), so what?
What will he do with the money? Obviously you have never seen money in your life, otherwise you will know the limitations and the deep headache lots of money brings.

Just shut it! Shithole citizen!

bukatyne:
Good one Zaha

It makes me happy when I see people who think things through and not just regurgitate words/actions.

How does kneeling before a football match stop racism?

Are footballers the only victims/perpetrators of racism?

Refusing to go through the motions....rare in the world today.

Symbolism is just as important. You haven’t lived in a white country so please sir Shut up!

bukatyne:
Good one Zaha

It makes me happy when I see people who think things through and not just regurgitate words/actions.

How does kneeling before a football match stop racism?

Are footballers the only victims/perpetrators of racism?

Refusing to go through the motions....rare in the world today.

Symbolism is just as important. You haven’t lived in a white country so please sir Shut up!

ibedun:
Another commentator from the SHITHOLE!
Have you ever lived in the UK? Evidently not, your statement is more than stupid!!!

Nairalandian:
Nonsense talk.....
It's an English league, so it's understandable that they're only English referees.
How is not having a black match official racism...
People sef.
You can only complain when balck referees aren't chosen for intl competitions like the World cup

Another commentator from the SHITHOLE!
Have you ever lived in the UK? Evidently not, your statement is more than stupid!!!

Proton99:
How many white coaches and players do they have in the Nigerian League?

Use your brain sir. God! What a STUPID FOOLISH THOUGHTLESS statement? Smh!

Odinaka00:
No black ref in EPL, no black coach, no black linesman rather you will see a white female lineswoman. These re the things they should be protesting for and not this nonsense Black Lives Matter nonsense.. All these black people who cry over racism re either tribalists, xénophobes, religious fanatics and name it... you hate your fellow black person but when a white shows you the same hatred then you start crying like a baby

Ignoramus always making stupid statements from their SHITHOLES!

richie240:
There are many gods: Ogun, Allah, Buddha, Vishnu, Ayelala, Amadioha etc, but there's only one ALMIGHTY God!

My ppl say, " Ojú kó la fiñ mobè tó ní maggi; àfi ta bá bù lá níbè"
(The eyes can never perceive the soup which contains maggi except u taste it)

The Almighty God is known by its infinite power and who can best tell u of this if not the satanists, sorcerers, witches/warlocks etc.

They will tell u d devastating effect of how just the mentioning of his name (ordinary name o) does to them.
You can mention any other god in their midst but not the name of the Most High, lest u suffer dire consequences.

It is that 'Almighty God' who the devil, demons and satanists shiver at the mere mention of His name I'm talking about here.

I'll suggest u make ur findings abt what i've just said b4 u make a rejoinder!

CAPITAL RUBBISH!!!!

Travel and see the world. Nobody knows Jesus Christ in many top class countries.

Hiploko:
Farming na choice. I cannot be induced to farm due to failure of the government

Ok ooo. My cousin is a big farmer now. Couldn’t get a uk visa for 13 years. He got married, wife left him, he woke up and started farming small scale...the rest is history. Tell him to come Uk he’ll say ‘keep it’.

How old are you? Time dey go oooo!

Hiploko:
abeg naaaaa

Go to your village and FARM!

anonymousposts:
If you are the one this happened to then I will surely help you
what area - take a pick
Software Dev? QA? DevOps?

No bro! It didn’t happen to me. I am just seeking a new avenue to change my life....and expand my horizon. Your help will be greatly appreciated and my children will thank you.

Hiploko:
shhhhhhhhhhh. Come back make we exchange slots.

Go and get your own visa my friend

richie240:
Almighty God's!

Which almighty God?

The one before or after Oyinbo came to fool our ignorant and stupid forefathers?

Africans believe every rubbish told to them by crafty white skinned people.....

grafixdon:
46

He has a very short window of time to reverse his misfortune. He needs to clear his head first, get his emotions right and begin to rebuild. He must work extra hard and use every penny he earns very very wisely. If he clocks 50 in the UK he could be homeless in his later years.

SweetCunt97:
You got me wrong. Having money to offer only cannot keep a woman. Seems u hate women ryt? Anyway that's ur cup of tea

You are wrong, I don’t hate women but I am very sensitive to their intentions and tomfoolery. They are ever so calculating when they come into contact with men and it is usually the case with matured ladies (worse among those from poor countries like Nigeria). I don’t like that.

richie240:
by 'legitimate' sex, I meant guiltless/'holy' sex devoid of formication/adultery.

Legitimacy based on whose standards or rules?

baralatie:
Shey you know the person you quote so?

See how you fall hand

The person pass human being? Abi wetin you dey smoke?

bubu2019:
Back to where?
Brother stay there
Better stay and even die there than to come back at least no kidnapping or Fulani killers ther

People like you can’t make it in Naija. Your brain is so full of Naija problems that you are blind to the opportunities abound, Shame!

anonymousposts:
I will usually not reply to many things here but in order to help you and make you understand that it is not the end of the world, I will share my experience and a little advice
I had a similar experience and it is a common scam in the UK. I went through a divorce 6 years ago and I know a friend who is going through one at the moment too
Do not mind the people calling you names - most times, things happen in spite of our cleverness and good intentions -m just listen here

So in my own case - I tried my best to make the marriage work, I put my ex in nursing school - scratch that - college to gain qualification for nursing school then nursing school. I also helped sort out her immigration issues. Those two things cost a lot of money for those who know

I was already a top-ten percent earner in the UK( that starts at £100,000 p.a as at then BTW), never cheated, watched out for her best interest and I was a Christian leader as at then. In fact, she was the only reason I couldn't buy a property earlier than I did, I wanted her to rise to meet similar financial status as mine. She and her mother used to call me "oloore mi" - my helper translated from Yoruba

Then as soon as she started making a little headway she became really nasty, setting me up every time, throwing me out of the house at will.
I, all of a sudden became a stingy man( funny enough I am nearly sure I was among the highest-paid all around us then and all income went into the marriage and I even took money from my mother at times)
My mum became a witch to her (it was my mum that encouraged me to put her in nursing school o, she herself being a nurse. )
I became the lazy guy to her- meanwhile, I was paying an au-pair £700 per month to look after her and our kids whilst I worked o(an aupair is the UK equivalent of house help in Nigeria ) aupair clened cooked etc, she sat pretty

- to earn £100k, you have to wake up really early to go to the city and come back late oh - and loads of traveling

I was thinking, I'm a Christian I didn't want to get a divorce. You see, I worked for a multi-national Oil and Gas firm, and being a friendly and humble guy, I will usually go downstairs to chat with the dinner ladies and among them a very beautiful, mixed race 23 years old who really liked me and wanted to date me then even but genuinely I wanted to honour God, despite going weeks without sex as a married man

Then I bought a house. I genuinely wanted to add her name but because she hadn't attained her PR status banks refused(she had exceptional leave) and then the set up was now too much

Don't go to Nigeria though. Stick it out
travel on vacation
You will be ok

Would you be kind enough to give me IT training as I need to shift gear myself before my story changes, many thanks Bro!!!!

franchasng:
You are talking nonsense, I personally sent my wife and baby away to a saner country for a purpose.


Most wealthy men all over the world don't spend much time with their family, only broke and insecure men glue on to their wife daily humping her and manufacturing babies yearly.


How many days does Bill Gates and Melinda spend in a whole year when he is busy touring the world for business and philanthropy


Stop thinking like ancient men.


You can actually live in a different country from your wife and still enjoy a blissful marriage than those who live with their wife. I am a living testimony to that okay

Me too!

Lately she has been making trouble about going abroad and I’ve promptly shown her the DOOR!

omoharry:
So you are suggesting that the man stays abroad alone while his family remain here in Nigeria ? Then why marry at all ? Its either he remains here with his family or he marries over them and be with them .It make no sense for a man to be abroad while his wife and kids remain in a different country apart . Why marry in the first place ?

Anyway ,it's seem painful & unfair when men are at the receiving end of social injustice in the U.K. .But over here in Nigeria ,women have been abused and maligned for crying out for injustice by thier husbands and our society will tell them to go back home and be a dutiful wife so that the man would be of good behavior .
Men would cheat on thier wives ,bring home-deadly diseases, due to thier philandering ,beat up these women if they dare stand up to protest against thier husband and take thier children away from them, if they dare ask for divorce .Especially when the wife is not financially independent .

I sympathize with these men that are going through hell in the U.K, due to thier divorce from thier wives . But I still believe Nigerian men still export thier alpha male tendencies with thier wives in the U.K. They should know that over there in the U.K. the woman is king but here in Nigeria they are subject and powerless .
They should learn how to adjust accordingly depending on the country they are .

Once the man goes abroad he should terminate the marriage in Naija, compensate the lady, provide for the children and move on......

Marriage is not permanent. And nobody should be allowed to marry unemployed dependent man or woman. They are not qualified for marriage.

Heathrow44:
UK is that bad when it comes to divorce laws, I can never live as a married man in the UK how can I just live my house I built with my sweat for a woman that I married as a wife that came to the house with only one Ghana must go bag!!? What the hell!!!!! If is like this, I'm coming to London to live only as a single person and for vacation!

House you built in the UK?

We need to stay away from Nairaland sometimes

Heathrow44:
Leave that other idiot up there saying he should move back t nigeria, I'm sure is a woman using male moniker! He needs all the support he can get, but I thought in divorce cases the state provide a lawye/state prosecutor 4 people that for one rsn or another don't have one!

See this Naija based adviser that has never travelled anywhere.......keep quiet oga