₦airaland Forum

MiztaFabuloz:
He has finally picked Abba Kyari's call just as I mentioned earlier.

you are not serious!

Traveling at that time is just too fucking risky.. I can’t even try it.

Zeinymira:
Spending too much time on phone

depending on what you are doing on your phone.. I stay longer on my phone while taking order from fiverr clients.

Eberechi24:
Hmmm false. Well, it depends on the definition of friendship. I have a male bestie but we haven't bleeped and never will. He has a hot gf.

besties na scam, it favor girls shaa because it’s only gullible guys do the shiit call besties.. if I meet a girl and she tell me she has male besties, i will take a walk.

chigo5:
i prefer friends with benefits no emotional attachment e dey sweet pass bestie, who bestie help.

nothingn sweet pass this Bro, I have been in a friend with benefits since almost 8 months nah and I must says it’s the best relationship so far.. me that I don’t like relationship before.

Gerrard59:


What is the farm's name and what does it deal in?

I can’t remember the name, majorly poultry.. I went there for excursion when I was in 300 level.

My first time of visiting Ibadan that I supposed to back to Lagos same day. I wanted to use ATM to withdraw the last money for transport back to Lagos.. naso Uba machine swallow my card. Make I no tell una the rest

I hope they could move further to seize his farm located at Eyenkorin.. almost 10 hectares, 90 percent of his workers there are white.. guys you need to see the farm.

PrettyLolo:
Yes..... My beloved son, my second child and first son. 6 months ago is still like yesterday in my mind. Each time I see his belongings, I cry.
God pls console me. I'm losing it all.
My 1yr3months boy.

accept my condolences!

Seunaj05:
I had 3.5M worth of Bitcoins which was my life savings when I was doing my Masters in 2016. I made a panick sale to a scammer who immediately blocked me on whatsapp after I sent coins. Sadly, Bitcoins price surge massively after that incident ans that investment could have meant a fortune, It felt like the world was going to end. To God be the glory, I bounced back, and today I have made a 100 folds of that loss buying and selling Bitcoins.

thank God your life bro.. come and teach me how to buy and sell bitcoin. Thanks

I stopped reading halfway but from the little I read, this Op is just a slowpoke, How can you because of a woman that doesn’t add any value to your life and remain in this country while you can further your education abroad? She was taking advantage of you after she noticed you such an emotional man and too much caring.. No woman will ever appreciate when you are too lenient and helping financially. You have been playing husband roles since you guys met and you expect her to tell you she can’t marry you. I just don’t understand why some guys see woman as a priority while they are supposed to be fighting for their own independence.. mumu man

Evablizin:
Human being is very difficult to handle.

most especially in this shitthole country.

bjgurl:
I'm ready spiritually not financially

why not financially? Should be ready completely.

SweetyZinta:
Insha Allah, i repaid even before sitta shawwal. That is my normal way of repaying. May Allah grant us good health to participate actively in our deen. Provide us with sahur and iftar, peace and tranquility in this trying time.



Jazakumullah khairan!

Amin Hajia.

Are you sure you haven’t been having too much or sex ??

I have seen more than 15 porn tape on my gf phone, the reason why I don’t bother is that we are not dating officially.. we are just friends with benefits, she is sex addict. so, anytime we are not together, she play it to satisfy herself.. don’t ever go for a sex addict girl Op.. any lady that keep porn on her phone can’t for without sex.. she might not even like you to have sex with her but believe me.. she is addicted to sex..

Send money to all verified bvn and stop distributing rice joor. Not everyone doesn’t have rice. Nonsense!

Noblefirstlady:
You are right I think panic will affect some people even before the virus and I'm one of them. I'm so scared right now I may get heart attack anytime.

relax dear, we shall not fall victims.

This virus is spreading very rapidly. It’s really becoming very serious.

igwedehxy:
I actually choose the sch cos its in the southwest. I stay in Lag and won't want to go outside the southwest so as to attend to my other businesses

why not Lautech?

I’m not sure this country have the valid device to detect this virus.

Leezah:
Choose. Your girlfriend has reason to feel the way she does and you know it.

Maybe.

2 out of 2 times I have ever been jealous of an ex boyfriend's friend (not with every ex boyfriend was this an issue) it was found out later that the female friend was indeed crushing on my boyfriend. Women unlike men tend to “read” people well, especially other women. When in love a woman's intuition especially tends to intensify. Then again so does her jealousy so this can be a tricky situation that requires some reflection and honesty with yourself and openness with your girlfriend.

Some of what made me feel jealous in these times was intuition, but some things I just simply understand by being a female myself and having many female friends. I knew certain subtle things females do when they like a guy and saw it. Even personally I crushed on guy friends before and some never suspected it. So it's definitely possible your girlfriend sees something you don't.

Anyways, aside from intuition and certain gestures i saw, I noticed that these 2 boyfriends would run to the female friend with all the problems we had as though she was his “refuge”. This is growing intimacy with your friend instead of your girlfriend and a BIG NO-NO. It would have been better that they went to an older and wiser man for counsel than to her.

Although you may go to your female friend for advice with other problems you should never ever come to her with relationship problems. Friends of the opposite shouldn't know all the intimate details of your relationship. As soon as you have a girlfriend this is the most immediate way in which your friendship to your friend should change. By you coming to her you are now showing her what sort of romantic partner you are and how “romantically compatible” you now are with her.

Women are weird. As soon as you deeply open up about these conditions of your heart, etc, we cant help but to at least wonder if we are romantically compatible especially since we come out the womb being relationship/love oriented. Unless you want your female friend trying to now question secretively if you and her are compatible its best you leave her in the dark about this “intimate” side of you or only expose this side of you when you are single. Also don't break up with your girlfriend and the next day run to your female about the issues. Especially in young love people break up then 2 months later are back together.

Overall allowing a female friend to see these aspects of you should be when you are single (via the title of being single and via emotionally being untied to anyone). Then and only then you should share your romantic/relationship characteristics with your opposite sexed friend and even then just know you are opening the strong possibility that this friend will now start qualifying and disqualifying you as a romantic partner. If you want female advice then ask older women but maybe not your mom or those who would have too much bias and too easily take your side. Maybe Nairaland could be good however take every answer with a grain of salt including my own.

Honestly relationships and determining what is acceptable and not acceptable is personal and takes personal reflection. You can't just take advice for everything.

I especially think in today's world with so many boys raised without fathers its not good to get all your relationship do's and don't from females. You shouldn't think like a female when dating a female. You should think like a man. For the most part men have to be more patient and giving in certain areas of relationships and women should be more patient in other areas.

Learning intimate relationships is not like learning to be politically correct or learning what's publicly proper. Although I do recommend reading relationship books from people who share your same vision of intimate relationships dating someone is the foundation in an intimate world you are creating and everyone is different in what they can accept or what they prefer. People's preferences in love ranges from the most traditional to the grotesque…

Meditate on what you want. Overall if this is a woman who fits every aspect of your vision of an intimate relationship than her opinion does matter. At the end of a day you and HER will be the main creators of a world between your walls and conforming to her in all aspects that's reasonably possible and vice versa is key in making a lasting relationship (keyword:reasonable).

Overall there are many questions you have to ask before you seek to end your friendship. In my own situation both of these boyfriends much later “confessed” that they deeply knew the female friend liked them since I first mentioned my jealousy but they thought it wasn't a big deal unless they fed into it.

Personally I felt these were feeding into it (again men don't tend to know the world of female emotion as well). Can you honestly and I mean SINCERELY look at all the encounters with your female friend say that beyond a shadow of a doubt this friend has absolutely, and I mean absolutely has no crush on you? Honestly not even her having a boyfriend matters. Having a boyfriend doesn't stop one from having basic human desires towards another. In divorce courts we see this clearly, so of course in simply dating we can't deny this simple fact of life.

Anywho, despite my own experiences, at the end of the day I would not say it's the best solution to always cut off the female friend just because your girlfriend is jealous especially without considering these things I mentioned.

Many times we date just to date and practice a long term commitment.

Look at everything mentioned here, reflect, keep intimate problems away from opposite sexed friend, and determine your motivation in dating the woman you're with. Is she practice or is she the one?
Is she seeing something you don't or is it jealous?
Is it every female friend and interaction that makes her jealous or is it just this one friend?
Is not conforming to her in this way worth risking a lifetime of not having her by your side?
Many questions to ask before you take any action.

you talk too much over another person matter

Wouldn’t that slim girl stay away from him..

Congratulations to Abdullah..

Inkling:
Person pikin go just die

One week rain dey carry motor for lekki

240 go move oshodi BRT terminal go third mainland bridge

i’m sure it won’t be consecutive, just total in a year.. Though it’s still much!

candidbabe:
Enough is enough of voting incompetence leaders in Nigeria

No body is competent brother..

StreetFight:
People are being shot everyday in USA, Trump has not resigned because of that. Can anyone mention any week that there is no killing in USA in the last four years?

you are talking nonsense dude, there is crime everywhere in the world but Nigeria has the highest insecurity rate so far, Nigerians has not been benefiting anything from this shithole call a country and you are there sneezing like coronavirus victim..

I really thought this man is dead long time ago! May God forgive my weird thought..

ThePansophist:
No some salary earners don't have enough but can pay monthly. They go to work early and come late. Using homes as just a place to aly the head

what of weekend?

ThePansophist:
Which area?


Will you be willing to sublet and get paid on a monthly let me bring someone?

it’s obvious you don’t love the person you want to put there.. you wan make noise kill the person?

GOFRONT:
Chaiii....Wait oo.

Na human being they Wrap like goods wen Cargo plane wan carry??

Ordinary 20K casket, His football club can't afford for him??

Na wao......No respect for the dead anymore....

God forbid, if Buhari die today, that is how he will simply be wrapped.. once you are gone, nothing left for you expect your good deeds..

Ifesinachi22:
I suffered a heartbreak just yesterday.
But i won't commit suicide because of her.

To even imagine it was still that yesterday that i bought a phone for her. She lost her phone and put her Sim in her roommates 2nd phone. I emptied myself and bought a phone for her. She saw my ex pics on my phone and flayed up calling me many names, a womaniser that can sacrifice anything to have her tight pussy. The thank you she will tell me is that am a womaniser that she's done with me. The insult was too much that i blocked her yesterday. I unblocked her this morning and made a threat that if she leaves I'll release her nude. With this i pinned her down. I love her so much and can go to any length to keep her. Am never going to release her nude. But she calmed down immediately she heard this. She has been seeking for advice on Facebook groups the whole of this evening. I've been seeing her "i need advice" on Facebook groups.

She has been loyal since 2pm that i told her this.

Am the boss

I don’t like to hear from a man saying I love her so much and can go to any lent to make her happy or so.. what is the reasons behind all these nonsense men of these days always talking about. The painful part of it is that, those girls they want to die for, has no single value adding to their lives.. only pusi and brst.. A sane man should be able to reason beyond that.. Focus on your live and put a values on yourself..