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prixxy7: wat if you ar coming from igando side?

debygirly: Heheheh ... 5.30 am ke.. I dey dia by 2am ooo



Meanwhile ... Hw cn 1 locate d camp sef? I knw its iyana ipaaja bt wh exactly?

debygirly: Heheheh ... 5.30 am ke.. I dey dia by 2am ooo



Meanwhile ... Hw cn 1 locate d camp sef? I knw its iyana ipaaja bt wh exactly?

Hissexcellencie: M chillin' btw, we gats find way spice here up o! Else I go baff una with salt

spyme: yes o....d tools plenty. btw i am so grateful to Automech for the info....I had already started calculating how much am gonna spend on food for 21 days. btw, i stay like a stone throw from camp but in order to get good space, i will be in camp like 5:30am on september 1st. cos i need a great bed close to the wall socket o......dnt mind me, i no fit shout. btw wen i went to collect my callup letter in surulere, so many foreign trained posted to lag like me were in oceans 2 as well. maybe thats why the forum is a bit dry.....u know some of these foreign trained peeps can like to form not wanting the nysc ish.......well well, who wants to join me 5:30am on september 1st?..... I be girlie o(in patoranking's voice)

hamedade2000: Thanks for the Info...U myt as well Toss ur blackberry into d lagoon!!!

samsard: 1; its the most secure smartphone OS (be it BB10 or older versions) but of course how many people would really need the high-grade data encryption that it offers.
2; Cheap data + data compression (You should know about BIS)
3; Some people are elitists and they think its a phone for the 'elites' (I mean brand name)
4; ignorance
We could go on and on
N.B BB10 devices can side-load android apps e.g Instagram et al

xtervaganza: David was a character? How did u male it out of high school? Donkey!

cap28: Your way of reasoning is mind boggling - instead of CONDEMNING the US/EU who imposed sanctions unjustly on Zimbabwe you are actually mocking the victims of those sanctions - is something wrong with you?

Its like me taking back my stolen watch from you and you turning around to ban anyone from doing any kind of business with me for simply exercising my right to get back my stolen watch - JEEZ SOMETHING IS SERIOUSLY WRONG WITH THE MIND OF MANY AFRICANS IF THIS IS THE WAY WE THINK.

if black Zimbabweans are not the rightful owners who are the rightful owners the white Europeans who murdered, rap.d and burnt the homes of the indigenous people in order to get hold of the land?

are the occupants of land in Abuja, lagos and port Harcourt white Europeans ? are they not Nigerians - WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOUR BRAIN?

CAN YOU GO TO ANY VILLAGE IN THE UK kill the occupants, ra.pe the women, burn down their houses and set up a black only settlement there - TRY IT IF YOU WANT TO COMMITT SUICIDE!!

xtervaganza: just shut up! And stop raving over your not so virgin poocee. Who cares if you're a virgin or not? U can as well seal it with super glue that's none of my business.



And for religion, keep fooling yourself. GOD loved David more than any man in his time and he had sex without marriage countless times. How about Solomon? How many concubines he had? Just buzz off us sex is not your thing and stop condemning people who have sex. Sex or no sex u die and ur does not even guarantee you anything afterlife. So gerraway from here

xtervaganza: u asked a question? Tell me how happy u would be if I asked u such question. I'll never in this life ask such a question because i respect u, but you asking me if I would be happy if my daughter brings a guy to my house to bang her shows u do not respect me, my family and u insult my honor

xtervaganza: believe me man, if no one is trying to Bleep my daughter then I would be very very worried as a father lol

Ihedinobi: Did I deny that it was?


Oh, that was apparent.


Lemme see, these are the main points I see in your argument:

1. It was immodest of the OP to put herself out like she did.

2. Bad girls want good husbands too and compete hard for them and sometimes win.

3. A virgin could still end up with a bad husband because even bad guys want good things and will probably do anything to get the best girls.

These three points do not quite counter my argument but they are fine. I can work with them.

#1
Yes, the OP could have been more modest. She could have made her point without referencing her credentials. Yes, it does seem like she's asking for applause. Yes, it does seem like she's entirely too pleased with herself. But this is all mostly because the vast majority of people are touchy about their sexxual weakness and sexxual failure. People feel threatened by the presence of someone who actually is morally superior to them because it brings their failings to the fore.

I agree that she could have made her opening post far less threatening by removing direct reference to herself. But I do not agree that it was necessary for her to do so. My reason is that people have grown way top brazen with sexxual immorality. If it is ok and even fashionable to keep flaunting one's complete disregard for sexxual propriety, it is not inappropriate for those who hold up moral values to mark themselves out as distinctly as possible. In fact, I do declare that it is imperative that they do so in order to outlast the moral decay that threatens to swallow every human sensibility at every turn.

#2
Of course, bad girls want good husbands too. Of course they do get them sometimes. This does not prove that well-adjusted virgins do not get them more easily. In my earlier argument I took care to describe the virgins who get their pick of good men. There are uppity virgins - ladies who treat themselves like the holy grail that everybody must kill for, they act like they are God's special gift to men. Their artogance puts good men off and challenges players to take them down a notch and teach them humility. The players generally succeed. Even where they do not, such virgins usually end up alone and bitter or stuck in a poor marriage.

But a virgin with a personality such as that described in the OP is gold. Men will fall over themselves to take it and the best of them do eventually. Believe me, those girls most certainly get their pick of good men. Of course there might be exceptions but I would venture to say that if we took a sample we'd find that women like that have the best marriages to the best guys more than any other class or group of women.

Bad girls get good husbands if they meet one good guy that catalyses their change. They suddenly realize that they don't wanna be hos anymore and wanna be a woman worthy of this amazing guy. Apart from this eventuality, they only end up with a good guy if the guy was an ex player who changed or a mouse who grew up and claimed his marriage and skillfully mastered them. If this is the case, it's obvious that virgins have the upper hand.

#3
Sure guys can pretend and run a wonderful package that snags them some of the "best" girls. But such packages depend on speed and a girl's degree of exposure to life and men. And a girl like the op described is not naive. She has been out and about and has some idea what guys are like. She just has never slept with one. That being the case, it'd be extremely tough to run a fast one on her. So she soon frustrates pretenders while keeping real contenders motivated. So again the only virgins caught by such men are naive virgins or uppity virgins.

Conclusion? Virgins like the op get the best guys and best marriages more than any others.

One final thing: the op did not suggest that the reward for virginity is a virgin husband. If there is any suggestion of reward it is the fact that the husband will always hold himself lucky because she's a real rare catch. And a man who thinks that of his wife is a man who makes a great husband. You see, it's really true that a good thing is its own reward

Lordlexyy: A typical tribalist. What has the suppose ideology of pdp produce after many years of deception and misappropriation? You Should be ashame for making a saint of pdp. The refusal of some s/e members from decamping isn't born out of a pdp ideology but indecision and incoherence that characterised their political calculation. Weep for s/e politics rather than apc. Btw, i don't support apc but i believe in change and apc should be given that benefit of doubt.

deshclones: Small boys full NL walahi...
@op..don't mind all these guys shouting 48hrs,1week etc..they will wait for years if need be sef...its ur call..if u feel you really love and want this gal..then keep trying..persistence and consistency will definitely pay off someday.kip trying...I have been there b4..I asked my present gf out for 6months straight...six months of consistent callin,chattin,visits etc..most tyms I get discouraged but I still held on..today I look back and am glad I did hold on cos she is everything and much more a man needs in a 21st century wife..
Getting a good woman with 90% of the attributes of a wife is not beans..you just have to prove that you are worthy of her love...and nothing moves a woman's heart than men that know exectly what they want and go for it despite the hurdles...I will only quit if she is insultive and uncouth..if not..carry on after all bob marley said and I quote "if she is amazing she won't be easy..if she is easy she won't be amazing..if she is worth it you won't give up,if you give up you are not worthy"

jeffizy: watch it bro. Don't let her make you the spare tyre.
It's good to wait, but 4 months?
Try and muscle up by taking her out,have a good time, tjen when you are done, ask her if it's yes / no.
The answer she gives that moment should guide you.
She's enjoying the fuss of two men and you are doing the nice man. It is not fair on a brother!