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[color=#1980BC]Yes your instincts about your woman is spot on....She only likes you for what you represent and the moment you reduce that representation,baba, she out before you say "Kim Kardashian".Personally, I don't dig hairdressers because they are the custodians of beauty and 'female packaging' which is a function of female manipulation in the 21st century...Kinda like messing around with a deadly snake, the moment you lose guard you gonna get bitten...We advocate you discharging her unceremoniously,don't worry she will be fine though pissed off at first but las las you go dey alright...Next time, remove your eyes from trophy women and high maintenance ladies.Get with a woman who is altruistic...A lady who is good for the sake of good and you will never be depressed on this kind of issues.[/color]

[color=#1980BC] LDRs are just buffers for simps to claim that they are in a relationship but we liken it to the act of an ostrich burying its head in the sand too afraid to face the harsh truth..... [/color]

generationz:
Oh, so, you people have the conscience to think about your sisters and daughters.

Una never see something.
What goes around will definitely come back around.

It could even bite your wives in the ass.

How would you like that thought uhn, another red piller banging your wife while you are away.

[color=#1980BC] Then she has freed me from the syndrome of Oneitis therefore I am free to spread my wings and Bleep b**tches to my heart's content...Its a win-win situation, Everybody wins.. [/color]

Martinez39:
Those days, the blue pill was everywhere with no red pill in sight. Those days, the pink (f) beside a moniker left boys thinking with their pen1s. In fact, boys that needed attention or wanted to scam people took the pink (f). That was until the wise ubunja came along. To the dismay of nairaland females, he scatter the red pills all over and left a great awakening in his path. MISEDUCATION IS THE BEST LEGACY.

[color=#1980BC]The blue pill stink was stifling...there was this mangina mod called sexzkills then who was a total arsehole and we had running battles over this other female mod ogugua...That stupid mod ran us out of romance section with bans whenever we had clashes with 'entitled' femalelanders.I had to settle and make my mark in the politics section. Now we can breathe easy...[/color]

[color=#1980BC] I've been a nairalander since 2012 and the romance section then was a cesspit of sissy men including yours truly and we all fought ourselves bloody over female validation. Boy, it was a golden age for those romancelanders with the pink (f) after their monikers...These quests for validation and popularity manifested in vainglorious activities like Mr Nairaland. ..Mrs Nairaland...Nairaland beach party....Nairaland romantic poem competition etc. Yes, they were fun times but in retrospect now they can be classified as childish horseplay catering for female attention in the dying hopes of a hookup in real time...But there is a wind of change blowing and we forsee a maturity settling over the section. Soon the romance area will be as measured and controlled as the family section devoid of neurotic simps and their dominatrixes all thanks to Miseducations...Welcome to the future. [/color]

stanley000:
thanks boss, you are more appreciated very nice delivery. I have tried to ignore her but u Know some crazy girls might just leave u like that especially now that there's so much dicck they have to choose from lol. but let's assume i really like her, how would u advice me to win her heart back?

[color=#1980BC]Like you, I'm just an acolyte in these kind of affairs.... heck, a month ago I was manipulated to risk my life over some b**tch I never even liked in the first place...that was me, pre-Ubunja. Now in a Post-Ubunja universe, I don't give a f**k anymore because all pussies are the same according to Ubunja's Miseducations. And guess what? Now I have so many pussies at my beck and call that it has become an exhaustive chore dishing my valuable attention and my 'bleeps' all round, that is if a b**tch is qualified.In your case here, having preferences puts you at a gross disadvantage and that is game over for you because you stand a risk of being exploited 'chasing' after some b**tch Your brain or dick has convinced you to prefer above others....But let us still suggest that you 'pretend' to be smitten over her, show her plenty love and care then at the height of it all..You drop her...Mehn,she will go ballistic over your case.Although we strongly suggest you don't have preferences,open your Ubunja powers to all kinds of women..[/color]

stanley000:
it might look that way to u the author but trust me alot of guys especially matured folks are gaining alot of knowledge and experience and from your write-ups. What I normally do is convert your write-up to PDF and save it for a more convenient reading. ever since I discovered your thread I have become a master of my game. whenever I remember how poor me used to cry for little ugly babes way back then I feel so embarrass lol.


and sir,I will like you to give me advice on what to do. I had this girl I met close to my house and I talked to her on that first date we exchanged numbers. she was the first to call me and asked me some few questions like if I live alone bla bla. 3dats later she came to my house and we had sex, she stayed till Dawn but something happened, she logged in Facebook on my phone and started chatting her ex and I demanded to see the chat but she said that if I saw it I would be hurt, so I let it slide coz that ex is at another state far away.

but ever since that first time she began acting strange and kind of started demanding money every now and then. I do give her most of the time and the other ones I would decline but now she's acting like she's no more in love with me. I don't want to believe that it's that money part because even on our first date I gave her money just to test her and she didn't accept it. tilll date now she's been acting really wield and even when I go to visit her she will hardly smile. ever since that first time she has refused to come to my house and she's always giving lame excuses.
this is someone that we had a great time and she even let me take her nude photos as in like real nude photos not just soft ones. she was really into me and I could tell but everything just turn around suddenly. please boss I need your advice,. thanks

[color=#1980BC] If bros Ubunja will allow me throw in my two cents here. I believe the babe in question is on the journey of an elaborate gold digging scheme at your expense.She's expecting you to chase after her thus putting you at a great risk of being exploited and manipulated mercilessly, this is just basic psychology at play here therefore the key here is reverse psychology. You showed your hand too early offering her money too readily which caught her by surprise.Suspecting a trap or a 'shi**t test' she declined so as to gain your trust for future gold digging purposes as her recent shenanigans has now proved....I suggest you flip the script and act like you don't give a sh**t....You've got 99 problems but the b**tch ain't one.If she's a good b**tch her brain will reset to factory settings but if she's a manipulative shrew then she'd be gone searching for the next potential victim. In this case you might have dodged a bullet.[/color]

ubunja:
that's why many men in the Red Pill are angry. Cause all their life they've been told what to do to get women. Now apparently the truth is opposite. It's infuriating.

Imagine a guy who does everything right from Primary school to College excelling and getting his life in order only to find girls gave virginity to broke and jobless jerks who dropped out of High School. And to see women became interested in you only after being single mothers. For real that shît hurts. That's why Incels are shooting up everyone in the US.

[color=#1980BC]Right here..That was supposed to be my fate till you saved my soul...[/color]

[color=#1980BC]Welcome to the other side bro..So happy for you. [/color]

[color=#1980BC] So Bros OBUKOMENA, you need to realize that you are the MAN and mentally detach yourself from your wife then sit back and enjoy the show or outcome..[/color]

[color=#1980BC] So i'd imagine myself as you..You know...37 years old with a wife and a kid...A man who works hard and has the means to support his family.I would let that sink into my psych let it flex my confidence a bit..Get me puffed up because it is an achievement..With more confidence the less i seek for validation from my wife instead I place my joy in spending time with my kid...I restrain myself from eating her cooking as well as sleeping on the same bed with her.Then I proceed to give off the impression that i'm having affairs ...'arrange' to have phone calls at ungodly hours in her presence or create some elaborate ruse to get her heart racing in anxiety..Or just stop being too 'nice and needy or clingy' to her in General. Your happiness is your choice and not hers..I do what makes me happy, I love flirting with women to boost my confidence....I like to f**k and manipulate women to my will...I love being myself,so I don't pretend and I do me..[/color]

[color=#1980BC]How do you flip the script? We know you are deeply principled in your Christian beliefs and all thus you might want to 'walk on eggshells' but we don't give a f**k. People might say you should wear something nice...be romantic...act confident...blah blah blah...We still don't give f**k..Why? Because a real man isn't suppose to seek vagina validation especially from someone with as much baggage as your Mrs. That's like buying cow sh**t with your life savings...With my life savings, I would like to buy an AMG badged Benz or get me a palatial home in Maitama or Bahamas..the last thing I would buy is sh**t. Least of all cow sh**t... [/color]

[color=#1980BC]Bros,Your wife has lured into a dead end,full stop. Whether deliberate or not, we don't know but we know for a fact that she has duped you and made you trade your best years for her depreciating years.The worst is yet to come....unless you take charge of your happiness instead of relying on her to make you happy.The problem here is you are more emotionally invested in this marriage than her...I don't how come...but that could be the main reason she isn't too keen on finding a resolution to this critical issue.Maybe she feels you don't have the balls to shake the table up a little..you know...give her a little 'competition anxiety'. Make her feel she has a lot more to lose than you. You must flip the script on her.... [/color]

[color=#1980BC] First off let us just say that your wife loves sex...Infact we can go out on a limb and say she's sucker for sex especially the hard brutal kind but unfortunately for you,her sexual imprint is already set in stone that is to say she will always be turned on by those who give off the impression or aura of her ex of 10 years...You, my friend..Do not fit that profile. You are just the unfortunate maga who just bought that fake iPhone packed with foofoo...You are the simp who the 'system' has ordained to bear the brunt of her mess Even though it isn't your fault. Now you must take responsibility because with it comes the power to change your situation. Yes it is her mess, her responsibility but ain't gonna take it because she is convenient with her situation as being married and a mother inspite of her sordid past.So why fix what isn't broken (as far as she is concerned)... [/color]

[color=#1980BC]Bros. I'm afraid you must cut your loss and let this woman go, forget what people will say and look after your best interest here. If you continue like this you might become suicidal and that is not what God wants from you...The beginning of your problem was your ignorance about today's woman and unfortunately you have fallen into the worst scenario any man could get and the tragedy is also your ignorance on resolving this predicament. I should jump and pass your problem but I feel you are in a hard dark place right now and you need closure...So imma choose to not give a f**k and school you...CC
OBUKOMENA [/color]

MariaLavina:
[s]Lol, when I warned guys against absolving and practising all they read here hook line and sinker I was called a manipulative bitch, I laughed and moved on.They will learn the hard way I thought and here it is.

Emmadeot, It is good to read. Very good to be exposed but it is very dangerous to read without guard, Guard as to why you read, what you want to gain? what impact you want to it to have. When you read, learn to filter. Not everything you read is practical for one, the authors life is different from yours you can only see similarities, I.e some things are common but not all things. The truth is I follow most of ubunja's thread too, my motives? sometimes to argue, learn and widen my horizon but they don't form me.As a matter of fact when I see traces of red pill in a guy's behaviour, I dump him in the gutters, yes we may still talk, say hi but I will never hold such in high place.I hate dramas and I have no time to entertain silly games.Heaven knows what would have happen if I were to be your wife. Not divorce certainly but you would have wished you acted better.


Let's see you have two lives now, the peaceful Christian life.One that's filled with love, family,
peace and joy and you also have the Worldly one which is filled with "the worldly truth" chaos, knowledge, doubt, insecurity and loneliness.Make a choice! Which path do you want to toll?[/s]

[color=#1980BC] This is just Bull shyte...We are talking about moving on to the next level..this one wants to plug us back into the Matrix. Anty, we are not doing again. [/color]

Martinez39:
You are acting as if a society that isn't gynocentric is misogynistic . Men can be alphas and red pill and still create a society that enforces women's right. Alphas and red pill men are not necessarily misogynistic, they are just people that know the truth about women, romance and relationships. The crux is that alphas and red pill men are men that are using their brains and can't be manipulated or taken advantage of by women using beauty, sexy body, romance or love. We can agree to disagree.

Islamic country: women get stoned to death when they accuse a man of rape and can't back it up.
Gynocentric country: women are automatically believed without evidence and the men they accused are most times thrown in jail and have their careers and reputation destroyed. #metoo, #believewomen
Red pill country: due process(innocent until proven guilty and evidence) is enforced during a rape allegation. The emotions and drama by a crying woman accusing someone of rape will not move anyone and won't be counted as evidence.

[color=#1980BC]Ok then let's just agree to disagree... [/color]

Martinez39:
No. Islamic countries are not red pill countries. The motivation behind the foundations of Islamic societies is a unique religious faith not redpill.

[color=#1980BC]They might not be red pill countries but they hell ain't gynocentric societies either and if you are looking for pure androgynous societies that is synonymous to a system built by red pills in our world today then you must look no further than Islamic societies after which you must take a closer look at the rights of women as far as they are concerned.....I still choose the status quo,if you ask mi. [/color]

emmaodet:
But anyone who is not delivered will be taken advantage on

[color=#1980BC]Let God Chase away flies from the tailless cows...I give you a case study..My brother-in-law comes from a race of giants. He's very intelligent and a leader of men.. A prime alpha if you ask me. But he's hopeless when it comes to female psychology thus he could be prone to a few feminine manipulations,luckily, my sister isn't cut from the same clothe like most Nigerian girls and they hit it off right from the go. Tis been five years of bliss. but I shudder to imagine a guy like that in the knowledge of feminine wiles, it would be devastating to not only himself (as some folks might not be psychologically able to handle the power of this knowledge) but to those close to him. So I rely on the system to put him and his likes in check, let God take control of the outcome.... [/color]

Martinez39:
The problem here is that you want to protect your sisters. I understand but you have to look at the big picture and things in the long term. Simps are not good for men. The system and society breaks and becomes gynocentric with simps around making it hard for men. Beside, teach your sisters decency and self control if you are really worried. There are a lot of alpha men that will marry decent ladies in Nigeria but not the gynocentric West. But prepare yourself, all women, including our mothers, daughters and sisters, "are just like that". You may not believe me but you will be shocked.

[color=#1980BC]You could be right but can we take the chance? Can I take the chance of waiting on an all red pill system? A system built by red pills..Oh wait there is a place already practicing that and it is called Islam where women are treated like pieces of property... Thanks but no thanks. I rather stick with the status quo as far as my mothers,daughters and sisters are concerned...[/color]

Martinez39:
Oga. It takes only intellect and being ingenious to build a good and harmonious system. Being a simp is not a requirement. All men can be alphas and still build a good system. The US, UK and other western countries having a good system that is gynocentric thanks to simps. Simps are a pain in the ass. We don't have to worry about women because they can do nothing except when they have their simps behind them. Women only get undue advantages against men when men(being simps) let them.

[color=#1980BC]See,i'm just looking out for me and mine especially my blood. I wouldn't want some gung-ho red pill thunder cat savaging chicas who are of my blood...My chicas are best served married or being with simps..thus I understand the benefits of the system even though I aim to exploit one or two of its loopholes but if we all exploit the system loopholes it will only bring chaos,anarchy and doom... You can be an Alpha but still be plugged in and all.[/color]

healthserve:
Apt. Another matrix in itself within a matrix

[color=#1980BC]And may God bless the day Ubunja unplugged us all... [/color]

healthserve:
The matrix principle applies. People we try to deliver, even professionals I.e doctors, lawyers will fight and persecute you. Morpheous words.

[color=#1980BC]If you ask me I wouldn't want all men to be delivered because if we all become lions who would become antelope? thus the system becomes highly unbalanced and volatile, many guys could use their newly found powers wrongly thus crashing this harmonious system simps have built.Our sisters and daughters could be caught out and exploited.. [/color]

[color=#1980BC][b]Totally relate with you bro...Tis best you keep the truth to yourself especially now that you're married because you could hurt yourself and those close to you in the long run...keep to the shadows but avail yourself to those who you feel might be susceptible to the truth or you feel the truth might improve the quality of their lives tremendously people like your brothers or young men around you who are unmarried..heck even married men also. See yourself as the character Morpheus in the movie Matrix who goes about looking to yank a Neo or two out of the rabbit hole whilst suffering the persecutions of not only those plugged into the system but also the custodians of the Matrix system "Agent Smith"..Right now,i'm trying to unplug my junior brothers who are horribly vulnerable as we speak and also take advantage of my newly acquired super knowledge or powers and bag a pussy here and there before finally settling down to Oneitis...but this time i'm settling in with my two eyes very wide open.[/b][/color]

[color=#1980BC]This is so wrong...
Has to be the height of misinformation..Probably a message for the simps by the simp.[/color]

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[color=#1980BC]Pap....with plenty sugar. [/color]

[color=#1980BC]A healthy dose of Ubunja's red pill could have saved him all the money and trouble... [/color]

[color=#1980BC]They will set up a whole theme park in Sanko just for him... [/color]

[color=#1980BC]Very rare and suspicious when a lady becomes logical like babe A.Would she become so if the money was there? Is she go in to help "fix things" first before marriage or is it OYO for you?.I think this is a subtle form of rejection akin to "lets be friends" format as I know that ladies can smell potential from a mile off and would be hopping out of desperation to get in for the ride unlike this one who might have options and as you don't qualify hence becomes logical and "starts speaking english"...Pick Lady B as she has recognised you as the "prize" and is competition anxious to follow you...and if you are skilled enough you can get her to follow you all the way for better for worse..Tis better to pick someone who is desperate or competition anxious than you(didn't say love because its a scam)instead of vice versa. [/color]