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Lalasticlala, mynd44, Seun

Lol

coolhamid:
All the guys that carried out that killings will all die a painful death in no distant time. It hurts to see women and children who were innocent being killed for a crime they knew nothing about.
After committing all these atrocities, later they would start claiming born again. You think you can deceive God abi

What about innocent men.
Confused sexist
Smh

Puff Puff for life

Na dem Awon cone heads

Hmmm

WiFi yo browse xvideos

Wizkhalifa2:
Why do guys sweat over girls? .. I don't get it.

As in eh
I wonder

diplomat058:
This is the problem I have with most custodians of the several religions. They will leave substance and chase after shadows.
The Rev. Father, for instance isn't concerned on how biblical teachings of the whatever approved versions can translate to better social welfare for christian adherents in this era of economic turbulence that can make one backslide or better still advocate the elimination of corruption and economic disparity in the society.
But then, can they really do that when they are the ones using their members' hard earned cash to fly private jets around.
Rather this man is concerned about who and who is a gay bible author, smhhh.

He's not a Catholic priest

Kingluqman89:
You just listened to flavour song... I get you.

Virtuous woman

austinleenski:
Not in Nigeria where corruption has made Microbiologists Chemist store owners, Tellers, Secondary school teachers, amongst others.
#BeYourOwnBoss
#BeCreative
#ThinkOutsideTheBox

Shut up

They all him, they call him, they call him BURRRRNAA BOY

Tajbol4splend:
Better start going to TB Joshua church

Well o don't think I need that. It's just that I don't think I have the time for that. Don't get me wrong o, I like dem girls but I've not seen a good reason to have a girlfriend.
Coupled with what I read here about men spending their fortunes on girls, am not just ready to give somebody my mumu button and don't think I'll ever will even if I marry. I want to be a compos sui (master of himself).
I went to the seminary tho.

I'm 20 and I've never kissed. Never had a girlfriend.

hysteriabox:
Nice. But I doubt u should say best

It's the best johr

Taaa H=Hello He=Helen Li=listen Be=broken B=bottles C=can N=never O=over F=flow N=Niger Na=so Mg=may Al=all Si=silly P=people S=suffer Cl=cholera Ar=against K=potassium Ca=calcium
This is the way I learnt it and I think it's the best.

Jahblessme:


Gosh!! where do i start from What kind of local story is this?

1. Your wife should have discussed with you first before her sister visited you both-she was very wrong but everything after that made you look so petty.You were counting water used to bathe and asking your cousin helper to report to you first? If she wants to eat eggs will that also be reported to you?Do you also measure yam with ruler in your house?
Your actions have sown a very bad seed - belittling your SIL & your wife.I do not blame your wife for being very angry but she should have cooled off first and expressed her annoyance to you without flaring up.

Just a quick question OP,if your sister visits and your wife tells your little cousin to report to her first before doing anything she asks for nko?How would that sit with you?Just know your wife will never forget,be ready for your siblings to recieve the same hot soup

Yes,you should have been told before her sis landed ,but the deed had already been done.You should have controlled yourself instead of acting like a miserable being.What did your SIL do wrong?she probably thought she was coming to visit human beings who would treat her well not knowing her husband is a hot water measurer
Best approach would have been to discuss the issue with your spouse quietly.See disgrace!



Your wife raised her voice,you raised your own too,asked her to leave your room.'Yoour Room'??!!! i thought you both are married? I cant even believe what i'm reading here.
In the same sentence you talked about not wanting to be a woman beater.I do not see any reason why beating should come into this abi you normally beat or you were raised by a beater?Violence should not be an option.ah ahhh!!!


Both of you displayed shameful behavior and i don't blame your SIL for leaving,you disgraced her infront of your cousin helper,you disgraced your wife,your wife as disgraced you & you have made her feel unwelcome. Tueh
She will go and tell the story to family members who already don't like you and you will officially enter hate list with tattered reputation.

Please do the world a favour and delay this wedding till you both learn to behave like adults.


If you want to be the leader of your home you must learn to conduct yourself with dignity and self respect.You have to lead by example.
Discussions can be had without raising of voices.If your wife starts to shout,tell her you won't listen till she calms down and addresses you like an adult.I also expect her to do the same to you.That way you both will learn to trust each other and start building your little unit,she will also stop seeing the need to tell every little deed to her family as you will become her best friend and confidante.

Normally you should be in honeymoon phase but you people are already acting like cat and dog.
Good luck o.






By the way the way you worded little cousin and 2 big pots are you trying to imply that the girl is too little to do chores in general or specifically chores for SIL? If she is little,ideally she shouldn't be in your home doing housework.

Shut up
Just shut up

CNN=Clinton News Network That's why Trump calls then #fakenews

Taaa

Make diz people no go any strike o. So dey want mek we stay at home or wat. Na we kidnap dia members?

Solomonudofia:
Ok time to take deep breath..... One... Two.... Three..... Go.. Oya every body



U S TO BE DESTROYED..... PUTIN REVEALS PLAN....

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6WmVdvHTSGw

If I tear you slap ehn

Na dem Yellow bar cone heads

DarkRebel69:
Lots of the dissenting remarks to OP's post prove one thing, that many Africans are still animals at heart. We might wear tuxedos, red bottoms, make-up, use iPhones, and whatnot, but underneath all that layer of civility is an animalistic proclivity waiting to break to the surface. Such a shame.

You are suffering from inferiority complex
Spare the rod and spoil the child.

DarkRebel69:
Lots of the dissenting remarks to OP's post prove one thing, that many Africans are still animals at heart. We might wear tuxedos, red bottoms, make-up, use iPhones, and whatnot, but underneath all that layer of civility is an animalistic proclivity waiting to break to the surface. Such a shame.

You are suffering from inferiority complex.
Spare the rid and spoil the child.

baridamben:
It's unfortunate that most Nigerians don't know the act of parenting, this explains their reaction to this post. What is explained here is all I'd been doing and it's worked for me. The one small thing to add is that you must also discipline them, using different methods, overall teach them the meaning of consequences.
Add this to the rest of the post and you're good to go.

Nonsense. Please don't say Nigerians don't know the act of parenting. Different strikes for different folks. What works in one clime may not work I another clime. My parents never spared the rod whenever I erred grievously. Their parenting has made me the best I could be and am very proud of them. They are the best!!

God forbid it that I spare the rod when I get my own kids.

VirtueDigest:
One cool evening, I watched as my neighbour refused to grant permission for his adolescent son to attend a party with his friends. With an equally stern face the son responded “hell no, I must be at the party!” My neighbour’s son is developing a “smart mouth” and an attitude to go with it. He is very disrespectful, especially in public and in the presence of guests. I flashed back to my days as a teenager; I could not talk back at my parents for any reason and most especially in public and in the presence of visitors. Eons ago in Nigeria, we lived a communal life where the neighbour could correct a defiant teenager in the absence of his/her parents. In Nigeria today, family structures are not as strong as they used to be. There are too many distractions and a general breakdown of discipline coupled with the fact that parents are generally busy with career pursuit.
Teenagers are confronted daily with choices. They struggle to make good decisions and are held accountable for it. Adolescence is that time in which they go through a major transformation in their lives; emotional, mental and biological changes are taking place. This is one of the major reasons for their unpredictable behaviour. As a parent/guardian, how do you get your teen to stop the snide and rude back talk? Here are seven smart suggestions:



1. TELL IT TO JESUS: It could be challenging to have a rebellious teenager, but remember the hymn “I must tell Jesus all of my trials.” Indeed, Jesus is readily available when you lay your issues bare before Him. Ask the Holy Spirit to give you His love for your child and to help you to nurture him/her in the way of the Lord. Ask God to help you see one or two good aspects in your child that you can praise. Always find an encouraging saying, quote or Scripture verse to leave your child with as he/she walks out the door to school every day.



2. RESPECT YOUR TEEN: Respect is reciprocal. If you expect your child to respect you, show some respect too. This way you will be able to play the part of a role model. Be involved, but don’t interfere too much. At the same time, don’t indulge them; don’t give in to unreasonable demands. Give your child the same respect that you would like and try to refrain from name-calling or labeling with such words as, “spoiled brat.” Instead, keep the focus on the behaviour that you would like to change.



3. DO NOT SHOUT/CURSE YOUR TEEN: The more you shout or curse your teen, the more he/she will shout or curse back. When you get angry and shout or curse your teen, you undermine your authority. Remember, you are your child’s greatest influence in terms of nurturing the right kind of behaviour in him/her. When you shout at your teen, they may feel like they are under attack and may not be open to make adjustments. If your teen ignores you, you can also try to ignore them back. Do not negotiate with your child, back down, or let her draw you into an argument about the discipline that you are enforcing. Discipline is the goal and shouldn’t be up for discussion or argument. If your child feels like s/he can argue or negotiate a discipline, s/he’ll be more likely to continue an undesired behaviour and would likely argue even more the next time around.



4. COMMUNICATE: If your teen is out of control, one of the best things to do with them is to sit him/her down and have a talk. There are always different aspects to a story and you might discover that probably you are the one at fault. Do not assume that your teen is stupid and immature. Discuss the rules with your child. Explain why you are setting rules and be prepared to give answers for your ideas because most children will question you. One common catchphrase from teens is, “You don’t understand!” Do not further frustrate your child by saying, “Yes, I do!”, or “I went through exactly what you are going through now.” We all like to think of experiences as unique. Instead of asserting a “been there, done that” stance, help your child practice communicating without being rude by responding, “I may not understand, but I do want to try to understand what you are feeling. Can we talk about it later when we’re both calmer?”



5. NEVER RESORT TO VIOLENCE. This will aggravate the problem, making your teenager more unruly. Never confront them with hostility and anger which may lead to violence in an extreme case. Be confident, firm, and consistent.



6. BE FLEXIBLE: Flexibility might turn out to be a huge advantage. Be willing to have conversations (rather than fights) about adjusting the rules and consequences every few months as your teenager gets older and can take on more responsibility. You may have to participate in some odd-seeming activities—and maybe at odd hours – to be part of his or her world. Really try to relax and bring humour to the daily interactions and challenges of having a teenager. It will make a difference!



7. COMPLIMENT YOUR TEEN: Also try to notice and point out the positives in your teen. S/he really needs your affirmation and encouragement. Remember to praise the child for what they do right before focusing on the wrong.

On a final note, children are like sponges. Whatever you throw in their direction they will surely pick up.

http://virtuedigest.com/7-ways-deal-teen-talks-back/

This is irrelevant in Nigeria

Na dem! Cone heads Afonja Muslims
Yellow bar muslims

ultron12345:
There is nothing wrong there......very soon, some very stupid set of people will storm this thread and be saying things like she's a witch, she's possessed by demon, end time

End time eyeballs.

My Fidelity online account just got blocked and I want to make use of it urgently.
Please how do I unblock the account
I mistakenly entered the wrong password three times that's why it got blocked in the first place.

CoCoLav:
Which political office did Trump hold before he became President??

Donald Trump was an accomplished business man, one of the world's richest men. He has shown his leadership skills in managing his business. That's a core leadership skill.

Absolute nonsense, this man should just go and sit down. First go for LG chairman then we can assess you and know your abilities and capabilities. Don't just jump out of nowhere and start contesting for presidential election.
You are making Nigeria look like a joke where every Tom Dick and Harry can contest for the office of the commander in chief if the armed forces of the federation.
Being a medical doctor is not an attestation of a good leader. So once again go and sit down.

We Will Not Take It. Full stop.

What is it with all these stupid men commenting here?
How can you sponsor a shop, feed the woman and in turn pay for every little thing you collect from the shop.
That's bullshit. And the ingrate of a hoe even has the guts to fight him over it?
Wtf