₦airaland Forum

alarinjo:
I think most women prefer female bosses because there is always some kind of competitiveness between women, why can't women just get along with women (is it because they are all generally, fill in the blanks! ) Even in day to day life, most women I know prefer to have male friends than their fellow females, hmmm, curious,

As for men, we all know why they prefer female bosses, lets just leave it at that.

I'm am male and I couldn't really give a hoot what the gender of my boss is. I have worked for both and can't say their is really all that much of a difference based on gender. There are cool headed females out there, just as there are male bitches!

By your last statement, you indirectly implied that males are generally cool headed while females are generally bitches

dakmanzero:
you are a woman.

if you were a boss, would you be a bitch and have a dysfunctional relationship with your co-workers?

why are you limiting yourselves.

As chris rock said (hell of a source, huh), women are their own worst enemy. You all are holding yourselves back

One of my best bosses ever was a woman, and she is certainly NOT a bitch- plus I can't think of anyone in the entire company that could do her job better. Not among all the men, even.

But then what do I know. I'm not a woman. You guys know urselves better. She may have been a bitch inside for all I know.

You are being sentimental

alarinjo:
I think most women prefer female bosses because there is always some kind of competitiveness between women, why can't women just get along with women (is it because they are all generally, fill in the blanks! ) Even in day to day life, most women I know prefer to have male friends than their fellow females, hmmm, curious,

As for men, we all know why they prefer female bosses, lets just leave it at that.

I'm am male and I couldn't really give a hoot what the gender of my boss is. I have worked for both and can't say their is really all that much of a difference based on gender. There are cool headed females out there, just as there are male bitches!

By your last statement, you indirectly implied that males are generally cool headed while females are generally bitches

mhizesther:
TRASH!!!!!!!!

Lesbian feminist

mhizesther:
TRASH!!!!!!!!

Lesbian feminist

[quote author=obadizena post=58469139]A lady who feminizes a male, does so with the sole intent to humiliate & ridicule him. [/quote
THAT'S IT AGAIN! Preach it bro. That's the intent of so-called modern day feminism - the feminization, domination and emasculation of the male folks.
Nonsense.

obadizena:
There's a fetish some dominant ladies have, which has to do with feminization & sissification of a male. Looks like the other side of OP has that fetish to some extent.

That's the origin of feminism. I have said it over and over, these so-called feminists do not want equity. Their sinister aim is the emasculation of the male folks. That's why I'll continue to be an unapologetic ANTI-FENINIST.

This only happens when one is infatuated. Their is a difference between infatuation and love

HouseOfWine:
Hold on...

Alright here I go...

I never really did understand or why ppl did wanna be gay or be the opp sex...

In my 3rd year, difficulties were too much i started living and sleeping in my car in downtown, one of my friends who acTually is a girl but acted like a guy took me in..

And till now that effort on her part was so astounding she prolly didnt know how it affected me, after having a place to bathe and attend classes for like 4 month or so, i got the opportunity at the end of 3rd year i moved into my own lil apt but i couldnt thank her enough

Maybe its because we are namesakes but one thing she taught me indirectly is that everyone has their own way of living that seems different to others but it doesnt mean they should be judged or attacked beacuse their way of living is not amongst the majority..

Till today, i am tolerant not ignorant or hateful of anybody in the LGBT community

Your choice of life is ok with me as long as U dont hurt anybody physically, emotionally or any other way that makes other ppl sad

At the end of the day this is just my opinion due to life experience,you are free to have yours.

I would only stress that dont judge a book by its cover..cliché aint it?

Correct. Very correct.

MadKid:
I thought I was going to see something like this by Alpontif

"There are first class people, and there are First class people. Real First Class Graduates have had Consistent A level results since there Kindergaten days. They are the ones that had A's throughout their primary and secondary education. They have A's in their WAEC and score between 290 and 380 in their jamb. In other words, Real First class people have academic brilliance in their Blood, and personality..and they usually, without too much effort make Outstanding---not borderline, first class in the University. These are the guys you see having 4.7-5.0...or in some rare cases..4.6.

The other First class guys are the ones who studied extremely very very very hard in the University, just to enter into that First class range, their O level, Secondary and Primary Education results is not usually stellar....and their First class CGPA usually rarely exceeds 4.5-4.59.

The previous First class guys are the True First class people with very high IQs....They rarely fail aptitude tests. The Second class of First class guys, have to be prepared for every test, else they fail it. They are the types that will always be looking for past questions on aptitude tests...which is basically a measure of Intelligence.

One way to know a Real first class guy from a swotter-First class is to ask any of them to teach you fourier transforms years after they have studied it last. Without blinking, a real first class guy will start teaching you IMMEDIATELY...the swotter first class guy, has to go and revise , before he can teach you.

That is how you know First class people, therefore if you are truly a first class material, you do not need to become Jesus Christ before you graduate as a top of the class First Class graduate."

Wrong. Totally wrong and misleading

HungerBAD:
Bros na prayer it does not happen to you. What if she is pregnant and destroys your stuff?you will hit her?

And the hitting of women is something i am against a lot,as i have a lot of younger sisters and any man that hits any one,will have to answer to me one way or the other.

Arrant nonsense, any woman that destroys my hard earned property shall pay for it severely. The beating no go be here

This is a strong case

Fadiga24:
I think Explorers has taught me more than all my secondary school teachers.








COMBINED!

You went to nta akara secondary school

exlinkleads:
oboy

this one tire me guys, why guys no go get money and dey go won marry? - Person don talk am here before, if you are a man and u no get money, you are not suppose to have an erection self.


In another news, After All 3 Kids Of Ghanaian Star Was Found Not To Be His after DNA Test, His Ex-wife Appeals Court Ruling On Divorce Settlement. Asking for his property to be shared 50/50.... Women has no shaame.


Read @ http://www.exlinklodge.com/2017/07/after-all-3-kids-of-ghanaian-star-was.html

See dis Olosh.............. o

Mcowubaba:
Most Nigerian girls present themselves as only Sex Objects.
I saw a post on Facebook about whether a Girl can date a guy without asking for Money.
Most of the Nigerian females responded "can a guy date a girl without asking for Sex"

So the equated Sex to Money. Interesting
This has proved the popular school of thought, that most Nigerian girls only offer Sex in a relationship.
Nigerian girls are still the same people that will say "he used and dumped me"

What's the used in this context, SEX, SEX...
As if the didn't enjoy the Sex, probably the guy only benefitted from the Sex.

Many years ago, I invited a lady to visit me, the first thing she told me was "I don't have transport, I should send", I told her, when she comes I will give her Transport money, she was reluctant, but she later agreed, can you believe that immediately she came, she requested for the money before we even started talking anything.
What Made me crazy about the whole thing was that the transport in question was just #200

Hardly before most Nigerian girl can pay the bills when you guys go on date, the hardly pay for anything, nothing, the say to themselves, after all he is fvcking me.
So Sex is equated to money. Isn't this prostitution

Relationship to most of them is like Job opportunity and Npower youth empowerment

I have had the time to mingle with many Nigerian girls, different classes, Tribes and status quo, believe me, it's the same thing.
Even the so called miss independent, miss Feminist, miss Gender Equality aren't left out, the just deceive themselves ONLINE, when it matters in REALITY, they are no where to be found.

Some Nigerian girls are good though, but I'm yet to be in a relationship with one..
I don't know where I can find them, I just hear about the goodness of Nigerian girls online.

Preach it bro

BlueRayDick:
This stuff is actually subjective. What applies to me might not apply to you. If I was in this guy's position ceteris paribus, I might take the 35k job, learn as much as I can while on the job and bounce as soon as I see a new and better offer with a better working condition.

However, if the job is a marketing job that does not offer me much to learn/ allow me build my long term career, I will definitely jump am pass and probably go for a teaching job in a secondary school.

The key here is provided the job allows me to build a long term career

Most secondary schools pat their teachers 20k-private schools oo

Harzontorh:
No.. You are getting it wrong! Dubai is an extremely Rich Emirate among the 7 Emirates of UAE. No matter how rich a place is, especially a tourist densed area, there would be a suburb for the extremely low income expat who forced and struggle their life to live in.. call it slum or say 'the ghetto area', same thing in Paris, Berlin, Tokyo or what have you.. Now Dubai for example is Rich, no doubt. Extraordinarily Rich.. Our Nigerian People are plenty over there so we know whatsup. You dont excpect everybody to go there and make it.. so because you go there and suffer the hell out of you life (which may not have happened to you while you sit 'jeje' in Nigeria) doest mean some are not enjoying the bastard money there.. The Problem is that the sufferness and the pain We the 'incompetent' or say unqualified live there is intolerable so we 'think' the whole luxury hyping is maybe an exhageration.. Hell, No. The Multi Billion Dollar Oil Nation is Real. Just that some Indians, Bangladeshi and Philipinos will not Stop Messing Up things around.. They keep displaying Bad Image in conjuction with our Naija Boys (who are 'ogbologbo' in displaying Poverty Culture..

En Plus, You will never see an Emirati 'A UAE Arab ' in such a way of life butrayed in those pictures.. i.e queieng for the public toilet, barbing beside the wastebin or smotching around demonstrating poverty.. Never.. Instead the Emiratis are there 'rubbing their faces with bundles of dollar, Dinars and Dirhams'.

P.S: Dubai is Built Specialy for Luxury.. The Poor are also there too. (no be lie). but the poor people are the Expats (foreign workers) not The People.

Don't mind the op. I just dey look him jejely as he dey yarn trash

csandy:
Like ya mama

Gerout. Prostitute

ENIMONEY:
First off, the only problem here is you.

Typical human, pointing fingers to every one else but one comes back to you.
You need to work on yourself dude.

Nobody likes a weakling. Even sperm has to survive to get to the ova. Nature itself kills the weak and the strong survive.
A relationship is for emotionally matured people so grow up. Be the man a woman needs and not some whinny douchebag.

Work on yourself and then try again.

Wrong. In life we all have our moments of weakness. Good friends help us during those trying times.

Old woman.

Just like someone said up there, I am yet to see a normal girl stronger than me-normal girl oo. That said I cannot come and go and marry a girl that has upgraded training than me. Eg army, CIA, kgb, mossad etc

csandy:
If the guy can sponsor two trips to Dubai within 6months this year as he explained...need i remind you that a trip to dubia cost nothing less than 400k to and fro, including flight expenses, car rentals and whatever, let's say another 200k spent just for her shopping, twice in 6 months......we are talking about one million plus....he gives her allowances, pay her dstv bills, make her hair and do all sort.... Now let's get to real the matter, how come he can't get her a tokunbo car of just 300k to 400k naira, because I bet if he can do all that 400k tokunbo is just the tip of an iceberg..... He shud be able to finish what he started, she can't be shopping in Dubai and be dragging buses on the road.....
For me the guy is a liar, n wat he posted is not what really happened, he shud say what really happened and then I can comment on who really faulted...

You guys shud keep what happens with your spouse to yourself, stop faking it, stop telling the world what you do for each other, its no ones business, no one is doing anyone a favour in a relationship, its a mutual agreement, don't start what you can't finish.

Fish brain. Olosho

ELKHALIFAISIS:
exactly , and that is what u might be

Funny, so all seminarians and priests are by extension homosexuals?

MrMcJay:
A threat by North Korea deserves serious response by a world power. Instead of a suitable response, Trump ran to Twitter.

As for Buhari, he's a decorated military general. However, his present health and the handicap of the country doesn't allow him provide response of any kind.

Don't argue in ignorance
America was the first to respond to North Korea's ICBM test by firing missiles into the sea of Korea

ELKHALIFAISIS:
attending seminary school did that make u a lesser devil 98% of homosexual/lesbianism in Nigeria are courtesy of boarding and seminary school... which I knw u fall victim of

LOL so everyone that passes through the seminary is a homosexual?

I am an unapologetic ANTI-FENINIST quote me anywhere. Nonsense

RaggedyAnn:
Why do most NL men try to shame women when they speak about being dissatisfied in the sack? A woman tries to find solutions because she hasn't been climaxing with her husband/partner, and then some rascal calls her an olosho. His comments about how a man shouldn't kill himself over pleasing a woman get instantly blessed with likes from like-minded cads. Doesn't a woman have the right to sexual pleasure? What's the point of engaging in sex otherwise? Do you expect her to get nothing out of it?

If, as a man, you couldn't be bothered with your partners satisfaction, why don't you just patronize a prostitute who only cares about the cash compensations. And why do you still castigate girls who let you be as selfish in the sack as you please, overlook your negligence in that regard, but expect to be taken care of financially?

Where is the symbiosis?

You say the world doesn't revolve around the pussy, and of course it does not. There are so many more important things in life. Like football, politics, your work, poking your eye, or even watching paint dry. But whenever you, of your own volition, have decided to be up-close and personal with pussy, you better not be wasting its time because the world does not revolve around you either.

Many are mad, most of them are on nairaland.
You are one of them.

ELKHALIFAISIS:
courtesy of free food from mama and papa , anybody that went to government secondary school do similar thing, we go from school to schools looking for trouble, especially girls schools, every boys school then have one girls school they protect as one of their own, if u come to our female crush school looking for their trouble, the whole school will riot, invade and carry their school signboard as mark of victory , the other school will plan counterattack by hijacking ur school signboard in the middle of Night , the next day sound of war will erupt the whole school there will free for all fight in the streets, motorists will either park well or they go panel beat the car, at the end ,both principals will go for reconciliation, they will expels all the bad boys, the boldest will take the blame and Cross alone ... I thought this will go on till eternity, especially during inter house sports if u are not a strong guy, or u don't have a stronger brother or boyfriend better stay at home , lol immediately everybody left secondary school everything became history because u have to face the real world as an adult

I must say am greatly scandalized by what you just typed here. I am always shocked to hear these kind of stories. I attended a seminary, so I have no experience whatsoever of this exhibition of thuggery and gangsterism. The seminary was (and is still) a perfect example of what you call an utopian society.
Smh for most public secondary schools. The rot in our educational system is glaringly evident.

NwaAmaikpe:

Back in our days,
When GTC fights with Nike Grammar School at least 15 people die.

What is this joke. Only one person in a coma and this made front-page?

Many are mad, most of them are on nairaland

7Alexander:
FFK is brazenly intelligent. Walahi

I sincerely admire his majestic use of words and masterful construction of sentences.

Mtchew