₦airaland Forum

Ringstonermasks:
d idiots that beat nd bullied my boy nd was nearly beaten to death. I don't need police to handle this, i don't even need any soldier to handle it, since she can't handle it, we are done.

I will snap d boy's pictures @d hospital tomorrow

You are a disgrace to sane society, people like you should never handle power.

When issues come up the best is to go the legal way, the police are there to do their job but you rather mobilize street which is illegal. You never sleep for prison for assault and attempted murder that's why you are palpitating

pocohantas:
Imagine his boy being attacked and next thing he has called his oga's wife. That is what they want to turn the woman to. A voltron abi na power rangers. 😃

Reverse the scenario if the man was a military officer and the woman's employee called the man as regards to this same issue will you say same thing? If yes then that's how issues should be handled but if no then you have a problem.

Irrespective of gender no one should call military personnel for civil matters, military are only deployed during crises period and not to settle civil matters, that's the job of the police and no other. People should desist from these acts that are antithetical to societal development.

pocohantas:
I must commend your wife.
You want her to go fight your battles and when she is caught, the narrative would be how women were not created to handle power.


The police is there for civil cases.
Go call them.

This isn't about gender, if you are truthful either you or a family member must have used a military personnel to intimidate civilians in civil cases which is bad. You as a woman shouldn't call a man who is a personnel of the military for civil matters because it's wrong and not because of stupid gender issues.

When will you ladies stop this nonsense narrative?

Your wife is the kind of woman I would love to associate with, it's very shameful that you want her to illegally misuse her constitutional powers to perpetuate evil against hapless citizens of the country. That lady is thoo good for an evil minded person like you, you are a disgrace and should never have the opportunity to hold any power of any kind else citizens will suffer for it.

You are a disgrace of a man, pathetic.

sevenhundred:
you have a shallow knowledge about nigeria economy.

What do you know? It's like saying there is Nigeria without Lagos and Rivers State ...The very shallow one is you.

NNtv:
South Korea economy is currently shaking but that will bring her citizens to default setting and understand that there's life besides doing hundreds of plastic surgeries.
They embraced woke lifestyle of the United States and paid less attention to their peculiar situation. North Korean troops are currently with Russian troops in War against Ukraine. What does this mean? Simple, any altercation with South and North Korea then Russia will come in immediately to help North Korea. So, If SK is not ready on their own to fight back with full force then they will suffer more than Ukraine. US will not come in immediately until they study how the war will benefit them.

The US is stationed there already for more than 50 years....

sevenhundred:
maybe you think kano and jigawa is what they mean by the word "north", many state in the North consume alcohol.

What is north without their biggest economies? Is like saying there is somewhere called south West economic wise without Lagos or south south without Rivers or south east without Anambra, you have a long way to go as regards knowledge. Put all the states that doesn't and see the difference in their economies for both the three regions put together. If I tell you to name the states comprising North Central, North East and North Central I'm sure you can't name them without looking at Google

RoyalUc:
Same with the guys.

I think that mindset and illusion is even worse with guys

It's not worse, the condition is both parties are already dating but one is willing to get married because basically whether she has something or nothing it doesn't affect her willingness to get married while for men it's usually not so that is why commitment is harder for guys than ladies. If the reverse is the case commitment will be harder for ladies than the guy.

The person who needs little or no finance is more prone to look for commitment because little is at stake while the person who has the money is more prone not to commit because a lot is at stake.

yarimo:
Mteeeew GEJ speaking as if he his somebody in Nigeria politics of today the first and last incumbent president to be defeated in history of Nigeria

For once get sense

odejimioflagos:
The world should be ashamed of this.

Terrorist sympathizer, go to the frontlines and fight, 72 virgins awaits you.

lykwhoishe:
You carry 100% bills, you will carry 100% marriage expenses. Stop telling her to make a decision, cool off anything marriage talk from your end. Also your telling her every progress you make for Una five year plan is nonsense, tweak that progress report to "I" instead of "we". Take her out of it

It's surprising for dudes to complain when they marry that their wives aren't helping them in the home front. 99% of the time they were the ones paying 100% of the bills and then expect the lady to bring out her money in marriage

This is one of the reasons women should be given financial responsibility in marriage or relationship, someone who has invested heavily in relationship can not be saying let's scatter everything because she will have a lot to loose but the person who invest little or nothing will have that mind to say such rubbish.

If you are the type that seeks peace of mind in marriage you better have a deep conversation and put all your options on the table, she is already exuding early signs of divorce in her you can't just take it lightly the red flag is very clear.

If I was to be in your scenario and I want to go ahead with this relationship I will make her work in the relationship to ensure she sees herself as a stakeholder in the relationship and not just passerby who is only present to ease her financial liability because some else is ready to take it up. Anything less than this I won't proceed with someone who has zero regards about our relationship.

nicho450:
Yes that's how it is suppose to be

That's how he wants it to be and not how it's supposed tow abe, your reality is not others reality. This is how men who behave certain way call themselves real men and others who don't follow herd mentality are not real men. I prefer not to be a real man but a man.

Nazgul:
People do it. But believe me, it's a very foolish thing to do.

I see guys who do it as people with low self esteem. Cos I can't see myself paying someone to date me. If you want money, send me your credentials I'll help you get a job...but for me to be paying you monthly for dating me... No way.

I agree with you, interesting 99% of ladies who demand that they get paid for dating if you stop that money they will break up with you meaning they can't be with you if you don't pay them. Imagine my ex even mentioning it to my that her ex paid her monthly up that made me to remove money from the relationship to gauge her level of interest, she broke up after 3 months. Assuming I don't know the psychology of ladies she would have used me for the cleaners.

Same way I see men paying women (prostitutes) for sex, it's very disgusting to me. If a woman wants to see me as an IGR , that's a wrong move it will certainly hit the rocks. You will hear these same men let's educate the girl child and then after educating the girl child she then b comes and adult and refuses to be responsible adult who firstly should be responsible for herself before anyone else. This is how entitlement starts

SunShowAfrica:
No time is late

Some times are late, he is not late because he has all the time on earth to make amends but chat can't be said of a 60 year old.

durentboi:
bro u don't have to curse me na or re u just being ironic

Don't mind him, the secrets of wealth is available to all that wants on planet earth regardless of your previous shortcomings.

You are already doing well by learning a skill, must keep improving yourself and make a decision to quit frivolities going forward because money will come to you but what you do with it after that is what happens. You are young , pursue knowledge and skills and sooner than later you will reap

dadalicious:
If i calculate in months, person BP fit high.
Some days over 20k in expenses.
But i noticed that fuel is taking a chunk of the money.
Like[b] a poster above said, remove eye from gen this period[/b]. Na mosquito dey make us on gen oh. Nepa nor serious.

In all God has not left us

Once you can beat this by staying in an area with 15 hours to 20 hours per day electricity you don't know what you are enjoying. Some people spend two times their annual rent on PMS without knowing it when they can just moved to an environment where the light is steady and save more.

NothingDoMe:
If the government won't tax the food the northerners produce then how are they supposed to benefit from the tax reforms?

Food is even VAT exempt, the problem is the businesses aren't formal where their income for the year can be traced and taxed as part of corporate income tax as well as employees income tax.

Something is definitely wrong for a place like Kano that is tuoted to have same population as Lagos and even more not having up to 50% of employee tax when compared to some other states that is not Lagos. Are there no businesses there employing people? No, they only have the mindset that even if they don't work there is federal allocation to be shared from the resources of others...There are lots of ways government make money but they ain't ready to explore those means because of fre money, it's time to make them work for their money.

Carndidlaydid:
Thanks so much for this.. do have a lovely Sunday and yeah happy new month

Wish you same , you are welcome

Carndidlaydid:
Meaning he can take it as a sure means of income?

Yes he can do that because it's legal.


But I have a reservation about this kind of business personally, only a microscopic few succeeds in it. You can only be amongst this if your greed level is very low and you are ready to take your profits and reinvest in another income stream else you may be decision away from catastrophe.

Another issue is that there are too many failures in this line of business to warrant one to invest because one isn't different from the universal set although there are exceptions to the rule.

Another problem is when you are addicted to it when you aren't a good gambler (gambler with low levels of greed and ability to take out profits into another stream of business) you are doomed for life, this isn't a joke the person will forever remain in perpetual lack because of that mindset that a John who won 40 million naira in Lagos in 2020 might be him in 2024 out of the million John in the business.

In summary, greed is a killer in this business and won't advice anyone who has it to venture into it not for a second.

Carndidlaydid:
While making this money,please make it a duty to make legitimate money

Ihave a boyfriend who is a chronic gambler can isay he is making his money legitimately?

Gambling is a legal business so he is making his money legitimately. You may not like the business but it's legit and approved by the government.

As a human take your financial life very seriously.

As a man take your financial life even more seriously and never have anything to do with women who refused to take their financial life seriously reason is that you will inherit 100% of this liability which further pushes you into financial obscurity. Some will not understand until they put this to test by learning from the bitter life of experience. This is one of the biggest mistakes men make which put them in financial dilemma in life. Only a very few percentage can go this route without failing but the majority will be destroyed.

Ensure to expand your streams of income no matter how small that stream of income may look like.

Also don't allow people you bring into your life to pressure you to act a certain way in order to conform to societal norm which in turn push you into the struggling financial quadrant. You are not a real man , you are man and don't let people term you 'you are not a real man' in order for you to change and act the way they want you to act. Maintain frame and act in the best interest of your finances and family.

Wish you all the best

omowolewa:
North would be the ultimate beneficiary of this Tax Laws

Before selling you Farm Product outside your State, put your VAT and make sure ist remitted in your state.

They don't tax them that's the issue, typically farm produce are taxed the minimum because it's a critical sector. Government even provide subsides to drive down food prices in developed climes.

The north has been too parasitic for too long, ask them the contributions they made as regards to the federation account they are sharing every month you will find a negligible contribution not to talk of VAT and other issues.

Imagine them taking VAT on alcohol how? When they break and destroy alcohol sold in their region and still want the tax from the alcohol funny people

topsyking:
How is that possible. And the govt never ask for his extradiction yet?

How many persons were prosecuted during the Abacha's regime or any other military regime in Nigeria? Why the surprise?

The only person prosecuted was Hamza for allegedly killing kudirat Abiola and he was set free by the court of Appeals for lack substantial evidence.

kettykin:
I see the hand of a country in this. The enemy of my enemy is my friend, my best friend.

All wars fought by the US, check well the weapons used by the US for are Russian made weapons why is that so? If you want to know what Russia signify look at both sides you will discover also that they are using Russian made weapons. America can only do convert operations by enabling its ally procure the Russian weapons because they can't get their hands on American weapons unless Congress approves.

RealityKings1:
Think rich even if you aren't. There are so many rich men and women out there

Guy I'm currently amongst top 1% , I'm not talking about myself I'm talking about men in general, my scenario is an exception likewise yours, stats from NBS shows 90% of Nigerians can't afford that luxury , it's not about you but the generality of adults living in Nigeria so keep your motivational talks for yourself.

Confirmedzombie:
You are pholish man for bringing your private family thing to social media.

Maybe when you knack your wife, you will come back here and share how it went.

For God's sake, be a man and a matured man, you don't bring this to social media.

I guess you are jobless the reason you need something to cool off.

You are not ripe for marriage at all

Someone who is a confirmed zombie is abusing another, wonders shall never end

Juoflife1:
When you say for the house, do you mean monthly upkeep? If it is for the month, she did well.

His assertion doesn't portray that, he insinuated he gave the wife to buy stuff and keep at home but if it's for monthly expenditure then she has to keep some cash for other daily food expenses. The problem would be if it's not for monthly expenditure but to use and buy groceries for the house, of this is the case then there is a problem.

Samantha125:
The other money is for her hair and makeup, she has to look good for you, right?

She isn't looking good for him but for herself, if we go by your assertion women should also be giving men money to look good for them. No one looks good for anyone it's for yourself and to improve your self confidence as a human. Others appreciating that looks is secondary.

RealityKings1:
Next time give her some personal money before you send her to the market

You think it's all men that have the luxury to have excess of money to give for other expenditures? Real life scenario is different from ideal life scenario

Carndidlaydid:
Real wife material if you ask me


Ithink you still owe her


All these stingy men sha

Madam go and look for job and do you are an adult no one will come rescue you from poverty. Jobless women begging men for money calling their benefactor stingy

When you reach 50 you go understand say that hope you had for prince charming is a delusional dream , get w just b get a life

Giftimoni:
Very strange o. With all this noise. We are watching

If you have followed the trajectory of Rivers state from the beginning of the fourth Republic you won't type strange, godfatherism doesn't work here.