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CrimeRe: "I Will Waste You And Nothing Will Happen" - Armed Prison Officials Slap Lawyer by idahme(m): 5:45pm On Nov 27, 2024
yarimo:
Lawyers always feel they can do anyhow and nothing will happen. When he recover from hospital he will behave himself next time
Na today I no say u b irresponsible and irredeemable bot online. Na so adult dey reason for una family?
RomanceRe: What Else Will A Guy Gain From A Girl That Says "No Sex" In The Relationship? by idahme(m): 5:42pm On Nov 27, 2024
fineberry:
boss you are mouthed abeg no vex which one be tertiary Virgin again I don't laugh tire grin grin. I dey feel your submission 💯%
grin grin grin grin grin grin na because of ladies wy no b virgins wey go come say I am a celebate grin wetin she dey celebate? No b my fault
TravelRe: Re: Japa: Senior Lawyer Shuts Down Chamber To Become A Cleaner... [do The Maths] by idahme(m): 7:06am On Nov 26, 2024
This guy them no dey pay tax? Be calming down ooo . This is not how Uk is. grin

Just like the other dude was saying the amount he may be saving is 500 pounds monthly and not that amount you quoted.
Foreign AffairsRe: Israel Reaches Ceasefire Agreement With Hezbollah by idahme(m): 7:02am On Nov 26, 2024
tundegan:
Israel should just pack up and leave the middle east.
So that your colleagues can bomb as they want? Wake up from your dreams or you go to the frontlines.
RomanceRe: Why Do Ladies Most Times Prefer To Meet A Guy, At An Eatery, Or At A Fast Food? by idahme(m): 6:58am On Nov 26, 2024
purples25:
She for meet you for your house make una kpansh straight.
It's not about kpansh, tell her to meet in a public place that has nothing to do with eating she will decline because they are always hungry.
RomanceRe: What Else Will A Guy Gain From A Girl That Says "No Sex" In The Relationship? by idahme(m): 6:54am On Nov 26, 2024
JASONjnr:
Absolutely nothing.....

You should ask yourself what benefits a woman is to man without s*x?

Never give in to this manipulation.

The moment a woman brings this topic up, I will just look elsewhere....

A girl who was to visit me told me that we won't be having s*x and no taking baths together or attempting to touch...
I asked her if she was a virgin and she said no., I told her I wasn't interested in to continue from the talking stage anymore.

She's been calling and texting..... Saying that she was only testing me to see if I was a gentleman.
Na mumu girl. Me wetin I dey do is to reverse the equation by telling them no money or any obligation in the relationship. No sex and no money in the relationship. See how ladies who have probably done abortions giving men conditions. Na just manipulation and nothing else
RomanceRe: What Else Will A Guy Gain From A Girl That Says "No Sex" In The Relationship? by idahme(m): 6:51am On Nov 26, 2024
purples25:
You see that without sex you don't see the need for a relationship.
U know the answer already, it's because you ladies don't offer anything else apart sex. For a man he offers sex and money and other stuff in relationships but most women don't.

You think a girl who offers money like her man and says no sex will be rejected? Nope
Any lady who says that to me I will say no money in relationships also because they usually don't bring money in relationships. If money and sex is out and she accepts the relationship then we are cool.

How will a tertiary virgin tell me no sex relationship and I'm not a fool to know she is manipulating and expect me to bring my resources for someone that may have done 3 to 8 abortions.
RomanceRe: What Else Will A Guy Gain From A Girl That Says "No Sex" In The Relationship? by idahme(m): 6:45am On Nov 26, 2024
sexy74:
Holiness
It's not about holiness, it's about how to woodwink the guy into marrying them with zero commitment from her. Same girl tell her to Express her love by buying gifts for her partner she will say it's not her duty so which holiness are you talking about? Someone that is holy will know that love is do unto others as u like others do unto you
RomanceRe: What Else Will A Guy Gain From A Girl That Says "No Sex" In The Relationship? by idahme(m): 6:41am On Nov 26, 2024
Firstly, the guy should also put no money in the relationship. If the lady refuses and thinks she needed to be given money then understand she is a manipulator who wants your resources only and nothing else.

If she accepts no money in the relationship then she is good to go and has a clear thought process. You guys can go ahead in studying your personality and leave money and sex out of the relationship. That's a win win for the both of you since more than 90% of ladies think it's not their duty to spend money during relationship.

The only exception to this rule is when the lady is a generous spender who is ready to equally spend on the guy just as the guy spends on her meaning their spending power should be equivalent and it's verified that the lady is a virgin, I don't mean secondary and tertiary virgins else the relationship shouldn't take place in the first place.
PoliticsRe: Rivers Crisis: Time For Fubara To Scatter PDP by idahme(m): 6:31am On Nov 26, 2024
tundegan:
Wike is the best governor Rivers state ever produced.

Fubara should just be loyal to Wike and everything will fall in place for him.
Get sense na, is it your state? Go rest for iragbiji and look as we do our thing by dislodging godfatherism. U think we dey do godfather here?
PoliticsRe: Rivers Crisis: Time For Fubara To Scatter PDP by idahme(m): 6:29am On Nov 26, 2024
helinues:
Fubara is currently party less
U don old oo, make u no dey type anything wey exude from ur coconut. You know this is disinformation because Fubara is still a member of PDP.


E b like say ur age no dey help ur reasoning at all
PoliticsRe: Why Is Apapa So Dirty by idahme(m): 6:25am On Nov 26, 2024
ClassicEvilSpir:
Overpopulation and lack of planning is simply the problem.. maybe tell them to stop coming to Lagos, or stop breeding children they can't take care of, so they won't turn to vandalization.. lots of people looking for every reason to hate Lagos lol
What's wrong if someone vidots and makes an assessment of the area he visits? You guys always see negativity in everything pathetic.
PhonesRe: Bluesky Has More Than 21 Million Users by idahme(m): 6:15am On Nov 26, 2024
Flangelo12:
Sensible people have abandoned Twitter for Musk and his algorithm.
The liberals are those you termed sensible grin if yes then go ahead .
RomanceRe: Man Cancels A Date Because She Wouldn’t Send Money For His Haircut: Thought? by idahme(m): 10:29pm On Nov 25, 2024
iichidodo:
[color=#1986BC] That ain't no king behavior because a real man takes care of his own personal sh*t, I don't want no woman all up in my business especially that of my hair, what's next? She starts wiping your ass?[/color]
There is nothing like real man, you q1ll should stop deceiving yourself. Everyone acts according to how he wishes, a man who acts certain way doesn't make him a real man.
RomanceRe: Man Cancels A Date Because She Wouldn’t Send Money For His Haircut: Thought? by idahme(m): 10:25pm On Nov 25, 2024
Magnoliaa:
Materialistic men everywhere with no iota of value to bring to the table. Wokeness and redpill have destroyed all the good values our fathers used to have when dating back in the days.


The gigolo with a shrivelled dick did her a world of good as it's obvious he's only coming to leech off her. That's the only thing in the chicken brain of these modern males. I'm sure she'll find another homely, submissive, virginal and virtuous man she'll be a protective Queen to.
Why did your parents send you to school? Why were you in same class like the boys? If you want to be useless why not tell your parents then there is no need educating you? They should have just kept u in the kitchen and you wait for who will take you out of poverty. An adult thinking ik her head there is a man somewhere that will carry her liabilities on his head grin wake up delusional woman grin

Don't be up and doing, you go wait tire that time your mother's expected men to foot their liabilities is over, if with your education and exposure you still want to be a liability it's your cup tea.
RomanceRe: Man Cancels A Date Because She Wouldn’t Send Money For His Haircut: Thought? by idahme(m): 10:21pm On Nov 25, 2024
Puss360:
Lol... This one na low-key gay nah.... That's fine sha...
But how can a man ask a woman to send U money for haircut and t-shirt.. lol...

Just ask Ur fellow man, he will send it then you lol good for him...
It's a free world afterall...
No be thsame class we dey go school? Abi women are less of a humans? Are women incapable of loving men the way men do love women? If women spend their money on men will they go extinct?

The only thing a man can do for himself is to run away from an entitled selfish woman.
PoliticsRe: Rivers Crisis: Conduct Election To Replace Sacked Pro-Wike Lawmakers – Damagun by idahme(m): 7:34pm On Nov 25, 2024
Ikumapkayi:
Dey deceive yourself. The Fubara boy no dey talk again as him don see the handwriting on the wall. He would eventually be impeached
Wake up from your dreams
PoliticsRe: Rivers Crisis: Conduct Election To Replace Sacked Pro-Wike Lawmakers – Damagun by idahme(m): 7:33pm On Nov 25, 2024
blackmantis:
A game of chess.
Fubara sidestepped PDP in the LG polls. His opposition will capitalize on that saying Fubara hates PDP and sponsor the next PDP lawmakers in the election.
All those LG chairmen will go back to Pdp as long as the Governor has the structure
PoliticsRe: 22.3% Households In Nigeria Have Female Breadwinners - NBS by idahme(m): 7:29pm On Nov 25, 2024
Tallesty1:
This data is inaccurate. It should be more, Nigeria women are hardworking, like really really hardworking.
They are hard working but you still don't understand how relationship and this data works. Most of those hard working ladies have husbands who are more wealthy than they do further plummeting the figure. It is not uncommon to see a hard working lady but still holds the idea it's not her duty to contribute to the welfare of the home irrespective of their earning power. Those ladies aren't classified as bread winners even if they have income more than their husbands but usually ladies with such mindset are highly hypergamous.
Foreign AffairsRe: Iran Preparing Imminent Strategic missiles Attack On Israel - Reuter by idahme(m): 7:24pm On Nov 25, 2024
ebukal67x:
A good number of people are not aware that the October 7 Hamas attack was a retaliation for the ongoing genocide in Gaza.
Make una get sense, this ongoing deleting if terrorists in Gaza was post Oct 7. Read and educate yourself
RomanceRe: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by idahme(m): 7:17pm On Nov 25, 2024
Dynoz01:
sex always have more repercussions on the female than on the male .stop typing nonsense...she is being deflowered and disvirgined and on the male child nothing is being noticed there cos they have a pole not a hole...and as for responsibility it should be on the male child cos they are the head of the house....pride price is a criteria to know the man's worth...I am sure you wouldn't want any of your female relatives to marry a poor man cheesy
I don't exchange words with people ofow critical thinking skills. Enjoy
FamilyRe: Getting This Off My Chest: My Strained Relationship With My Dad by idahme(m): 4:18pm On Nov 25, 2024
advanceDNA:
U are just using double standard....

The father ddnt support him when he need more studies abroad.... you are claiming that's okay because the father already supported him for bachelors....

But now it's not okay that the son pays him monthly allowance...why should the son do unnecessary extra.....the father should be okay with monthly salary just as he expected his son to be okay with bachelors...
Which double standard? His dad has always supported him all through his education until his bagged his first degree. Will he crucify him because he didn't turn up as expected during his masters degree abroad? Are you saying because his dad didn't do as expected during his postgraduate education the dad didn't support him? Some of you haven't had any responsibility like having a child and wife and you wouldn't know what others go through until you go through that process.

Fathers aren't allowed to make a mistake, once a father makes one mistake all his good deeds from age zero to undergraduate degree is nullity that's what you are saying which doesn't depict the good memory before the postgraduate education issues

He didn't act well during the child's quest for postgraduate education abroad doesn't mean he didn't support his child before then, and should be given his flowers for the much he did and not given zero because he messed up at the tail end. The basic education (nursery to university) that should be given to a child he did it perfectly what then are you saying?
RomanceRe: Ghanaian Lady Curses Germany-Based Boyfriend For Using And Dumping Her (Video) by idahme(m): 3:51pm On Nov 25, 2024
Yugoslavia247:
Strangely this same gal can be a serial cheat.

Before the german based who was the ghanaian based that was stretching her vulva.

She collected money from him.

So all this curse no fit work.

As fars as she took money from him before sexual encounter.

Besides it is not by force.

Men hardly do this when hearbroken.

Even those wey send gal go school self
The man owes her nothing, why do women in their lowest state always feel s man that they were dating when he succeed should always stand with them but I have never seen a successful woman who became successful and still stood with her struggling boyfriend...
RomanceRe: Ghanaian Lady Curses Germany-Based Boyfriend For Using And Dumping Her (Video) by idahme(m): 3:42pm On Nov 25, 2024
Yugoslavia247:
Strangely this same gal can be a serial cheat.

Before the german based who was the ghanaian based that was stretching her vulva.

She collected money from him.

So all this curse no fit work.

As fars as she took money from him before sexual encounter.

Besides it is not by force.

Men hardly do this when hearbroken.

Even those wey send gal go school self
The man owes her nothing, why do women in their lowest state always feel s man that they were dating when he succeed should always stand with them but I have never seen a successful woman who became successful and still stood with her struggling boyfriend.
FamilyRe: Getting This Off My Chest: My Strained Relationship With My Dad by idahme(m): 3:35pm On Nov 25, 2024
abracadabra24:
You go know how the shoe be when you wear am
You don't seem to understand me, the dude I responded to insinuated that the OP father is useless which I strongly object to, he didn't do his best yes but useless nope.

I come from a family where my parents will go all out including taking loans and pushing us to the limits and I have never been in a situation of lack(food shelter and education ) . I experienced lack in other areas like clothing, good shelter, 3 square meals etc. I never got once did I take 3 square meals all through my secondary and university, never for once was I given more than 5k cash for pocket money, if I describe it for you its horrifying but all of these never made me have any ill feelings.

I get OP dad didn't do 100% what he should have done but it's high time you move on from your past experiences.
FamilyRe: Getting This Off My Chest: My Strained Relationship With My Dad by idahme(m): 3:18pm On Nov 25, 2024
Karleb:
Don't do more than you are already doing for him.

I[b]'d advice you withdraw the cash and set it on fire rather than giving it to an irresponsible adult.[/b]

Don't reward bad behavior, please I'm begging you.

People will guilt trip you here but don't panic.

When you needed him most, he made the decision not to support you his child in his right senses, which simply means he doesn't love you. Now that he needs you, reciprocate the gesture.
Read through his article you would understand that his father is the reason he is even in this position, some of you are so entitled that the little deeds of fathers are neglected because he didn't do what is in your head but rather what he thought at the time to be the best even if it wasn't.

His dad sponsored his welfare, education to undergraduate level and if his father's decision while he is pursuing his postgraduate education affected him does it mean all the goods his dad did from zero age till he graduated from school is nullity?

Some of you guys who make this statement have never been responsible or accountable for anyone in your life. A typical entitled man who will vilify his dad when he doesn't have his own children and gets to understand when he is married with children. I also see dudes who also throw shades at uncles and then they become an uncle and can't do to the nephews what they expect their uncles do for them a typical case of do for me what I can't do for others.
FamilyRe: Getting This Off My Chest: My Strained Relationship With My Dad by idahme(m): 2:54pm On Nov 25, 2024
tensazangetsu20:
You even try. I dont send my father one kobo and the day he asks me for money eh, lemme not even talk grin grin grin
Did you hear h say his dad sponsored his education to University level? If his dad mad other decisions which didn't favor him does it mean his dad didn't try for him? Did your father sponsor your education? If no why bring your hate to influence him?

Most of you guys who vilify your dad you will understand what your dad went through when you have your children
RomanceRe: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by idahme(m): 12:35pm On Nov 25, 2024
GboyegaD:
You are the one not reading my message right. Please, take a back step and read it again.
Your message asserts that people from same ethnicity means they are kinsmen that's what I'm trying to correct which you seem not to understand.
RomanceRe: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by idahme(m): 6:50pm On Nov 24, 2024
GboyegaD:
Perhaps they believe the community raises a child as such, if you are a kinsman, you must have contributed to her upbringing and if you are an outside, you contributed nothing to her upbringing.
You still don't get it, we ain't talking about kinsmen we are talking about people from different locality but speak same language. For example you can have people from different LGAs speaking same language but have nothing to do with been related. So what is the issue of kinsmen popping up
PoliticsRe: VAT: Lagos Contributes 249.77bn, Gets 40.22bn, Zamfara Contributes N432.80m, Get by idahme(m): 6:13pm On Nov 24, 2024
Odua4life:
Yoruba Land is feeding the whole country. Imagine if Yoruba Land was a country. S west will become dubai in less than a decade. Nigeria choking the South West
Unknown to you because you ain't educated you won't know that the revenue of Lagos would plummet if it's not part of Nigeria. It's a gateway to importation.

Lagos benefits from Rivers state than Rivers benefits from Lagos, Oil and gas activities done in Rivers and it's environs finds itself into Lagos meanwhile it's done in my state. If Lagos goes Rivers state ilwill be the beneficiary because Rivers has everything Lagos has but has what Lagos doesn't have .
RomanceRe: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by idahme(m): 3:55pm On Nov 24, 2024
Stolen:
DO U WANT THEM TO BRING THE FULL AMOUNT OF MONEY THAT THEY HAVE SPENT SINCE THE GIRL WAS BORN.



WHAT IS ON THAT LIST, E REACH ORDINARY SCHOOL FEES ALONE.


LOOK U BETTER BE MARRYING YOUR USELESS WOMEN IN YOUR TRIBE FOR FREE, AS A MATTER OF FACT LET THEM FOOT THE BILL FOR YOU.



LEAVE OTHER TRIBES ALONE.



MARRIAGE IS SOMETHING WE DO FROM THE BOTTOM OF OUR HEART AND WE DO IT WELL, WITH FULL RESPECT.
Poor men looking for IGR from other men. A rich dude won't disturb any for exhobitant bride list and co, to rich dude it's about symbolism of the marriage and not how to generate IGR

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