SpaceX:
I pray Trump gets elected. He is the right man for the job.

Hmmm, you may be right!

What do you see, and why your position?

ruggedboych:
If na for SW now an Igbo man became Eze, helinues and his Ronu people will not allow us hear word

Dey deceive yourself there.
All those pranks na to get away with the nonsense expansionism of an Igbo man. It won't work.

If you like, remove the Igbo ruler of your village and put the Ibadan man there, na you sabi.

EmekaBlue:
I really want to invest in agriculture... I have a 6plots of land wasting in abuja

I need investors who can even come in and rent to use the fertile land... It also have fish earthing pond hatchery piggery poultry chambers plus borehole & 4 room buildings including security room... toilets, kitchen and bathroom

Talk to me on 08063423482(whatsapp)

trutharena:
Obaseki's decisions are becoming increasingly questionable. How can he just accept Ogie's resignation without addressing the underlying issues? This constant reshuffling shows a lack of stability in leadership. Eboigbe may have his work cut out for him, but I doubt this change will bring the progress Edo needs. It's time for Obaseki to stop playing musical chairs with our future and start making real, impactful decisions.

Edo no be Lagos na.

LoveUdie:

I met my husband at university as an undergraduate.

We started as friends and it grew into something beautiful.

After graduation and NYSC, we got jobs and worked for a while.

A few years later we got married.

A few months after marriage my husband changed.

First of all, he ordered me to resign from my job.

We fought over that for months until I gave in for peace to reign.

A few months after that he began mistreating me.

Any little misunderstanding we have he'll remove the smart card from our cable so I don't watch TV.

Once the cable subscription expires, he'll refuse to subscribe again or order me not to subscribe even when I can afford to.

To make matters worse, he'll lock the kitchen door and take the keys along with him to work, so I can't cook or eat.

Then he'll lock me inside our house so I can't go out to eat.

He did it the first time and started to keep malice.

I decided to apologize for peace to reign.

After I apologized he kept malice with me for another month.

I kept my cool and kept watching.

The next time we had a misunderstanding he did the same things.

He did it a third time and I found out that it's now a pattern.

The next time he locked me inside after a misunderstanding I left before he returned.

I decided to take spare keys to all the doors before we had a misunderstanding.

I took the decoder with me and switched off my phone for over a week.

When I switched it on he had sent me so many angry texts and WhatsApp voice notes.

Once I left I informed my family that I wanted out of the marriage.

My Father advised that I give him some space instead, but I knew I was done with the marriage.

He thre.aten.ed me for a while about ending the marriage, but when he found out I didn't care, he mellowed down and changed his tone.

He reached out to my family to apologize for how he treated me.

He said he didn't know what came over him asking me to return home.

My Father refused saying there's a lot to be sought out.

My Father insisted that I couldn't be unemployed because he didn't invest in me to sit at home.

My husband accepted that I could get another job and promised never to starve me or lock me inside, but I don't trust him anymore.

I never believed he could turn around to treat me the way he did like a common criminal.

Imagine denying me food and locking me inside the house.

Asking me to resign my job was the worst and refusing to provide for me.

Now he is acting sorry and remorseful but it's all a show to me.

He is pleading with me to return home but my Father is as suspicious as me.

My Mum feels that I should give him a chance but I have a bad feeling about returning to him because I feel he'll get worse if I return.

I no longer have any interest in marriage anymore, I just want to know if I'm making a mistake because now I fear for my life.

I fear that I'm no longer safe because of the way he suddenly changed and became remorseful.

I feel it's just an act.

I don't want to make a mistake that I'll regret.

What I don't understand is why you'll marry someone and do all this.

Take away the smart card of the decoder, lock the kitchen, and lock someone Inside the house so that......https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/2024/08/how-to-be-faithful-and-naughty-to-your.html

Nobody can give you a reasonable advice here without your husband being present to agree or disagree with your story.

If you don't want to regret your action truly, let whosoever that is mediating listen to both of you together.

trinnalar:
We never had it this bad in our own period nao. The food now looks like prisoners servings.

You're lying here

When did you serve?

As far back as '89, nothing better than this was ever served.

websta:
Hello men,
Please, help me out. My relationship is about to fall as I'm a 2 mins man and my girl is complaining and extremely annoyed. Pls what can I do last longer? How do I last longer? I love my babe and I want to be able to knack her well. I'm so disappointed in myself.

FYI: I don’t masturbate.

Pls read this before taking any decision.

ADVISE TO MEN
SÉXUAL ENHANCEMENT DRÚGS DO NOT GIVE EXTRA PLEASURE.

Read again: NO EXTRA PLEASURE.

It ONLY DELAYS EJACULATION which, in street terms, means "LAST LONGER".

But the longer you last, the more pressure on your heart
Yes: ON YOUR HEART.

Even during normal intercourse, your heartbeat rate increases by between FORTY and FIFTY PER CENT when you reach orgasm and about discharging.

Have you asked why most men sleep off after sex?

Now, when you take sexual enhancement drugs, it gets to a stage when you feel you have had enough and all you want is ejaculation.

But it won't come.

To force it, you have to get the heart, ALREADY STRESSED, TO DO EXTRA WORK!! hmmm.

By that time, if your HEART is not strong enough, Baba God will just show mercy on you and call you home.

And after initial shock, we start preparing your burial.

And walahi, if they fry puff-puff, I go chop cos I no go cry.

Let her call you "TWO MINUTES NOODLES".

Don't feel bad.

Let her go and meet her "ONE HOUR BEANS".

If you last THREE HOURS, na only you and your partner know or whoever either of you tells.

It is not OLYMPIC where dem go dey cheer you and you will collect MEDAL after the race.

Above all, when you are above 50-55, don't try to sexually impress any woman.

EVEN YOUR WIFE!

If you die, another man will take over the 'stadium'!

That is if that 'stadium' is not even being shared with someone else when you are still alive.

Just like Inter and AC Milan are sharing San Siro...!!!
Men, a word is enough.🤷🏿‍♂️

THINK ABOUT THIS!
Good day 💥

Where you dey live for south Africa wey you know their so well like this?

Sheistoopretty:
Nice!!!!!

This is highly commendable of South Africa! I think South Africa is far better than Nigeria. Their men are hardworking and innovative, not like nIgerian men that what they only know is to drink alcohol, smoke, kidnap and do Ritual. Nigerian don't have brain for innovations and technologies, It is very sad

Nice one South Africa!

Kobojunkie:
This your Christian god don answer the same prayers of the 10s of millions of Nigerian women stuck over the years in prayer and fasting rituals wey full of una churches?

If say na your own wife dey cheat on you, will you equally subject yourself to the same rituals you proffer as a solution to OP?

Pity you!

Taiwojon:

Why are you taking it so personal

It is just a question!
The husband is not born again

But mine to you mr religion judger
Are you born again?

It's not a matter of taking it personal, it's an attitude problem. Ask her if she's married.

Kobojunkie:
HUH? 🤔🤔🤔

2. She should know what to do as in she should join the 10s of millions of women equally married to cheating husbands who make up the vast majority in your churches in prayer and fasting rituals, many of whom have been at this ritual for well over a decade or more of their married lives? Is that what it is she should know to do?

Some of you are just plain wicked and have yet to even realize your wickedness!

You have not shown that you know better to advise the woman. See your guts in your comments. It's easy to decode where someone like you is coming from.

Elusive001:


Is your husband born-again? I did NOT ask if he is a pastor, minister, or worker in his church. I did NOT ask if he goes to church, preaches, prays, pays tithe, etc. I asked, Is he born-again? Is he crucified with CHRIST JESUS?

The first question to ask is: Is this woman born again?
If she's not born again, of what use is the answer to your question to her? She can't make use of a born again husband if she herself is not born again.

If she's born again, she should know what to do with her husband now!

Jaycobbs:
At the risk of stating the obvious:

1. She's done with you
2. You deserve someone better
3. You need to respect your relationship and keep things clean with other ladies

Nigga, dem no tie your placenta to this woman. There's over three billion women in this world.

3,000,000,000!!!

Chances are, you'll find one that respects you if you can wipe your tears and remove your eyes from this one.

That lady will be stupid to marry you.

She won't marry this guy, she's smarter than you, even though that's always the case; women are smarter than guys.

See the way you're begging someone who's playing games with your life, you can't be serious.

The epistle you wrote showed that you're a simp.

WarrenP:
I’ll go straight to the point, she has been disturbing me to legalize our relationship since last year. I couldn’t take it anymore so I decided to let her know what I have I Mind.

I told her before I will wed her, we both need to have 10 million as reserve in an account for emergency. She brings 5m while I also bring Mine.

I do want a secured future for the both of us but she no dey reason with me. Always complaining age is not on her side.

She don vex leave my side since morning telling family and friends that i have been wasting her time.

I’m wondering if I did anything wrong

So, your marriage is going to be 50:50 arrangement?

so, who's the team lead in that marriage?

When women starts to demand for their rights, it's men like you that will start making noise!

Nobody is complaining about having a reserve; but 50:50 with your wife and you think you are a man?

God1000:
Your question is big one that requires several answers.


Jews have great impact in US In many areas

How many things are the black people controlling in USA?

Find out the influence and impact of the Jews in America.

Find out those who control the wealth of America.

Population isn't the main factor, what is your influence?

BlackhatMentor:
Seems old people no longer die again?

Why is this old man still alive when Mr Ibu is gone?

What a nice question!

nlfpmod:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q9zqQNH4mrw

Their liberty is around the corner.

MadeINchenzen2:
The complete chapters of the Bible gave no insights or notes about 'karma'... Though the term 'karma' is from the Janism, Hindu and Buddhist religion, but everyone believes in it strongly... Maybe the Bible insinuated it when Christ said "He who kill by the sword, will die by the sword"... " What a man sows, he reaps"...

If we all agree with this (karma) why then do we ask God for forgiveness?

Can one commit a sin and be completely forgiven by God and free from consequences?


Kindly help me with your insights. Thanks

Thank God you confirmed that the Bible mentioned nothing about Karma.

The Bible is recognized as two dispensations; Before Christ and After Christ.

The Bible is better appreciated and understood along these dispensations. Without these distinctions of the two dispensations, the Bible will be at best historical book and the more you read the more confused you become.

Before Christ; what you sow is what you reap.

After the death, burial and resurrection of Jesus; what you sow is not what you reap. There's forgiveness in Christ Jesus; not just because you begged for it after commiting any sin, but because you have a lawyer who's perpetually standing for you when you have committed any offence.

Now, this is where a lot of people get confused about this Grace in Christ Jesus, and you also expressed the same confusion in your question at the end of your post here.

"Will God continue to forgive sins forever"? The answer is Yes. How? You may ask. When Christ becomes the Lord of your Life, your mind, the seat of your decision-making no longer yields to the devil as before or it's no longer under the control of the devil. You may make mistakes, consciously or unconsciously the Love of God overshadows your errors.

The followers of Karma philosophy don't know what we are talking about.

If you believe in Karma, you'll get Karma. If you believe in Grace, you'll enjoy grace.

Amotolongbo:
Ant Smith revealed that he has been ridiculed over his small penis, but is now encouraging people to be happy with their endowment



https://www.unilad.com/community/life/micro-penis-ant-smith-interview-147665-20240319?fbclid=IwAR1QJ4IeImakqeR9v4dTg4ZU2Hp1al31Qku6MkCjy09bNwZ4Gyy_RLYqg5Y_aem_Af3R6hJ4EWd8DJ1YfcDYI5YUSOaUn4BCSkYqeA9jDf2cYFBEGqKfd3Ec7zqTukPnBi0

Erroneously, many don't realize that what gives pleasure during sex isn't what you're doing by yourself essentially but the reaction of your partner to whatever you are doing.

For example look at the boobs of a lady that men loves so much; by any of those actions: looking at it, touching it or sucking it, the pleasure you derive from any of those actions is the response you getting from the lady.

Imagine covering the whole head of the lady, after about two minutes of any of those mentioned actions, the man will be put off.

You need to be seeing how she's enjoying the actions before the man move into the real emotional enjoyment of the action. Or your partner just lie down there like a log of wood, no talking, no moaning, nothing. Nobody will tell you that you're wasting your time even if dick is 12inch.
A penis at 1in size when not erect looks like the person doesn't know what one inch is, at one inch, you won't even see it at all.

People who talk about the size of their genitals are always exaggerating it, too small or too big.

For real and extreme enjoyment, the tip of genitals; vagina or penis is the game changer.

phemyhalaby:
My woman seems not to like me when i show her love.Whenever i bought gifts she just say,"thank you,"briskly,no gushing,no wowing.And then she starts misbehaving throughout the day.In the event that i needed to be intimate with her,she plays hard to get or even declines outrightly.
On the other hand,when ever i treat her bad,she doubles her regard for me,becomes more submissive and brings the intimacy unbeckoned to me,on a platter of gold.
I don't like to treat her bad as i observed it takes a toll on her physical and mental health but she seems to like/enjoy it anyway.
Even,when she thinks that am showing her love,she just deliberately initiate a fall-out or fight.Am just confused.
What can i do?

That's her love language.

Balance it up and the rest of your life will be full of fun.

Jewessgratitud3:
A neighbor of mine called me on Saturday and was complaining bitterly about his Bossom friend.

He told me his friend travelled to the US in 2008 and after a few calls they lost contacts. Last week his friend messaged him and said he's aware of the hardship in naija and asked him to send his account details. My neighbor did and after a while he received an alert of 20k. I said wow!.. that's a miracle. but he hushed me and said I should let him finish.


He said immediately he did the conversion it came to 12.8 dollars. He now said after 16 years it 12 Dollar the friend could send to him that that's an insult.
I tried to make him understand the friend may not be doing well over there but he said the guy is doing well that he's weighing the naira value of the money and feels 20k is big money. He said he feels insulted. Me I just carry my two long legs Waka leave my ungrateful neighbor.

Is my neighbor right and did his friend do wrong by sending that kind of amount? 12 Dollars...

To me the friend did not do any wrong but my neighbor feels he could do better.that 12 Dollar is like 1,200 hundred naira to them over there.

Guys what will you do if you were my neighbor?

Your neighbor is right.

However, hunger will teach him plenty lessons very soon.

How many people has he given 5k to in Nigeria here?

Interestingly, apart from the fact that the guy in America knows that 20k is a chicken change in Nigeria now, I can bet it that he just wanted to test the seriousness of his friend in Nigeria.

I can also tell you for free that anybody that is a giver will always appreciate any amount of gift he/she receives.

Your neighbor failed, the guy in America knew his attitude already because I'm so sure he never said thank you to the guy, all he was busy doing was punching calculator to know the amount in dollars.

Na you send the guy to America?

Your neighbor failed the test and he's not getting shishi from the guy again.

It is this spirit that has spoilt Nigeria; entitlement mentality.

sammymax:
I seriously need advice as I really don't know what the right or best thing to do at this time. Please elders in the house be kind enough to suggest what I could do.

I did not think something like this can still happen in this era but this is what I have to deal with. So my mum flat out told me she does not like the girl I took home because she is not fine. About 3years ago when we went home together she told me this but I just disregarded it like when I'm ready she won't have a choice but to accept her as she is. To be honest she is not fine at all but she gives me peace of mind which I feel is the ultimate.

She was involved in an accident with my dad last year and we lost my dad in the process. During the burial I went home with my babe again and my mum still made her displeasure with the girl show.

The thing now is that I went home again to see how she is doing and she called to speak me again after stating that I had disobeyed her by not breaking up with the girl she said is still not having her and if I insist she is the one I should count her out of the marriage. She can never come visiting or even call her. She will not attend the wedding. Now I am 32 and she is 30

How do I navigate this situation. I plead for good advice. Have you been in a similar situation how did you handle it.

What is the comment of your babe in all of these? If I have that piece of info; I'll let you know which way to go.

Jewessgratitud3:
Lol funny but sad.

Your Mom reminds me of my Moms family that are particular about the beauty of a girl or handsomeness of a man you're bringing home. As in.. they will tell you this one you bring dudu nyanya come hope you're not planning to have something with him/her?
I'm talking about my grand aunties those days, which was why they selected a very handsome oyinbo looking husband for my Mom. Others who came were rejected until fine boy Lagos (my dad) now came. .

See she's your Mom and you need her consent and support in your marriage and if she says she doesn't like who you're bringing, let her go abi? This one you're claiming peace of mind, wait until you marry her. Let me tell you some girls can pretend just to enter especially if they know they are not so attractive but after they enter na that your mama she go first slap.

Abeg let her go. Prayerfully look for another girl and stop making it look like we wey fine na pain in the neck.. we too dey give peace of mind but if we do small shakara una go say we no give una peace. If woman no do shakara for her her husband who she go do am for?

Abeg leave her and let mama have her own peace of mind too. No be only you want peace of mind

You sure say you dey fine with this your shakara?

SpartaOfLagos:
When you're a failed president, nobody will give a flying-Bleep about you. . Tinubu was in Ikeja, Lagos today and it was nobody cared. Unlike before he became president that people will gather to welcome and cheer him , People just dey go about there business without giving a bit Bleep bout the so called president who has succeeded in destroying the economy of Nigeria .

Tinubu was roundly defeated by his Excellency Mr Peter Obi in Ikeja and Alimosho Lagos in the presidential election for the records.

Hatred redefined

DyshApp:
A Nigerian lady has cried out online regarding her mother’s attitude of constantly rejecting her suitors, claiming that her husband is to come from a faraway country.

Sharing the plight she facing anonymously she revealed that she is always having dreams about her mother preventing her from getting married.

Her post read;

“Mommy’s in the house help my life o. I’ll be 24 years old in a few months. I noticed that anytime a suitor comes for my hand in marriage my mom would turn them down, saying a prophet told her my husband is not in Nigeria and that he’ll come from a faraway country. I didn’t take it seriously then cos I wasn’t ready, but now I’m ready, through with service I’m working and also a tailor. A man came for my hand in marriage my m said no o, that he’s not my husband that have I forgotten that my husband will come from a faraway place? Most times I see my mom in my dream telling me I will not marry. Pls help me o, what should I do? I really love this man o he loves me too, and for the past 2 years we’ve dated he’s been the best. Please, I need your advice o. My friends are telling me to do court even people that know my mom advised me to do court o. My dad no kúkú get say. What should I do? I’ll be I’m the comment section. Thank you [sic].”

Are you sure the prophet is not eyeing you?

On a serious note, it also connotes some spiritual dimension if you've been seeing your mom in a dream telling you that you won't marry. I'm suspecting your mum to be involved in some diabolical activities.

If you're not spiritually fortified yourself you can't dare your mum o.

She's a principality and I don't intend to frighten you.

To dare her you must have a higher power and that can only be found in Jesus.

If you're not born again, you had better know that there's no marriage for you.

If the prophecy is from a Pentecostal prophet, just ignore it and surrender your life to Jesus, confirm from the Holy Spirit if you should still marry your sweetheart. If the answer is positive, go ahead.

How do you know if it's positive, both you and somebody else who is not even aware of what you are going will also tell you that you should go ahead.

When you surrender your life to Jesus, things are smoother than many can imagine.

Corrections:
In Christianity, the importance of tithing can not be ignored. God instructed Christians to bring 10th of their total income to his storehouse or temple.

However, in today's modern world, people no longer give animals or material things as Tithe (not that it is forbidden) but instead all have been monetized.

One may wonder and ask the following questions:

* Why do Christians have to bring their TITHES to God's storehouse or temple?

* What is God's understanding of a store house or temple?

* Can one give his/her TITHE to parents or people if they are in need?

WHY DO CHRISTIANS HAVE to bring their TITHE to God's storehouse/ temple?

Malachi 3:10

New Living Translation
Bring all the tithes into the storehouse so there will be enough food in my Temple. If you do,” says the LORD of Heaven’s Armies, “I will open the windows of heaven for you. I will pour out a blessing so great you won’t have enough room to take it in! Try it! Put me to the test.

Just as it is written in the scripture, we give TITHE so that there will be enough in the temple or store house of God.

WHAT IS GOD'S UNDERSTANDING OF STOREHOUSE/ TEMPLE?

The scripture gives us a clear idea of God's understanding on what a storehouse/ temple is. In the scripture we can classify God's understanding of a storehouse/ temple as the following:

* Store house/ temple view by God as a Physical man made structures.

* Store house/ temple view by God as a human body (that is spirit with a soul)

STOREHOUSE/TEMPLE VIEW BY GOD AS A "PHYSICAL MAN MADE STRUCTURE"

Here God views a temple or storehouse as a structure built by man. It is always physical in nature.

Ezra 1: 3

New International Version
Any of his people among you may go up to Jerusalem in Judah and build the temple of the LORD, the God of Israel, the God who is in Jerusalem, and may their God be with them.

1Chronicles 28:3
New International Version
But God said to me, ‘You are not to build a house for my Name, because you are a warrior and have shed blood.’

Here we can clearly see that God is referring a house/temple as a man made structure.

STOREHOUSE/TEMPLE VIEW BY GOD AS A HUMAN BODY (THAT IS SPIRIT WITH A SOUL)

Here, God does not view a storehouse or temple as a physical man made structure but rather he views it as a human body that has a soul and a spirit.


1Corinthians 6:19-20 (ESV),

He asks, “Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. So glorify God in your body.”

John 4: 21-23

21 “Woman,” Jesus replied, “believe me, a time is coming when you will worship the Father neither on this mountain nor in Jerusalem. 22 You Samaritans worship what you do not know; we worship what we do know, for salvation is from the Jews. 23 Yet a time is coming and has now come when the true worshipers will worship the Father in the Spirit (the spirit is inside the body) and in truth, for they are the kind of worshipers the Father seeks.

Here Jesus was trying to tell us that our body will be the temple where God will be worshipped which confirms that God also sees our body as a storehouse/ temple.

Matthew 12:43-45

43 “When an impure spirit comes out of a person, it goes through arid places seeking rest and does not find it. 44 Then it says[b], ‘I will return to the house I left[/b].’ When it arrives, it finds the house unoccupied, swept clean and put in order. 45 Then it goes and takes with it seven other spirits more wicked than itself, and they go in and live there (because they see it just as God sees it as a house too) And the final condition of that person is worse than the first. That is how it will be with this wicked generation.”

Here, Jesus is referring to human's body (that has a spirit and a soul) to be a house where demons could dwell or live. It opens our eye to the fact that God who is a spirit also sees our human physical body as a temple/house.

CAN ONE GIVE HIS/ HER TITHE TO PARENTS OR PEOPLE IF THEY ARE IN NEED?

Now, that we understand how God sees or defines a " storehouse or temple", we can now proceed to answering the question. The following are the 3 reasons why you can give your TITHE to your parents or people if they are in need.

* Jesus says in mark7:11-12

Mark7:11-12
New international Version
11 But you say that if anyone declares that what might have been used to help their father or mother is Corban (that is, devoted to God)— 12 then you no longer let them do anything for their father or mother. 13 Thus you nullify the word of God by your tradition that you have handed down. And you do many things like that.”

Here, Jesus was telling the people how wrong they were when they refused to help their parents with things (including tithe) they had dedicated to give God when they were seriously in need. If your parents are in serious need of money and you could help them with your tithe (because that is what is left to help) but told them "you rather give the money to God as tithe than them", Jesus says you are wrong.

* Your parents/ people are temple or storehouse (spirits that live in body with soul) of God by scriptures.

Corinthians 6:19-20 (ESV),

He asks, “Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. So glorify God in your body.”

IMPORTANT NOTE!!!!!

This article is written to let us see from scriptures (bible) view that while it good to take our tithe to physical house of God we should not also condem the fact that humans body is also seen by God as a temple or storehouse in which we can invest our tithe in if they are in need of it after we have given every other things.


Meanwhile,, Jesus is waiting for you because jesus is the messiah the world is waiting so connect with him today! !!!


HOW TO CONNECT WITH JESUS

Your body is the house of God is it clean or dirty? You can make it clean by connecting to Jesus today.

John14:6
Jesus told him ' I am the way-
Yes, and the truth and the life. No one can GET to the father (GOD) except by means of me (JESUS ).


Say lord Jesus am sorry for the sins have committed and today I accept you as the son of God and as my lord and personal savior. Help me to follow you now and for ever more. Amen!!!

The greatest injustice anyone can do to him/herself as believer in Christ Jesus not just as an attendee in church services is not to understand that the book of Hebrews said if there's no fault with the old testament there would've been no need for the new.

So, what's the new testament saying about the tithes? Find out.

What are the places in the new testament where tithes are mentioned? Pls bring them out so that can look at them. Until then, saying anything about your questions will only be academic exercise.

Jackanda1:
I recently applied to work in an organisation.

After passing the interview and checks, the management was impressed and decided to hire and give me a major role in the company.

When i asked about the payment for my position, they threw me a popular question;
HOW MUCH DO YOU THINK WE SHOULD PAY YOU?

I gave them a figure in mind, a little above what i got in my former job. Their facial expression was 'WoW'.

I started work on tuesday and after making friends and chating the secretary, i found out that i earn twice less than the staffs in the company in the same position.

Infact, i earn a little more than the gateman and cleaner. The secretary even earns more.

Its my fault, should have done some checks on the strength and salary structure of the firm before applying.

I feel discouraged. With this information, i won't be able fuction properly. Plus this secretary with her loud mouth will spread the news in the company, making me feel worst.

Anyone with this experience? Please console me.

Justify your current pay, prove to them that you're indispensable and thereafter ask for twice what you're earning now.

However, if the only thing you're after is salary, resign and look for another job.

UYEMDO35:
Why does my stepmother keep ruining my life, manipulating the people around me, and keep doing things that hurt me and my siblings?
Life has been so unbearable ever since she came into our house.....
She constantly seek to destroy the good relationship that I have with my father and When she notice that am not around she start condemning me infront of my father and pretend to be nice when she sees me.
And dis woman already have 2 children that are upto my age but she doesn't talk much about dem but instead prefer to gossip us to my father..... My father on d other side is not even responsible as a man but instead prefer to sit with her and download all our past life to her in which she now later use it against I and my siblings.
My experience with dis so call people call family wasn't a child's play. They made my life look miserable for me
after graduating from school so i decided to come home to stay with dem pending till when my results will be out but instead dis people use my eyes see shege. My unknown step mother wan suffer me with food and I nearly die of hunger.
I just couldn't tolerate their attitude anymore so I decided to purchase Army form when it came out online.
And God saw me through the screening process and I made it to the final list in which we will be going for training soon.

Once everything goes well for me I intent to ghost dem cuz dis was never my plan to join the military.

I wanted to yap you before seeing the conclusion of your story.

Thank God that you've gotten a plan in the pipeline.

Your family situation is the norm; anything better than your story anywhere is an exception.

You'll soon understand what it means to come in between a man and his wife. Bedmatics doesn't know "my children" o.

Most women are dumbs, thinking that they're smart. What will she gain by putting a wedge between a man and his children? It's simply just stupidity and dull brain of the woman in question.

For you, be patient and encourage your siblings to be patient too.

Very soon, you'll all be out of that house. While you're still there with your father, maintain a cool headedness. She will soon regret her retched life.

As soon as you are out of NDA now, get a house for you and all your siblings and move on.

All the best.

Obnoxious2001:
Without much epistle, So I sent a wrong account no.,a correct Bank name and account name to a friend who I was expecting some funds from.

No he copied the acct no. And sent the money (to another person, the wrong acct. No. I provided)....

Now we had a discussion which lead to analysing the situation and I told him we both have blames on this transaction, but he doesn't want to acknowledge his fault.

Now the main question is
If you sent money to a wrong bank acct, who is to blame

You're both wrong.

He's more dumb.

How can you copy only account number without confirming with the beneficiary number?

Useless bank too. How can you process payment without the combination of both the account numbers and account name?

general111:
Hello good people of Nairaland.
My fiancée to me today that her ex is requesting to meet her,and she was asking for my permission to go.
Should I grant her this request or should I be worried?

Who's a fiance?

You don't have one yet.

That lady you're referring to is just around you to sample you out; sexually and financially.

And do you know her assessment of you?

You didn't measure up.

You're no man, she even have the guts to ask for your permission!

You guys of nowadays are just dumbs.

galileo180:
Your honest and sincere opinions are highly needed on this.

My brother is about to get married on Sunday and just today, the girlfriend has been threatening to call off the marriage over a little issue. The issue being my brothers' refusal to travel back to our village with her since he needs to be at work on Tuesday, his reason being that there is no movement on Mondays and he is a Banker and needs to be present to open Vault on Tuesday.

Please in your sincere opinion, is my brother wrong and is it a good reason for the girl to threaten him with calling off the event.

Mods please help a brother, please push to front-page as it needs urgent attention.

Your brother na gold digger that why she's threatening him.

He hasn't married a woman and he's already receiving threats.

Your brother is not serious.