₦airaland Forum

HacheNoire:
That 1000 Naira still has more value in Nigeria than its USD or GBP equivalent.

I've always said it that most Nigerians are educated illiterates for those who went to school among us. It's a share waste of time arguing with many of us.

The reason for the highest denomination of our currency being limited to just #1000 is not known to most noise makers.

socialmediaman:
More handovers loading

Chai, I pity you. Crying aplenty loading for some haters and wailers.

AnonPoet:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/punchng.com/ill-defeat-tinubu-in-free-fair-election-dino-melaye/%3famp

Most of the time, Seun Okinbaloye and his guests are just comedians. Simple.

If you have data to spare, just laugh it off when you stumble into their channel.

Toolegit123:
Good day my Nairaland fam.

Please,matured minds in the house,is it a good thing for a man to help his ex girlfriend who's now married, financially. She used to be someone whom I loved so dearly in the past but unfortunately,she broke up with me immediately she met someone who was already asking her hand in marriage. It's been over 3 years since she got married and I made sure I cut every bit of communication between us. Out of the blue,I don't know who gave her my number. She called me,and apologized for what she did to me. Even before she could ask for my help,I already knew her husband wasn't financially buoyant like I thought. She said she wants to open a provision store ,cuz immediately after they got married,they relocated to Lagos. And she asked for my assistance.

So,I don't know if it's appropriate at all to help her, considering how she left me emotionally stranded when I needed her the most in my life. Tho I've completely moved on with my life,but receiving a call from her brought back a whole lot of memories.

Please,my fellow Nairalanders, reason with me. Should I help her out?

Yes, you can on certain conditions which she must agree to:

1. You must be single or else you inform your wife if she agrees with her condition.
2. Her husband must know about it.
3. Ask your wife to transfer the money.
4. This will prevent infidelity of whatever type.

Oakenshield:
but Israel has humbled Iran. Show us Iran destruction too

No, Iran is invincible, no single building has been touched in Iran. Yèyé souls!

SadiqBabaSani:
Is the Olori allowed to kneel to a Subject of the Alaafin in Yoruba tradition?

You call the president the subject of the king? Not even the local government chairmen are subjects. You no sabi anything.

Tohsynetita1:
Ok,so is it 70/30 or 60/40? Let us know

It is actually 100/100.

The only way to have sanity in a marriage.

While the husband has the primary responsibility to take care of the family without holding back as if the wife earns nothing, the wife has the secondary responsibility of caring for the whole family as if the husband has no job.

The workability of this template is based on the understanding of the biblical instructions.

While the common algebra is the variants of 50/50, 60/40, 70/30, 80/20 etc all of which equals 100.

The variant I'm suggesting here is 100/100 which still equals 100; just like 1+1=1 in marriage.

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Emeskhalifa:
If Nigeria had lost, you will still insult them.

May God heal you and your types sha

Pity them. Unfortunately for them, this is a bad season for them.

erad:
You have a brain for a reason, try dey use am every once in a while.

You don see how easy it is open a forum like Nairaland.

You have started now, keep it up.

Abuse expert.

erad:
We're now putting rumors and speculations on frontpage?

Seun, is this how low your forum has sunk?

Na so o!

Vex, go open your own forum and beat Sean's forum to the popularity test.

HisaacPlus:
I know the "Monday stay at home" suffer-heads will talk

They know their intention before posting the data. Frustration is the lot of those people.

The Nigeria they want to celebrate is gone for good.

A new Nigeria is unfolding, whether they like it or not.

Since last week that King Charles III hosted their nightmare, they've been having running stomach.

SeverusSnape:
giANT of Africa (for mouth) is nowhere to be found on positive lists like this.

Which sensible tourist would want to even visit a terrorists' enclave?

It's clear that's your intention of posting the data. God help you. As you say with your mouth, that's exactly what you get, except you relocate to those countries that aren't the terrorists enclave.

adamkkk:
Fake dinner in his house Nd in his sitting room...


Abeg talk another thing

Sorry, you didn't understand the story like I didn't too before I went back to read it again.

The dinner wasn't by the Ayatollah, but the Israeli generals like they'll normally do on Fridays before Sabbath. So they released those images of their shutting down and the Iranian top leaders concluded that the Israelis are shutting down for the weekend, only to disguise back to their headquarters to unleash the terror.

Both of them watches each other via the satellite.

SmartPolician:
PDP presidents were by far better than these incompetent and tribalistic rulers that APC is giving this country. Obasanjo has a special place in God's heart.

Yeye mindset dey worry you.

Sonnobax15:

Back in the days during my childhood,we used to hide stones inside copper just to inflate the weight so that we can sell it on a higher price. On one fateful day,we were caught when the buyer decided to untie the copper. Omoh, you need to see how we take fly leave everything for the werey 😂

Who's the werey between you and the buyer?

bestman09:
Naira and audio rising. I bought $200 USDT at N1400 2 days ago

What are you doing with USDT, is it not for currency trading?

If you read the article very well, you'll know why it's still staying at that level.

Moreover, the most important thing about FX rate isn't the amount for a serious value adding country but stability.

Do you know for how long Chinese yuan was terribly lower than USD?

See their productive economy today.

Until the Nigerians teeth are cut away from imported things, the quality of life remains poor.

Magnetic010:
Oh but I never said I do not believe in God…I just do not believe in religion and their representation of God.

Oh, interesting!

Your quarrel is with their representation; you may be right there.

But then, before I ask for your own representation, can you tell us what makes you uncomfortable about the representation of theirs?

This conversation might be educative after all.

Magnetic010:
Religion does not interest me that much I think you can deduce that from my respond to the original post...Hence I do not care to read many religious books, I only speak based on the ones I have read or better still the religions I have been able to study(based on what and people around me) I have not been to Asia so I know nothing about their Buddha or shiva or whatever...But the two most popular religions (around me) are based on similar ideologies...There is a supreme being who is the maker of everything we can see and cannot see

He made man and gave man dominion over all things

That ideology is what I think is just humans feeling self important.

My stand is any religion that tells you or makes you somehow believe that God created the whole earth and after that he has nothing else to do other than to listen to humans whining(prayers),praises and punish those who refuse to do this or that is just rubbish..because clearly what they are telling you is that humans are so important that God spends every minute of his life doting on us..which makes no sense.

Interestingly you've not told what you believe? I know you can't dodge that. Whatever it is tell us.

Every human being is an embodiment of what he or she believes.

Even your posturings here is a belief, so what name is it called and who are your followers or leaders.

I'm sure when you face a threat to your existence right now, we won't need to force you, you'll shout the name of whoever or whatever you believe.

WriteerNg:
This is why the world must abandon the US dollars and use their own national currencies for trade.

It absolutely makes no sense using another country's currency to settle your own trade internationally.

You're giving the US an unfair advantage over you.

It's clear you don't understand how international trade happens.

If a whole Russia at forefront of creating an alternative currency for international trade instead of dollars is now going back to dollar; you should ask for reason.

Lovelink1991:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RX6rEhpwnHg

It was like a joke when a lady who appear to be the girlfriend of the guy that was hugged by his ex-girlfriend in the present of his girlfriend in a mall

Is the girlfriend afraid that the ex may take the guy back or why did she has to act that way?

The guy is simply silly. Except this is a skit.

LibertyRep:
Senegal keeps the trophy.

CAF for set the continent on fire.

Nigeria should let Congo be too.

Why should DR CONGO be let off, after violation of FIFA rules? This is why Africa has refused to grow.

Tareq1105:
Is it NNPP or ADC coalifusion that has principles?

I recall Seun Okinbaloye asked Bolaji Abdullahi about the ideology of ADC, he couldn't provide any.

Seun was too much in a hurry.

The ideology of ADC is the clearest in Nigeria.

It is welfarism, the whole of Nigeria was educated when they were in power, except those who refused to go to school, abi?

Kukutente23:
It is time for zombies to start attacking Kwankwaso
APC and politics without principles
Politics of greed, hatred, tribalism and divisiveness

You're so right!

It's like this Abba Kabir Yusuf man is a Yoruba man ruling Kano state. Abi?

ErnestNc:
It's better than keeping it to myself . There's no man without problem. I'm learning a lot about life as the day goes.

Thanks for your input tho.

You've learnt your lesson I suppose.

It's good you shared your experience here to get input about your experience.

Sleeping with single parent is very easy unlike settling down to get engaged with someone also planning to settle down.

If you must marry a single mum, don't ignore the red flags.

Abbeytoy:
In the last two years, things have not been going well with my brother and his wife. My brother will call me and lament about his wife's behaviour, he told me that anytime they have a misunderstanding, this lady changes the key and locks him out in the cold. Though he's the one who pays the rent and all the bills, the lady gets child support and spends lavishly on unnecessary things while the apartment is given to his wife by the government.

But the last one she did, my brother left the house and swore never to have anything to do with her again. Even my brother did it to the extent that he requested the DNA of the son; unfortunately, he's the owner.

This lady has been begging everyone, and both her parents and some family members have travelled down to our place to plead on her behalf, but my brother insisted he's not interested in the marriage again.

He was scouting with one of our cousins before, and we thought that when he got tired, he'd move back home as usual, but this man has gotten an apartment and does not let anyone know the location.

The worst of it all is that he did not talk to his 7-year-old son and didn't take on any responsibilities for him again.

The boy keeps crying to see his dad, but my brother keeps saying her mother is only using him to get his attention, saying the boy will see him when it's the right time.

This lady called me last week and said he wanted to pack from the house and my brother should come move all his belongings, but my brother sent me back to her that she should throw everything away, he mentioned that the lady can frame him up or call the police for him and turn to legal battles.

I believe whatever happened between them, the boy did not cause it, and cutting off his only child emotionally and financially is not self-protection but abandonment.

I know marriage can end, but fatherhood should not. You can abandon marriage and still fully show up as a father. The two are not the same contract

All the family are tired, and even I, his closest brother, am tired. I only want him to be a responsible dad to his only child.

Please, what can I do? I really love my brother and want peace for him, however I pity his child.

Why run from his child? If you don't want the marriage again, file for divorce and pick up your responsibility. Period.

Anything apart from this shows that he's also irresponsible.

Cherryediva:
Hello everyone, sorry for the long post
I got married at 22, my husband was 40 at the time. We have been married for 5 years and we have a child together.

My concern is that my husband is not able to satisfy me sexually at all, which is frustrating, I have talked to him about it nothing seems to change. Financially, he is struggling, partly because he gambles a lot. He also drinks alcohol heavily.

I work too but he doesn't want me to have my own money he is always collecting money from me.
He doesn’t have clear goals, ambition, or a vision for the future, and this makes me feel stagnant in the marriage.

He is a good man in terms of character. He doesn’t cheat, he doesn’t abuse me at all, and he treats me well overall.

I’m confused because while he is good to me, I feel stuck and unfulfilled. I would really appreciate advice from y'all who have been in similar situations or who can offer honest guidance.
Thank you.

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You caused yourself all of the headaches you mentioned above.

Why didn't you consider all of these points before marrying him?

Each of the issues in his life is sufficient to kill any man's libidos.

Without telling anyone, I can guess the pressure you'll be giving him without a job, apart from his alcoholism which also kills libido.

The way out of your dilemma are:

--- Calm down
--- Decide what you want; vibrant sexual life or improved financial life/condition. You can have both of you are ready.
--- the age difference between you guys is another factor. You're just arriving at the peak of your libido, he's going down from the peak. To get healthy sexual relationship between the two of you, you must grow out of the common women nagging.
--- Discuss issues without nagging. If you aren't careful, he may contemplate marrying another older woman outside for peace of mind.
--- Take care of him and enjoy a good sexual life before he looses interest in any sex.
--- Don't contemplate cheating, because he'll be too happy you continue, and he'll also find a way to help himself.
--- He wants sex too o, but without hypertension from anybody.

SmartPolician:
If you have nothing reasonable to contribute to a thread, just read comments and f**k off!

What about the comments I wrote about your crap?

jaszplus12:
The exact point the OP is trying to make is what you have just displayed!! Outsmarted yourself being too smart!
🤣🤣🤣

I no know say you see am o.

Anyway, who dey mind this mindset?

SmartPolician:
These people have removed the subsidy without telling us how much they saved and what the money was spent on. Yet, they still go about borrowing billions of dollars. This nonsense can only happen in Nigeria

Your statement simply shows you didn't go beyond school cert. At best you did back to sender in your undergraduate degree.

Even if I go ahead educating you, it'll be a waste of time.

Keep wasting your time on social media writing crap.

Your grandchildren will help your ignorance when they grow up. Only ensure that they attend school to learn and not just to collect certificates.

mrvitalis:
Atiku should publicly declare to do one term and hand over to Obi even if he doesn't mean it and let's get this election over with

All these talk na long story

My main Attraction to atiku/Obi ticket is this

You can accuse atiku of many things but not Tribalism
We need a national leader whom everyone can trust to be fair....
North dont trust Obi, that's a fact being a vice would usher him to the North and with time he would be trusted


I have always maintained corruption is not an issue in development

I didn't support Obi because he was hit corrupt no I supported him because he was knowledgeable on developmental economics

Atiku from his talk understand capitalism and how it works so not bad

A knowledgeable corrupt leader is better than a dumb none corrupt leader

Tinubu is has zero knowledge how development works and is still corrupt and tribalistic

You're the real dumb.

If you go to any school, na waste of money.

Do you know what is called DEVELOPMENTAL ECONOMICS?

All those funny statements that Obi makes for you his dumb followers is what you are calling developmental economics! Eeyah.

Atiku understands capitalism. What do you understand about capitalism?

One should pity you guys. It's even difficult to categorize all of you.

Keep dreaming.