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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: I Farted During A Job Interview by IDERAWOLE(m): 1:06pm On Apr 05, 2022
Sixfiguresmart:
I have passed 4 stages and this is the final interview. On the overall, I did very well but towards the ending my anus could no longer hold this big loud fart. I tried to squeeze the tip of my anus but it overwhelmed me and the fart came out like an oil drum exploding in a cantonment.
The smell that ensued sent the interviewers running for their lives. In a few moments, the security guard asked me to leave that they will contact me by email.
So, I have been home since thinking how and why it happened.
What are my chances of getting this job?

You simply lack manners and it paid you off on your best day.
What will it cost you to ask for a moment to use the restroom?

You've been doing this and it looks normal to you.

To even come here and be asking if you can still get the job showed how poor mannered you are.
You need help.
Manners far outweigh any kind of skill you may have.

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: What Happened When I Went For An Interview At Lekki by IDERAWOLE(m): 10:37pm On Mar 30, 2022
sorosoke101:
So I was billed for an interview today by 12pm at an event center on admiralty way lekki, on getting to the venue the security guard told me there was no such interview on there schedule .

I tried calling the Hr personnel I sent my C.V to and her number was switched off.

The funniest part was that I wasn't the only one at the venue I met 9 other people.

So they started calling the Hr personnel to no avail and we all went back home looking sad.

In fact I came all the way from festac and spent 1800 for Tp. "Me wey broke like broken plate"
So my brothers and sisters you can imagine the disappointment.

Anyways am still in the job hunt in case there is any job opening just holla at your boy BABSODIQ007@GMAIL.COM trust me I can do any legal work because I am versatile though I hard a 3rd class degree in microbiology

Hmmm! You must Have been pained with your money wasted on transportation.

You must be grateful though that you didn't fall into the hands of ritualists or kidnappers.

Meanwhile, you grammar indicates something that you may be short in employability.

How do you mean by saying that you can do any legal work, I thought that means you're a lawyer, only to read that you studied Microbiology! I can see a lack of understanding of the meaning of that word.

All you're trying to say is that you're open to do any legit work!

You need to keep reading good books, particularly on self development or any English novel till you get any job.

Poor communication in English will always disappoint your efforts in landing a good job.

Don't wait for a salaried job as well. Think out of the box on what problem you can solve.

Further your education while waiting for a good job by attending a good school on YouTube.

Learn anything on YouTube.

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Family / Re: Help! My Wife Says She Doesn't Love Me Again & No More Sex From Her.... by IDERAWOLE(m): 5:13pm On Mar 26, 2022
Philip94:
I have been married for almost a year but my marriage has been 30% sweet and mostly 70% bitter because I have an unforgiven wife who is ONLY concerned about what I said and did wrong but NEVER concern about what I did right.

She gets offended easily, keeps malice and gives me silent treatment at home. I've had private conversation with her MORE THAN 10 TIMES on how to find a lasting solution to wherever issues she has with me instead of her constant fault finding and malice. Despite my effort, all seems like a waste coz there is no positive change at all.

Lately, MY LEGALLY MARRIED WIFE TOLD ME THAT SHE NO LONGER FEEL CONNECTED AND FEEL LOVE FOR ME ANY MORE.

I asked her to tell me one or more reason why she said that but her response was NOTHING. She's practically creating space between us. She does her thing alone and does not carry me along in any thing and she wants same from me.

She is doing everything to make the marriage stop while I have been the one sustaining and making the marriage work out. Her parents are not helping matters coz they are not giving me listening ears and have a way of supporting their daughter by twisting whatever I say to suite them.

B4 we got married, we had quarrel and misunderstandings as other couples do and said abusive words to ourselves which we settled b4 our wedding day and I assume we have forgiven and forgotten about it. But with the look of things, my wife is tied to the past and will keep remembering what I said and did wrong in the past and she allows the past deed affect our present.

Sadly, her unforgiving attitude and never ending resentment is badly affecting our marriage presently. I have tried everything possible within my capacity to rekindle back her love for me & for the sake of our marriage and 3 months baby boy. I suggested that we go out to a cool place just the two of us alone but her response is NO. She even said I can go out and have sex with anyone that she doesn't want SEX for now.

NOTE: I am the one paying all the bills at home coz she's presently jobless. Yet, I am not complaining. She is not stressed up as some may think coz there are helpers at home taking care of her and the baby. Please! What can I do to put a stop to this shit. It's affecting my emotion and psychology.

Though difficult to be fair in judgement here, we've not heard her own side of the story!

If all you said is true and she's not yielding, though your marriage is still young, I would've said that you stay calm and maintain peace, and that's what I'll say for the sake of your son.

See your travail as an opportunity to discipline yourself in perseverance, and watch what she'll do in the next 1year, while your son grow up.

If there's still no improvement for that length of time, wit all your continued efforts to broker peace, just file for divorce and move on, far better for you to be alive than be dead suddenly.
Career / Re: My Discovery About Private Schools by IDERAWOLE(m): 6:40pm On Mar 12, 2022
zicoraads:
Not true. Maybe this is the reality in your own area or where you're based.

But don't run a generalisation.

Can any small private school start a teacher's salary with 250k?


It doesn't have to be 250k now, but surely not 30k like some of them are still paying.
Family / Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by IDERAWOLE(m): 1:17pm On Mar 12, 2022
ElonEmpire:
GoodMorning all ,

I will make this as short as possible.
Before marrying my wife she seems to be this very generous and accommodating fellow . I felt fall in Love with her because this is just the kind of partner I want,

I have not really stand very well financially, though comfortable and contented, but I have this great dream of, because of what I pass through to help as much people as I can.
While dating her, she told me all kinds of stories of her philanthropic and generous gestures to people.

But moving forward to today, she seems to be direct opposite of everything.
She detests people coming close or we offering any kind of help or assistance to family both hers and mine not to talk of friends.

What about suggesting to assist a relative that can't afford, with their child education na war
We have not born but I have more than enough space to bring one or two children to see them through school but my wife is not buying is at all at all.

I know who I am before I marry, this is the only thing that gives me joy, and my only reason for asking God everyday to bless me so that I can bless people.

But right now am seriously confused
it hurts me alot but I don't wanna force anything against her will.

I have tried discussing it over and over with her but she is still not buying it, with the excuse of that we have not stand enough to carry anybody .

What could be her reasons and
What should I do?

Sir, you're touching on a sensitive area of God.

At the same time, God won't want you to fight this put with your wife. So what should you do?

Just discuss the matter with God, and let God convince her about this.

When God is done with her, you'll be laughing!

Just take it calmly.

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Family / Re: Please Advice! I’m Having Multiple Issues With My Marriage by IDERAWOLE(m): 1:30pm On Feb 08, 2022
Lasunray01:
Good day nairalanders. My first time post in 5yrs.

Will try to summarize the issues and seek sincere advise please.

I’ve been married before but got divorced within a year due to genotype issues(it’s a long story). So I remarried 2yrs after and with a child now, and that’s where my issues started from.

I know I have some bad sides too which I’m trying to change, which is flirting with single ladies, and this has caused multiple fight with my wife.

Whenever we have this fights, not physical, just verbal, but in her anger she breaks virtually anything around, cups, laptop, speakers etc. she can be madly angry. I’ve warned, petted her severally to desist from this act especially infront of our kid...but she won’t. It’s getting worse by the day. Now she reports me with blackmail to her parents and friends making me feel I’m the worst husband in the universe, calling me unprintable names. Calling me weak cos I don’t beat.

Now the advice I seek, we are planning to relocate as a family abroad this year, but I’m really scared. I can actually go alone, but would prefer we all go together since I have the means. But I’m scared if I won’t regret my actions to take her along with this her character. What if I get jailed or lose custody of our child abroad, because she’s a master in blackmail. She can turn simple issue overboard.


Sorry for the long epistle. Just had to pour out my mind. Constructive criticism is welcomed.

Thank you

For me your not serious! With this your thinking, you may even be the problem!

A woman with all these attitudes is what you're planning to take abroad. You'll rot in jail over there.

Your village people are behind your thinking.

Travel with her tomorrow.
Romance / Re: My Fiancé Is Having An Affair With A Married Woman. by IDERAWOLE(m): 7:26pm On Feb 06, 2022
Mineralzz:
Hello everyone.
Am an active member on this forum, I've have my main account but I wish to remain anonymous, i just want to hide my identity and i will deactivate this account as soon as I get a solution. I'm so heartbroken right now cry

I thought my fiancée was different from every other guys, despite his gentle and innocent face I never knew he was a liar and a cheat sad

He's fond of connecting his laptop to his smart TV (65 inches). What displays on the laptop automatically displays on the smart TV screen. See what happened, he went downstairs to pickup something, So I wanted to see a movie on Netflix, while I was looking for a suitable movie to watch, a message popped up from Facebook and it stated "Whr are U? Check ur phone...6 missed calls cry"

At first, I wasn't triggered to open the msg but what drew my attention was the "cry emoji". When I opened the msg my heart melted, I was crying cry. Their secret affair has been going on since April last year. A married woman with 2 kids, I checked her profile I saw her kids and husband photos everywhere, she has visited my fiance at home several times, I saw lot of romantic messages.

I videoed their chat conversations as evidence, thank goodness his TV screen is wide enough for the blind to see. The moment he came inside he noticed my mood has changed, he was smart enough to know I opened his msg. He's started begging me, he said he can explain. Explain what?

Am on my way home now feeling devastated, heartbroken and sad cry. I plan to upload the video on Facebook and tag all the woman's friends until her husband sees it. I will also send the video to instablog, Linda ikeji.. Honestly I feel dejected and heartbroken. Help I don't know what to do cry.

Painful to be cheated on.

If you're not persuaded to forgive him, just simply move on and forget the relationship.

I'll advice you listen to whatever story he has to tell, for other life encounters.

The last you should do is to go the route of social media embarrassment. Internet don't forget things, you don't even know who is going to read your post on all these media.

Why look for headache, move on with your life.

He's even your fiance and not your husband. Better break courtship than marriage.

Don't go to any social media. No other man will hear that you do that and be comfortable with you.

All the best.

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Romance / Re: A Female HIV Positive Patient Seeks Love/partner by IDERAWOLE(m): 12:19pm On Feb 04, 2022
Chiefecho:
Dr olufunmilayo Popularly known as OurFavOnlineDoc on social media took one of his patients he counsel's on iG and Twitter page to help her aid looking for a partner/lover
Dr olufunmilayo wrote on his page,



https://mobile.twitter.com/DrOlufunmilayo/status/1489168171068235782

HIV is no longer a death sentence now. What you lack is not willing partner, but knowledge.

Magic Johnson, an American basketball player has been positive now for over 20yrs. Looking good. You'll only get an informed man to marry you too.

This can only happen by asking God to linking you to such an informed man.

Meanwhile, be positive, add value to people among them lies your future partner.

All the best.

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Religion / Re: Prince Dele Banjo Protests At Deeper Life Headquarters Over Unconventional Music by IDERAWOLE(m): 1:06pm On Jan 23, 2022
Righteousness2:
Brother, as a young man born in Deeper life Bible Church in the Early 80's and Grommed in DLBC until 2004 when I moved to the The Lords Chosen, I must say you have a very Valid Protest!

I Perceive GOD is using you to Pass a Very Strong Message to HIS Church and HIS servant. The ways of GOD ALMIGHTY are not the ways of Men.
The ALMIGHTY HOLY GOD will not change HIS Standard because of a Changing World.

I Pray HIS Servant and one of the Core Holiness Apostles and Generals of this Generation, Pastor WF Kumuyi takes note of this Peaceful Protest.

Hmmm! What a sad moment this will be for Pas WF KUMUYI. To have raised you all in the way and manner he did!

It's ironic and laughable that when this same man was teaching you all he did, you didn't reject his teaching! How come you have now come to know better than him?

The thought he gave you the authentic gospel, but having realized that he was wrong and wanted to correct himself before facing his maker, you're saying he's wrong! Good luck to you all.

If you want to disagree with him, it's your right to do so! However, on what basis will be your disagreement? If you contend that is wrong in what he's teaching you now, how come you're sure that he wasn't wrong in the former things he taught you.

For instance, Baba told all of you that the t.v. is a devil box, and nobody should touch it, however now its a different ball game entirely! Yes not only preaching on the same t.v. but it's like Deeper Life has a t.v. channel now! Why are you guys connecting to the headquarters online to hear him preach?

I took this long post to advise you guys to leave religion alone and embrace the word of God!

Be like the Bereans by picking your bible to read with clear mind before joining protest!

God bless you.

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Family / Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Relocating Abroad! by IDERAWOLE(m): 9:43am On Jan 17, 2022
Realchairmann:
This is kinda confusing to me. I've been married to my beloveth wife for 11 years and counting. God has blessed us with three kids of ten, four and a year old. We are having a wonderful Union and time of our lifes.

For sometime now, I've been nurturing the idea of relocating abroad. My wife has BSc and MSc in Microbiology but has been jobless since she concluded her NYSC the year we got married. I'm ready to sponsor her for PHD to any country of her choice to pave way for I and the kids to follow later.

However, she has turned me down whenever I brought up the issue. Her response is always tied around the bond we share and that she can't just leave her kids and travel abroad.

I have a good paying job but I really want her to explore her potentials too. She's a very good wife and an excellent mother but I'm confused why she's skeptical about leaving this Country.

Or am I the one taking too much risk?

Oga, madam is afraid of another woman taking over her home and husband. She's suspicious of your motives. Women are highly intuitive like no man's business.

What potential does she have that can't be explored with two degrees?

Ask her, what does she want, not what you think she wants.
Properties / 3 Bedroom Flat Needed Ramat Estate Ogudu Gra by IDERAWOLE(m): 2:08pm On Jan 09, 2022
Please DM me if you have such a property in this estate or in OMOLE 2, any other estate with good and tarred road network, regular power supply.
This is urgent. Pictures will fasten this transaction.
WhatsApp -08063423482
Business / Re: Which Of These Business Should He Invest In With 600k Budget? by IDERAWOLE(m): 9:19pm On Dec 30, 2021
Rapmoney:
I have a friend who is not a member of this forum. He's been seeking advice from circle of friends as to which business to invest in as a new year is about to start. His budget is 600k. Below are the choices:

1. Music production studio
2. Autorevamp shop (panel beating and spraying)
3. Driving school
4. Pig farming

He has skill in the first and second businesses above. Which do you think would be more lucrative and fulfilling?

Thanks as we expect good advice from brothers and sisters here.

Pls mods, help move to front page.

No 4 is your best bet with this budget!

Make your research, as you can double that money with 12months.
Romance / Re: Help! I'm Not Sexually Attracted To Her. Advice Needed. by IDERAWOLE(m): 9:01am On Dec 28, 2021
phranco:
I am in a relationship with a girl I'm planning to get married to. I love her and we vibe together and play most times. From my own assessment, she is good, down to earth, knows how to cook, humble, respectful, and she is also very beautiful naturally, infact she passed 70% quality of the kind of woman I want in my life.

The problem is that I'm not attracted to her sexually. She has a small body, and doesn't have nyash or should I say small nyash (sorry for the offensive word). I'm not aroused if I'm with her. I can manage to have sex with her just once, even if she will stay five days with me, and I know this gives her concern.

I like ladies with backside, height and chubby. but the ones I have come across doesn't even measure up to this my girl in character.

Does sex Matter so much in marriage? Cos I'm afraid I may cheat on her or get sexual satisfaction outside our marriage. I'm just confused right now.

I'm not going to disparage you for your concern about not being sexually attracted to this lady despite scoring 70% of the requirements you desire to see in a lady.

However, let truth be told. Those things you look for in a lady are valid but for a short time. You'll soon get tired of them. Unfortunately, that's what we grew up to see about people. It happens to ladies too.

You'll see someone with qualities that will outlive each of you and you're jumping at what will soon fade away in 10yrs if not in a lesser period of time.

Let me tell you, what creates passion for sex aren't external things! Theyre internal ones! The real person inside of the body that is attracting you now.

You've not met the real person inside that smallish body of the lady, if you do, you'll want to sleep with her all day if you have the strength to do so!

Let me tell something. Develop the idea of sitting down with her in gists and the more you'll be more willing to be with her.

If you've ever met a lady with all the external traits you're looking for, but she's a beast in the inside, that's even the one you'll cheat on!

The joy to you in sex isn't all about what you want but the things you hear her saying while giving her the pleasure of her life.

You might not agree with me till you meet Jesus though!

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: N100,000 Job Or Five Million Naira Cash? by IDERAWOLE(m): 10:40am On Dec 26, 2021
steveneche:
My uncle died early this year. He was the head of finance in the company he worked before his demise.

Now due to the level of influence he had in the company, I was made an offer because they know me well in the company.

5million cash, or I get employed in the company with 100,000 monthly pay starting January.

Please Nairalanders help me decide... Candid opinion please

Take the 5m if you have business intelligence, not just an idea o!

Any Dick Tom and Harry can talk about business idea! If you have one that you're learnt with a mentor and roadmap, take the money, if not take the job.

Somebody suggested buying two cars for Uber cars! Fine, if you have business sense.

There are other multiple sources you can also put your cash and use the returns to keep yourself going and start one or two others.

Make your choice based on these thoughts.

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Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Been Living With Family Friends Whose Son Is Asking Her Out by IDERAWOLE(m): 6:35pm On Nov 19, 2021
needsansa:
I'll cut the long story short.

I met this girl sometimes in 2018. She was living with her aunt who was not being nice, and early 2020 she returned to her mom. Im fact it was so terrible that and she survived several abuses from her aunt's husband, which she told me. I was actually the main force behind her eventual liberation and relocation to her mom. We've been together all through.

Then, mid this year, things went rough with her mom, and the poor woman returned to the village. Then she landed with this family friend of theirs(not related, but their mothers are old friends). This family lives a stone throw to her mom's place.

She's told me before she joined this family how their last son was troubling her for a date, but she has been refusing. Then mid this year she moves in with same family. It is a family of 3 boys. She would always be the one cooking for the family. Sometimes, she would have to cook and wash for the same boy and take food it to his house (which is a short distance from d family house). It did not stop there, anytime they are broke, the mother would send her to go and beg the same guy for money (teasing her that she has a way of collecting money from her son).

If I had d means I'd have also gotten an apartment so we could have more time together, but things neva set..I dey hustle nor be say I lazy, but soon sha God go perfect am.

I know what and what could have happened in all this drama but I want to gear from my agbas in the building - how should I go about this matter. Thank u.

Don't worry u can yab me smiley

Your situation is quite complex.

It is a rare opportunity for you to see your fiance in a very tight situation and how she'll handle her commitment to you.

Now that she's been talking to you about how they've been hassling her about date, ask her if it's not better she just go ahead and date the boy or boys, then see how she'll react, not just immediately but consistently tell her that you understand her situation.

If she decides to pack out, even if it's to nowhere then this will tell you that you have a wife there.

If she cries after some weeks of resisting going along with the family she's staying with and then give in to the pressure, thank God for your life and thereafter, move on. Your own will soon show up.

Don't be sentimental with this thing at all, for your own good.

If she caved in to the offer from the boys in that family, don't hate her for it, it's just that she can't handle the pressure that comes with life.

The moment you take your mind away from that tough scenario, things will begin to fall in place if you know what to do.

Now, about yourself and your future. Women can be loyal to the point that their strength can carry it, beyond that point, you are on your own sir. So, define the future you want for yourself.

Life is not a rocket science, God loves all creatures, irrespective of your spirituality now. However, you can take your spirituality to the next level with God.

What do want in life? You need to know how to get it.

Nobody becomes anything in this world without a higher power! The world is a war zone, you must fight, but who will be your captain of war is the issue!

If you want Jesus to be your captain of the host of heaven, make up your mind, if you want to patronize babalawo, make up your mind. Each has its different end.

You don't need Jesus to make it materially in this world, but if you want peace in this world with your wealth, you can't do without Jesus!

However, after this world, without Jesus, you'll feel stupid when all of these hustles are over.

So, what do you want to become? Get the blueprint from Jesus and the rest of your story will become history.

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Romance / Re: A Newly Married Lady With Her Male Best Friend by IDERAWOLE(m): 1:12pm On Nov 12, 2021
dharamanil:
Hi everyone.

Let me jump on it. I have this guy who has been friends with a lady for couple of years. Maybe about 8years or thereabout. They v been hanging often she is always at his and sometimes he is with her at her family house.

She recently got married to a white guy who isn't based in Nigeria but rented her an apartment and a lot more. Her husband is aware of the guy so he has no doubt about them.

Now the problem is since her new apartment, the male friend visits her often like oldies and u know still hang around even spends the night there and all. According to him, no sex, she stays in her room and he stays in another. But he recently started complaining that hsi friends feels he should stop visiting her. Not for any concrete reason though than she is married.

Note. The husband doesn't leave in the house.


Why do some Nigerians love problem like this?

On what basis are you going to stay with a lady who is now married not to talk of spending the night is her house that the husband rented for her, for God's sake?

Don't you have your own house or what? Anyway, that's your headache!

Remember oyinbo goes about with his gun, whether in obodo land or naija.

You better leave that trouble alone and face your own life!

What a people!
Business / Re: Can A Man In His Early 30s Do Akara & Akamu Busines Without Shame? by IDERAWOLE(m): 2:19pm On Nov 08, 2021
Mylordmygod1:
GOOD DAY NIRALANDERS

I wanted to start up a POS business with my savings of N65k, but the POS man that i consulted to assist me said i would need at least N150k to start up a POS business.

I've really been hustling everyday, doing hard works (especially on bulding sites), taking pain killer drugs on daily basis..

I don't think it will be easy for me to raised my savings up to that amount 'N150k' with the type of work that i do..

I wanted to travel to the city with my ND (National Diploma) result, so i can use it to look for work, I posted it here on nairaland, but 80% of the advice i got from this forum said it will be hard to see a paying job with ND result, while some said it is not even possible. So i couldn't travel again..

Now that my savings isn't enough to start up a POS business, i'm thinking of starting up a standard akara and akamu business and probably extend the business along the run..

As someone known by his people to have went to school, is the business worth the shame?


I'll be very frank with you.

It is good to hustlfor anything that will pay your bills, but also check out yourself, what do you have passion to do!

With your ND, really, there's nothing to be shy about if you're not shy about it. However, if you're shy, then what else do you know how to do?

As an ND holder, this should put you up to learn more things. Digital skills is another option. If you're not lazy about reading and learning then go to an online platform to learn one or two things.

Checkout this link and equip yourself.

https://www.websitelearners.com...i/

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Family / Re: I'm 23 Years Old While My Girlfriend Is 29 Years (Can We Get Married) by IDERAWOLE(m): 2:48pm On Oct 25, 2021
cooooooks:
Yes. Age is a number.

Your relationship has to be based on MUTUAL RESPECT; like all relationships.

Biko, if this is still puppy love, do NOT get married.

Be together for like 2 years first before marrying.

Best of advices!

If you're not falling all over her, irrespective of whoever is around,stop right now!
Politics / Re: Adeleke: I’ll Provide Private Jet For Ooni’s Trips If Elected Governor by IDERAWOLE(m): 11:44pm On Oct 07, 2021
SarkinYarki:
This is very silly ..the Oni already flies private and doesn't need to have state sponsored jet to do so...

Can you see the man that PDP is trying to foist on Osun people?

Of all things, this is the only thing he can think of!

Ah, what a tragedy to this nation!

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Education / Re: Nigeria At 61: How The Number Of Universities Grew From Pre-independence To Date by IDERAWOLE(m): 1:00pm On Oct 01, 2021
ProvisioDigital:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zgvVwoJzbxk


This short video shows how the number of universities in Nigeria grew from 1 university in 1948 (pre-independence) to 197. Today (September 2021), the number of private universities surpasses the total number of public universities in Nigeria (federal and state-owned). Private universities are 99 while public universities are 98 (federal universities are 45 and state universities are 53 as at the time of this publication).

Between year 2000 and 2010, the number of private, federal and state universities grew by 93%, 7% and 51% respectively.

Between year 2010 and 2020, the number of private, federal and state universities grew by 49%, 40% and 30% respectively.

Between year 2000 and 2020, the number of private, federal and state universities grew by 96%, 44% and 66% respectively.

There are only few universities in Nigeria.

At best, not more than 25. Others are jokes.
Family / Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by IDERAWOLE(m): 12:32pm On Oct 01, 2021
DavidNative:
Need Advice Pls

Good Day, everyone, am having a serious challenge in my marriage, been married for a year and was no Premarital sex, since I need to promise her am a faithful guy and based on religion ground….

But honestly even in the marriage, it has been one sided, she said my private part is to big and I stay too long, I do every for her, love her, care for her, help her in kitchen, setup a home business/career for her to save her the stress of going out. I give her head, sometimes I suck and engage in pre-intimacy for long , but many times, since we had gotten married, I am the only active person, sometimes for a month no sex, am getting frustrated, I need advice.
Everytime i try to discuss it, she say i should try to understand that she is nott the sex type. Am tearing apart on my inside. What can i do pls

Hmmm, I feel you.

Just relax and calm down.

The truth is that sexual matters are not always what you read or watch in porns.

There's a side of your wife yet to be discovered! Take your time to discover it.

Don't back down on the love languages you've been speaking. However, you may need to withdraw from those sexual gimmicks you've been trying to use. She may not even like them.

Why not try jisting and see if she'll like that. Sexual preferences are as diverse as people. Find out hers.

Let me tell you, sex for newly married is huge with a lot of fantasies, so I can feel you.

Believe it, women too loves it, but theirs are a bit complex.

For a guy, except the wife has emotionally wounded him, all he needs to be ready for sex is her body.

For a lady, it may be more, How do you know that? Ask her.

Talk about other things of interest to her. She may love outings. Find out!

All the best.

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Romance / Re: My Rich Neighbor Makes Me Think She's Out Of My League by IDERAWOLE(m): 8:17pm On Sep 28, 2021
Romanoff:
Someone that is already sleeping over at your neighbour's place is what is interesting you?


I wonder o! Men! Ha!

Just to register your own name too! God help men.
Politics / Re: David Umahi Welcomes Wife, Rachel, At Enugu Airport After Vacation Abroad by IDERAWOLE(m): 10:51am On Sep 27, 2021
hisexcellency34:
See how tall the wife is. Hope she won't be beating this governor?

Hmmm! Do a check in Ebonyi of how powerful the woman is in that govt.
Family / Re: I Find It Hard Expressing Myself And It Is Killing Me by IDERAWOLE(m): 7:36am On Sep 07, 2021
Solofresh2:
Hello fellow Nairalanders,
Please I need your advice on this.I find it hard to express myself to people because of been rejected by them
I find it hard to express myself because of being criticized
I find it hard to express myself even at my place of work because of being sacked going back to square one
There are somethings I don't voluntrily want to do when people ask me to do then but I can't say no because I don't want to look bad cry
I lack self confidence too cry
I really need help because deep down I hate it when I can't express my feelings to people
Have been pretending to enjoy pain and stress since I was born and now am 21 years of age,no school,no handwork, always feeling shy but I have one talent which is music but I don't know how to go about it and I don't want to see sucide as an option
I blame my parents for this things because when I was small, they don't allow me to go out and experience life
As I write about this now,I feed myself and instead of them to give me, they are always demanding from me
I don't even know where to start from
Am tired of this goddamn world! cry

If your story is true, then you're far better than millions of Nigerians with plenty shakara and bragados!

It's just that you haven't realized it.

You are shy because of your opinion of yourself.

Just believe me and tell yourself that it wasn't too bad as you think.

The starting point is to love people and be kind to others, you'll start seeing some confidence build up in you as such people begin to thank and appreciate your kindness to them.

On your gift, use it wherever you find opportunities.

Above all, you need to know your maker. Without Him, even with the best of your gifts. Life can be dull.

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Business / Re: Which Business Can I Invest With N350K To Make N10K Profits Daily? by IDERAWOLE(m): 12:19am On Aug 18, 2021
KingShayDee:
Do dropshipping the Nigerian way.

Find a product that has value

Find a wholesaler and strike a deal buy one of the product and make a video ad for the product.

Ensure the can make a profit of BTW 10-50% per sale.

Ensure you can offer pod or cod, I'll advise you focus on your currently location for a start.

Setup a landing page + Sales Copy + Facebook Ads = Money !!!

This is good! Worth learning as well.

Please, no fast track in any biz. Study, learn the steps!

Don't plan to use this ROI to settle your immediate financial obligations, or else greed will set in.

You'll blow your investment with such desperation.
Business / Re: Which Business Can I Invest With N350K To Make N10K Profits Daily? by IDERAWOLE(m): 3:19pm On Aug 17, 2021
obi4eze:


Oga crypto isn't forex. There's a big difference between them. I don't encourage anyone to trade for another. I believe in do-it-yourself and learn-it-yourself. No need to reach out to you for anything. State it here.

Thank you.

You want me to explain the difference between crypto and forex on this page here?

So all the things you'll need to learn in 6months should be put on the page here? Thank you.

If you know the difference between crypto and forex like you said, go ahead and teach our friend how to make that money here. I'm willing to learn from you too.

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Business / Re: Which Business Can I Invest With N350K To Make N10K Profits Daily? by IDERAWOLE(m): 3:05pm On Aug 17, 2021
obi4eze:
Crypto Futures. If you know what you're doing you can make 20 USDT (equivalent of 10k Naira) per day.

While I agree with you, if you know what you are doing its possible but not a straight jacket process.

A lot goes into crypto/forex biz!

The beautiful thing in this is that you earn in dollars, but it's not an overnight success.

For you who is sounding desperate to make that money, don't go near crypto or forex, you'll blow your money within 10mins if you're not careful.

If you're an experienced trader in forex, it is possible! For a beginner, impossible!

How long will it take you to become experienced trader? It's a minimum of 6months of learning and trading with a mentor or training school. One actually exists in Lagos, an American company that you can check out.

Even with that American company, you can't make that return on investment immediately. You must learn it.

With #350k, good and thorough training, mentorship, good broker like the one I'm talking about, you can make #28,000 daily after about 6months - 1year of trading.

Alternatively, let someone trade for you, and you split the money 50:50.

You don't have to hand over the money to the trader, you'll be able to open a trading account with the Nigerian based American broker company, the trader will be trading with your account, you'll be seeing the progress being made, but without you touching the account so that you don't blow it and on a weekly basis you split the profit.

Now, let me say this; you're better paid on a weekly basis, rather than daily, because it's not everyday that profit comes in the way you plan it. However, within a week you can cover grounds for the slow days in the market.

Reach me via my signature if you're interested and want more information.

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Is Studying Physics Actually A Useless Course In Nigeria? by IDERAWOLE(m): 2:41pm On Jul 12, 2021
doghorp:
I am currently a 300 Level studying, I rarely see advert that says Bachelor Degree in Physics.

This question of yours and those advising you to abandon the course simply shows that you may be in the university, the university isn't yet in you.

Apart from your lectures, what other things do you read?

Education is more than that paper in your hand called degree by the ignoramus, the real degree is a combination of the knowledge in whatever course of study you're into, and relevant information about what's going on around you and in the world.

This is the problem of education in Nigeria.

Physics is the heaviest and the most diversified course in the whole of science and engineering. The toughest if you need to know.

So if you're having better grades thus far in your school, count yourself lucky but ignorant

You had better make use of that smart phone in your hand to know more about the world, and leave the camp of the Joneses in Nigerian schools.

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Religion / Re: Man Rains Money On His Pastor In Church (Photos, Video) by IDERAWOLE(m): 10:43pm On Jul 10, 2021
Romance / Re: Should I Go On With The Marriage Preparation? by IDERAWOLE(m): 10:42pm On Jul 10, 2021
Ekomatrix1:
I have this girl I have been dating for 4 years and we are planning to get married to this year. But I notice she does not like to sacrifice. I mean, she is kind of selfish.

she is studying and i send her money aside the one the parent gives to her but if i request for a video call, she would ask me to send her data, if she comes to my house and i don't give her TP not minding that i gave her money some weeks/days back she would be angry.

Yesterday i booked a ticket for her to come to lagos from anambra, after booking she asked me to also send her some feeding money for the journey. I refused and asked her to take from the 20k I sent to her last 2 weeks, she then said " WHO PAYS FOR TP AND NOT GIVES FEEDING MONEY?  

Long story short, I had to cancel the ticket. I have constantly complained about her selfishness  but no improvement .

what should i do?

Some stupid questions are all over this Nairaland!

Empty your bank account and give it to her sir!

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