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Politics › Re: If You Were Nigeria’s President For One Week, What Would You Change First? by IDERAWOLE(m): 5:11pm On Oct 05, 2025
CommentatorPro:
Nigeria is a country blessed with talent, resources, and resilience — yet it continues to struggle under the weight of bad leadership, corruption, and poor governance. From unreliable electricity to the rising cost of living, it sometimes feels like every sector is crying out for help.

Now imagine this: you suddenly become the President of Nigeria — but only for one week. You have full control to make key decisions, sign executive orders, and implement reforms. No bureaucracy, no political godfathers — just seven days to make a difference.

What would you fix first?

Would you focus on the economy, to bring down the price of food and fuel?
Would you tackle security, ensuring that citizens can travel freely without fear of bandits or kidnappers?
Or maybe you’d go straight to education, reviving schools, paying teachers well, and making universities work again?

Some Nigerians say they would start by cutting government salaries and reducing the cost of governance. Others believe the first step should be arresting corrupt politicians and recovering looted funds. A few even argue that constitutional reform is the only real solution to Nigeria’s endless cycle of problems.

Whatever your opinion, one thing is clear — most Nigerians know exactly what they want fixed; they just haven’t had the power to do it.

So, let’s hear from you
If you had just one week as Nigeria’s President, with total authority to act, what’s the first thing you’d change and why?
This is the typical hypothetical questions that Nigerians ask and think most of the time.

As a matter of fact, 98% think along this line.

Unfortunately for them, life don't happen hypothetical, it's real.

Sustainability is the name of solutions that touches the lives of the citizens; meaning you don't take life changing decisions in 7days.

If you have just 7days to do something as a president of even a social club, the best you can do in 7days is think and consult.

Even a military junta don't take decisions in 7days.

So, Nigerians should wake up from illusions.

I know this is not what you wanted to hear, but somebody must help you to wake up from unrealistic hypothesis.
Politics › Re: Church Members Avoided Me Over Muslim-muslim Ticket – Remi Tinubu by IDERAWOLE(m): 8:42am On Sep 30, 2025
DeLaRue:
'... from the new members class, I graduated from The Redeemed Christian Bible College, also School of Disciples to become a worker, then a Deaconess and later an Assistant Pastor in 2018'

According to you, someone that went to bible college, and attended School of Disciples, then became a deaconess, and assistant pastor, is not fit to be a pastor huh

Majority of pastors in Nigeria today have not even stepped foot in a bible college, yet this woman did, yet you still find fault.
Are you wasting your data and time responding to that one!

Social media; o gba olè, o gba olé
Family › Re: I Gave My Ex ₦5m From The ₦6.3m My Husband Gave Me, Now He’s Ignoring My Calls by IDERAWOLE(m): 8:36pm On Sep 24, 2025
lilyheaven:
This is called greediness.
5m is gone .
Even your ex is looking for the 5m, that’s why you can’t reach him. 🤣
Eeyah. No profitable Forex trader will borrow money to trade Forex.

When he promised X2 of that money, it's clear he's just gambling and not trading Forex.

Otilo, your money don go.

Why did your hubby keep 5m with you?

What of the bank or Treasury bills, or O'Wealth in opay app?
Foreign Affairs › Re: President Lazarus Chakwera Concedes Defeat In Malawi Presidential Election by IDERAWOLE(m): 2:05pm On Sep 24, 2025
[quote author=Mrfixitt post=136904440]Tinubu should prepare his mind to do same in 2027 for the sake of peace in Nigeria..[/quot

Ho la la!
Family › Re: Marriage Cancelled Because She Doesn't Want To Call Her Fiance's Niece Aunty by IDERAWOLE(m): 3:27pm On Sep 23, 2025
jmoore:
https://www.facebook.com/100071450056350/posts/pfbid08MSo7iCYAXR8b6gvpL3iR1UXYkFZBia23sHekfA8SigKnTXYLMZV4PnmAug6QmP4l/?app=fbl
Next time, watch out the family you're getting married into instead of wasting years dating and calling it off at the eleventh hour.

Culture is powerful, you can't beat it even in corporate settings. It's peculiar from places to place from tribe to tribe, from generation to generation. Respect it or you end up wasting your time.

Since that's what you want, look for a family where such culture doesn't matter. There are many.

However, for your information; you don't just marry a spouse, you marry the family particularly. Don't be decieved into thinking otherwise.
Travel › Re: Work Commences On Ondo State Segment Of Lagos-Calabar Coastal Highway by IDERAWOLE(m): 10:18pm On Sep 14, 2025
Kaa4:
I still find it hard to understand the wisdom behind this infrastructure expenditure. Good as it may be, we have better things to do than the amount spent or to be spent on this.

BAT's idea against the whole of the country.

Opportunity right and left.
Opposing views is part of the beauty of democracy and good governance.

Can you put forward what are the things you believe this government should be doing instead of this "white elephant project"?
Crime › Re: Olasijibomi Of Sujimoto Luxury Construction Declared Wanted By The EFCC by IDERAWOLE(m): 1:15pm On Sep 05, 2025
Amotolongbo:
imagine a Nigerian youth!

Does the President of Nigeria need going so low, using EFCC to hunt anyone who occupies the land he is interested in when he could easily call on the state governor (his godson) to revoke the occupancy on the land?
It's not everyone you need to respond to. Or don't you think so?
Business › Re: What's Happening To Shoprite At Ikeja City Mall? by IDERAWOLE(m): 10:03pm On Sep 04, 2025
Osebanjo:
LOL. Una and politics sha. I think the problem is actually more than politics. Shoprite was busy shutting down in every country but Amusan decided to try his luck by acquiring the Nigeria franchise. Guess he’s just getting to know why they were shutting down in the first place everywhere except SA. I can bet it’s competition if you ask me.
Thank you for taking the time to re-educate the educated illiterates in Nigeria.

They don't even know what is happening to ShopRite across Africa.

Everything is Tinubu's fault, pathetic souls.
Business › Re: Advise A Family Man At A Crossroad by IDERAWOLE(m): 9:57am On Aug 20, 2025
Holla911:
First, he needs to clear his mind and stop chasing losses else, he might loose that 20m#.
The economy isn't stable yet and sme's are closing daily because of cost of production and maintainance cost.
For now, you can invest in existing established business through shares acquisitions or government bonds.
20m# is big in figures but when put to production, it's not really much. Don't be in a rush even though I understand you have family pressure.
Set aside some money for food and basic household need for the next 6 months while you focus on doing research on what's next.
If he rush and loose that 20m#, na suicide go be the next advice he go dey ask (God forbid)
There are many vampires out there ready to suck that money from him as soon as they smell it. They will sweet talk you and show you bogus evidence of business success but na wash.
Be careful and guided.
Thank you for this very practical and non-emotional counsel.

My question for you is exactly what can he get into now with reasonable ROI?

I agree with you that the #20m isn't so much of a big money by virtue of the inflation in town.

Your advice that he should set aside a certain amount for home front sounds quite good because this will take pressure off him for at least three months. However, three months can be so swift if you are yet to lay hands on any major business activity.

I'm waiting for your detailed advice on these added questions.
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: I Cannot Take Up That Job, N150,000 Monthly Salary Is Too Small! by IDERAWOLE(m): 4:45pm On Aug 14, 2025
IyaTola:
I cannot take up that job, N150,000 monthly salary is too small!

Last year, a fresh graduate rejected the job I got him

I asked him to take the job for 6 months so that he can gather experience for his next job, but he didn't listen

He is still at home trusting God

I have had to advise a lot of graduates and professionals regarding whether to take up a role where the salary is small.

Some think the salary is belittling and not up to their worth.

I have also seen a lot of people on social media advising graduates not to settle for less which I disagree.

Your decision depends on whether you have a job at hand or not.

I believe it's better to accept a job with low salary than sitting at home to do nothing.

Once the salary can cater for your feeding and transport, you are fine.

No experience is a waste and no matter how bad a job is, you will learn something even if it is tolerance and perseverance.

You have an experience to point to.

You can't ask for a lion share (Salary) with a fish brain (no experience)

At the earliest days of my career,

I was living in Mowe -Ibafo axis, Arepo to be precise, working at Yaba and the salary was small,

I do wake up as early as 4:30am to enjoy cheap transport to Ojota

And BRT to Yaba were cheaper compared to 14 seater Bus.

Then, I do take standing in the BRT bus because it is cheaper than taking a seat

Infact standing was my hobby ��

I will get to the office 6am and wait till 8am when other staff will resume.

The pay was small, I worked as late as 8pm but the experience was BIG and worth it.

Later, I joined another company with double salary.

The rest is history today,

If you are in doubt of taking a job because of the pay, accept the offer,

Give your best, learn as much as you can, don't get carried away and keep your eye on your goal.

Remember, if you are too big to do small things, you will be too small to do big things

Do you agree?
Take whatever job you can and develop your resume.

Keep body and soul together till you get your dream job.

Nobody should be choosy on jobs to accept in the current economic situation of our country now.

Above the salary, the guy needs the experience instead of sitting idle at home.
Politics › Re: Goodluck Jonathan Visits Azikel Refinery In Bayelsa, Inspects Helicopters by IDERAWOLE(m): 7:26am On Aug 14, 2025
Toruibestate:
This is coming as shock and nightmare to the Muslim Muslim ticket crew...
This refinery must be bigger than Dangote Refinery I swear.
Politics › Re: Goodluck Jonathan Visits Azikel Refinery In Bayelsa, Inspects Helicopters by IDERAWOLE(m): 6:43am On Aug 13, 2025
greatseed:
Just tell us Jonathan systematically went to inspect one of his investments. While the alleged owner is just a frontier! Well done big Joe for investing right. It will help your immediate society & Nigeria at large
His investment? Jonathan no dey touch government money o. Stop am.
Politics › Re: Goodluck Jonathan Visits Azikel Refinery In Bayelsa, Inspects Helicopters by IDERAWOLE(m): 6:41am On Aug 13, 2025
Toruibestate:
This is coming as shock and nightmare to the Muslim Muslim ticket crew...
This refinery looks ten times bigger than Dangote Refinery that they're making noise about. Jonathan is coming. The incoming presido of ijaw republic.
Politics › Re: At 27 See My Achievements In Life: Please Help Me Rate My Life by IDERAWOLE(m): 10:53am On Aug 01, 2025
DitariIzon:
I wasn't born with a silver spoon.
2 days time (August 2) I would be 27 years, I have a daughter, a son, a wife and have a stable income coming from my own personal company that I'm the boss and have employees of which I started the company myself and it now pays in millions annually.

I am well recognized in my whole tribe Ijaw
as a youth leader and can enter anywhere Ijaw Nation leaders are gathering in Ijaw Nation or world-wide.


Please
Rate my progress in life?

@General Ditari.
Why asking for this affirmation?

You want join politics?
Family › Re: Is My Wife Right To Ask This? by IDERAWOLE(m): 10:51am On Aug 01, 2025
Israel5:
Please (even though I know my appeal with fall on deaf ears too numerous to count in this forum), approach this issue with logic and without prejudice to the people involved.

My wife and I are duly blessed with a son who is in his basic 5 now. Also, we decided to get the daughter of one of my cousin to stay with us. She is one of 7 children. So I wanted to help raise a CHIMAMANDA.

Just wondering the kind of blood that runs in some of us. Let me stop before saying too much.

As my rule, every child of same age under my room attends the same school and calls us Dad & Mum. The school part didn't quite seat well with my wife, who had a different opinion, but I prevailed anyway. Because na me dey pay school fees.

The girl is a year older than my son, but due to the level of education at the village before she came over, we made her be in the same class as my son. She met my son in primary 2. Now they are both in basic 5.

A shocker happened: This girl keeps coming up in the class, while my son keeps running away from the top. We've tried extra lessons, even tried changing schools. Now it looks as if the girl is better suited for school than my boy. She reads, spells and memorizes things too marvellous. I bought a dictionary cos of that.

I even buy gifts for her (for coming top) more than I do for my boy, to make him sit up, but my pikin nor send me o. Guy use cry & Woman power make me buy am bicycle. 😁

I would think he's being a spoilt boy, who believes daddy & mommy is there, I don't really know. But I am hopeful.

Now, my major issue is my heavily pregnant wife. She wants the girl to be changed/enrolled at a different school. In her defence, she wants her to be available to help her take care of things. The kid's school close by 3pm. She suggest government school that close earlier. I see sense in what she said but I feel like I'll be unfair to this young girl.

When I tried to have a healthy debate on the idea. Na so madam start to dey talk plenty tins wey I nor fit type.
I have accepted to do her wish from September for peace.

Please, do you see another way I could avoid problems?

Is she right to have asked that I changed the girl's school just because she needs help around the house & her business?
Romance › Re: What Will Be your Classic Response To This Message? (guys Only)) by IDERAWOLE(m): 6:17pm On Jul 31, 2025
kingmeme:
As a guy what will be Ur response to this message from a girl ?
If you walk away, you may simply have disqualified yourself.

Every lady wants the guy to push more, not just to frustrate you but want you to prove your seriousness.

A lady's heart isn't just a piece of paper to pick and dump!

If indeed, she's having a guy already, you should also respect her for that and appreciate a loyal person.

On a final note, acknowledge her beauty and loyalty from time to time and see if indeed she's taken. Be nice to her as there's no need to be rude or offended.

You never can tell; she may even end up linking you up to another friend of hers that's available. We men always think girls should be rolling on the floor the moment you showed interest.

Rejection is the name of the game in pursuing a lady, so enjoy the ride till you succeed with your own babe.

Life is easy.

I didn't know this, and I missed a lot of fun in chasing ladies. So learn the ropes.
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: 20 Master’s Degree Holders Lined Up For The Camera Man Job Peller Offered(vid) by IDERAWOLE(m): 9:10pm On Jul 12, 2025
Truths9ja:
😞 PELLER doesn’t really need a camera assistant. He already has enough people around him who can do the job,” — Jarvis reacts after seeing the viral video of Peller interviewing people with Master’s Degrees for a simple assistant role. 😳🎥

According to her, Peller is just using them for content and mocking educated Nigerians in the process.

Someone commented:

> “Peller is wise — since people are now focusing on VeryDarkMan, he’s using a fresh strategy to pull attention again.”

Welcome to Nigeria, where an ill!terate becomes the boss…
And Master’s degree holders queue up for camera assistant roles. 👏🇳🇬

Don’t let yourself be used for clout without benefit.
Does anyone among those small small boys there look like masters degree holder.

The guy is just creating content and he'll continue to make more money.

In real life situation the scenario can happen.

Education elsewhere has become far more than just cramming notes and scoring A in courses.

If you have gone to school, you had better learn how to employ yourself.
Romance › Re: Understanding Wives Are Suffering, Wicked Wives Are Enjoying. by IDERAWOLE(m): 4:00pm On Jul 11, 2025
Merry100:
https://www.facebook.com/share/p/17MBgNkKgP/

(Not my story. Came across this and it really hit me. What do you think?)
You better tell the owner of the story to keep enjoying herself.
Politics › Re: 25 Opposition Heavyweights In ADC by IDERAWOLE(m): 3:56pm On Jul 11, 2025
Learybrain1:
Coalition or no Coalition only God knows tomorrow but why all this ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex leader
You got it.

They all have one thing in common: they've lost access to the resources meant for all Nigerians but kept under their umbrella.

Remember, Amaechi hasn't replied Wike on the #4b per month paid his wife for one year.

Meanwhile, Amaechi doesn't like money.

By January, they'll run out of Nigeria by themselves when the tax laws will go into operations.

They're all bundles of illiterates. They don't even know what is looming ahead of them.
Christianity Etc › Re: What Is The Fate Of Our Ancestors Who Did Not Hear The Word Of God by IDERAWOLE(m): 2:27pm On Jul 06, 2025
Pearl1910:
Whatever happened to the people that lived before Jesus Christ came.
That is why reincarnation is strongly believed to be true. Because God will not be unjust to judge men for a law that never even existed or to use different scales to judge humans.
That's why it's good to get saved and study the Bible.

The book of Romans is very clear on the fate of those who lived before Christ came.

So, embrace the free gift of new Life given by God in Christ Jesus.

Become joint-heir with Jesus and you'll appreciate the beauty and power of the word of God.

Those people will be judged by their conscience and the natural laws as could be seen in the natural creations of God.
Politics › Re: Punishment Awaits Corrupt People – Atiku Hints On 2027 Presidency by IDERAWOLE(m): 8:57pm On Jul 05, 2025
SmartPolician:
Oga, go and sit down. Only Peter Obi can genuinely fight corruption in ADC! You cannot give what you don't have.

If anyone wants to stop corruption, build a system that promotes transparency and accountability. Stop taking political thieves to court for looted money you cannot recover.
Baba knows he's the candidate for ADC, every other person's are just pretending.
Sports › Re: Nigeria Vs Ghana: Unity Cup (2 - 1) On 28th May 2025 by IDERAWOLE(m): 7:51am On May 29, 2025
Chucks13:
And you are supporting a drug trafficker whose drug trafficking gone wrong and lead to the murder of his father ba?
Is that so?
Sports › Re: Nigeria Vs Ghana: Unity Cup (2 - 1) On 28th May 2025 by IDERAWOLE(m): 7:48am On May 29, 2025
SmartPolician:
Games where there's nothing to fight for like international friendlies are some of the most useless football matches. FIFA should end that NONSENSE the next time they want to update the rules of the game.
You sabi well well.
Properties › Re: Many Feared Trapped As Uncompleted Building Collapses In Lagos (Photos) by IDERAWOLE(m): 8:44am On May 28, 2025
fuckingAyaya:
Could it be wack engineers trying to cut corners? I pray they are rescued.
Check what you wrote too o! What do you call the engineers here?

Please check am well.
Family › Re: My Wife's Job Is A Threat To Our Marriage. by IDERAWOLE(m):
apprentist:
Hello Guys, let me first of all say the cliché "It is well".

Now let we start.
I met my wife years back just before the COVID-19 year during which we dated for almost a year and then eventually got married just when the lock down was reducing. I started this story this way because I wanted to emphasis that during that period, we had so much time to bond and she was mostly available to me as she only worked on shifts 2 to 3 days per week.
We could sit and talk for long, go out at late nights and have great s*x as frequently as we needed.

This I think gave me a mirage of an anticipated marriage life so I didn't hesitate to take it a step further ones the lockdown was relaxed.
I also made it clear to her that her job would have to give way when their kids start coming as I had plans to assist her further her edu and also put up a biz for her.

Speed up to after COVID-19, she resumed work which till this day demands 5 days a week and 2 to 3 Saturdays per month all from 7:45am till 5pm. Often times she'd return home tired and would manage to make dinner and off to bed till the next day circle continues.
It became worse when we started having children. I drive them to school as early as 7:40am before dropping her off at her job. And then I'll pick them up by 5:30pm or 6pm when she's done with her job for the day (let me mention that this extends to public holidays and school holidays or breaks).

I got tired and in December 2025 I told her she has to quit the job. My plan was to enroll her back into a private school after my kids are Upto 4 years as one of them still depends on breast milk. I also gave her the option of starting a business which I understand is a dynamic move and might not be successful, but at this stage of my life it's something I could afford to risk and so I didn't mind.

I must also mention that out of a 100% sex, 50% is not mutual as I could sense she isn't interested and 40% is a denial as she would rather deny me of s*x with the excuse that she is tired.

Simply put, I'm tired.
I'm a Christian and divorce isn't an option. Also I can't cheat, but I am starved of s*x and my kids are not given the attention they deserve.
Pls advice me
Uncle calm down o.

You gave this story by yourself, so it's not being cooked up by your wife to get sympathy.

What are the major worries of yours?

Little or no sex, little or no attention for you.

You also gave a detailed analysis of the number of hours she works. It's not a rocket science to know that she must be tired now!

Now if she's tired, what is sex to a tired body?

It's very apparent that you're not spending similar number of hours at a paid employment like she does, or else you wouldn't remember sex by the time you're back home.

I can't remember if you people resides in Lagos which is another crazy factor.

While sex to 90% of men is physical, to women it's more of emotional and psychological thing.

If you guys are that close as you narrated in your story, you can enjoy your babe every night without the rigor of intercourses.

Just sleeping in each others arms will be a win-win situation for both of you.

What's a man enjoying in a sex that you aren't looking into the eyes and moans of your wife.

A tired woman will sleep off in 30mins of lying down now.

That's nothing but mere brute, which is what majority of us men grew up to know as great sex.

Please, get a feeling of her tiredness and you'll be surprised about how she'll be looking forward to seeing you at the end of each day's work. She'll be looking forward to the sex you're dying for.

Now, let's come to the your plans of setting her up in business and therefore be able to free her from the grueling working hours of the 9-5 rat race of employment.

Until you set up the business by the side while she's trying to wind up from her employment, she won't take that kind of risk that most of us men are funny of taking.

Marriage to women is 90% about security and any other thing including sex is just 10%. This is what we men don't want to understand.

A man will leave an employment without anything to fall back upon all in the name of business set up.

That's dumb, I know because I've done that before.

What Should You Do Now?

1. There's nothing missing, it's just you that need to see the reality of her situation.

2. If you're not selfish, you won't die if you don't have sex every day. Men think they'll die without sex daily.

3. Enjoy the presence of the woman every evening when she comes back from work when everyone has taken their dinner.

4. You must arrange for dinner before she returns from work, either by cooking it yourself or you go buy it before she returns. We men don't see it this way.

5. If you apply these steps/points, you'll be dazed to discover that despite her tiredness you'll be having sex every night if you want it, she may even be the one initiating it. Sex is always a mind business for women before it becomes skin to skin.

6. Think more of her needs than yours and the beautiful soul you married will be back.

7. I can't find any advice to give the woman because na you bring complain.

8. Until she begins that business you're talking about, let her rest when she comes back from work.

9. If you follow this points, she may drop that job in the next 3 months.

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