Sessanvandy:
Good evening Nairalanders, please i need your sincere opinion on this issue bothering me.

I have been dating this guy for 9 months and our relationship has been going well except for this issue.

My boyfriend or should i say fiancé ( he has introduced me to his family as the woman he wants to spend the rest of his life with and my family is in support of the relationship) has been in contact with his ex-girlfriend who is married with a son.

My man spends 1-2hrs on phone with his ex girlfriend in my presence and when i confronted him, he told me to bear in mind that he can never stop talking to her because she didn't offend him and if she needs any monetary support, he won't hesitate to help.

They have no intimate relationship maybe cus of distance, He agreed not to call her but promised to take her calls when she does and she calls frequently.

Her husband also warned him to stay away from his wife but he wouldn't listen.

He is a nice guy with a good heart and we are planning introduction by December

I told him that if he can't stop communicating with his ex girlfriend the relationship is over but he still insist on maintaining contact with her...

Pls am i overreacting, How do i handle this??....mature advice needed!

sorry for the long post.

You're not overreacting, you'll only be the second wife eventually. As long as polygamy is not forbidden in your family. Some men are and ladies need psychiatrist and psychologist combined to help them.

davedy:
Good evening Nairalanders

I'm sorry for bringing up to this platform but is of necessity for me to bring it . I've been hearing it from people but I don't know how they do feel about it. I've heard stories about how a lady cheating on her guy and a man cheating, but all these stories I do see them as fantasy or something that is not real. I've heard about a lady killing herself because of her boyfriend and I've heard about a boy taking sniper because of a lady.

Recently, I was in love with a lady in my office and this lady she is 35 years of age, I am 37 years of age and I asked out, we started dating after a period of time, she told me about herself, after all in the place of her work, she has dated about three different persons that she had sex with them. People in the office do gossip about her because of how waryward life. They do call her prositute. With all that, I still love her.

Before I came on board, she told me about her neighbour and all what they've done like touching and kissing was the highest they have done and I said ok.

We started dating and working towards marriage. At a time, we got intimate. I never knew that she was still seen her neighbor. She do go to his room to charge her phone. I never knew that they were having sex and she was having sex with me. she always claim that I'm the only person she is having sex with but I have this kind of feeling that she is cheating on me. I do always argue and challenged her faithfulness and at the end, she will put up a defensive mode accusing me that I didn't trust her.

Some days ago, when i challenged her with evidence of cheating. She confessed to me about how she and her neighbour been having sex and I was heartbroken, that night, I slept in a house I couldn't get it, I never knew that I love her so much, that was a period I knew that I was deeply in love with her. I feel like dying, I feel like everything is over. I love her so much, I want to marry her. Few days ago, I travelled to meet with my parents and discussed my marriage issues with them, I told my girl about it but she didn't blive. With all these, she didn't feel remorseful. I wish I had never met her. I am in pain.. What should I do? I am a confused man now.


Please move to front-page. I will appreciate it. Thanks.

Quite a number of responses here felt you're behaving and talking like a 27yr old. Even at 27, some guys are presidential materials.

Anyway, age doesn't add up for emotional maturity in all cases.

You're definitely one of the slow to mature emotionally. I can figure that out.

Just thank your stars that all of these are happening right now. The lady is wayward but a matured one also. She's not interested in marrying you, but she just wanted to toughened you up for a marital life.

You're still sleepwalking, she loves you, not to marry you but to help you wake up.

So, wake up after your Marriage 101 lessons from her.

She has accomplished her job in your life. I won't be surprised if you go back and she decides to slap for being too dull.

So to avoid her slap, remain her friend, but move on from this experience to find a marriage material.

You're better equipped now.

CuteVally:
Good evening Nairalanders.

Please i need an advice on the next step i should take in life. I am a guy, 25 years of age and still living with my parents, though i am not jobless but recently my bank account just hit one million and 200 thousand naira.

So my parents are advising to buy a landed property in my home town that will take about 900 to 1 million naira. But the thing is that i am 25 and i feel at my age i should no longer be staying with my parents, so i want to rent a flat and furniture it to my taste, i feel it is time to move on, i need my freedom to finally face life like a man.

So my question is, should i purchase a landed property at 25 and continue living with my parents or pack out and start my Adult life. Note: i am not jobless".

1million naira is a handsome amount of money, and at the same time, can be blown away if care is not taken.

Staying in your parents house or moving out is a factor of what you're doing for a living.

I'm not sure this amount of money is from savings, if it is, congratulations.

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neduboo:
Hello professionals, please can #2M build me a 3 bedroom bungalow. The land is already available.

My family house is old and always affected by floods. Anytime rain falls, the whole house is flooded. Though floods usually disturb that area. I'm majorly concern about my parents who are getting old putting their legs and sleeping on top of the flood anytime it rains heavily. Because of the flood, I developed asthma while growing up and still battling with it.

Initially, I have an intention of doing some rehabilitation of the old house by removing the roof and filling it above the flood level so that in case the flood comes it will stay outside and won't be able to enter the house (worse case scenario). But my mom discouraged me telling me that it's better to rebuild a new house because the foundation of the old house is already weak.

But I'm very confused because I doubt if my budget can build me a new 3 bedroom flat in front of the old house.

Please kindly advise me. Thanks in anticipation

Location: Lagos

You can't sir.

Your roof wooden members and the covering sheet alone for the cheapest option which asbestos will take almost 1.2m.

Your foundation with floor slab will take nothing less than 200k.

The blocks of 3000 pieces will cost nothing less than 300k

The electrical materials and installation will take nothing less 180k.

Your plumbing works almost 200k

You have iron works, plastering, painting, tiling, kitchen furnitures and all external works.

So, brother think twice.

Use that money on a business that will produce returns to build your house.

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I have a 4-year old child suffering from mild autism which was discovered when he was two. As a concerned parent, i have taken steps by spending a lot in hiring speech and behavioural therapist, and seeing a development pediatrician with some success achieved at least in getting him stable to be able to absorb what he's being taught in class.

With diagnosis done confirming the mildness, i was encouraged to allow him do things regular children do which will help him grow out of the disorder.

Now i noticed that he has memory challenge in terms of ability to retain and recall information especially in his study which is a big concern to me. He also dislikes reading and writing but enjoy visual-based instructions.

In light of above, i need help from parents who have gone through this challenging phase with such kids and also autistic child development experts on how I can help my child over come the short term memory problem,repetition of words, writing and reading.

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Need Your Prayers On My New Adventure

Hello guys I don't want to bore you with a long epistle, I recently came back from service (nysc) and found my guys those that didn't even go to school buying lands n building for themselves structures especially the ones riding okada. Most of them do have savings of 10k weekly aside other expenses like feeding,rent etc despite having wife/girlfriends n children.

Though I learnt mason work before going to the university but mason work is seasonal especially during the raining season, have been at home for almost 3wiks doing nothing just spending the little savings I had from service.

With that been said I decided to get myself a bike with the remaining money I have pending on when things sterblize (federal/state job or when HV gathered enof Moni for business). If those with family can save 10k weekly, I think I can save 15k weekly since am single and still staying with my parents. I prayed to God for direction Sha but hope my decision isn't bad?

A lil prayer for me won't be bad

I hope you're not looking for sympathy or back slapping with this post.

You've done well with the sense you posted here.

You need to start from where you are without envying your village friends who didn't go to school but doing some nice things for themselves.

This is to show all of us that school isn't just a means of getting money, you can get money legitimately without school.

However, if you go school with the right understanding of it's purpose, you're better than those village guys a hundred times. I give them 4yrs from now if you know what to do o!

You may start with okada riding but your exposure in school should be a plus for you.

Those village guys may even be using a better smartphone than what you have, they shouldn't be better user of it than you.

Part of your educational training is in knowing how to make, manage and multiply money, but I doubt you're taught anything close to that, and that's why every Nigerian want to be in civil service or politics to loot our money.

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My husband just recently told me that he had been lying about his age all this while. We have been married for almost 8 years with two kids. And he told me he was 6 years older than me when we first met, while infact he is 10 years older. I feel really betrayed and now I don’t know what to believe anymore. How can one lie about his age for this long? What else is he lying about? I don’t even know how to react but I am definitely not happy about this. Would I be overreacting by showing that I am angry about this?

Was it the lying that is annoying you or his age, ten years older than you?

Well, lying can be painful from anybody, how much more your spouse. However, just express your anger and disappointment about the lying, asking him, why the lie.

Thereafter, if speaks like a man with brain, just scold him and move on. Is he not loving as expected? If he is, just call him an old man humourously and get over it.

It will only go beyond this advise because something is already on the ground unresolved.

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I see a lotta peeps saying "All the cash, cars etc will be left behind", like what dafuq was supposed to happen?

Why the heck are Africans like this?

So why then did you go to school? Even opted for Masters after your Degree? Why aiming for a better job? And if you succeed what will you use the money for? On the other hand whatever the hell you choose to use your money for is your damn business.


So we shouldn't aim high because death lurks? You too shouldn't have obtained an education after all death lurks.

Black people ehn? (Face Palm)

You don't get it.

It is not about his money but about how the money is gotten. This is the message for all of us.

Hmmm! All the readiness for 2023 is gone now.

Life is all about whom we've touch positively in one way or the other.

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YorubaKinging:
And the devil by means of modern sorcery

And science and technology keeps deceiving the whole earth

All these are movies
Don't trust NASA

They never went to the moon

And the moon is not a rock

It's a light ..

Just like the sun

You go school at all Oga?

Sun and moon are lights and not stone. Chineke!

You may even be a graduate o!

Tunjingwu:
So I met my childhood friend yesterday at lekki.
He is still the elegant young man he has always been.

We spoke at length.
Nothing much has changed about him.
He is still very enthusiastic about life. An Engineer who after working with a firm is now on his own. Things are not very rosy but he can still hold his own.

We started talking about family since we all are married abielt for few years.

Here is the gist.....

He is contemplating having a girlfriend.
His wife hardly have sex with him.
Sometimes it takes 2 months for them to make love once. Nothing appears to be the problem other than the wife complaints of tiredness and not being in the mood for almost every time.
They have two kids(twins).

He had come to tell me to either approve or disapprove his strong intention of keeping a lady by the side since he can afford it comfortably.
I felt for him.

I disuaded him though I know how it feels to stay without sex with your wife under the same roof for months.

You pay all the bills yet you don't eat from the goody bag to your test.

Since yesterday, I have been a little worried for him. I do not know whether to call him and advise him to go ahead with his plan but try and be careful.

It's a dicey situation especially when the wife is not ready to change.

Anything could be reason of not having sex with your spouse, particularly when it is the woman that is refusing sex.

Like someone said here, communication is key to everything in marriage.

Unfortunately, most of the time our ego, don't allow us to use that simple way. Of you're not careful as a man or woman, your God-given by God may be thing that will kill you.

What is their relationship like before having the twins?

When did the sex fencing off of the man began?

Of the man can calm down and check these questions, a light will come forth.

What is it that the wife enjoys best? Approach her from that angle, offer that and watch for a change from her.

If there's no change, ask her reason for why she's treating you that way! Hope she's not treating you that way because of guilty conscience from infidelity!

Talk to her gently, lovingly but firmly or seriously! Let her see your seriousness.

I must also say that sex to a woman is more than skin to skin on the bed, it begins from the mind, then it translates into contact. Unfortunately, men aren't trained when growing up to learn this.

Fearfully, as soon as a woman finishes sleeping with you, she forgets those steamy session and her mind is back to what she's been talking about before that sexual pleasure, so watch that area out.

The most romantic thing for a woman is holding her hands anywhere and everywhere, even before you start talking of sex, it's a form of assurance and confidence building.

Women love security around a man! Holding her hands ensure that. Particularly, the one who isn't looking for your money to just solve her problems. So, hold her hands all the time and everytime.

God will open your eyes to see the solution to this problems.

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abysirius:
Hi Nairalanders,

Greetings to everyone in the house. Trust we are all enjoying the weekend. As regards to the above-mentioned subject. What is your take on this? Would u allow your partner have a close friend that is of opposite sex? Briefly give your reason (s) and state what you believe should be the ideal arrangement in a family setting.

I was listening to a program on the radio earlier this morning on Raypower FM before power outage. However, I have to put it on this platform out of curiosity to know how we feel about it. Personally, it is a capital NO for me. But of course, one of the 2 callers that called in before power cut termed it as insecurity as nothing seems to be wrong with the idea. Do you agree?

Mod pls help push this to the front page. Thanks.

It depends on what you call friendship!

Nobody can afford to be an island, wherever you may be.

The criteria is that there must be a definition of that relationship.

To maintain sanity of all parties concerned, your spouse must know that friend of yours. Not necessarily meeting the friend for introduction.

It might be difficult to list all such friends and be telling your spouse, however when their matter comes up in your conversation or telephone calls, be ready to tell your spouse who the person is. This is simple respect for your spouse. DON'T ever discuss with friends in hush tones, you're looking for trouble.

Finally, an open declaration of such friends to your spouse is for your own safety, fidelity-wise.

Any kind of friendship that's not treated this way, can slip into a compromised situation.

Championxxx:
I am 23 years old guy I ave been staying with my brother in Abuja for the past 8 years , I help him with his shop and his house , everything was fine till he got married his wife carry his two sisters to the house 24 and 19 years old , he said I should leave my room for them I didn’t argue I let them have the room while I am sleeping in the parlour , during lockdown this girl will wake and come to the parlour to watch tv to disturb my sleep , I complained to my brother he said I should keep calm he will speak to his wife which he never does and these girls kept disturbing me meanwhile the older girl stopped but the younger one carry on and I told her to stop disturbing me she has a phone she can press her phone in their room , she insulted me and told me to go and marry I got angry and ask her to leave she said I should do my worst and I landed a thunder slap in her face she held me by my neck screaming when my bro and wife came his wife started hitting me on my back I had to leave the house and went outside to cool down , my brother followed me and said I didn’t do well by hitting his wife sister he said I should go and apologise to his wife and sister , I refuse and asked him why he didn’t stop them when I was complaining bitterly about them but he waited for me to take matter to my own hand now he blamed me he said I should apologise which I did to his wife but not to the girl but that small girl was expecting me to knelt down and beg her , I told her she will wait for eternity.

Since the incidence his wife stopped talking to me , she ordered her sister’s to stop giving me food , the older girl used to dish food for me sometimes when she is not around but I told her to stop because I don’t want her to be in trouble with her sister and I didn’t report to my brother, it’s not a big deal for me I buy foods and eat at work and I only go home to sleep , 2 weeks ago I came home to see my mattress outside in the rain soaking wet , I was confused because it was supposed to be inside the girl room that’s where I keep it and they always bring it for me when is time for me to sleep so how come it was outside in the rain , I asked them they both denied they didn’t take it out and I suspected my brother wife or her youngest sister were the one who did it because they didn’t want me in the house anymore , I told my brother he said I should sleep on the sofa and in the morning I will get a new mattress in his shop but the wife get angry that I will damaged her sofa she wanted me to sleep on the floor with a wrapper but my brother refuse and I slept on the sofa , the next day I spoke with my brother I told him because I am not wanted in his house I don’t have peace of mind there , I want him to rent a self cont for me closer to the shop so It will be easier for me to get to work he refuse saying when he has a bigger house why would I go and leave alone , he said he provide all my needs and the rest the way his wife and sisters are treating me it doesn’t matter that he will never allow me and I told him I want to go back to the village , he said if I leave his house he will disown me and I will not longer be his brother , for 3 days now he stopped talking to me even if I greet him he won’t reply I feel hurt. I love my brother I want to serve him but I don’t want to stay in his house . I don’t know if I did something wrong by asking him to rent a room for me to be living alone? Am confuse please advice me

My advice may be a bit different from many here.

First and foremost, most ladies are not smart and wise! Anybody can abuse me here.

A woman who suffers in the home of her husband from the hands of in-laws is waiting to do similar thing to a wife of her son or brother, I don't understand women.

In your case, your brother has found himself between the rock and a hard place, between Pharaoh and the red sea.

You may soon find yourself in a similar situation when you get married if your wife is not wise like I said above.

Please, sympathize with your brother from the way he's handling the matter, he's only looking for peace from his wife and sisters.

Your ego is the only thing at stake here. For whatever the wife and sisters might have done to you, take it easy. The sisters are only using the privilege position of their sister the wife.

Who do you think is the more important and powerful in that house between you and the wife? If you think you're the one, then you've not understood the power of a woman. She's more powerful than you are, either our culture tells you so or not. Can you play or pulll the dick of your brother at any point in time? That should tell you who's more powerful.

So, having said that, respect her. This might sound weakling, surprise her by going to beg her and the sisters. They'll be shocked, I hope they'll also stoop low to agree with you. This doesn't mean they'll not get their pay for cheating you or doing evil to you intentionally.

If you're sure you've not crossed the boundary by behaving like the typical black man by saying, "this is my brother's house, na you go comot", they'll be paid for their evil.

Going forward, be sincere in that house, those women are not your slaves, not even the slaves of your brother, not to talk of you. Do your home chores, wash your plates and that of others when you're home.

Those days are gone when one brother-in-law will sit down for one wife to be washing plates and cooking food.

Respect beget respect. Respect them, and they'll respect you. Forget all those African culture thing and do the needful. If you like war however, keep pushing that your brother to rent a house for you.

For your information, do you know whether, na your brother's wife is the brain behind the business you're coming to sit on?

Be wise, even if the money is your brother's own, it is still your brother's wife's money!

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Nuts and seeds are an important addition to the daily diet for improved fertility, especially almonds and walnuts and chia, hemp, flax, pumpkin, sesame and sunflower seeds.

WHAT FOODS INCREASE FEMALE FERTILITY?

High in both Omega 3 and 6 essential fatty acids which your body needs to balance hormone All in all, flax seeds are a powerful package for balancing hormones and boosting fertility. Aim to get about two tablespoons of flax seeds every day; grind them up for maximum benefit.

HOW DO I INCREASE MY FERTILITY?

Seaweed. Seaweed is packed with nutrients that help enrich the liver, kidneys, bladder, and adrenals which are organs vital to fertility health.
Salmon. ...
Figs. ...
Oysters. ...
Berries. ...
Beans. ...
Leafy Greens. ...
Maca Root.

WHICH FRUITS ARE GOOD FOR FERTILITY?

Eat Foods That Are Rich in Antioxidants. Antioxidants like folate and zinc may improve fertility for both men and women ( 3 , 4 , 5 , 6 ). ...
Eat a Bigger Breakfast. ...
Avoid Trans Fats. ...
Cut Down on Carbs. ...
Eat Less Refined Carbs. ...
Eat More Fiber. ...
Swap Protein Sources. ...
Choose High-Fat Diary.

HOW CAN I IMPROVE MY EGG QUALITY AFTER 40?

DHEA. DHEA is a hormone made in the body that leads to the production of estrogen in women. ...
CoQ10. ...
Red raspberry leaf tea. ...
Probiotics. ...
Zinc. ...
Selenium. ...
Fish oil and omega-3 fatty acids.

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