Damilolacoker:
Hello everyone I'm 24 years old and I have been married for three years. last year we had our first baby . Prior to our wedding, I and my husband decided I'll be allowed to work once our baby is old enough to attend day Care. Now our daughter is almost 2 years and he has refused to let me work. We've had countless arguments about this and it always ends with him saying women who work are not always submissive. I cannot be a full house wife , I am educated and cannot sit at home all say.

He recently told my parents I was being rude to him and they're all saying I should do whatever my husband wants. I love him but on this issue, I refuse to agree with him.

The other part here is he doesn't like me correcting our daughter. She's almost 2 and it irritates him whenever I try to potty train her or scold her. He insists I go to check up on Her at school during break hours. I understand that she's quite young but as her mother, I want the best for her.

Now he's changed towards me, he doesn't care or pamper me like he used to , sometimes he refuses to eat at home and when I try to speak with him, he's always very cold. Please help me, I don't know what to do anymore.

Like somebody said here, you married young, it has it's challenges. If you're particularly not well rooted in the dynamics of marriage before going in.

Having said that I felt you need to be calm in handling your job issue.

Definitely, his view about the correlation between working wives and submission is superstitious, it's not entirely true, though majority of the uninformed ladies fall into that trap of being independent of their husbands because they work.

Even when you earn more than your husband, you're not independent of him, money can't replace him. No matter your grievance with him, money won't solve the problem, rather, communication will.

Don't convince him about the sense in you being allowed to work by fighting, do so by the submission he's talking about. With only one baby, you have years ahead of you to still be able to work. While for now, try to help solve his insecurity attitude, keep reading about your career, try your hands on working from home online. Let me tell you something, that's where the future is. Explore that platform, you'll be shocked the explosive opportunities online.

By the time he'll realize it, you're earning so much right from your sitting room. You'll prove that by buying things for him and the house. He'll try to confirm where you're getting money from.

With your calmness and obedience, you'll break his insecurity palava.

He'll come down from his high horse soon if you understand this idea.

Women unconsciously transfer aggression to whoever is around them, even to babies irrespective of the baby's age. You may have began to do that to your daughter without knowing, that's the last thing he'll take from you.

Your baby is innocent, so leave her out of your pain. Women, many among them shout at their children in correcting them, even when there's no issue. Babies are full adults in small bodies, so respect them by communicating with them rather than shouting at them.

There's a place of spanking, but it won't be all the time. Be relaxed. Be there for your baby now that you're not working. Enjoy her presence. It won't be forever.

Finally, discuss with your husband, don't talk to him, they're two different things.

Assure him that he's safe with your liberty of working or doing anything outside of the house. He's scared of your beauty with other men around you, but it's all about insecurity. I'm suspecting you must be beautiful, men are always scared of other men around their beautiful wives.

You can do that with all the understanding I mentioned here. Take care of the breakfast for both of them, daughter and hubby while they set out for the day.

When they are gone, pray about your concern and hand it over to God, pray for your husband's insecurity issue and pray for your daughter.

You'll be able to do all that I suggested above easily if you're born again. No physical strength or aggression can do it. The Holy Spirit is a helper, He's ready to help you, just ask God to take over your life and He'll do so.

It's a new day for you my sister.

ElonEmpire:
I met this girl online, we happen to come from same LGA, We got talking and later became friends.

Months later she complained about having accommodation Issue. Now, me am hardly around because of the nature of my job so I felt is OK letting her go stay there at least to keep my apartment warm and clean.

Though this is not the first time am doing that,
For over 5 years now it has been people staying in my house because in a year I don't even sleep more than 2 months in my house.

The last person that stayed there was also a lady the few times I go home during her stay we are OK, more like brother and sister. In fact neighbors actually thought we were.

Now come this new girl I don't know her before, infact she has spent like 6 months in my house before I went back.

During those times she was catching feelings for
me weda she is serious about it or not I don't know but I told her point blank that I'm into a serious relationship and she should maintain her boundary when ever I come back.

Months later i travelled and see her in person..
To say that she is beautiful is understatement, she is definition of beauty. She is irresistable.

I have traveled couple of time after the first time and each of this time I try so hard to maintain my dignity, self respect and not to misbehave.
We sleep on same bed, though i have decide to be sleeping on the floor or another room. She changes in my presence.

I'm seriously going crazy right now about this girl..
Infact I see my self getting Jealous about the guy she is seeing recently.

I don't know how to hand the situation, I can't afford to misbehave because, 1st she call me brother.

2ndly considering the circumstance that brought her to my house I can't afford to misbehave because am this one person who don't like taking advantage of women.

And lastly I can't cheat on my girl.
But I can't ask her to leave because for now she have no where to go.

Please how do I handle the situation?!

If you're truly serious about maintaining your lane, simply ask her to invite her boyfriend over to meet you, and likewise your girlfriend to meet her. Why should you sleep on the same bed Oga?

Respect yourself o!

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Ifeelsad:


I've used this both tumeric, carrot oil, olive oil, hydrocortisone cream and tablet. I can't even count how many medicine and drugs I've used

I hope it isn't a demonic attempt from your village to get you rejected by men.

Try and see a dermatologist once again, while you see a female minister to pray with you.

If you're not born again, this is the time to do so.

blissbliss:
Hello, I’m glad you’re taking up the challenge. My advise isn’t going to be based on whether the money is much or not because as much as you get value for what you’re paying for, that’s ok.

3 months wouldn’t make you a great dev. It demands sacrifice and a lot of dedication. You sure would hit breakpoints but your resilience would take you forwards.

If you have access to internet, you can download materials; videos are faster, you get explanations and you get to practice alongside.

Do it for the passion and watch the money flow in for you.

All the best as you venture into this line.

Cheers!

You should be a lecturer on the campus. Nice advice there.

wwwkaycom:
Bose is an outgoing and sexually active young lady of 26, she got married to her hubby in November, 2018, they are now blessed with a big baby boy.

She was my student and very close to me and my family during her ND and HND days. She is just like a member of my family. I know that she was involved with two guys then, one a student in the same school during her ND and the other, a businessman in town during her HND days. Her affair with the businessman didn't materialise into marriage because the man wanted her to get pregnant first, a proposal she vehemently opposed because its like a taboo in her family and her religious organization.

That relationship broke and she met another guy who I didn't really know in 2017. She told me that the guy was easygoing and fun loving too so I didn't really had much advise to give other than the normal talks about being of good behaviour etc.

They got married in November 2018, she relocated to live with her hubby in Abuja, now they're blessed with a very big baby boy.

She visited me with her baby last weekend when she came to attend the funeral of her uncle here in Ondo State. She stayed in my place. It was then we really had time to talk. She told me that her husband believes so much in some archaic things that is affecting her badly.

For instance, he doesn't believe in the use of Air Conditioner because it is carcinogenic, he had sex with her last the day he realised she was pregnant in January. She said her hubby believed having sex with a pregnant woman will hurt the baby. She put to bed in August and since then nothing has happened because the hubby said no sex until breast feeding is over so that the breast milk will not be contaminated with semen.

I have been laughing since then but its not a laughing matter. She said this guy is so serious with these wrong facts and is not willing to let it go for anything and that she had engaged him in discussions over this many times with the guy sticking to his points. She said the guy is so caring and the way he dots on her and the baby is out of this world. He hired a nanny for her. the nanny followed her to Ondo State for the funeral and stayed with her in my place.

Honestly, I haven't heard this kind of thing before. I told her I'll post it on Nairaland and she said I should go ahead and that she will be interested in reading people's comments. I actually admonished her not to look the way of any other guy or be involved in extramarital affairs as that could lead to problems she won't be able to handle. She said that is almost impossible in the environment she lives in Abuja and the way her husband dots on the family. Good people, kindly advise please.

If you don't have a family doctor, get one, preferably a woman. Bring the doctor into the know of this achaic man's philosophy, and get the doctor to educate him. Such people respect professional like doctors. Meanwhile, use this period to discover other things about marriage, as well as the man and his interests, educate him in other areas of life in a humourous way.

He'll adjust, he's likely having a low libido problem too.

Queentee214:
Hi everyone,
Am really confused on what to do right now and I need advice.

I and my ex broke up six months ago...I broke up with him cuz we are always having misunderstandings...not just that..he can't control himself when angry , he always end up insulting me and calling me names but apologize when he is calm.

The last one that led to our break up was when we went to his friend's birthday party..on getting there,,i met an old time friend(a guy) and we talked for few mins .i went back inside where the party was holding and I met my bf angry already,,we end up quarreling there and he called me a prostitute in front of everyone(that wasn't the first time he would embarrass me in public)...

I was hurt and left there...i started ignoring him and the relationship wasn't going well anymore...i broke up with him afterwards ..i love him but I can't accept his flaws ..we tried to get back together but end up blaming each other for everything.

Six months later, I'm in a relationship with another guy..he has his flaws too but not bad...
Now the problem is I still love my ex and we still talk and chat almost everyday...

He is the first person I call when I need advice and vice versa..my ex family thinks we are still together and always call to check up on me....this is causing problems in my new relationship....

I decided to cut contact with my ex but he is isn't ready to let me go and neither am i..

Just last week my bf broke up with me and told me to call him when am ready to cut off contact with my ex...

Am really confused and I don't know how to do what he asked me...pls anyone with advice on how to forget someone should help me

I need to forget and move on from my ex
....pls advice... Thanks

Pls no one should come here and start telling me I met a good guy and toying with his feelings..

My ex is also a good guy, he just has his flaws...I just need advice...

Thanks

It's quite easy to advise if you are not in her shoes. Flaw is human, you'll find it in all human.

Why do you think many ladies and guys consult prophets or herbalist to decide on who to marry?

This is where genuine christians enjoy the benefit of superior wisdom and knowledge of the Holy Spirit.

If you're not one, well take your gamble with your ex. If you marry the new guy, bet it, you won't know when you'll start cheating with your ex.

Your emotions are still on the drive for him.

How do you stop his character flaws? He just had to grow up!

If you don't have a pastor whom you should introduce him to for pre-marital counselling, then ensure you get someone he respects and introduce your marriage plans to the person, with that he knows there's someone to report him to when he messes up.

Cut off from the new guy, ask him to take you to the person I spoke about now. He was denied firm home discipline, so he'll need it now.

Above all, get to know Jesus seriously, not just as a church goer, be born again, you'll know how to handle such cases. Genuinely born again, I mean.

blissbliss:
UnbiasTruth, thank you for all you do. I’m assuming you’re looking for a way forward.

My advice?
Once you get paid, you can transfer like 50% of your salary to his account and let him assume the role, say you want to go to the market, say ‘Darling, can you help us with some change, we’d be cooking’.
I believe you’re making the burden light on him as this ain’t best of times for him; being a man picking up his bills before now but due to circumstances he just can’t no more and that being temporary.

Give it a shot, it actually might work.

Thanks, God grant you a peaceful home. Amen

@blissbliss, I want to thank you for the candid opinion you gave here. I've read quite a number of them, yours sounds so pragmatic, how I wish the lady will try this option, if it fails, she can always stop. But I'm so sure something positive will show up in the husband's attitude.

Meanwhile, I was curious to know which area you are active in on nairaland. Amazingly, I saw you in technology, Auto section etc. You can be sure I'll be following you.

If you have property request, let me know o!

God bless the woman in question.

UnbiasTruth:
I am sorry this is rather too long but please I need to pour out my mind because I need your mature advice. I have been going through a lot of trauma since my husband stopped working and it is really getting to me because my blood pressure is high.

I love my husband and despite what is happening now, I still love him. I just need advice on how to manage the situation right now.

My husband is a hard-working, loving, caring and gentle man; he showed me true love from the first day I met him. He was very dedicated to his job and he received commendations from his boss and colleagues at work but something just happened that led to his resignation.

A kind of conspiracy against him. He was advised by one of his superiors at work to resign. Now it’s been more than a year that he is out of job. All attempts to get him back into the labour force had been futile because he keeps saying he does not want to settle for less.

He was earning six figure salary while at his former place of work and he has a side business which he still manages till now but the profit is close to nothing and it is not even constant.

Now, the issue I have with him is that my husband gets angry at almost everything. He nags and drinks (not with friends because he is an introvert) excessively, so he is always at home. He keeps on complaining about our house helps even when I investigate and realize that most of his complaints are flimsy. We have changed house helps in this year up to 4 times.

So, in August this year, I decided not to get any maid again since we could not find one whose domestic care service would satisfy my husband.

Mind you, I have been the one practically footing the bill after two months that my husband lost his job because we made a huge investment in acquiring some property shortly before he lost his job. So, I pay house rent, school fees, feed the whole family (we have 3 lovely children) from my salary.

My nature of work rarely gives me time so I can’t afford to take care of the children and do much of the house chores. I explained to my husband to assist since he is always at home but he keeps saying if he had not lost his job, I wouldn’t have asked him to do basic house chores.

I know he was raised with silver spoon so he rarely knows how to do most domestic work. I had been the one doing this before we started having house helps and my job at office got more engaging.

My pastor recently advised that I should consider getting a professional cleaner who will only do some routine cleaning and leave immediately because my husband may not be comfortable with a stranger in the house.

Two days ago, I came across a thread https://www.nairaland.com/5426688/what-cost-getting-regular-home here on Nairaland while searching for a good cleaning service here in Lagos and I decided to pay for the service of a male cleaner.

After discussing with my husband, he shunned the idea and still insists I do it myself. So, he asked me to demand a refund. I need someone to help me do some basic cleaning at home since I can afford to pay for the service, but my husband does not want to accept any stranger in our home.

I have asked my pastor and my mother-in-law to talk to him also but he is still keeping deaf hear.

Is there anyone with a better suggestion before I get fed up?

You need grace here. For you to have lasted this long without breaking down is a miracle. You seem to know your husband very well except the irritation he's going through, common with anybody with low self-esteem, and sense of security. You even confirmed his introvert nature. Just remain calm, as hard as it may seem.

What's left for you to do is just pray for wisdom, but except you have the Holy Spirit, to wait for directive on going forward is tough if not impossible. Only your husband can come to his himself now, and you can't use pressure to achieve that, God's spirit alone can do that.

If you can pray, keep praying for him and keep thanking God for yourself, with this, you'll be under less pressure.

Ask God to have His way totally in your life, it may be an opportunity to get into God if you're not yet.

I wish you God's help in Jesus name.

By the way, I forgot to ask about your sex life. Even before things get into this mode, sex life of many couples are awkward. It may not have been in a healthy state, when an introvert husband now get into this trying moment, things get worse. Woman, as awesome as you've tried so far, be plain with me here. How's your sexual relationship. Who initiate it most of the time? The little I know about women and sex, particularly for the serious minded ones, anything that distrupts the home like in the case of job loss of the husband, not even their own, the first casualty may be sex with their husbands. For women, sex only make sense when all is normal at home. For men, sex is a means to reassure their wives that all is well, particularly the introvert husbands. So, check this angle out, and be sure, sex hasn't died he lost his job. There's nothing that irritates man than his wife saying, "Is it sex that is next with all these wahala on ground?" Having sex with your husband won't stop your breakthrough, it will even enhance it. You need to let him know that nothing has been lost, all will be well, and you'll see your husband come out anew.

Osobi32:
If this story is true then the solution is simple.... Get a young beautiful lady for ur self and make sure she Spends time at ur place everyday and watch the devil varnish from the picture. Don't ever try to sleep with another man's wife oooo, u will not like the consequences that comes with it. If u are a Christian pls read the book of proverb and u will understand better

May you not be tempted beyond your resistance.

It's easy dishing out advice when you're not in the shoe of the woman.

If you don't have the Holy Spirit and His strength,the advice above may sound good, use another woman or lady friend to chase her away, meanwhile, its not a long lasting solution.

If you're a believer, all you need do is tell the Lord your challenge and ask Gidvto bail you out. He'll give you the strategy to adopt or the woman will be scared off you by a spirit both she and you won't understand.

If you're not a believer, keep avoiding her, and the next sms you get from her, tell her that you've been deliberately avoiding her, and because you know she might be planning evil against you, you've decided to avoid bringing her husband into the drama, meanwhile, you've told your pastor the story, in case any evil happens to you, so that they'll know who to arrest.

Meanwhile, keep greeting her and avoid going in the same vehicle with her.

All the best.

coolguy4christ:
My girlfriend and I had issues sometime last year which eventually led to a break up. Early this year, we made up. I initiated the make up because I still loved her even though, it was she who ended the relationship.

When we started again, I told her I wanted a fresh start and that she should come out clean with me of whatever I need to know when we were apart. She knows how much I emphasize sincerity as I hate lies. She confided in me, that she had sex with a guy whom she dated briefly when we were apart but that she used protection. I believed her and didn't really bother myself because we were not together when it happened.

Few months later, I proposed to her and she accepted my marriage proposal. Since then, the relationship has been beautiful and we have become better as we were previously before the break up. We are actually planning our wedding in a few months.

Yesterday, she confessed to me that she had an abortion while we were apart. That she lied about using protection and that she got pregnant and aborted the baby.

Since then, I have mixed feelings for her:

Firstly, I am strongly against abortion and she knows that. Secondly, She lied to me!

The second reason is actually why I am more angry with her. She has lied to me previously and I don't know if I can believe and trust her again.

She has been very remorseful and she told me she came out clean because she wants to set everything right before we get married.

The issue here is that I don't know how can I trust her again?

If you're not satisfied with someone who told you before marriage, what else do you need? Walk away and go marry the one you can trust.

She knows you can easily walk away at this point in time, and she told you.

Grow up or Go your way.

FrLukas:
You are taking each other for granted.

Before the next quarrel, sit down and discuss the modality for settling quarrels in your home that both of you will agree to.

Best of the advices.
She may have upbringing issues in resolving disagreement, you need to go on a date, dinner to discuss it.
For her to still be demanding sex for whatever reason, you're lucky though not the best of tactics.
How do you make love too? You can discuss this your pain while the act is ongoing!
Her response to the issues during the act will confirm whether she's just taking advantage of every man's weakness to a woman's nude body or she really loves despite quarrels.
Most women can't make love with you without loving you except sex workers.

donbachi:
U and ur mother no serious...pikin no go school wahala,pikin try go,him go late...some people prayed to study pharmacy like u are doing today,after writing jamb for 5years,but ended up studying agric economics.what is 7years...do u even know d number of youths praying for such?..abeg make I hear words...2moro na ur mama go dance pass u wey go d school..she will be going around telling people "my daughter is a pharmacist" both who ask her and who no ask her...may GOD see u thru in Jesus name and graduate in flying colours.

You need an informed mindset to be able to handle the unnecessary comparison your mum is doing. Very unwise and an ignorant way to handle a child.

For you, just calm down each time she goes into the comparison business again. Gently explain why you appreciate their efforts in raising you and your siblings if you have any, and that these pressure on them will soon be over.

Another wise step you should take is to look for a side biz you can engage in during this period of your schooling, this will bring relief to some extent for your parents. Don't get carried away by pressure from runs ladies. Regrets awaits such people.

igwegeorgiano:
Friends on NL I greet you all. Trust your day is going well? It is with very heavy heart and confused state of mind I sent this post on this platform so you can advise me on what line of action I should take. Pastors and genuine men of God should also advise me on what to do as well.

There is this lady i have been dating for about a year and 6 months now. We love each other to the moon and most importantly we respect each other opinion and decisions. She is a born again christian who appreciates the things of God more than she appreciates me which of course I have no issues with.

When we agreed to start up a relationship after being friends for about 6 months, it was agreed that there will be no sex until the wedding night but at a point I asked her "what if we are done with traditional marriage rites are we still not gonna have sex? To my creates surprise she said we won't until church wedding is done. I did not actually took her serious.

Fast forward, on the 15th of July 2019 the traditional marriage was done in her father' compound in the east and all I was asked to pay and give was paid and given without any remainder . after the traditional marriage we went back to my house in abuja. Note that we were not staying together before now. I am base in abuja while she is in owerri. When we got home that night I told her we can now make love as husband and wife hence the traditional rites has been done and most importantly the bride price paid. To my amazement my wife bluntly refused. She told me she will never compromise her stand on pre marital sex

I have been very faithful to our agreement based on her claim that she is a virgin. But refusing me my right over her body after every thing including the bride price has been paid is something I can never subscribed to and to this end I have I have involved her parent and her pastor her decision however, still remain no sex till the wedding night. I am putting the wedding on hold for now until she willingly allow me make love to her and she seems not to be comfortable with my decision as well.

This is the dilemma I have found myself please I need your wise counsels on this. Thanks and remain bless. Moderators kindly push this post to the front page so it can have adequate views it deserves thanks

So many comedic counselors on nairaland. Of all you said here, one phrase summarizes the ignorance of the two of you. That phrase is "her pastor".
Who's your own pastor? Do you have one? What did your pastor tell you about marriage and sex?

Truly your wedding is fully completed after the traditional wedding, but as long as both of you have agreed to church wedding too, the ceremony is not complete yet.
It is apparent that the two of you are not on the same page on what you believe, and that's a good recipe for disaster in your marriage.

You had better calm down on this till your church wedding. Some people here don't know the psychological impact of her having sex now before the church wedding day.

It is normal for you to feel being denied of your right, but it is caused by either both of you or your pastors.

Meanwhile,that sex will soon tire you o! You had better calm down. By the time you reach 55 now, na she go dey beg you make you come do now!

TVTKOKO:
From Pepsi to coke to lacasera and even to taking powerhorse drinks.

She's over 50 yrs of age and I've talked and talked but she just won't stop. If she doesn't take in the morning she'll take at night. Sometimes she take mornings and night too like it's a medication.

I'm really worried about the health implications for her but she seem not to care.

Pls what can i do? Or if there's anything i can give her that neutralizes the effect.

Pls help push this to the audience

Sometimes when you are not in the shoes of someone, you can only guess what they're going through.

To you, she's indulging in those drinks, it may not be entirely true. Let check her statistics in the hospital, to know what's lacking.

When she moved into power drinks, that's a signal that she's suffering from a type of pain in her system. I've been there before, though I'm not lover or heavy consumer of carbonated drinks.

Power drinks contain a heavy amount of caffeine, a form of pain killer. She will a big relief after taking it, for about 24hrs.

She might need medical attention quick.

deuzgreat:

Don't swindle her. Nothing can change a man's sexual orientation.. Forget all those psychology bullshit and conversation therapy. They don't work!!! Save your self the stress and read more, do more research and stop trying to claim what you know nothing about.

Your language alone shows the stuff you're made of. No wonder nothing works for you.

Social media rat you must be, respect for others opinion is an anathema to you. Empty nonsense.

Ajaerof:
Plz I need help, Dont even mind my Grammar please I have to summarise this. My husband of 5yrs now behaves so strange in our home since we got Married. I didn't really date him, because it was a distant relationship before we finally says Yes"

He is a nice Man, I mean kind in nature, but I noticed he is not moved at all no matter how hot I am, this has been bordering me since. I have been the one initiating Sex since our marriage. God has been on my side we have two kids now, I have tried all I could, all abortive.

Most of his friends are just small boys, I have even caught him with one particular one, that nearly sent me home.... is all About this Guy then, he even spent months in same room with him, till i saw one hell chat from the small boy, that he should try and shave his Penis. That one really got me Mad, I have to pursue that one. I can say he is no longer in the picture again, but am still not convinced because he like keeping to himself.

I know he is an Introvert to the extreme, but he don't behave like a real Alpha Male, I have to force him in even sharing same Bed with me, am really disturbed now because am really tired of this.

There was a time I had to Involve his family I noticed that his immediate elder bro knew about it, that was when I sent that particular guy away, I have been hoping he will change am not sure of that..

Please help me.

Seriously, you need to calm down, watch things with no bias in your mind. If your suspicions are still being reinforced. Then, call him quietly, to discuss this.

If you aren't explosive in your approach, he'll definitely open up to you, haven seen that you've known and bold enough to open it up.

Now, let's assume he's agreed to your discovery, what's the way out?

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My brother, social media has really turned something else!

I watched the session earlier, Mr Keyamo is truly brilliant. He talked about the supreme court, the justice system, solution to numerous political parties & so on left me awestruck.

The Senate President already told gave PERMISSION FOR TWO QUESTIONS ONLY, because of time & many senators wanting to speak. Dino Melaye was about the 4th Senator to ask questions.. He already asked two, then before sitting now asked a third.

But the SP simply rejected as he already, as Dino already asked two. Not that Keyamo didn't/refused to recite the anthem.

By the way, the Dr Patani was very intelligent also. Sound man!

God bless you sir.

You captured the while scenario so well.

I went back to look at video of Keyamo's session, exactly as captured by you above.

You're also on point about the brilliance of Dr Patani, amazing. This nation will turn this bend of vagabonds in power, apology to Fela. Many have already started in their usual vanity began to condemn the list of ministers as if they knew all Nigerians.

I'll surely contact you later, we need smart minds like yours in moving this nation forward.

Social media has become nonsensical!

Did anyone watch the screening of Keyamo today, particularly the questions posed by Dino to Keyamo. There was no moment such question was asked of Keyamo by Dino. Never! I watched it life.

So many are online wasting their life.

I know how challenging it could be trying to solve the infertility problem.

Thank God for Doctors and other medical personnels providing various means of solving the problems, however, not many people have succeeded in getting around this. Research is still ongoing to get the easiest mean of solving this.

Organic foods have been found to be another very effective means of achieving this.

Good news, there's an organic food that has put smiles on people's face.

Food generally has been proved to be the nature's solution to uncountable number of health problems across the globe.

For all infertility and other frustrating health issues, consider organic foods.

If you're interested in my positive story as well as the particular health issues I treated this with, check out my signature from my profile and join the Health4Life chat group.

Don't suffer any longer on that health issue, fertility or otherwise. Send a chat to 08063423482 for more.

Officialgarri:
This is the process palm oil has been made for us for ages and don't forget that these gallons of locally made oil are exported and safe for use in other countries.

Hygiene is still key, Africans are too laidback on serious issues.

We need to upgrade from these unhygienic methods of doing things.


If you want to restore your health, particularly if you've been going through pains of whatever kind, do yourself a world of good by visiting this WHATSAPP group below in my signature for an organic food that will turn your pain into laughter within days of eating this organic foods.

Reversepussyking:
North korea tiny little strong nation!


spit

See how much you know. North Korea is a tiny little country. Go and buy atlas and check both the population and land mass of that country.

HitSong:

No
The past has defined your present and it will ALWAYS Hunt you.

Should the hunting now be forever? Haba!

Isn't there room to make errors and get it corrected? Counsellor!

Touching but not unreparable. You only need to calm down and observe certain clues. Even a mad man or woman is decodable. It is all about being able to read the codes or signals.

Get ready for work now. I'll surely ask you a few questions and you'll begin to see the codes I'm talking about.

Listen and read all you want here from arm chair counsellors, meanwhile, talk is cheap. So be very careful what you take away from here. Many are not even marry and they'll be giving you all kinds of advices here.

In the meantime, calm down, take a different approach to his actions, be very slow to react to his tantrums. If we understand how a human beings brain was wiredto work, you can tame anybody.

Optimus212:

Hi Nairalanders....Please Admin, help me push to Front Page, i'm in dire need of people's opinions.

Pls ignore my writing skills because the way the matter be, my head dey shake like this.

My story is brief.

I am married to my wife & we're blessed with 3 kids,
..My wife starves me of sex over minor issues, even when we've settled by my apologies & me assisting remarkably well in house chores.
There was a period 2 years back she starved me of sex for 4 months because of one little misunderstanding we had back then which was unbearable for me & made me to cheat on her,..And my relationship lasted for more than a year with that lady.

Right now she (my wife) has started again with same attitude, its going to a month now. I am confused because I don't want to cheat on her again. What do i do? Should i keep facing such punishment? For how long? Or, should i file for a divorce? Don't you think such attitude will have reoccurrences in time coming?. It is disturbing me badly because I find it difficult to be sleeping alone at nite without her by my side. I have begged & begged her to let whatever anger towards me that is deposited in her to just die off, yet to no avail. The funny thing is, we'll discuss and play very well before going to bed but, whenever I start making advances towards her, she shows up a different attitude.

I am confused!! It is really really disturbing me. How & where did I go wrong?.

Pls, matured advices only, you can insult me too, of course its Nairaland but, I need serious advice, I am very worried.
Thanks.

Sex mean different things to a man and a woman. You displayed that you have a little idea about what it really meant.

For instance, a man don't have to love a woman before having sex with her, all he needs is just to see her body and an assurance that he's not being set up, and pronto, the guy is thrusting away. However, for a woman, except a sex worker who does it for money, she's not going to sleep with you without a feeling that you love her and she in return.

For a woman, it begins from her mind before hitting that bed for all the sex positions in your head. So if you don't get this, and you're not interested in cheating on her, which is a plus for you, then you need to know how to enter a woman's mind, particularly your wife's mind.

Do a private chat with me for a serious gist on that. See my signature below and let's talk, if you really mean it.

Pusyiter:
This is not new neither is it rocket science
Nigeria can dwell on Solar energy like China or any other alternative power sources
but saboteurs in the form of generator importers and their likes will not make it work
In 1999, Tinubu had almost finalize discussion with Enron but OBJ govt. of saboteurs bungled the initiative
20 yrs later, we are worse off.....

Your above friend above your comment or post is not aware that his biafran warlords are the saboteurs of Nigeria.

deltateam:
Why would he ruin his career?
Its like leaving Barcelona to join Burnley.

No matter the money offered, it's bad decision.

Ruin his career? Which career? Do you know what is called Player/Manager role?

It's short of saying, come in and take over from the current manager after a while, meanwhile you can be playing in between.

You want Company to go sign fir another big company after 33yrs of age? Not be everyone will be Yaya Toure now.

Africans sha!