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Husband should be considerate. Wife is human and would get tired after a longer day.

If he's hungry he should fix up something for himself and his wife

If only

stacyadams:
.. some days u want to give up.. life is really hard

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Remember those days/weeks cannot be compared to the good life. The good days that will come.

Stay strong. Everything is a season

Hintona:
Anytime I cut onions with a chopping board my mom laughs at me and say it is laziness.


It annoys me. How is this laziness please? I think it's safer and faster to use a chopping board.

Laziness starts from Chopping board

davealvaro:
Oga just shut up oooo
omo i wish God can just come sit near me and let's talk.. i gat many things on my mind

I also wish the same. But that won't stop my belief.

Don't feel insecure.

She's your friend. An adult I suppose. Let her be.

When you get a boyfriend you can worry about that.

Life is very dynamic she might not be close by when that happens

Why are you guys feeling depressed on this thread?

The Bible says be strong in the Lord and in the power of His might.

He that watches over Israel neither sleeps nor does He slumber.

Jesus has told us to take no thought or worry about what tomorrow brings.

The Bible says the "He gives sleep to his beloved" are you His beloved. He will give you rest.

Matthew chapter 11 vs 28 says come unto me all ye that labour and are heavy laden and I will give you rest.

Shallom Brothers. We are not good but God is good. God is the greatest.

God bless you all.

omoolokunEsin:
He's a lawyer!

Okay? If he's a lawyer then?

Ok

SadiqBabaSani:
I doubt Lai Muhammed can make this sort of cogent press release

BigSarah:
Forget about Nigerians you are doing a good job Buhari.

I can't imagine a better President for the country

Righteousness2:
One of the Many Signs we are living in the Last of the Last Moments, right before the return of JESUS Christ, is that Nations and People will be in a state of a Perplexity and Uncertainty, over what to do in a Difficult Situation.
This is Exactly what is Happening in our World today!

All over the Earth, the Signs of JESUS soon return are so Strong and the Evidence so Clear , that any person who does not Deceive himself/herself can see that the End is Near.

Be Prepared Folks! In a time you think not, JESUS will show up.

Frontpage

Damn, what in the Illuminati blood this this girl drink

So you texted him first is now a big deal.

No don't text him first na. Who send you before.

All tenants are tenants

Dahustler007:
Hey Guys!! Hope y'all had a great day? So I just got an alert of #200,000 from one Mr. Richard Okikiola Olawale so I really wanna refund the money back to the rightful owner, how can I go about it??

Don't take the money. But wait a few days. Might be payment for money being owed.

OP you sef na cultist... No lie

Bilabong:
Nigeria don't have maintaince culture. I won't be surprised if nothing is done until the unthinkable happens

What does the bolded me bro?

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saaron:
Buhari and his devilish regime can only deceive themselves. Mark my word they will pay for every soul slaughtered by Boko haram and Fulani terrorist in Nigeria.
Bloody murderer.

Unfortunately I don't think karma works very well these days

G

My contribution would not change the mind of the 50 million ladies we have in Nigeria.

Meaning my opinion does not count.

So,

However it is you want your relationship to be, either you find it that way or you build it to be that way and let's have some peace.

Damian10:
For a very long time now i have failed in my quest to find happiness within me. I just graduated yet to serve tho, i still have scores to settle with the bursary so it's a long long run to NYSC.
I have being broke for like forever now and it corrodes every thought of mine, What pains me the most is the fact that i am not lazy yet can't find a job, can't afford learning a new skill.
I write songs but can't even pay for studio sections. I relocated to Abuja with the hope of finding pastures new but ohh! ohh!! nothing has change so far. Pls who can relate i need your advice because am really losing me.

We've all been there

Righteousness2:
Biblical Events that occurred before GOD redeemed his People are repeating themselves Live in our eyes all over the world.

Unfortunately, the devil is using so Matter Nonessentials things to distract humanity from what is about to Happen.

Wherever in the World you are located, the Most thing for our lives is to be Prepared for the Coming of JESUS Christ.

The RAPTURE is at Hand!
JESUS Christ is Coming!
It is gonna happen in a moment you don't Expect.
Get Ready! Stay ready! Live ready!

Listen to this guy.

Evamann:
Hello to you all, let me make it as brief as possible. I'm a young man in my 30s and currently working where I earn a paltry sum of N38,000/month. The money just like what is happening to me now hardly takes me into half the new month due to so much financial pressure on me from family and personal needs. Last month salary, I had to pay 25k for an outstanding acceptance fee for a younger one who just got admission. My father is late and my mom is seriously struggling that I would have to send money every time for their upkeep. Of the 38k salary of last month, the total amount I personally used wasn't up to 5k while the rest went into this or that for family needs. At the moment, I have pile up of debts to settle with no clear cut of how I'm going to do that as long as things continue this way. Adding all these recurrent situations together, my mind is telling me I don't have a future at all. It is also suggesting evil as a quick way out. I'm supposed to be married to start raising my two or three kids but here I am can't even feed myself just like now. Sincerely, I'm very very tired of this pattern of life. I need practical steps and help to get out of the condition before the evil thoughts prevails. Thank you for your contributions.

You need to break out from your current job. It's not getting you anywhere.

To do this you need a friend and mentor, consider getting a digital skill. You need one year of total commitment.

You will be glad at the end

Nyanabo:
Just my two cents bro.

For me I would take the opportunity to move to Russia. And not on that basis of how Russia is better than Nigeria bla bla bla. But for this following reasons.

1. Your carrier: you carrier as a data scientist won't be appreciated here in Nigeria. Moving to Russia you would available yourself to a world of opportunities as a data scientist. I don't know you current job in Nigeria but I'm certain it might not be in that field.

2. Self /career development: since you have already starting the process of gett an msc in data science why not complete it? You would be able to build your career and you would see people willing to help you achieve you goals to make you a better YOU.

3. Having a foreign masters is worth it if you hope of using it and not just accumulating your certificates

Lastly it's you call to make. The final decision is yours to make.

I'm also looking to go into data science I graduated last year with a computer science degree. Please how can I go about this scholarship stuff ? Put me through please.

Send me a mail

Moony45:
tough one. But you will end up paying back the scholarship if you quit

I don't get

Debisy:
Masters in Russia is an ad on for you when you are done with your experience you will get better offer here or other European countries.

Are you in Russia as well?

padi94:
Hmmmm... I stop advising people a long time ago on career matters, why cos I advice one guy and I ended up paying his rent for 2yrs. Cos the advice blowback

What was the advice? Would also want to learn.

@op I know someone in similar situation

It's possible but difficult


Possible when you both are smart and know what you can to school to get.

Difficult if one person doesn't care as much

skywalker240:

This girl carry dumbbells for a living?

okefranci:
The Special Adviser to the President on Media and Publicity, Femi Adesina, says he stopped attending a branch of a church in Abuja because the pastor was always attacking the President, Major General Muhammadu Buhari (retd.).

Adesina said this in an article on Thursday titled, ‘This Kumuyi is simply different’, which was written in support of a statement by the General Superintendent of the Deeper Christian Life Ministry, Pastor William Kumuyi.

Although Adesina did not mention which church he stopped attending, his public profile states that he is a member of the Foursquare Gospel Church where he was ordained a pastor and has attended since 1988.

In the article, the President’s spokesman said it was unfortunate that some pastors had turned their pulpits to soapboxes upon which they spew hatred.
He wrote, “I used to attend a church in Abuja from 2015 to 2018, till the pastor began to see himself as someone who must bring the Buhari government down. Sunday after Sunday, it was all sorts of criticism from the pulpit. But I endured, since it was a branch of a church I had attended for over 30 years. Till one day, he overdid it.
“The Dapchi girls were abducted and there was no name the pastor did not call President Buhari that Sunday. It was horrendous that such things could come from the pulpit. But I suffered long and sat through the sermon, or rather, what was supposed to be a sermon. I then went home, wondering what the church of God was turning to.”

Adesina said after most of the Dapchi girls had been rescued, the pastor did not deem it fit to commend the President in subsequent service.

The President’s aide, however, praised Kumuyi for saying last week that Christians should not “disdain those in power because they appear not to be delivering on electoral pledges”.

He stated that while a former Vice-Chancellor of Ajayi Crowther University, Prof. Dapo Asaju, was within his rights to be angry over the state of the country, it must be noted that the Buhari regime was doing a lot to change the nation’s fortunes.

Adesina said there were some men of God who predicted that Buhari would lose the 2019 election but it turned out to be a fake prophecy.

“Irrespective of the titles they bear, I hear bishops, apostles, prophets, pastors, evangelists, cursing the government, and issuing doomsday notices. One even said publicly that the Buhari administration was over, before the 2019 elections. But the man won handsomely, and that preacher still struts and frets on the pulpit every week, not repenting in sackcloth and ashes,” said Adesina.

He noted that during the #EndSARS protests of 2020, some pastors came out to support the youths who were protesting but they quickly recoiled into their shells when the protests got out of hand.

Adesina added, “Pastor Kumuyi also says if you are a true believer in Christ, you wouldn’t go on the rampage, destroying government property… But that was not what we saw in the country in October last year. The country was almost burned down under the subterfuge of EndSARS.

“And sadly, they were encouraged by pastors and preachers, who simply hate the fact that a Fulani man is their President. Many of them are on record as having encouraged the protesters, till things went ugly, turned awry. And the pastors vanished into the thin air. Not a word of caution or restraint as the cities were burning, and policemen were being killed, and even eaten up"

Buhari deceived and entire country and set it 8 years backward.

You mean to say they attacked him with knives and clubs or they simply condemned an efficient hypocritical government