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damtan:
Send me a message on WhatsApp for the telegram link. WhatsApp line in my signature

Okay, thanks.

phlopholly:
Where in the post did you see no link?

Can I get the telegram link or not?

phlopholly:
ABC is completely not a referral based system. You earn without referring anyone. But you get a one time bonus if you refer anyone.
If you did not register with my link. Let the person whom you used his/her link put you through. Monkey no go dey work make baboon dey chop.

So no telegram link?

phlopholly:
There must be a problem with how you made your deposit. Contact the admin in charge on telegram

Please link to their telegram

damtan:
Of course sir, you have to invest your money

No I mean re-invest. Does my money need to be in the system at all times?

damtan:
Got started also and I can confirm they are paying.
30% in 10 working days just by investing and doing nothing.
To get started, send me a message or check my signature

Must I reinvest my money?

Brute2162:
Just know that Tecno and Infinix is not worth it.

I sell and Install ps4 digital games. It's very cheap.

You can play online and offline.

Check my profile.

How much is the last of us 1 digital version

engrchykae:
my girl has it

You've made it bro

Oluromantic:
Soft separated yansh

Very key. That little separation

YoungLionken:
*read fast and understand well*

I don't think so, based on what we've heard and seen.

Life is somehow. Alot of fake things seem real. One situation could make you switch to plan B, even when you thought plan A was the real and last resort.

Some are suffering today because of their actions and inactions because,

1). You fantasize about graduating with first class honours from your first choice university, only for you to (barely)graduate with a 2.2. Some others settle for polytechnics,as they couldn't gain admittance into the varsity of their first choice.

2). You meet a working class man/lady,he/she feels too pompous.

3). You meet the one you truly love but,his/her misbehaviour is terrific, especially when you're almost convinced that he/she's the one.

4). You meet a loyal/humble lady,her past(body counts, drunk or drug level) is something else,you just can't overlook even if you tried.

5). You meet a church boy/girl, he/she's socially awkward,lacks good dress sense/falls short of a fashionista. You're not so sure if he/she would be impressive enough for you, family, friends and associates (most of us however wish for a perfect gentleman/decent lady with a touch of 50cent/Cardi B style).

6). You meet the ones who can take a bullet for you but, you instantly sink in discouragement whenever they come close, with their faces looking like Adams Oshiomhole,Lizzie Velasquez.

7). You pay more attention to the one that pay less.

. Before now(some of you still do), you wish you were living large, you know like la vida loca, chilling out with the world's famous. Paying back those who embarrassed you, showing off before people who didn't believe in you. Steady uploads about places, people you have been with. Well look at you, never been even close to your village head, councilor .

9). Some of us got connections through our parents, others got corrections.

10). Some are wealthy despite their arrogance, stinginess,hard-heartedness, reasoning, family, village, nationality, religion. Others wallow in squalor because of the aforementioned.

11). Some die for the simple reason(s) that makes us alive today.

12). Somebody steals a phone and he's beaten to death. A politician steals billions and he's celebrated by the same people.

13). The people you complain of,are also complaining about you.

14). Some are destined to be CEOs, others employee.

15). A particular religion is willing to give it all up, with the belief that paradise is sure with plenty of gold and pure women. Another religion is also very convinced about a well prepared paradise,yet so scared to die.

16). The same person you were so close to sometime ago,is now a total stranger,a threat.

17). Some started a good life at a very young age, others, still struggling to make ends meet.

18). The afterbears of victims of slave trade are enjoying from it now. Meanwhile,the forebears of some people,who are groaning and crying for a better life, were the chiefs in palaces, who intentionally perpetrated the slave trade evil against their fellow Skin.

19). Before now, most daughters emulate their mothers. Nowadays, most daughters emulate their fathers. Eg. You can now easily see a girl gulping alcohol, smoking as if it's nothing, sleeping around without rue.

20). Who would have thought that lawyers, doctors, civil engineers, security officers and bankers,who are versed in their respective discipline in school, would be under the payroll of internet fraudsters,or taking orders from Buhari who is not B.Sc certified?

To me, a good advice is an instruction with evidence.

Nobody really knows about tomorrow,we are just trying to move in the direction of the wind of hope.

There are no manual for 100% stability in life,no wonder its legs keep wobbly till tomorrow morning...

It is well.

Epistemology:
Sincerely I don't know, should I sacrifice security in Abuja for the u certainties in Yola..

It's the same company's liason office in Yola, they got a huge contract there and need someone there... When it comes to salary, they pay before month end.

The call is yours to make.. Na only God de secure person las las

Epistemology:
I need public opinion on this, please spare me your time.

I currently work in Abuja and my monthly salary is #75k a month, so I recently got another job offer in YOLA #170k a month including accomodation......
I actually asked family and friends for their thoughts and advice on me moving to Yola....and I got a lot of negative feedback. The reply are as follow;

A Male friend: Yola is not a peaceful place, there's insurgency there, and I'm in that stage of my life where I need to start thinking of settling down and this might not bode well for me as I might not want to settle down in Yola...( BTW, I'm a 24yr old female.)

Best friend: I'm naturally an introvert(I'm socially awkward) even in Abuja I don't mingle well, if I go to Yola, my Social life will be dead, I might be living a monk's life and also the issue of insecurity.

Parents: if the place is safe, I should go for it.

Northern Colleague: Yola is a very nice and cool place to live with lower cost of living, but I might find it difficult transitioning from Abuja life to Yola.

Me: I lived all my life in the south, and you know how we have this perception of northern states, the first northern place I've been to so far is Abuja, truth is I don't know how safe Yola town is, I have a colleague who moved to Yola for work, but then she's from there so I can't really compare with her...............I already made up my mind that I was going to reject the offer and keep my job in Abuja while looking out for better opportunities...... HOWEVER, after receiving my salary yesterday and buying food, paying bills and sending money home....I noted that 75k is small sha (I always know that sha) , and the fact that I've not been getting feed back from jobs I applied for....now I'm having a second though about the offer, should I go?, Should I not go?

BTW, the position will really boost my CV


If you were in my shoe, what are the things you'll consider and what will you do?

I'm sure you know the answer.

The only question is new place going to be steady in salary payment?

Hope they won't be owing

Thanks.

Nigerians have not suffered enough.

heendrix:
It's simple he should get off this servitude mentality. Even if ur broke, having peace within you would ease virtually most things

So if he has to leave for the village, have his personal peace and pick himself up then I think that would be the best thing to do rn

Yes, you're right, or quit complaining.

heendrix:
I can't seem to understand the connection with Ipobs and this servitude mentality to family members or relative

So I'm tempted to ask is this a culture down East

cause I'm very sure No Yoruba/Hausa women would be this heartless Except those hairy yam leged women having beards to

Okay.. So what's the advice?

OP go soon receive alert

azvm:
2014. i met a guy on Nairaland, i'll call him C. i'm not a new member, only using a new moniker. I was 27, him 29 (now we're 32, 35). i'm yoruba, him igbo. we met in Religion where we were encouraging one suicidal, depressed dude in a thread. he PMed me abt liking what i wrote then the friendship began. we had things in common, had interesting discussions, talked about ourselves and families, problems, etc. we agreed to be in a ldr, communicated mostly over email, whatsapp texts. we've done video calls too several times and till three years ago but i put a stop to them bc he was always asking me to show him parts of my body

2016. i was doing a school research project i needed a website for. C told me he knew someone in Nigeria to build it for me, said he would pay him the money, about $100. after the website was built , a week later he started hampering me to return the money, hurling insults at me, telling me i stole his money and he would tell everyone i took his money and ran. i told him i thought the money had been a gift. we were in a relationship, i didn't think i had to return it. after all the verbal abuse i sent him the money -actually sent him more than $100, then he was happy. it wasn't until i told him how bad his behavior was towards me that he apologized. after this, he wanted me to visit him in Nigeria (we had talked abt me visiting Nigeria since 2015) but i couldn't make it. he soon quit talking to me, disappeared. i didn't hear from him at all for three months, no calls, no nothing. i ended up meeting a man here, a Jamaican. i wasn't attracted to this man, we weren't in a relationship. i don't want to get into these details but i was sexually assaulted and lost my virginity, at 29. i reported to the police last year, it's still an ongoing police case. i somehow blame C. i've felt if he hadn't disappeared i wouldn't hv fallen into the hands of this rapist. C knew my goal was always to save myself for marriage like i had been doing.

rewind. some background. before i met C, i was in a relationship when i was 25, in 2012.
2012. i met a yoruba guy my Uni. he was an international student. we never had sex due to me wanting to wait for marriage. we kissed, hugged during our weekly outings. we saw each other once a week for movies, dinner, bowling. he ended up cheating. 7 months later, i broke up w him. this dude is history but is who i consider my ex if you ask who my ex is. i consider this relationship my first ever relationship, the only real-life relationship i've ever been in all my life, though a non-sexual one.

back to C.
2017. he did encourage me after i told him what had happened to me, provided moral support. but he then disappeared again. when he contacted me four months later, i was upset, we exchanged some words over email- mostly me calling him dishonest, unfaithful, untrustworthy, which were all true. he took things too far and was verbally abusive calling me horrible names and using the things i've told him about myself to insult me, like the sexual assault. he apologized later but i was quite hurt. we decided to start anew for a relationship mostly doing whatsapp texts and email as usual. he isn't a phone call person, he has the tendency to need his space for a week a two- i never complained.

2018. he disappeared again this time for 8 months, from april to november, no communication at all. i had told myself to forget about him. he suddenly called my phone one november afternoon 5 times. when we got to talking he confessed he was engaged to an igbo girl in Nigeria, was busy making preparations for the marriage but her family were making too many financial demands so he opted to call it off. i was shocked to hear he had been engaged. i told him he only contacted me again since the marriage plans didn't work out. he apologized, said it's me he wants to marry, i'm a simple girl, i'll give him peace of mind, blah blab blah. he wanted us to start where we left off. i told him i no longer trusted him but said we could try again, see where it goes

2019. we continue and things were fine till Valentine's Day. a week before V-day he said he loved me, promised to never leave me again. on Valentine's day i got no Valentine's message from him either or email or whatsapp, no call, nothing. meanwhile i would see him on whatsapp. fast forward to two weeks later i needed a logo for a blog of mine. i found a guy on nairaland for it. initially i wanted to send C the money to give to the guy but i decided to send him the money myself, i sent him the money then C started ignoring me. long story short the guy didn't send my logo after receiving the money. i told C, asked him to call the guy for me to release my logo, he refused. after this, i stopped communicating with C myself this time, he didn't contact me either, not till later last year

2020. fast forward to last month he told me abt his laptop which got damaged after a power outage. i started looking online to buy another laptop for him ( i didn't tell him ). my plan was to surprise him, send it to him for his birthday in October. we chatted on whatsapp the next day, i was doing my best to make him feel better, asked him what laptop he's using now, other questions to show him i care. all of a sudden he went of on me calling me deplorable n all sorts of names, saying stuff he knows will hurt me. i dunno maybe he was having a bad day or what. i told him i was planning to buy another laptop for him but he carried on insulting me. i blocked him. asides, his communication towards me recently has been sexual -he's always talkn abt wanting to make love to me, how attracted he is to me ( he has my pics ), how i'm his fantasy. he emailed me days later talkn abt me being the love of his life. he first refused apologizing for all his insults said over whatsapp, he said he doesn't need to apologize before i forgive. he finally said "i'm sorry ok" days later, i told him there's no more relationship. he says he doesn't want to let me go, i'm the only one who understands him. lately i've been thinking abt sponsoring him or going to nigeria to marry him. despite the fights he hs been my friend over the years. plus i'm thinking being in the same place may help us bond a lot better, start a family someday. my fears are he may not be a good father or husband, will be abusive, or i may find out he's got a wife in Nigeria. what do u guys think i should do?

*he's still on nairaland though not too active. he may or may not see this thread... it wouldn't matter either way.

Incredible... If this is true... This is in fvcking credible

Price

[quote author=Tomiwa69 post=91123909][/quote]Okay

Kobojunkie:
Jesus Christ never commanded you to shove His words or teaching at those who don't care. I recall His exact command to you is that you not cast your pearls to swines .... so why disobey Jesus Christ pretending you do it on His behalf?

Remember what John the apostle said? He said something like anyone who claims to belong to Jesus Christ but refuses to obey the commandments of Jesus Christ is a liar and the Truth that is Jesus Christ does not live inside of such persons.

You need worry more about you than about those who don't believe as you do.

Till then.

[quote author=Tomiwa69 post=91111172][/quote]Why is it so important if you guys get people to stop believing in Jesus. You're so pained when you hear that holy name.



Remember... He's COMING SOON.

Tomiwa69:
Old enough to Know the falsehood of religion.. Yes there are some historic accuracy in the scriptures.. But the story behind one entity is false

The Antichrist spirit will come after the image of Christ.

Christ is the center of the Godhead, and salvation for all who believe both jew and gentile..


Thank you Jesus saving me. I would have been lost without you. Even though I fall a lot of times, your love will always pick me up again and again.

She said she wanted to be single again...

Whatever the truth was, I'm glad she's no longer in my life.

mikezuruki:
I think with the way Coronavirus has hit Nigeria, especially those in high places, I think our government can improve the situation of our health facilities now.

This situation has really exposed our leaders to the level of incompetence they operate.

You would think so. But would they?

merieam16:
How would you feel if your crush whom you've been tryin to woo,comes up to tell u this
I AM BAD in ENGLISH
BUT
I can tell you
that I LOVE YOU.
I am BAD in GEOGRAPHY BUT
I can tell you
that you LIVE in my
HEART...
I am BAD in HISTORY
BUT I can REMEMBER
when i FIRST saw you.
I am BAD in CHEMISTRY
BUT
I can tell
WHATS the REACTION when you
SMILE..
I am BAD in PHYSICS
BUT
I can tell the
INTENSITY of SPARK of my EYES when
they SEE you..
I am BAD in every SUBJECT
BUT
I can TELL ALL..
I will PASS all SUBJECTS if
the TOPIC is YOU.....

I'll reply with. "We thank God"

AgentPein:
Please I'm in need of a laptop with a good graphics card, Maybe AMD or Intel Or Nvidia, i will appreciate Nvidia most though

my budget is around 70 to 80k
some specs i will prefer

hdd ........ 500gb (if it can be higher i will appreciate)
or sdd: 320gb maybe
ram ........ 4gb - 8gb (or you can bless me)
cpu ......... amd(Radeon equivalent), intel(i5-i7, 5th generation upward), or nvidia(gtxxxxx equivalent) 2.0 - 2.8gz
gpu ........ amd, Intel, or nvidia with 1gb - 2gb dedicated video memory..

any brand is welcome
NB i am base in ilorin
purpose is for design

500gb
2gb Nvidia
8gb ram
2.2~2.7ghz turbo processor speed
Core i5 5th generation.
Neatly used dell 3543


Price 100k last
Reason for sale is for me to upgrade to something much higher.

.

Lool.. It's not that deep na how much kon be tipper

Vyzz:




Mtcheeew
Niggas theirs nothing here for us

We roll. Peace

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