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obowunmi:
Ify, you sound like a wicked woman ,  abeg free the guy jooor!

what do you mean by he "must fulfill the end of his bargain" Did he force the woman to invest in hiim ?

LMAO

He chose to dine with the devil and with a short spoon. . I have no pity for him.He deserves whatever he gets from the lady.

Lesson for women who are good at "investing" lol. Perharps they should involve their lawyers before they start rolling out the cash.No amount of money can buy true love and affection which i believe the OP never had for the babe.
Timaya was fighting Empress the other day for the car he invested in her when the going was good.

No one is saying that investing financially in a relationship would guarantee marriage please.It's not rocket science to know that this lady invested 'cos shes been given full assurance of marriage by the OP.

Naija girls,or rather a greater part of Naija girls are made to know(by the society,our mothers) that a woman should NOT invest cash in any relationship with a lover unless in marriage so before anyone invests,she must have been assured beyond doubt that she has a future with the man.

OP,don chop clean mouth and suddenly wants to go with filmsy excuses.The girl might have made mistakes in the past(picking and brushing up his a55) But now?babes are not smiling.He must fulfil his end of the bargain.

Many married that way and it turned out fine,some didn't work,fine but OP must finish what he started.

Btw,this thread is an eyeopener indeed.I've come to realise that some men actually go into a relationship,make promises they don't intend fulfilling just so they'd ride on the woman's fortune to sucess.SMH

^Oturugbeke.
Was she talking about a/n/a/l s3x ?This word sensor has outlived its usefulness.

Abeg OP come clarify.If its a/n/a/l then its horrible.Does it mean ur hubby can't hold body for 3 days and manage handjobs et all?

Btw,where you offering a/n/a/ls during your courtship days? I no play go dat side oh.Your health is the most important thing here.shuo

^Yeah.You are sooo right.

I tend to speak more of Anambra so when i wanna throw such banters,I use "anu" instead. . . Ajo anu.lolz
eg Ujujoan bu ajo anu/ejo nwa(Enugu)

@Delpee,Yes we are registering her for ante-natal with a private hospital.
This case have opened my eyes as to how things work in 9ja.I would have preferred registering her at a Govt. hospital but I learnt that for one to register,the hubby has to donate blood.that's some wow ish.

@Odunnu,tu parle francias maintenant mon rival?bissou.

Jarus,Salams.Got your PM and worked out my part,waiting for OAM4J and R231.

@Free,ndo.I had twins,all boys too and my mom and MIL plus aunties and SIL's reported for duty.Mine was to eat well,sleep and breastfeed.Lucky they came with good herbs to monitor my weight else i for blow up.

@Fellis,I don't think Igbos are so much into "naming ceremonies".Most people after celebrating in their home/hood after mom and baby gets discharged from the hospital does what's known as "I kupute nwa"(outdooring) in church which is where the child is named,getting god parents and baptism follows suit.

blink182:
How is this news going to affect the price of garri?

Rofl

@Topic,Good for him.

I feel the boy is more Briton than Nigerian.He might not be able to point out his father's Obi.I could be wrong though.

@Chyz whats the problem with 'isi azu'?highly nutritious.lol

Eze akpu na ofe onugbo.

This thread makes a good laugh and I understand. . .folks are bored.Just to join in the party I nominate Only Truth and if i'm allowed a 2nd and 3rd nominations then Dede1 and Naijaking.

Ezeuche kwa?That lil'boy in diapers,anya afu nwanyi,nkita na-eri ihe o gboro agbo ? Please he'd better be left alone as Eze noise,Eze umu nwanyi na eze ndi kpuli isi(blind)

LOL,hilarious to say the least.The thread and anyone that wud take it serious.

Naija na proper jungle.No matter how refined and gentlemanly you think you are,it takes just a visit and perharps 72 hours of interacting with people and you'd be amazed at how fast you'd be transformed!

How can one retain sanity in this case?Everybody eye dey red,transferring aggression and ready to pounce and eat you up.

@OP,Just go make noise for Nepa people and get a new meter for your house.Ignore the troublesome neighbor,he would meet his kind someday.

@Mirima,Yes.
O buro ma nwa,onye ga-enyem
Ukwu George,onye ga-enye mAkpa rice,onye ga-enye m
Moto car(lol),onye ga-enye m

I particularly feel for women still waiting to be blessed with children whenever i hear the song.

@Brainpulse,You don't say .I believe you've interacted with all Igbo's to come up with this ya 2pence theory.

Assuming its even true,hows that your concern?

We hope to wrap up with the Obuh's on tuesday.The things left to do are :
Helping him to tag and fix prices on his wares.
Help him with accounting and book-keeping.(He's smart)
Getting and paying school fees for the little boy,James.

God bless everyone that contributed.

Oh,the OP is out with the old lame excuse . . ."my mom does not like her".Did your mom just wake up or she like you,woke up and the love is lost what moonlight tales!

If some of us wants to pretend that we don't know that in "Nigeria and perharps Africa" in general it is out of place and NOT accepted for a woman to invest "financially in a relationship(not marriage) then theres nothing worth discussing.A woman who goes out of her way to do such keeps it closely guarded and stands the risk of being labelled as "desperate and buying love" as its already suggested in this thread.

Btw,i'm sure the girl was promised and assured marriage by the OP before she started investing.

7 years is a loooong time to live off someone,give her false hopes then come up with this poo story.OP,had it all planned out which to me is the height of wickedness.and he must be made to pay dearly.

The omugwo is the best part for me.Having everyone fuss and watch over me and the baby,feed me in bed,bathe me et.

I love that "erimeri na-adi nma" song.Where I married,the women within the kindred all come with wrappers(as gift),dance and rub white powder all over their bodies.They also take turns in fetching the new mother water and firewood(if you are in the village).All old grudges,petty quarells and enimity are erased as soon as a woman puts to bed,even debts are written off.

IMO,the best days of a womans life are her nursing days.If anyone has got hers bad,sorry oh.

Argh,I wanna make more babies now

She invested in you while you were busy investing in small girls outside.

She has sowed so therefore she must reap. . .from the same vineyard.

May Amadioha punish anyone who thinks otherwise.

^You lot are pathetic,wonder where they manufacture men like you.Twa!

You enjoyed her money,connection and kini for 6 solid years and now you wanna bail out?

Thank heavens you've got a fiery,sharp woman.Breath or try any kurukere moves and you are gone.

I can just picture you sneaking out and all shaky when you wanna go see your nwa baby. . .hahaha.You call yourself a man?

Carry your cross jejely biko.

^rofl

@OP,Are you scared of your husband,you can't tell him exactly how you feel or what?

You don't enjoy d.o.ggy position(not s3x during period) but did you tell him,does he know and still insisted on that?

Your husband does not talk with you,have you tried starting up a conversation yourself and he snubs you?

I understand you feel down and bad about the miscarriage but sweetie,someohow life has got to go on.You've got to try to pick up yourself and forge ahead.Your hubby I'm sure felt the pains but heck,don't expect men to be on same emotional levels with women.They are experts at handling pains and masking their emotions.

What I see is 2 adults that can't relate with themselves,can't read or understand their body languages.The communication lines are broken.Initiate the reconcilatory talk,look up to a brighter morrow.
Sorry abt your loss,btw.Hope you've seen a Gyn/Obn for professional advise?

Don't know your motive for bringing up the abuse you got 2 years ago now. . .you forgave him abi?forget it

^Gotta slow my roll.lol
Thread title is "naming patterns" and not "common names btw the 2 communities" so OP is on the right track.my bad.

One naira,Abagworo wu confirmed isi okpukpu.

You sound as if anyone is forcing him.He believes failing to throw a lavish funeral aprty wud set him back and usher in bad omen,his cross to carry.His dad and grand dad does not share same sentiments. . .they buried the dead within their means.

IMO,NO one transfered anything to him.He just wanna do it.

She does not look like she had 15 kids,passed through 15 childbirths.Good genes she's got.

Babydaddies as usual are not necessary,theirs are to sow the seed,the woman waters,harvests and deals with all the poo.

If they can manage,endure and pull through 10 years of "yes-no" dating they surely would enjoy atleast 20 years of marital bliss.

They both deserve and compliment each other. , a wussy guy and a sassy chic.lol

Aba eze gworo don come again.
Here was I,thinking hes gonna talk about names like "Ekpo" etc that are common in both communities dude was busy doing translation.

lol

This is quite confusing. . .the name.How did it come by the name "Alausa" which clearly was not coined from neither the  land owners nor inhabitants lingo.

Ala=land
Alahausa=Alausa=land/area of the  Hausa's.whats the Igbo connection ?

Or does Alausa mean something else ?

IMO,that's bullshit.claiming spirits of the dead can hunt or disturb the living.However,as much as possible and I can afford,I won't hesistate to send my beloved ones home in a lil'bit of pomp especially if they were a part of my upbringing. . .they've earned it.

I think your friend has some loose change and wants to throw a funeral party not burial(they've all been burried innit?)

Anyhoo,each man to his/her convictions.

@OP,no pictures of her husband or he didn't attend?

Relax,Zizi is an Isikwuato babe that married a white.She owns and runs a fashion house and have been around the fashion block for a decade or more.

Kedu ka Enny ga-esi enye gi obi ma o bu obara mgbali elu?
O buru ibu
O nwere apata ukwu(thick laps) juru eju
O nwere afo ukwu

Gini ozo ka i na-acho?Okwa I choga 'bushmeat' ?LOL

Enny wu kajad bushmeat.Tosh wud call her otelented otele.lolz A nom n'Owerri ugbua,o nwere ozi? I choro ugba,nkwobi,isi goat,mmai elu ka owu kee ozo?
Lekwenu ukwu na executive garden hotel. . .cheei ala owerri efuola.

@OP,only Nedu gave you the real translations,just so you know. . .and No 1 is more like a banter,something like "you are a badt a55 guy".

Very ridiculous for someone to say that "ejo" is not an Igbo word.

Freecocoa,I choro i siwa isi tupu i jee uka?lol dikwa sure na i nodebeghi onye dika Toshman n'ulo uka. . .

Relax,oge obula ka i na-achoonye ga-abia gi nso.btw,a kponyere m gi "Ennyluv" but i juru ya.She fits your description,your bush meat!

Lol ala Owerri leeeee,uguru ga-adowa mmadu something.

Umu Igbo dalu nu.

Fuuny as this sounds but its gone beyond ridiculous.

@Topic,has Baba Suwe being settled by NDLEA and how much did he get?

How many days gone and Orikinla is yet to upload a picture

N'kele wu uguru.
Oh choochi.