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Crime / Re: EFCC Arrests 23 Suspected ‘Yahoo Boys’ In Sokoto by ifyemma123: 8:35am On Aug 27, 2023
Edygrin:

I'm not even Igbo but this obsession with linking igbo people with fraud is very disgusting. The North has produced the most corrupt and incompetent politicians this country has ever had yet it is the igbos you all maturbate about. There are more yahoo boys in Kano and Sokoto than there is in the entire South East.
they only have produced the worst politicians, clergyman and office holder, they are not good in management, infact, all they are good at is to distroy.
Politics / Re: Wike: Our Preferred Candidate Is A Man Of Integrity. No PDP If G5 Is Expelled by ifyemma123: 6:29pm On Jan 18, 2023
2023 political drama will be something else
Politics / Re: Lady Put To Bed Safely After Shouting ''The God Of Gov. Wike'' Thrice (video) by ifyemma123: 6:06pm On Jan 11, 2023
Na wa ooh, it's only GOD of Abraham Isaac and Jacob the Bible point out we as Christians should use, any other one na form of idol worship.
Education / Re: FGC Ijanikin, Lagos Students Lodge Colleagues In Hotels For Sex Romps by ifyemma123: 8:39am On Jan 04, 2023
May GOD help this generation to copy and learn the better part of social media and not the bad part of it

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Romance / Re: Sex Is Getting Really Hard To Get These Days. I'm tired by ifyemma123: 6:45pm On Jan 02, 2023
Are men this weak, where lots of girls are looking for who to just toast them, oga you be simp ooh

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Politics / Re: Tinubu: I'm Going To Win 2023 Election, No One Can Stop Me by ifyemma123: 9:51am On Jan 02, 2023
See yeye confidence ��
Crime / Re: Assassins Set CBN Staff, Wife Ablaze In Ogun, Kidnap Son, Maid (pix) by ifyemma123: 1:22am On Jan 02, 2023
SWATMan:
If this incident had happened in the east all hell would have been let loose by nairaland bigots who are only observing this thread and running away like dog's with tail tucked behind their hindlegs.

It would have been tag ipob, Esn unknown gunmen,
No where is safe in Nigeria, just pray make Nigeria no happen to you that's all, and we should not allow emotions becloud our judgement, they way the country is seff, to get good future is now a crime

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Politics / Re: We Didn’t Kidnap Female Soldier, IPOB Replies Army by ifyemma123: 12:32am On Jan 02, 2023
Kewtt:

They are a terrorist group. I mean ipob. And all who created them and are hiding in alaba int'l market, tradefair ojo, and computer village all in Lagos State will be utterly wiped out....


Are you this daft, anyway what I know for sure is the truth will always find it way out no matter how long you cover it, time will surely tell
Politics / Re: Peter Obi: Why Some People Are Against Me by ifyemma123: 10:47am On Dec 31, 2022
Peter Obi is simply an Igbo & Ip0b terrorist project..... Most Igbos terrorist are just supporting him because they know that once he wins, they will have the freedom to kill people anyhow. For now, they are killing their kinsmen, after obi enters, they might start doing it to other Nigerians..

Peter Obi, listen and listen good.. You will never be the president of the nation.

**Just dey mumu**
Politics / Re: Peter Obi Releases Manifesto Titled "It's POssible: Our Pact with Nigerians" by ifyemma123: 11:10am On Dec 04, 2022
dat9jaguy:



Direct your question to Tinubu and his supporters.
My own is, Peter Obi is a bad product and he is not fit to preside over the affairs of Nigeria.
so among tinubu, atiku, kwankwaso. who do you think is a good product and is fit to preside over the affairs of Nigeria?
Politics / Re: Throwback: Here Is What Peter Obi Has To Say About IPOB (Video) by ifyemma123: 10:59pm On Oct 04, 2022
Tinubuwins2023e:
Peter Obituary is a bastard terrorist.
He is happy about the evils committed by ipob terrorists and if he gets to power, he will empower them the more. Foolish madman

Have you ever seen the fool condemn ipob miscreants that have been killing his fathers and mothers in the east? A serving senator was almost assassinated and the foolish Obituary didn't say anything. Many serving police officers and military men have been killed in the east and the foolish man didn't say anything. How is that a presidential candidate.
A retard and a clown will rule a state better than that bastard Peter Obituary.
People that shout when talking are liars. The fool go dey talk dey shout and spit will be coming out of his mouth. Useless Goat
look at how dump and stupid you sound, na hatred go ki you soon, see as you carry the hate for head,mind, body and soul. it's all over you, try help your self leave hatred small make you dey alive witness the next coming president..(po)
Romance / Re: She Has Gone Worst by ifyemma123: 5:06pm On Aug 12, 2022
You be the greatest mumu I have seen so far, na person like you bandit suppose kidnap so that before you go come out, you go don borrow small since take see front
Travel / Re: Who Have Heard Of Daniel Raymond Travel And Tours by ifyemma123: 9:54am On Sep 10, 2020
phililp:
So through a friend, I got to know of a travel agency called Daniel Ramond in kano state..

Got in contact with one of their staff and got all the details on traveling and working abroad and them paying for accommodation and flight then u pay back while working..

Have paid the 78, 000, send my international passport data page and some other health docs..

Am just scared man, they don't even have a website or fb page, plus.. I have sent someone to verify their physical address and yes it was a legit office, but how can a travel agency not have a website nor fb page...

Can someone help make a research for me cry
I get to know about them through there shared flyers..was concedering them though but bros it's too good to be truth..chat me up on WhatsApp..08176170088 let's make more enquiries about them..am in Kano sabon gari
Family / Re: Should I Stay With My Parents And Invest Or Should I Leave? Advice Needed by ifyemma123: 7:06am On Jul 12, 2019
Hullabaloon:
Guys I need advice on what to do at this point in my life.

Got a job, in my state, place of work not far from parent's house (rented flat).

I've managed to save up to 400k so far, I've always longed to move away from my parent's house and get my own place, but they'd always kick against it, citing that there's no need for that since work is close to home. Left for them, they'd like me to stay till I plan for marriage whenever that will be; Lol, parents sha.

I'm already 28 years old, so I think it's time.

My colleagues already yab me anytime they get the opportunity, they love reminding me that I still dey chop mama thank you.

Problem is, the job security at my place of work is not that encouraging. I have older colleagues who have been in the company for 8 to 15 years, I've also, within my short period (less than a year now) seen about 5 workers sacked, it's a place where any thing can happen at any time.

So, should I invest this 400k in renting and furnishing an apartment with the constant uncertainty hovering over the job,and no side income yet, or should I continue staying with my parents while I invest the money in a side business which I don't know how it'll fare...

Now, frankly speaking, I'm not cut out for business, it's not my forte at all, so starting any at all comes with great risk but I still feel the need for another source of income.

On the flip side, Staying with my parents is not even as economical as most would think. Ever since I got the job, parents no dey gree say them get money again. All the bills are on me.

I'm just confused.

Salary fluctuates between 60 to 80k
. Brother you are very much old enough be be on your own...I will advice you to move out but go for rented house not to expensive like 60k and look at the possibility of how capable you can go for higher rented house.. Your mate don marry baba....so move out and learn how to be on your own..it good to have more experience of life before your 30s.

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Romance / Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by ifyemma123: 12:04am On Jul 07, 2019
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sirdouglas:
Now before you judge me, I beg you to hear my side of the story.
I said my side of the story cos if she is here, she may not agree with everything I have to say.
This is a lengthy one but I will try to make it as short as possible.
I it is important to note that I am not writing this to be judged or ridiculed. I want matured and reasonable people to help out.

I met this girl in 2017. Can't really remember the month but it should be getting to 2years now. We started dating. As at the time I met her I wasn't struggling, I have my own business and apartment so I wouldn't say she met me when I had nothing. I was a big boy then if I can use that word.
She was just 19 or so then. I am this kind of guy that really really take relationship serious and always looking out to see if things can work out. I don't spend on her, I don't do much for her then. I wanted to see the kind of person she is. She doesn't care or even ask of anything. She might ask for something once in a while but I will pretend I didn't hearw her and to my amazement, she will never talk about it again.
With time I started noticing something about her that I don't like. First is she is really not smart and educated. I noticed that she doesn't have her own say. She listens to gossip and always bore me with what this person said or that person. I really hate that shit.
She is a mama's girl too. Sometimes I wonder if she gives her mom details of our sex life.
She won't sweep the house or do anything for me even while the relationship progressed. I started taking care of her and helping out with her needs. I constantly keep wondering if I can settle down with her but I am always stuck with that question.

I ended the relationship when it was clear to me that I can't live with her. I am an ambitious young man and I am not there yet. I want a woman who will be more than a sex mate. I want someone who can confidently handle my business and manage my home when I am not there. She is to naive to my liking. I am tired trying to build her into the kind of woman I want.

There is only one main reason why I wasn't really hard on her. She was one girl who accepted me from her heart and I know it and I respected that too. I suck when it comes to women and I respect women a lot. You know what they say about guys that respect women. They are mostly single �
She came back few months later. She wasn't ready to let go. Being that I am a loner. My defence wasn't strong enough. We started dating. I got hold of myself and ask her to go again because I couldn't see a future with her and I can't bring myself to be wasting her time.

She wanted to stay, I told her in plain words that I don't want to marry her and that's why I am setting her free.

She left and came back the third time. We had sex and all that but this time I was determined to let her go. I went to a lab for a test with to make sure I didn't infect her with anything because I treated staph before I met her and I was afraid it may still be there or something. To my utmost surprise, she was the one who infected me with gonorrhea. I treated mine and hers and ask her to go.

I noticed that she haven't seen her period and asked her and she confirmed it. She left and came back few weeks later that she is pregnant. She insisted that she wanted to have an abortion but I wasn't interested. I told her to keep the child. Besides, she has been the one telling me that my sperm us not working. I laughed over it. I became afraid that she will try something stupid so I took her to a pharmacist friend of mine to discourage her.

Her mother got to know and ask her to call me. I went with a friend and told her mother everything. I started suspecting that the child might not be mine because I treated her of an infection she possibly contacted from another person. In fact, I was shocked when she confessed about the infection. She said it is the toilet they use at home but I never believed her.

I told her mother that I am not sure about the paternity but however, I will take care of her. I told her family that I don't want to marry her and I have told her that severely.

We had a long discussion that day and I left. I started taking care if her the more. I made sure that I made my stand clear on the matter. I don't want to be a murderer so I got to do what is necessary. She started complaining about abuse from her siblings and war started. They beat her almost all the time and I wanted to take it personal. Shit do happen at times but that is not enough reason to kill their sister.

When all this is happening, I was processing my papers. In fact, I started processing my papers before she got pregnant and she is full aware of that. I took another group of friends to their home to help beg the brothers to stop beating her so they don't kill her and the child.

My visa took time so she was almost due for delivery before I left. I sent money to her account and bought some things I felt she would need even the unnecessary ones and left.

My problem now is that she contacted me few days ago to tell me that the scan said she is having twins now not a boy. I can't explain in details because I don't know but the bottom line is that she is now having a twins. I feel for her like I always do.

I don't want to marry out of pity. I don't want to live a promiscuous life. I don't want to marry this girl honestly and having a twins for me just complicated the matter the more.

She said the doctor said she will be delivering this month. I am thinking of sending my uncle and younger brother to her family house to do the iku aka or whatever that is called so I can lay claims to my kids.

Her family is so messed up that I will never want to do anything with them on a normal day. They are from onitsha in anambra and I swore never to marry from that state. That's one of the reason I kept chasing her away. When I say messed up, I am really not that good with English to find the right word to define how disorganized it is.

I am feeling like a monster already. I need all the help that I can get. I never expected this to happen. I never wanted to complicate her life but here I am in the middle of all this.

Should I marry her out of pity and save her the embarrassment or give her money and make sure she comfortable and go ahead with my life. Honestly I don't know what to do.
why did you expose your traveling abroad to her when you know she always tell her mum everything... Did you know if her mom or Friends advice her to get pregnant for you so that you both must be connected.. Look at the timing of the pregnancy and the time you told her you will be traveling.. I smell something nasty there..bro..its a plan to get you to marry her by all means...if its not the plan of both the mother and daughter.. The mother would have been mad at you for telling them you don't want to marry her..come to think of it..she already told her mum u don't have interest marrying her and u want to go to obodo oyibo..nna dem play u...just be careful with such family bcus they can go to any length.. (Diabolic) were chinekenna were mere fence of defence GI or else..ntor ga bu aha GI.. U know our Nigerian mother don't play with abroad husband, well shit happens bro, when she finally give birth, find out if they are your product, if they are nna just look for a way and fix the mistake by making sure u always make her happy or if possible marry her and give her rules..and put her in the best school,she will definitely learn,and there is no way u will leave those children if they are yours and be fulfil bro..one day,,u must look for them no matter what bcus its your blood.something must surely come up that will make u look for them, marrying another wife if those seed are yours is like polygamy and the bible condemned such,infact following the bible if those children are yours..baba u must marry her and killing them at the early state bible is against it too... shocked so u are stuck inbetween. cool Just be prayerful... If possible get a prophet that will always guide spiritually and pray for u...I rest my case

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Family / Re: My Wife's Sister Sneaked Out Of NYSC Camp & Came Into Our House, This Happened by ifyemma123: 9:55am On Jul 03, 2019
Bro Jesus love you...its a sign it will not work when u both got married...tell her u are putting the wedding plan to stop and see her reaction... If she behave well...give your self more time to think before continuing the wedding plan...but if she behave harsh and mannerless,,,bros no waste ur time...send her packing by telling her to stay a little bit with her parent....and from there....continue running for your life till u both got totally separated... She has already sell ur respect for nothing in front of your in-laws and that will affect u later in future...her family will not value u and they will start comparing you to other suitors that she has before u...and u know what ur name will be....(sorry)
Family / Re: My Wife Says No Sex Until Her Mother Leaves Our House. by ifyemma123: 9:31am On Jul 03, 2019
Oga hotel don finish to pay for u and ur wife to kpamsh abi....no go cheat on your wife with ashawo ooh.....and no hala your mother in-law bcus of future respect...

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