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The man never said what he said were lies.
He said he apologized in the manner of how he said what he said.
Go and watch it again.
You dont hear him apologize of accusing Suleman or his wife.
He was obviously under pressure and perhaps received money just like otobo.
He even looked like kidnapped person speaking under duress

His daughter was in a hotel at sabon gari where non indigenes live.
Your daughter has problems with her husband rather than take her home to your house u go to visit her to give her food
Yes the type of food wey people dey chop on top bed

Jibril o

Who believes any word from Sulewoman

Inspector Fash onye oshi

Felabarmudia:
Don't conclude matter like that there might be more to this online story.
A mother came to Lagos to visit her son, during her stay she was sleeping in the junior wife's room,after some days/weeks she discovered some fetish thing inside the wife's room covered in calabash unexpectedly (na da woman de top chart for the man heart den).what do you expect of a mother?she raised alarm upon that her son didn't see anything wrong.not too long the mother passed away and the issue died down but it was clear she never liked that woman.lemmi stop here...

Stick to the story at hand.The boy knows his own mother

BluntTheApostle:
Your post is the definition of WISDOM.

Many of the ladies supporting OP's rash decisions would learn one day when they become the mothers of grownup men.

In life, many of us will have clashes with our children which will reorientate us that our children are no longer under our watch. Sometimes these clashes happen so early in life.

I have had such clashes with my dad as well, and I expect that my children will have such clashes with me too.

Clashes like this are normal. There is no need to blow them out of proportion.

It is not easy to be parents, especially to be mothers.

That is why women tend to forget that their once little angels have become men.

So when they have their first clash with their grownup sons, they panic.

And if the son shows no empathy, they become cold.

Treat your parents nicely. Empathize with them, even if you don't agree with their decisions.

Because you will be parents of grownup children one day too.

Perhaps, you are thinking that you can never be as cold hearted as OP's mother so no child will disown you.

But you can never be too sure.

Always remember that no one is INHERENTLY good or bad.

In fact, we are more bad than we are good.

So, when you make your own mistakes in life, how would you feel if your once little angel disowns you?

See his other topics.He also talked about the hell he grew up in with his mother.
The woman has been evil from day one.

See his old threads
No be today mama become witch
I pity your wife.if I were her i would not have married into this family.
The best thing is to cut yoir mother off.
She is a bitter and evil woman

will be brief with the narrative . Am 33 years old engaged to be married. I live with my fiancé in a single room ( she started living with me since February due to some issues she had with her senior sister she stayed with). We both are working , we are not financially ok just managing. My mum doesn’t like my fiancé for no reason , her reasons are , 1. my fiancé is dark skinned and ugly , she said I am a man but i looks more beautiful than my fiancé , she is worrying about her giving birth to ugly kids lol , mum preferred me marrying a fair woman like her , 2. She is not from the same tribes as her , she wants me to marry a girl from her village because she doesn’t want me to end up a divorcee like her ( my mum and dad are not from the same village , they had so many issues in the marriage that led to their separations). My mum thinks marrying her will not be a very good ideas. As for me I told my mum , I love my fiancé , she is the most beautiful woman in my eyes , she is the one I want to spend the rest of my life with . My mum not happy and still disapprove of our relationships. She was not aware that my fiancé is staying with me , it was when my younger sister cane collecting money for her school fees , she met with my fiancé and has seen some of her stuffs in the room , she went back to telling my mum. She called me shouting at me , I’m stubborn like my dad , I don’t want to listen to what she is telling me about not marrying her, she will kill me , she has said a lot , no need for me to write everything on her . Then like a week later she has came to my place with my nephew only 1 year 6 months that she want to spend time with me because she misses me , according to her she was supposed to stay for a week but with this lockdown , things did not go according to plans , it will be 3 weeks on Wednesday , the space is not even big , I have been spending the day with them and when is evening I’m squatting with friends , while I leave my mum and fiancé in the house and she had been giving my fiancé lots of problems that today she has told me , she cannot stand my mum anymore and she want to leave and go and squat with her friends , I have been begging her to stay but she refused. I really feel sorry for my fiancé , I know how manipulative and controlling my mum can be , she is the type of person that can frustrate you till you commit suicide , I don’t even want to talk about what I went through living with her , I pity my fiancé , I don’t want her to go and stay with friends , she has nobody else apart from me. My mum has 5 children and a house , I just want her to go back to her house but I don’t know how to tell her without hurting her feelings. I need help, I can’t take it anymore

od501:
Indeed you need alot of wisdom. Your mother's hatred for your wife is one thing, the reason for the hatred is another. Find out why she is so bitter about her and try to explain when she tells you (that is, if it is something you can comprehend)

he has already said the reason.it is because she is from his father's tribe and also she says the wife is ugly and will give her ugly grandkids

Righteousness2:
Some Mothers can be unnecessarily Stubborn and hard hearted..
Some Could be so annoying and Wicked in their attitude.
Some could even be involved in Witchcraft!
Nevertheless, as long as she is the one that carried you 9 months, she is your mother.
Do not Disown her!
What u can do for her is to Pray for her Salvation.
Also be Prayerful and Watchful!

I Decree the Healing Hands of GOD on your wife.
I Decree affliction will not rise up the Second time in the Name of JESUS..... Amen

Nonsense!!
Carried 9 months my foot.
Is she the first to carry a baby?
Goats and cows also carry babies and give birth yet we have them inside our stews and soups

For the brother to record his own mother for evidence tells you all her kids know what a witch they have as mother.
Cut her off immediately!!
I bet you she doesn't get along with anyone.
I pity the wife that has to deal with a witch as her mother in law

sammirano:
Are you mad or domething? Disown your mother for wife of how many years? Well you dont calue what you have until you lose it. Keep it up

Please shatap!!
Nigerians and foolish sentiments. Didn't you read his story.
Is that a mother?

Any children you have by your wife will also be hated by her.
Your mother is a witch.
A korokoro witch and she has shown all the signs
Cut her off immediately !!
I hope your wife listened to that recording so she can know not to expose herself to danger.

Francis609:
My wife gave birth in November but we lost the baby 2 days after. What shocked me was when my younger brother sent me a voice message of what they had discussed about my wife and my mum was not remorseful, she said she is not happy that the baby has died she wish it was my wife that died in the process and the innocent baby lives , he recorded her without her knowledge because he didn't like what she was saying.

I immediately called her and play the voice, I taught she will be sorry for what she said, she didn't give a damn. She said she is not an hypocrite, she never like my wife and she can't pretend. I cut the phone with a broken heart even taught she never like my wife she could have at least show forget about the hatred and show her some love in this difficult situation.
My step mother has been taken care of my wife I am grateful , my mum has never bothered to call to know about her health and I haven't call her either. I disowned her. I don't hate her but I don't want nothing to do with her anymore because she is a disgrace to womanhood.

Please advice me if am I in the wrong

It is unfortunate but take the truth for what it is
You have done right.Your mother is evil. Don't allow her near you,near your wife or near your kids.
She has shown you who she is believe her
I commend you for standing by your wife, some jellyback men will not

They should paint them green and give to their nama

Which buhari? Did anyone see him saying that?

I stated earlier that this girl was wasting her time with that efulefu
Now that she is a baby mama let her go and sit one corner.Any man that does not have the decency to marry you but parades you up and down is simply wasting your time.

Buhari is completely useless

They will soon start chopping babes dia

letitrainnow:
In those pics, who is the wife, who is the maid?

Same thing I'm asking.
The so called man looks like a small boy of 22

Government of pictures

Harrynight:
Always read post to the end!

For a fee I will

See attahiru mouth like onye n'ata amusu

Let them deal with him.
The ghost of that Reverend father he killed will haunt him forever

You mean they didn't cut him?They still left him with mouth to speak?
Na the same people
Thugs meet thugs

Who wants to bet?
He won't be there
If he shows up then Lie Mohammed is nolonger a goat but an ewu

You should have asked her to give you her toothpaste to use and if she refused I would have seen your point.
Don't assume that people know what's on your mind
Learn to verbally communicate.
This is a small issue as far as I am concerned

bizme:
A widow has lost her husband.
A widower has lost his wife.

One often comes across how some foundation and some NGO donate relief materials to widows. But I have not come across where such charity gestures have been extended to widowers, men who have lost their wives. If you have I would love to hear about it.

Secondly, is our society that damaged that once a woman achieves the status of a widow she immediately qualifies to enroll in the group of those needing charity? Please don't twist my words, this is in no way against the act of extending charity and benevolence to those genuinely in need (including widows). I am simply wondering how we have come bloc categorize widowhood to neediness. I think it is high time for some women (not all) to start making plans how to survive and maintain the home should the husband die before them. (Don't say God forbid; death is a permanent tenant of life.) Men too should make sure their wives are financially capable of maintaining the home should they die, and this starts right from the moment you are about to fall in love. Let's stop associating manliness with the practice of indulging a wife's inability to contribute to maintaining the home. No such thing as his money, my money. If many don't get this right your children will suffer and will be forced to indiscriminately drop their aza everywhere, or become runz girls and oloshos and fraudsters and kidnappers.

The moment you marry, it ceases being all about either or the two of you.

And of course, there are few exceptions to this: some are from such wealthy background that they practically don't need to lift a finger to contribute to their own upkeep.

Happy weekend.

PS: I am not certain what I would call someone who has lost a gay partner. Widow or widower?

What a load of nonsense.
In one post you are fighting for widowers, against widows,chastising people not making plans before becoming widows,giving financial and marital counseling.
Only you.
Na wa

Who is he?

ezenwajosh:
ONE OF THE THINGS KEEPING A BLACK MAN DOWN IS HIS MENTALITY AND BRAIN CONFIGURATION

Good to know that there are still men with some thinking faculty. Reading the comments and SMH.
Africans are indeed very very backward and primitive in thinking .Has this OP even inquired from the parents what killed their child?
I hope someone will recognize this story and tell the girl to run away from this man.

kingofchess:
I Am Planning To Marry A Lady And This Happened. Pls Help

I am in my early 30 and I have been dating this lady for a year now and we are planning to settle down together and this happened.

There is this 11 months old baby in my compound who is very close to me and she just started walking. The very first time she saw my girl, she was soo scared and started crawling very fast towards her mum and crying. I quickly ran after her and carried her back to where my girl was sitting down, this time, the crying and running became very intense, I was shocked and I asked why the baby was so scared of her and she said she doesn't know.

Two days later, she came to my place and immediately this baby saw her she was scared and crying that was when I jokily asked her if she is a witch and she got angry and left my house. After she left, a lot of questions started running through my mind: like, is she a witch? Does she has a marine spirit? What did that little girl saw in her? In fact a lot of questions. She later called that same night and was like; baby, I am not possess ooh, I should not allow this little baby come between us ooh and that she loves me very much.

To cut the story short, less than two weeks later, the baby DIED. I was so scared if the baby actually saw something in her and she decided to shut the baby up ( I don't know, just an assumption).

Ever since then, I have been scared of my girl and I really don't know what to do. Please, I need your candid advice. Please guys, how can i make the moderators move this post to front page.

Africans and superstitions.
An oyibo man would just say " a baby that was not too fond of my girlfriend died a few days ago" but here you are relating this death of this baby to this girl and all manner of craziness in your head probably from all these miracle business centers
If I were this young lady I would leave you.
You are not mentally mature for marriage.
She will suffer in your hands.
The day your blokoss refuses to rise you will blame her for stealing your manhood

Shouldn't they be at sambisa?