₦airaland Forum

frecklesnz:
There is intense pressure in western society for a husband to be present at a birth.  This often put a strain on the mother.  Some men are just a pain in the bum and should be left in the waiting room until it is all over.  My cousin had her first baby and her husband was so demanding.  He had been reading modern books and said no pain killers, no this, no that, all natural then when he saw how much pain his wife was in he started demanding painkillers but by then it was too late.  He was anxious and troublesome to the nurses and doctor.  Then when babies head started to come out he fainted.

If you don't want to be there then wait outside.  But for the real men who wish to witness the miracle of seeing their beloved baby arrive it is a wonderful thing.  My husband  (True Igbo man ) Stated  "I don't do blood.  I wont be there if or when a baby is born."  Before we even married.  I accepted it and over the years have seen the wisdom of his words. 

In final answer.

Each couple should make their own decisions.  A wife must know her husband and accept his needs too.  In a delivery room a mother and sister are much more helpful anyway.

Akinagirl:
Yes,  I want him present to when I deliver OUR child. He helped me make it, so he can be there when I deliver it.

benincitys:
yes he was there when my baby was born .

chaircover:
Fathers who were at their baby’s birth will tell you that it is one of the most amazing and wonderful things that they have ever experienced.

Men don’t give this wonderful experience up for anything.

It is worth it to be there.

GeeCee:
I belong to Team A but us winning dis game in dis manner i don't support.
1) There can't be any reasonable justification for changing the rule in d middle of d game.
2) Though Sima is d originator of this game, she still belong to Team A and there4 her changing d rule is cheating to favor her team.
3) The 1st edition of d game was playd all thru using the original rule, the better part of dis edition was plyd using the original rule, why shuld it be ended using a new rule.
4) If it was interesting in the 1st edition, why shuld it be boring now?


[size=16pt]THE WINNING IS HEREBY DECLARED NULL AND VOID.[/size]

which one be null and void again? win na win, whether you like it or not,
sima darling, let's go and celebrate ojare!

lomaxbien:
na una sabi,igwe instead make u dey back me up like i dey do u, u wan comot food for my mouth,u see young boy like me dey hussle clean money una dey block me abi?o dinnam ma oo,e cho kan wun?