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tobaaro:
@ Olanajim & iice

U two hav bin thrashing posts on Nairaland 4 soo long u've become trite and lost intuition, So quick 2 pounce on som1 weak enough 2 post his situations on Seun's portal! Anyway, keep doing what u kno what 2 do best! Thumbs up!

[color=#9900ff]You are welcome
I'd rather do without many intuitions apparent
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thegame:
This has been an issue with me for years now. I don't forget what you do if u really offended me.
Now,the question is 'do u really forget when u forgive(or think u've forgiven)? '
Happy nu year to y'all as this is my first post this year.

[color=#9900ff]Happy New Year to you too.
For me, it depends on the enormity of the offense.
If it's minor i totally forget, if it's major it's more of a forgive and forget as the person ceases to exist for me hence i forget and then i push it back into my memories so that i don't remember until something jogs it (even then it has to be something monumental to bring back up).[/color]

sosodat:
The need for Closure doesnt apply to everybody & evry broken relationship. Its basically for those that are really in love & givin their all.

The need for Closure is not an impediment to movin on, but is required by those really in love to help erase painful flashbacks of questions unanswered.

Most peeps sayin closure should be done from within are correct if
1. D person wasnt really in love & givin his/her all
2. D relationship didnt end abruptly.

[color=#9900ff]I wasn't going to come back here but i just had to clarify something.
Just because someone happens to achieve closure by himself/herself, does not mean the person was not really in love.
Just because they are not balling their eyes out and pressing for closure from the other person does not mean they were never in love.
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[color=#9900ff]So sad. RIP[/color]

jay bee:
If a lady you are asking out tells you she only wants you has a friend then you should program your mind to being just friends with her because u certainly don't want to be chasing shadows then come back to NL with stories of:
After spending all my hard earned cash she still doesn't want me,
I have tried all i can but she still want to be friends,
why are black sistas so hard to please etc.

being friends is probably the easiest way into a sista's heart because they get to know your real ass without you being uptight, fake and most of all doing things because u just want to get into their pants.

[color=#9900ff]gbam![/color]

Dual Core:
i had this in mind when i was reading and now i'm like

jamace:
Poster,
You are so concerned about educational qualifications instead of marriage qualifications. You  even berated the type of institution he attended  . I believe that the guy has his first degree already if not he will not be talking about MBA, so he is qualified, at least, academic wise to marry you.  You said "my educational qualification is so high", how high is it, please? Your post was not as academically "high" as would want us to believe . My sister, if you want to marry, think of marriage qualities else you will remain unmarried forever with your "high" certificates. In addition, marriage is a "till death do us part" contract.Therefore, you must enter into this contract not depending on parents for final decision. Finally, if you do not  feel  satisfied with the man's marriage qualities, you better backout now and look for another, else you will forever remain frustrated in it.There are many men out there. My advice any way. Good luck .

[color=#9900ff]Rofl.  I had a headache reading through the post. 
Lady, the lie he told you is your smokescreen for your dissatisfaction with his educational background/qualification.
You have married.  Are you starving - does he not bring home the bacon or part of it?  Does he beat you? Is he causing problems for you family?
All the same, if you cannot work past the educational background/qualification, you'd best take your leave.[/color]

knowme:
When i said I loved her I meant it that was why I gave her the time I gave her, If you are going to say she was not into me yea I agree to that, What relationship are you going to go in that you would not expect sex? so where then do I get the sex? am a very sexually active Guy I don't imagine myself having a relationship then forcing myself to go Calibate

[color=#9900ff]Like i said, you keep harping on the patience = love issue.  So you gave her time to get used to the idea of sleeping with you, yeah you must really love her.  Imagine when the patience runs out and she still hasn't gotten to the point of sleeping with you.  .  .well what do you know?  The love starts to diminish and before you know it, it's dead.
Mr knowme, sex is a big part of a relationship but it's not all of a relationship and no matter if it seems inconceivable to have a sexless relationship, people do have those relationship. [/color]

knowme:
Tope what do you mean i should make up my mind? the point is a woman cannot satisfy me alone so I will need something additional, More over my work takes me out alot, I do alot of travelling, so when am out there am Hot I just call on my shortie in that Geolocation and get some rounds before I go back to my woman , so you can't blame the Bruz would you? and you did not answer me question about what Beyonce is saying.

[color=#9900ff]This is a quote from your other thread https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=214456.msg3301357#msg3301357
I totally see why posters are zeroing on the 'big boobies' part of your post.[/color]

[color=#9900ff]So because a survey conducted in the USA (which you have yet to supply with a link) shows a higher percentage for double dating women. . .you concluded that Girls do indeed double date more than guys. The UK survey nko? Russia? China? Canada? Brazil? If the men stuck to their women, the women won't be finding guys to double date. If the women stuck to their men, the men wouldn't be find women to double date. [/color]

[color=#9900ff]You need to work on yourself.
Open your eyes and for once be selfish and think of YOU.[/color]

[color=#9900ff]@Topic True.  In those cases it's better cut your loses and move on.
And those who continue to persist is what we call dense in the head.[/color]

[color=#9900ff]It means your feelings can lead to love.[/color]

knowme:
Tope what do you mean i should make up my mind? the point is a woman cannot satisfy me alone so I will need something additional, More over my work takes me out alot, I do alot of travelling, so when am out there am Hot I just call on my shortie in that Geolocation and get some rounds before I go back to my woman , so you can't blame the Bruz would you? and you did not answer me question about what Beyonce is saying.

[color=#9900ff]Self-justification. A weak one at that.[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Yes. . .it's a man's world.
Though majority of my male friends think female players are just. . .women[/color]

Dual Core:
come my room come warn me na, abeg!
i really need the warning.
come by mid-night and alone plz (food nor plenty here)

100% risk-free. [size=2pt]come at ya own risk o.[/size]

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This room is fine and where there is not plenty food - it's not ideal for me
you dey warn me about risk? I be toxic [/color]

Pepeye:
Not all . . . it’s disgusting really,

[color=#9900ff]Hence why i said i don't know why [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Shared bedroom with very big bed
I don't want to be smashed [/color]

[color=#9900ff]DC Muki say make i warn you


Giff me 2 days na before i start freezing [/color]

OMO IBO:
some women easily get used to a particular lifestyle. their reaction when things change for whatever reason is negative most times. thats why as guys, u need to make ur girl friend understand that she just can't have anything she wants whenever and however she wants it.

[color=#9900ff]For real ooo[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Sorry but rofl. Do you hear yourself? Her tits carried you to her. You consider the money spent a loss. You met and told her 'let's start going out', you love her but keep harping on the point you didn't pressure her. What has one got to do with the other? [/color]

[quote author=Sea~Goddes link=topic=213761.msg3294953#msg3294953 date=1230880151]just let her go, she was never into you at the first place according to ur testmony maybe cox she never liked u at the first sight, no real connection or no deep soul feelings for you or u never gave her time, space to really think bout it thoroughly, she felt pressured. anywaxz whatever the real reasons might be leave her to go, she doesnt like u and it is not going to workout. b.t.w did u want to date her cox she got big boobs and u just wanted sex or that u actually really loved her  _{whichi really doubt}[/quote][color=#9900ff]I agree with this. There are no signs she was into you. [/color]

[color=#9900ff]cool![/color]

[quote author=*Toyinrayo link=topic=214081.msg3298310#msg3298310 date=1230948340]ugly naija men[/quote][color=#9900ff]rofl[/color]

stillwater:
Guys endlessly licking their lips when talking to me. Please that's disgusting!!!

[color=#9900ff]why LLCoolJ does it, ladies like it


I have no idea why [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Have no problem with it.  I plan to try it out, just to see how it is.

Sometimes its just for no much stress. You know combing hair is not easy
Ok am talking about me , i have a problem with all the tangles, i'd rather just wear a wig or something[/color]

[color=#9900ff]LOL!

_{nor listen to muki about my teeth} [/color]

[color=#9900ff]I listened to halo. Don't like it.[/color]

mohawkchic:

~Love White Stripes "7 Nation Army". . love the vid too . .kwel

[color=#9900ff]The beats/melody is just awesome. [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Yeah. . .these artists have some awesome guitars
ok i mean they can play a mean tune
I pretty much like underground music[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Yea MC Blunders in all directions [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Really dig Franz Ferdinand and The White Stripes.
Jack White - mahnnn, guy is talented and eccentric [/color]

[color=#9900ff]i nor wan break pesin this early in the year [/color]

gudtime4us:
Its a pity!! Gone are the good old days when people were given sound and real advice here at nairaland. Now, things have fallen apart, the forum bastardized and miscreants all over making mockery of people. How the hell do you know that this's not real? Do you know the extent we have gone? I don't blame anybody.

[color=#9900ff]Must have touched a nerve to get your knickers in a twist [/color]

[color=#9900ff]_{Moved to Travel}[/color]