₦airaland Forum

cococandy:
I’ll save a plate for you

I'll need more than a plate.

Magnoliaa:
My comment to you was mostly in response to you saying that women are afraid of men or have reasons to be, but will not be afraid of trans-IDed males.


The basis for that fear is biological. And I get it, it is not an irrational, psychotic fear (especially if I haven't experienced anything traumatic from a man). I don't cross to the other side of the street when I see a strange man coming by or do anything like that too. It's just a naturally occurring wariness, or care... a modicum of self-awareness... whatever. And it is simply because they are (socialized) males.

You *cannot* account for every 'trans woman' out there, and categorically state that they haven't been socialised into, and haven't internalised some unhealthy behaviours males are typically raised to exhibit. They are males.

And all males present that hypothetical danger to every woman, regardless of dressing or orientation or intention.


The majority of men are also not *actual* violent killers and criminals, it's only a few of them wrecking the most havoc, but because you cannot tell which man is dangerous, and for purposes of conversation, a baseline safety standards, to mention a few, we say men. We call it male violence against women. Create women-only spaces. And generally encourage women to be 'observant' of their surroundings and take precautions (I do not say this to imply that the burden of being safe from crimes should fall on women).

So is it all trans-IDed males that pose a danger to women? No. But women HAVE been harmed by transwomen, from prisons to bathrooms to other close-contact situations. And it is not just one or two or three or even ten cases.


There was one one time who wanted women at a women-only salon or spa to massage his balls and wax him, because he identifies as a woman, apparently. I don't remember the exact details of the story anymore, and if he brought a suit against them. But cases like these, and more deadly ones exist to justify a reasonable fear of trans-IDed males on the part of women.

And of course, this fact doesn't negate that they can be victims or are victims at the hands of other non-trans-IDed males, right. That's a different subject.

You can Google each of the cases in the picture below to confirm them.

Ordinarily, I've always been of the stance the term 'woman' should always be definable for feminism to also be, and to be a meaningful vehicle for change. That's just in concept. It was in radical feminist spaces that I came across the subject of transgenderism, and "transwomen" by extention.

So that incels and alt rights and others of such are using it/them as a political propaganda is just a side of it.

But it is still a small percentage of violent trans women which is part of even smaller percentage of people that are trans.
And I'm not pro trans women or men, but think it's important not to overestimate the stats.

I had a friend from church whose son tried to commit suicide 2 times because he felt uncomfortable with his sexuality and wanted to transition. The parents who have a lot of resources did everything they could before the 2nd suicide attempt (psychologist, programs, etc). He still tried to commit suicide a 2nd time. The parents (very religious) finally relented while watching their kid in the hospital the 2nd time.. they just wanted their child alive. They are going to allow him to transition and have started using his/her specific pronouns.

All that to say this issue isn't as black and white as some want it to be. There's a lot of very personal context.

cococandy:
I thought I would be okay not eating traditional thanksgiving food this year. Turns out I was lying to myself. Been craving it since thanksgiving so I had to make it.

Roast Turkey, Mac and cheese, candied yams, deviled eggs, green bean casserole, collard greens and some of the cranberry sauce I made last week.

My kind of table!

GloriousGbola:
the biggest irony about the pearl clutching over sex with minors is that the average nigerian conservative men, muslim or christian, really does not see anything wrong with sex with females under the age of 18. we saw a so called conservative on this thread defending a man caught in the uk soliciting sex from a minor. the same brigade that want to 'protect' children from raging child molesting transexuals have no problem with going after the same children - who then become temptresses who led good men into sin.

Most of their arguments are disingenuous.

budaatum:
Remember when you were scared and I kept telling you I had faith in you (the people)?

In a way there weren't enough of you but my faith is unwavering (despite the fact Democrats might lose the next election too).

The piece hit the spot.
This election was eye opening. The moral America that I thought we were, we aren't.
Trump will permanently change US politics for the worse.
And with the prevalence of misinformation and social media, not sure where that leaves us.
And the Dems still don't seem to get it. It's not about Policy.
Had a discussion with one of my brothers over Thanksgiving (smart guy, obviously) and he was going on and on about Dems needing better policies, need to be more union etc. etc.
Was shocked. Trump had no discernable policies. Is anti-union. etc. etc. And he won.
It won't matter what policies Dems adopt, if people don't' hear them because of all the misinformation, it won't matter.
Truthfully, not hopeful in the short term.
America needs a gut punch unfortunately. Like what happened with the UK and brexit.

radautoworks:
Nah, mine's in Lekki. I made it takeout and delivery only so we could focus on the food.

It's a Jamaican spot?
Do you have a menu?

Good Read
https://mattlabash.substack.com/p/casting-a-wide-net

The cognitive dissonance of Trump Supporters never ceases to amaze me.

The same way Fox News trying to pretend it’s anti-establishment is a bad joke. Fox has been the establishment on the right for almost 30 years. They’ve been whipping CNN and MSNBC in the ratings for nearly as long. They make or break just about every Republican nominee. And Republicans now own the presidency, the House, the Senate, and the Supreme Court. But they’re going to rebel against themselves? And pretend they weren’t for all the things they espoused every step of the way, pre-Trump? (George W. Bush, interventionism, the Iraq War, et al. — things I was often against, by the way.)
Great section.

radautoworks:
I'm not there or I would have cooked personally for you at my Jamaican restaurant😉

Maybe you SHOULD go there and give me feedback on what the staff is doing in my absence 🤔

Is that really your spot?
If it is let me know what I should try and what SHOULD be good.

LordAdam16:
That inevitable review is why the family has to sue.

That's like justifying Pfizer CEO not having a protective detail after how charged the whole vaccine situation became.
It was a reckless decision. I'd like to see the jury that nods approvingly when the company's attorney tells them they were scrimping on 8m/yr to secure a guy running a $350B/yr operation.

Big Pharma has a very bad rep. The list of folks with motive is endless.
We're talking victims of the opioid crisis, mental health crisis, the conspiracists, disgruntled relatives, medical debt being the leading cause of bankruptcy. Mix that with gun violence and it's astonishing that they let this guy walk around like he runs a hot dog stand.

In 1992, the President of Exxon was kidnapped from his NJ home. He died in a f*cking storage vault.
Big Oil. Big Finance. Big Tech. They all play the better safe than sorry game.
Meanwhile Big Pharma is waiting for a tragedy before reviewing security practices.
This is peak play stupid games, win stupid prizes.

His family should absolutely sue.

-Lord

Real question, do you know anyone at the partner or c suite level in Big Pharma, Finance or Tech?

Everyone who is actually in the US has told you that's generally not how it works here and you're still here yammering based on your perspective with how things work in Nigeria?

LordAdam16:
Why was it that easy to get to him?
He is the CEO of the largest healthcare company on the planet.
He is at all times a high value target

This is a major security lapse.

-Lord

The kind of questions you ask when you've never stepped foot in the US.
This is not Nigeria, most people don't move around with security, sirens blazing.

armyofone:
Nope, you don't have to share parents to be brothers.
By the way aboki, violence against women / girl child is high in African. Very common in Nigeria.

And his comments perpetuate the negative societal stigma surrounding it.
So survivors don't share their experiences/stories, victims don't report it and so don't get the help they need.
And men also don't talk it openly and get the help they need.

My mind can't even wrap my mind around the mentality it takes to use it as a means of a joke to insult anyone.
It's actually quite diabolical to act as if it isn't common in Nigeria or a lot of women haven't had some form of Domestic or Sexual Violence perpetrated against them.

raumdeuter:
Those are tell tale signs of a failure like your dad was it flows in the blood.

raumdeuter:
A scum of the earth is someone who ghosts a lady who feeds him when it's time to render help to her

A scum is an incel who mentions imaginary of anywhere and everywhere while his mates already have kids in college

What does any of this even mean?
It's hard to imagine you've even dated a woman to write this nonsense.

But, this is what you spend 4 hours a day on, daily.
4 fuxing hours a day writing this nonsense. Nonsense that doesn't even make sense.
Not focused on your life or the family you claim you have. Online writing nonsense and cheering a man whose followers would hang you and the people you say you love.
But you keep writing it, so your other degenerate brethren Bemeruca, who has never stepped foot in the US, can like it.

You spend so much time online, you've radicalized yourself and exposed yourself for the degenerate that your are.
Clap for yourself.
Ask yourself, if your wife, or if you have any kids, read these posts, would they be proud of you?

raumdeuter:
You have been fed by women all over, shows you are broke and a loser

This is sooo hilarious.

When I land in Naij in a few weeks, my girl will not only have arranged someone to meet me as I get off the plane, but will be at the airport waiting with a snack.
She would have also made a grocery run for all the food I eat, all the alcohol I drink and stocked her apartment and had a meal ready in case I'm hungry. Even though I'm not staying with her.

Lol. This loser said woman feed me all over. Lol. Yes they do!!!!

raumdeuter:
You are a failure thats why you need people to feed you at your grown age. Even the other lady that was feeding you, you ghosted her because she supports(not voted) Trump

That shows you are a scum of the earth

So a scum of the earth is
1.) someone who allows their g/f to relieve a stressor for them. (I would hate to see what your marriage if you still have one looks like)
2.) someone who has core convictions and values which I expect anyone close to me to share.

But a scum of the earth is not someone who supports a racist demagogue who he himself believes is a racist demagogue.

You are so deeply broken I feel bad for you.
You have become radicalized by all the time you spend online.
You should really log off and face your life.

raumdeuter:
You have been fed by women all over, shows you are broke and a loser

Yes, woman do feed me. Women I date should take care of me as I do them. It's called a relationship.
And yes, my g/f did loan me not a lot of money (like 500k) so I could have money to pay for lunch when I just flew into Nigeria last minute to surprise her for her birthday and the launch of their charity and I was having bank verification issues (fraud alert because of course it's Naij). Kinda her way of telling me she was a Boss as well.

You really really do sound like a loser who dates other equally losery people.

raumdeuter:
How you went from being taken to dinners by your gay partner deserves to be studied

Libel laws are pretty much the same everywhere in the US, even in Texas.

raumdeuter:
Below is what goes on in the mind of an incel


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You wasted all this time to prove that I have exes and a g/f?
Lol.

You might want to google the word incel.
Posts like this and the amount of time you spend here, kinda sends the message that you are an incel.

Definitions from Oxford Languages
incel
/ˈinˌsel/
noun
a member of an online community of young men who consider themselves unable to attract women sexually, typically associated with views that are hostile toward women and men who are sexually active.
"self-identified incels have used the internet to find anonymous support"

raumdeuter:
Is this man who gave birth to you in a mental home currently? Or while you sat there you were enjoying the WWE action with your parents being the main actors

Not a surprise that a man who sexualizes teenagers also mocks Domestic Abuse victims.
You're clearly a winner of a person.
Your wife surely got a catch there.
And you wonder why I call you a degenerate.

But all this rage because I posted an old past of yours calling Trump a demagogue and a racist.
While for the last year you've been one of his biggest boosters on Nairaland.
Did Trump and supporters stop becoming racists?
Or did your skin color change to white?

dayokanu:
aka Raumdeuter
Aloy-emeka aka Funmi na very fine chic, She is Yoruba I think she is from Ife self. She dey live for US
How old are you? But tpia looks very young for her age and she has very low mileage too, way lower than most teenagers on NL
Hey sweerie is it time for us to get under the sheets and so our thang?

dayokanu:
aka Raumdeuter
If you are 30 then tia is not older than you. and she has the mileage of a 15-16yr old almost cha-cha tear rubber
Funmi I am not sure, she didnt have a boyfriend as at May this year but I dont know now, But the girl set die.
Why are you pitying yourself love?

raumdeuter:
You are an incel who fantasy about imaginary GFs, you are a failure in life, your mates have kids in college you are lonely and live in your moms basement. Your father is a beast who beats your mom for fun while you watch with popcorn and coke. What is the next level of degeneracy you can't go?

You seem to be foaming at the mouth now.

Please tell us how a black man lays down and cheer leads for a man he thinks is a racist?
You do know you're black.
Do you think being racist adjacent will make the racists not be racist towards you or skip over you?
Lol.
I can't with your buffoonery.
No wonder you and Bemeruca get along swimmingly.
Two broken black people,

raumdeuter:
You are the seed of an animal who beats his wife for fun true or false?

You are a pathetic excuse of a human who has failed at all endeavors

You wrote the posts, you should be able to defend them.
This is a thread about American Politics right?

Instead you do what all children like you do, start name calling and getting personal when you can't.
Letting your true degeneracy out for all to see.
It's no surprise you sexualize 15 year old children. Most degenerates do.

Lol.
A black man who is a sycophant for a man HE KNOWS HIMSELF is a racist.
Nothing more despicable than you.

raumdeuter:
How you went from being taken to dinners by your gay partner deserves to be studied

So, this is your chance, show me any post where I said I went to dinner with a gay partner.
I've warned you.

raumdeuter:
The way Kamala went from being anti fracking to pro fracking, How she went from being anti border to pro border, Hw Joe Biden went from no pardon to Yes pardon

How you went from not supporting a racist to supporting a racist.

budaatum:
You way more than "respected their wishes" if we are to be pedantic. You went from knowing him for the maga he is to outright becoming a maga yourself.

Still, that is the beauty of democracy. And I respect your ability to change even if I detest what you've become.

That's not democracy.
That's how a country becomes an autocracy.
That's how someone like Hitler came to power.
His argument is, if the masses wanted Hitler, I'd not only support Hitler, I'd become one of his biggest Nairaland sycophants.
Is that rational?

raumdeuter:
armyofone when you were pleading for me to show mercy on this dog, I heeded and didnt mention him but his madness has taken over him

I will have to treat him in the manner an animal sired by his animalistic father understands

You are just like all Trumpers.
No value, no core, just degeneracy, because you're too weak to stand on your own principles.
Like Degenerate group think.

You have been worshiping a racist demagogue for the last year. Your words, not mine.

The madness.

Fyi, who da fuq are you and what can you ever do to me in the US or Nigeria?

raumdeuter:
He supported Kamala who called out Biden for supporting bussing and became his vice

He supported Biden who repeated multiple times he won't pardon his son but did anyway

Kamala who called border walls a vanity project and later supported border walls

Or the Kamala who opposed fracking and now supported fracking

You should probably sit with the 2016 Raumdeuter and debate yourself to figure out what you believe.
This would be hilarious if it weren't so sad.

How does someone go from Trump is a demagogue and racist with racist followers to Trump is my hero.

Captain Intellectual Dishonesty strikes again.
I didn't even need to read your old posts to see how blatantly dishonest of a person you are.

raumdeuter:
Trump is not a Republican, he is a demagogue.
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He is simply a Trump candidate who represent himself and his fellow racists.
This shows he is not appealing to Republican but to those who want to take their country back

raumdeuter:
Ibime come and get the mentally unstable dog you dragged in

How are those 15 year olds you sexualize in your mind?

Clinton was right, Trump supporters are deplorables.
One minute Trump is a demagogue, a racist and his supporters are racists, the next he's your hero.
Learn to respect yourself.
You're not a child.

Quelle Suprise.
Raumdeuter doesn't really believe the nonsense he posts and changes his morals like underwear.

raumdeuter:
There are actually many Republicans that are in my court which is why we have a "Never Trump" movement in the Republican party headed by Mitt Romney. even Speaker Ryan. Most of the Republican leaders don't really like Trump and many of them are boycotting the convention next month. You have a convention where previous republican candidates up till 1988 are not attending, George Bus Snr, GW Bush, McCain, Romney are all boycotting, Companies like Microsoft, Apple, Google, Walmart etc are boycotting

Trump is not a Republican, he is a demagogue. Few years ago he was democrat. Most of his views are not even republican views. I even believed he was planted by the Clintons in the Republican party to scatter our party. He is a close friend of the Clintons, donated to Hillary and they attended his wedding.

He is simply a Trump candidate who represent himself and his fellow racists, Most of the white Blue collar democrats are now going to vote Trump. This shows he is not appealing to Republican but to those who want to take their country back

Quelle Suprise.
Raumdeuter doesn't really believe the nonsense he posts and changes his morals like underwear.

raumdeuter:
There are actually many Republicans that are in my court which is why we have a "Never Trump" movement in the Republican party headed by Mitt Romney. even Speaker Ryan. Most of the Republican leaders don't really like Trump and many of them are boycotting the convention next month. You have a convention where previous republican candidates up till 1988 are not attending, George Bus Snr, GW Bush, McCain, Romney are all boycotting, Companies like Microsoft, Apple, Google, Walmart etc are boycotting

Trump is not a Republican, he is a demagogue. Few years ago he was democrat. Most of his views are not even republican views. I even believed he was planted by the Clintons in the Republican party to scatter our party. He is a close friend of the Clintons, donated to Hillary and they attended his wedding.

He is simply a Trump candidate who represent himself and his fellow racists, Most of the white Blue collar democrats are now going to vote Trump. This shows he is not appealing to Republican but to those who want to take their country back

diamond68:
yeah but if you want great spots that don’t sell naija food I suggest jamski Jamaican restaurant off adeola odeku, eric kayser off adetokunbo ademola and oceans basket on akin adesola for fish and chips. You can’t go wrong with these 3

That's tough, when I'm in Naij I try go heavy on the Nigerian food.

Thanks for the recs though.
Been to Kayser for lunch a couple of times. Anything on the menu you recommend?
Will definitely try Jamski for lunch one day. But Jamaican food in Nigeria, almost feel like I'm cheating.

Looking at the menus for their offerings and .
These prices though.

diamond68:
hehehehe you are on a roll bro 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 but ermmm everywhere is a disappointment these days truthfully people don’t take pride in cooking anymore. Everyone is looking to make a quick buck. Pushing out substandard product. Having said that, terra kulture on tiramiyu savage street still has the best efo riro and pounded yam I have eaten till date. Wayyyy too pricy though 🤷🏽‍♂️

Thanks. Terra Kulture and Nok were the two places I felt didn't disappoint, as least the dishes I had.
It sux restaurants seem to be less focused on the food.
Was looking for those dishes that just hit the spot.

I'm planning to be in Lagos for Christmas and want to eat my way through the holidays.
Anyone know of any great restaurants with great traditional food In the VI area?
Usually go to the well publicized ones but have been disappointed with some as of late.
Thanks.

raumdeuter:
Trump boldly said he would pardon himself or anyone and He did, Biden said multiple times he would never pardon Hunter and he turned around to do what he said he wouldnt for many mnths

Biden : Nobody is above the law. Oh wait
Spot the hypocrite

The type of post you write when you're a bonafide troll

Trump literally made the father of his son in law, he pardoned for some serious and sick crimes the US ambassador for France. And you are worried that Biden pardoned his son who was actually selectively prosecuted.

Some of the stuff these Trumpers write on this thread are too stupid for words.
I'm not even sure why anyone with a life wastes their life writing nonsensical stuff like this hour after hour.