HardMirror: 1. Are children of these days worse than the older generation?
I see a lot of myopic comments claiming the world has spoil finish. This is not true. Underage children has been engaging in stupid things from the days of Adam and Eve. Children that grew up in an environment where they learned about sex early always end up having sex early. When I was still in Primary school in the 1990s, I knew some of my classmates who where already sexually active and I attended one of the best schools in Jos.
The problem is the internet only makes it easier for children these days to get access to porn and things that corrupt them. Children will always do stupid things it is not a new thing or a big deal sef. They are children and need guidance.
Many of us judging these kids 2ould have used our phones to watch porn if we had smart phones back in our days too. Children are curious and porn would interest them.
2. Private Schools with wahala. This Is another short sighted thought people are propagating. They think private schools are terrible in management. They are talking of Dowen collage cultism and now chrisland issue. They say private schools are over rated. Well, they are wrong. If any child trusts you and tells you what happens in their schools, You will fear god.
Secondary school girls are doing runs in public schools and all their classmates know The boys are doing yahoo. They have cults too. Infact cultism from secondary school is very very old especially public schools.
3. Only girls are victims people have been one sided judging matters always against the males. If not for the video leak, many Nigerians were already out calling for the heads of the boys. Women know they can always get public sympathy and they are abusing it. They are using it unduly to revenge and hurt people they dont like. They cry rape when they need to deal with a man. Is it not a possibility that it was the girl that initiated the truth or dare game? Do we even know if it was the girl that initiated sex with those boys? We dont have these answers yet people jumped into conclusion and many even insisted that the girl must have been drugged by the boys because they believe only boys can be bad. Girls are always good
4. Where did we go wrong? Humans have always been bad, humans would always make bad life decisions. Children particularly would do things that are wrong because that is how children are. Exposure to social media is not helping them, giving them mobile phones is not helping, movies, music are all confusing them.
The worst influence on these girls are Ladies. You ladies always twerking online, always taking suggestive videos. The only thing you do on tick tok is dance and twerk. You sexualize every picture you take even pictures you take in church. The younger girls begin to develop the wrong mindset that sex is the most important thing most of you girls cannot take a picture without emphasizing your butt or boobs. . The reason why I focused on women towards the end is because there is this assumption that it is men that sexually expose children. The moment a child is discovered to be sexually adventurous, the public begins to ask that all the men in the family including the dad of the child be suspected. This has been the way it has been for ages, men Are always the evil ones in the eyes of the society. That is why the mum of the chrisland girl came out to play the same old rape card instead of addressing the moral delinquency issue of the children involved
The yeye girls mother came out to say nonsense. That made her daughter the target simple. The blame was on the school and the parents apparently.
Nothing has changed. It's just more freedom and Access to the internet has made the world a global Village. And bear in mind also that bad news travels a thousand miles before good news even buckle up it's shoes. So with that in mind, things like this can easily be recorded and will surely go viral.
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God forbids and I reject every thing that has to do with deportation or anything like that in your life and others in Jesus name amen. Can't wish Nigeria upon my enemy sef. May you over succeed over there, wherever you are in the mighty name of Jesus Christ. Amen. Enjoy
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tshtsh: I never worked in the west. Was a student (4 years in Maryland and 2 years in Edinburgh). In Nigeria my employer has also never owed me ( on my third job now). But I’m aware that some organisations face this challenge but my strategy has been to only work for well established multi-national organisations due to their stability and structure
shege45: You just come online and talk rubbish because you can. Abi this one pain you. That was how i felt. I am satisfied. Next time you won’t try this. Cow
perambulator: Mainland Europe is the contiguous continent of Europe, excluding its surrounding islands. Yes Spain in my experience is the most blatantly racist country I have ever been to, you can actuallly "feel" the racism in the air.
BTW it is "worse" not "worst"
I stand to be corrected. How could I have made such a mistake.
shege45: you be mumu bro. They asked the cons and I replied, I tell you said I wan go back? I don’t normally insult pple here but dis ur reply pain me. E no go better for ur mamA. Idiot Low life person U fit b small pikin wey dey hide behind phone. If
My mom is late and may my ancestors make them deport you and never allow any country in the west allow you to enter their soil ever again. I won't insult your mom my mom brought me up better. But upon you o lord do I cast this man and his insult upon my mother who is late to bear. May he not ever make it when he gets deported to Nigeria in the mighty name of our lord . Amen
Khareem06: How A Fraudulent Agent Duped Me of N1.5m, And How I Eventually Relocated To Canada Without Using An Agent
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After all the read you still say we should click on that link again...na wa for you
abike12: hmm... it's a lot more complicated than that but let me explain it like this. Black people didn't cause racism, even from history. We never asked anyone to call us monkeys or associate black skin with negative things. Don't think of it as something we can cause, it's more like something that was (and is still) done to us. If you take time to read news from around the world, especially pertaining children, you will see that in most cases it's not about how law abiding (or not) the person is, it's about a system that has been designed to treat black people a certain way, even from a young age. Romance fraud is very common in russia and other countries, even some of the so called "nigerian princes" are not even black, but why is it always a bigger deal when it's a black person caught in a crime. Look at how netflix portrayed the tinder swindler and anna delvey, do you think the narrative would have been the same if they were black? I'm not supporting criminal activity and I don't even have as much as a speeding ticket but it's incorrect to say that africans contribute to racism. People of all races commit crimes.
Abike Omo Yoruba..wa gbayi. Smart and insightful statements.