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[quote author=pleasureosondu post=120102069][/quote]You can only love someone/something that's valuable. A lady with good qualities is easily lovable but the issue is, she needs to be taught. Who should be her teachers?? Definitely the parents. Of course, each parent has unique qualities so if any of the parent is absent via separation, the effects is the increase in divorce we see today.
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This thing you said is not as true and accurate as you think it is.

Children will eventually grow up and make a decision for themselves. So no matter our best efforts, we can only hope and pray they turn out well.

pleasureosondu:
A good tree cannot produce bad fruits.

And in Africa, marriage is inclusive. Meaning that your in-laws are part of your household. Therefore, it's basically impossible to ignore the family background of your in-laws

Friend, there's no linage that's perfect without their challenges.
So you know no one in your extended family whose marriage has failed?

I never said ignore family background, but what should be of overriding importance is the person you are marrying not their family tree.

Genesis 2 said 'a man will leave his mother and his father and stick to his wife'.

Treat your partners in accordance with Biblical injunctions, by so doing you will succeed.

Naira20:
Unfortunately, we are not discussing you or your marriage. We are addressing avoidable pitfalls.
What makes a fool happy may sadden a wise man.

The question again is
Is it advisable to marry a lady from a broken home.

And you are 100% certain yours won't be broken in the future?

pleasureosondu:
Agree it wasn't the kid's fault but do we should now continue to trend and accept divorce? If parents divorce with flimsy excuses, what guarantee do you have that their innocent ( now adults) won't do same to their partner? And it's always the ladies that are quick to file for divorce. Just check Nairaland's front-page

Let me say this: Marry only if you truly love a person, not their parents. Isaac set a good example because Genesis 10 informs us he married Rebekah because he 'fell in love'.

If you show your spouse love as defined at 1 Cor. 13:4-8, they will love you in return and won't divorce even if their parents were divorced.

But if you treat your partner with contempt, He or She will leave.

Honour and love your wives, love and respect your husbands and have no fear, your marriage will make a success!

Naira20:
Those who have ear have heard.

You are free to go and marry them.

Happily married for 6 years now and counting. Superstition is not an ingredient to a healthy marriage!

In comparison to those raised in a two-parent family, single parent upbringing are less successful. That's to be expected as two is always better than one, but it's not a rule and so there should be no needless generalisation.

Anyone contemplating marriage must look not just at a partner's upbringing but on the person deep qualities, personality traits and conviction, these must align for two cannot walk together except by agreement.

By and large, there no perfect man or woman, no perfect marriage and marriage is not made in heaven but on earth.

If two persons irrespective of their background invite God to be the third Cord in their marriage and if they possess the fruitage listed in Galatians 5:22-24 their marriage will succeed.

oloriooko:
So if you don't marry them who will, angels?

Just help ask these set of wicked people in Nigeria.

You stigmatize people for their ethic nationality, their dialect and even their family make-up as if any was their fault.

We are more Racist to ourselves than Europeans are to us!

Naira20:
If it's up to you alone, Avoid it.
Except there's a clear Divine instruction or she hates living that life.

Most times, it affects them negatively and they'd take it out on you.

Be wise

Continue saying nonsense, wise one!

You have stigma and think you are spiritual and wise!!!

It's needless that your Headline is misleading, you must not disparage other tribes or ethic nationality even in a joke as this is a bad joke.

The insecurity in the East; Abia, Imo, Enugu, Anambra and Ebonyi States are perpetuated by Igbos not Fulani or any other foreign tribe.

As a resident of the East who have lived in every State of the East, the advent of IPOB and ESN has done more harm than good in all ramifications.

Those who continue to support the activities of these criminals who carryout evil in the name of a fathom nightmare called Freedom from Nigeria when Nigeria is not their problem will meet their Waterloo no matter how long it takes. Evildoers will never go unpunished.

He might not be guilty of murder.

It's left for his lawyer to put up a strong defence for Man-slaughter.

A smart lawyer will make sure the Nigerian Police Force also share in the blame for the incident for issuing an ASP an AK-47 rifle in 2022.

He can also plead that the officer was working longer hours than required by international labour laws without adequate rest and good mental health care.

Plus if he pleads guilty right away, there will be no trial just straight to Judgement which will be too bad for him.

As an ASP he understands very well the workings of the law, so let him stand his trial.

He can also plead for leniency on the ground that the ASP has served the country for good 33years.

So it's a essentially a work related accident and not necessarily a murder case.

JoshTim:
Your head no correct, under what condition?

You are mad but have no one to tell you and help you, idiot.

JoshTim:
https://www.nairaland.com/2281798/opinion-code-ethics-nigerian-journalists

Read 10 and 3

You are not serious at all.

So you didn't see Public Interest in your Code of Conduct? Was that even a family meeting?

You APC people should have some shame and decorum!

JoshTim:
All the medias present obtained invitation/permits....you can't just go and cover events without those two. Go and read the law of privacy. Am done talking about this.

Arise was duly invited and if they were not invited are entitled to be there. They are licensed to operate in Nigeria.

BAT hates criticism especially from Arise. If by error he becomes President, Arise will be in hot soup!

JoshTim:
Oga, this is an inhouse event.....you don't even the law you are quoting. Permission needs to be taken to cover inhouse events.

It was not a party meeting nor was it a meeting of the PCC, so how was it an in-house event?

The press was present, only the BAT team wanted to control the narrative, which is unnecessary given that the uncensored video is important for the electorate in their decision making progress.

What are you people hiding?

JoshTim:
Covering an event without taking permits is unlawful. Anyways, BAT is winning. Ipeegs and obidatis for the loss.

This is a lie. Freedom of information act is clear on matters like this. A public event should be covered by media houses, talk more of an election event.

It should be livestreamed from beginning to end QED.

The media team of BAT is only trying to protect their principal from ridicule by refusing to livestream the event.

They want only the edited version out.

This is wrong. The event should be live streamed so that viewers can see when dippers would be changed.

If you have nothing to hide from the viewing public, why intend to release an edited pre-recorded video clip?

Na you wan tell another administration wetin to do abi?

This matter is Headquartered in Anambra State.

They worship money.

They say it's Africa Traditional Religion but it's simple Occultic Religion.

Spending a few months in Anambra especially Ihiala and Okija, convinced me to leave Nigeria and it's backward thinking materialistic lazy and entitled youths- there's no redemption for this generation!

EtinosaDLaw:
Make una nor vex o, did we ask Tinubu to show us the calibre of his team? Who cares about his team ?? Are we voting for his team? I'm sure they came up with this excuse in the car on their way to Chatham House because it's obvious that the person who suggested it didn't think it through.


Behold, the thought process of an average agbado urchin:


Basically, what this guy is saying is that when a Neurosurgeon is called to sit for an exam, rather than provide answers to his questions, he will bring Interns and Nurses to answer them for him in order the show the examining body the virility of his team since he won't be operating on the brain alone. This is the SAME thought process that they used in coming up with: "Someone that attended Chicago State University, is it secondary and primary school that did not go to?" when you ask them for the name of the Primary and Secondary schools Thiefnubuu attended.

A clear case of examination malpractice, coming to exam hall with machineries.
You have to pass the exam yourself first before you qualify to lead the team or assemble the team for the task ahead.
So this is malpractice nothing less!

The safety, health and wellbeing of its personnel has never been a priority to the NPF, otherwise why would a heavily funded organisation like NPF not afford to fly their men and women for such a long hull journey as Borno to Akwa-Ibom?

Some many avoidable deaths occur in the Nigeria, this accident and death was avoidable if we place the right premium on life.

Those who wrecked Nigeria should fix it before I return two decades from now God willing.

Leaving the country has helped me reduce my lamentations drastically.

Quite wishful thinking but a good read.

See no need for the hurried optimism.

Nigeria is full of surprises and has never failed to disappoint. The country is capable of making this deep dive analysis a waste of time and intellect.

In the main time, I am enjoying exchanging 1 pound for as high as N900.

Those who wrecked the country should fix it. I am the least bothered.

Warmaterial:
are u listening to yourself? I want u to check if ur making sense because an adult suppose to reason very fine as an adult rather ur here reasoning like a toddler...

How would an adult have reasoned?

Blaming God for your failure is the 'very fine' way to reason?

ADecadeAddict:
You're an idiot.

You sound bitter, understandably.

prciouschika:
Are you a Jehovah's witness?

Yes please

Natural disasters are not caused by God because God does not cause wickedness.

They are mostly the resultant effects of man's greedy exploitation of earth's resources and the uneven stress on earth's structure.

Satan, who is the ruler of the earth (world) and who has the means to cause death, delights in causing death, should be blamed and not Almighty God.

God has allowed humans rule themselves under the influence of Satan to proof Satan a lier and show humans that only him is qualified to provide guidance.

This is why God will not intervene until the fullness of time when he, by means of Christ rule undo the works of the devil bringing an end to human rule and Satan's influence on the earth. The earth, he will restore to paradise as he originally proposed, then no natural disasters will occur again.

Until then, he is giving all of us an opportunity to repent and worship Him in accord with His standards. No human government can save humanity, only God's Kingdom will.

Allahmuzayaf:
Lol,you mean God intentionally created natural disasters to kill his creations just to fulfill the Bible prophecies?lol

Anyone with a working brain will know that If there is a God then God causes natural disasters. Such a God would have no interest in stopping natural disasters. If we take as an example the Abrahamic God, he is reputed to have murdered the whole population of the planet in a flood except for one family.
Does that make God evil?yes
Why can't he stop them?be like say em dey enjoy the steady death of his children.
Why can't this same God release those kidnapped victims?baba no dey exist.
It's simple logic abeg

Killington:
Ikpeazu na bastard sha

Big world renowned Bastard!

XerXers:
Did past governors clear all salaries? I entered Aba from Uyo recently, I lodged at Milverton. The roads have improved. The underground drainage is commendable even Sullivan couldn't do it

Past governors for almost 8years?

Even if the former thieves owed debt, it was no where close to the current debtor.

And he inherited assets and liabilities so no excuse is tenable.

He pays himself and should pay others.

0bjpmb:
On a normal level Nigerian level, Abia indigenes should be protesting right now but ediots like NwekereNdoki is here deceiving himself. Okezie is owing almost one year salary arrears, dilapidated roads almost everywhere in Abia state, so what exactly did this clown achieved as a governor. The useless center table Aba flyover is a substandard nonsense that was built by carpenters, the enter access roads are all dilapidated. The money wasted on the useless needless substandard aba flyover should have been used to fix numerous dilapidated roads in abia state particularly aba

I hope the guy is not beyond redemption

NwekereNdoki:
Speackng of Industries. It's on record that Okezie Ikpeazu resucitated Golden Guniea breweries.

Also Ikpeazu built and comision Enyimba Leather Factory where thousands of shoes are produced till date.

Ikpeazu attracted Ruyi Group (one of the biggest textile company in China) and is working with Geometric to work again. He hasn't done eough but he surely did something. When he leaves office he next governor will continue from where he stoped.

I am from Ndoki in Rivers State and My mum is from Ugwunabo (part of Aba). I also have families in Ukwa East (Still Ndoki people)

SO my dear, I know the Aba I went to in 2015 and the Aba I just visited last month.

Where I know that he did woefully bad is in the area of salary payment, education and healthcare. For roads, I still holds that he is better that his predecessors in ABIA STATE so far. We only hope for the best as we approach 2023.

Saying he did nothing is like saying Aba is same as it was 8 years ago, and I won't accept that!

Please you are annoying me now, is there road in Ugwunabo and Ukwa both West and East? The Ndoki part of the State is there road.

The shoe nonsense you mentioned, the one that was closed after the sham commissioning?

You visited only a part of Aba, I live and do business in Aba. I come from here.

So someone that built a few roads, contracts he used to defraud the state of billions of Naira, refuses to pay over 10months of salary arrears and 4years pension arrears is doing well?

Make una try to dey educated, enlightened, well read and well traveled, e go help eradicate mediocrity, nativity and foolery from una life.

0bjpmb:
Stop deceiving yourself this aba clown. Abia is the worst and most backward state in Nigeria. Umuahia is a glorified village and the worst state capital in Nigeria while Aba is a shithole littered with dilapidated roads and filthy environment.

No let him continue to disgrace his village people here.

Whatever Ikpeazu managed to do in Aba, anyone could have done better.

While campaigning, he promised to make Aba an industrial haven, make the markets modern international markets. What has he done to fulfill those empty promises he made?

Ariaria international market remains a mess and highly disorganized place.

Someone like Ikpeazu is only fit for a Barman or hotel manager role.

XerXers:
OUK and TAO ruined Abia, ikpeazu has tried his best within the power of resources available to the state.

You are making excuses for a thief. A man only good at drinking and womanising with state funds.

A man that's never available to attend to the daily demands of his office.

A man that has benefited only himself and family.

Ikpeazu is running around now because he knows he deserve time in jail after next year.