siofra:
I understand this is Nigeria where people are crazy about connections. People think that because you're from their village, you're supposed to give them a free pass. They won't go through the normal process, and when you refuse, they start to hate you and spread rumours about you.

It is happening to me at the place I work. It's becoming too much because I won't budge. Sometimes I feel like crying. How do I get around this? Why won't people just do things the right way I've never expected anything from anyone because they are from my village or because I know them.

I feel like I won't be able to stand my ground any longer.

adventisty:
Dear Nairalanders,
The attached picture is my daughter and currently missing.

She was last seen at OYO town in OYO state about one week ago.
She is 22 year old.

Please, if you have any information on it, kindly visit the nearest police station or call : 08062205597.

Thank you ALL...


Please, moderator kindly help move this to the front page.

vibrant40:
I see and appreciate every reasonable comment here no matter how hurting it looks.

Mind you, I took the story from our early days at the university, we are both grad now and she is 29.

momsloved:
https://www.nairaland.com/7735286/husband-wants-us-relocate-village#123920640


I'm sorry that I have to create this post. From my previous post, some people have adviced me to edit my post to indicate my state of residence Incase of an assistant, but I tried to edit, and I'm not giving the access maybe because it was pushed to front page. That's why I created this.
After much thought and advice, I have decided not to relocate to the village with my husband and it's not a violence situation.

This is not an act of disrespect either, but I want to be strong for my children. The only issue I have now, is how to secure a cheaper accommodation and I'm sure between now and new year, I will work harder to meet up with next rent.
Pls, should you have any way you can be of help, pls Help us.
I'm in Abuja. Thank you
@KOMBE, @valentineuwakwe, @eminikansoso

Racoon:

https://www.thecable.ng/yari-its-unfair-to-have-leaders-of-all-three-arms-of-government-from-the-south/amp

Timoleon:
Is that what you tell your father everyday? Such a useless man.

dre11:
Ex-Governor Yari Lands In London Hospital After Losing Senate Presidency To Tinubu’s Candidate, Akpabio Despite Paying Senators Millions Of Dollars



https://saharareporters.com/2023/06/19/exclusive-ex-governor-yari-lands-london-hospital-after-losing-senate-presidency-tinubus

StagethemTVee:
It’s my 17th wedding anniversary today and I would love to share a few tips.
1. Unmet expectations are the No 1 causes of divorce. Act like the success of the marriage depends on only you.
2. Communication must never stop. Avoid malice and separation under the guise of recovering or getting your heads straight.
3. You are one in the marriage and no party should feel like they are less.
4. Don’t involve family members in your marriage under the guise of seeking advise. Get a mentor with several decades of successful marriage.
5. Spend some time away from the stress together to bond and connect.
6. Be in the circle of people with successful marriages.

Happy 17th wedding Anniversary to me and my boo.

DamianDd:
My dad is a really good guy, I love him so much and he's gentle most times. Though he gets angry sometimes but he's reasonable about everything he does.

I came home 11:30 which is very late and I knew that and I even hated it too that I came home this late so I was trying to avoid him even when he asked to come to his room because I had a gut feeling that things won't gi right.




Wonders shall never end!! Pele O... Otedola and Dangote combined

But I ended up going to get my charger that was with him, then for the first 5 minutes in he was making sense about why I came home late and I was agreeing to it that it's true

Then all of a sudden he starts saying "what will people think?" "Neighbors are watching" "they'll start saying god forbid, like father like son" "I nor fit let my pikin be like this boy" "which kind family be this, see when their son dey come house?" "People are watching, people are judging" and even more words and it started getting annoying to me, then he said they will say "see when this small pikin dey come house"

It was at that moment that I shut it down, I've never been that way to him but it was so infuriating, I told him I'm not a child I'm 18 which is legal age, I work for my money, I make 50k to 300k a month on my own; no neighbors give me food when I'm hungry, the landlord doesn't clean my eyes when they hurt from viewing my phone too much so I don't give a Bleep what they think of me. I told him to not put all those orientations in my head because it affected me alot when I was younger and it made me timid and shy and scared of being myself or having different opinions and that's what I'm trying to fix in myself and my mindset now.

What I do feel bad about is last year I paid for the house rent and packing when I had alot of money, I brought it up when I was talking to him and said "I paid for this house with my own money so who is landlord or the neighbors for me to be sacred to come in and out of my own home, I know what I did is wrong and I'm sorry but don't put those bad thoughts in my head" I shouldn't have said that though by bringing up what I did for family. He only called me back and said "don't worry I won't talk to you anymore until I use my own money to pay for the house next time" I didn't say anything because i know I was wrong and nothing good would come out of talking back, I just left his room.



What's your thoughts on the matter?

Jennyclay:
Oh No!! Not again

Another barbaric, animalistic, heartless and wicked behavior carried out by these useless men. Why are Nigerian men this wicked

The perpetrators of this crime should be caught and sentenced to death ASAP.

nlfpmod:




https://twitter.com/Shoteh_O/status/1669484814754369536?t=f2ReyFfGBAMESvaGn0j7sA&s=08

slawomir:
Damnnn niggar
This is how to know a president that will fail

Removing his perceived enemies from office and installing his friends
Installing his own personal thief in office

#Tinubumustgo

You know the funny thing tinubu and his supporters are so annoying





Here! Your daftness is nauseous
Wait them dey feel say everybody na mumu for this country.....why are they trying to distance themselves from Buhari's failure....same Buhari tinubu and his followers forced on us!

bennybuhari:
Anybody knows who this Senator is?

Jibabs2:
Who will arrest him? 🤔

Oluwaseunbandur:
They are just busy fixing themselves in a juicy positions while we keep fighting on nairaland

greatiyk4u:
Thanking him for what exactly?
Is Wike a Senator? Did.he vote? Maybe he sponsored the vote buying expenses I guess.


Tinubu is just signing Bill's and his agbadorians are hailing him, what will happen when he starts executing the details of the Bill's signed?

Small thing too dey excite Nigerians especially the local champions who have never experienced ideal society.

If Tinubu is not afraid of Northerners, why is the aviation minister that did Nigerians April fool still not questioned?
What of Malawi?


Subsidy removal without palliative or plans
Students loan without bank
Boarder opening without regulation
Electricity bill without disbanding the cabal in the Discos
Removal of CBN Bose without fx harmonization

These are nothing to rejoice about until they become fruitful.

Ihateheadslamer:
He should tell Wike to learn how to dress properly

RingRoadMafia:
Hilda Baci prepared for 4 years to achieve what she now has today. She made consultations, met with sponsors, held press conferences and luncheons prior to her stepping on the spotlight. Representatives from Guiness World Records were flown into the country to monitor the process and by God's grace and Her hard work, it has ended in praise.

Now, one opportunist pastor in Ekiti woke up one morning and decided he will use one of his employees to whip up the same sentiments in order to raise funds for their church "Spirit Word Global Ministries". They found a venue and started addressing someone with zero culinary certification as "Chef Dammy". The plan was simple: Tell people shes contesting to break Hildas record. They actually didn't see it going this far until jagabandists in their rage of jealousy concluded that perhaps people weren't supporting Dammy because she's Yoruba and not as posh as Hilda. That was all the fuel the flame needed to burn; Tribalism, as usual.

The whole "Chef Dammy" debacle is a ridicule and a blatant insult to Hilda's efforts and indeed that of everyone else who has ever applied for GWR certification. "Chef" Dammy and her church are not even known or acknowledged by the Guinness World Records because they NEVER applied for it.

Hilda cooked nonstop for 100 hrs night and day, but its a verifiable fact that Dammy goes to sleep at night, at which point they switch off the I.G Live and switch it back on at day break but they still add the time she slept to her purported 120 hours 🤡

*Dammy also charges payment for entry

*Dammy also charges payment for food

*Dammy cooks repetitively easy meals like noodles and spaghetti every single day!

*Dammy stops to take and make phone calls

*Dammy stops to pose for photos.

*Dammy turns off gas to pick beans

All these are violations of GWR guidelines and apart from the fact that GWR has not even acknowledged her, she herself has NEVER categorically said that she's gunning for a Guiness World Record.

LagosFirstSon:
Initial gragra as usual . Buhari did more than this at the begining of his first Time.

But seriously, Bola Tinubu is too ugly , president no fit am.

Kukutenla:
Tomorrow's movie go too sweet
I hope they don't start throwing chairs and tantrums

chisomkachy:


https://twitter.com/tvcnewsng/status/1668161719191912448?t=6NrzoFFAdNT0LiaaZKQQxg&s=19

Sucre6:


Lols, wait until the man use gun shoot u before u go react, someone dehumanized you u still dey look for excuse for am, so him dehumanizing the op is constitutional abi, ?

Abeg no quote me sounding defeated

YouandiAllofus:
How can she carry her own food to a date in a public restaurant? Broke guyz should just stop pretending and avoid the outing part or any other monetery part that will lead to emberasement at the end of the day. Things are so expensive to the point that 10k no dey even reach to drink bear and cat-fish peper soup again

Jennyclay:
Please can you just shut up and let us hear word

You broke men are the most disgusting and irritating men living on earth. Why would he go on a date without holding enough money

I’m very sure the lady was on her own jejely when the broke fool asked her on a date.

How much is 12k that the broke fool refused to pay?? Eh?? How much??
If a guy take me out, only a bottle of red wine I will order alone is over 8k and we haven’t even talked of food and other things.

Big shame on all broke men!!! Shame!!





What an entitled gluttonous b**ch

allen113:
Couldn't even impregnate a real porn star

That tweet got me laughing though.

HitlerWasRight:


See the rubbish this supposed legislator is saying.

You can't account for how you came about money abi ?

Lutherblaq:
ehya ahh!!
see handsome man oh chai! he don go follow Buhari do abracadabra now all this handsomeness go waste fo kuje abi na kirikiri prison..

oh Emefiele and buhari don go buy shege.. know na only ememumu go see the shege alone ..

may konji no go kill em wife oh..





Wetin this one dey talk now 🤣

hehehe this mean say e belong
to nobody, e belong to everybody

Tallesty1:
They have started the premature hyping again. This is similar to what happened with everything about Buhari, he was hyped from his body language to total silence and we know what followed next.

Girlee:


I don't know what you meant by "your story nor get gel"
While some would call it one minute madness, I'd say that was my one minute cry out.
I've always endured this but tonight, I thought of writing it and sharing it as a post instead of keeping it locked in my diary.
Somehow, I regret sharing it on here but it's irreversible already.




You are obviously confused! How sure are we that you are not even lying in your Father?? You words are not coherent. You better stay in your father's house and face your reality or go into the streets and "hustle"

I will pray, God will hear me one day and send me an angel.
I won't run away from home. Yeah! Coz the street is cruel. Sometimes, home is too but I'd rather endure the cruelty from home than from the street.
I know I belong in a home, a family and not on the street.
I'll be fine sha😒...
In God I trust, He always comes through for His own

Osariemen12:
Death to all Tinubu supporters.

Solution21:
All I know is that currently Mr Eazi is richer than Davido, Wizkid, Burna Boy, and Olamide put together