₦airaland Forum

fiizznation:
Hypocrisy in this country stinks to high heavens. You see people insulting Islam over what is a norm in the suppose "holy south" were a girl leaves her parents home to be with her man friend even when she is 14yrs. The funny thing about the people insulting Islam is that they are dirty people doing all sorts of dirty and abominable things.

How can a sane man "abduct" a supposed sane girl from beyelsa to kano without her full consent? Does it even make any sense? So yunusa forced the girl into a cab all the way from bayelsa to kano without facing any resistance from her or without anybody noticing? This is the very vital question the "holy ones" need to ask themselves

Consent does not come to play in this matter as she's an under-aged child, still under the care of her parents until she reaches the age of consent.


You cannot just wake up one day and move another man's child to another state without her parents consent (even if she agreed to it), it's kidnapping. You cannot elope with an under-aged child either.

This is not how sane human beings conduct marriages, you simply cannot take another man's child as your wife without her family being involved. What does it even say about your Northern culture if such a filthy barbaric act is seen as accepted?

Please let's stop glorifying nonsense and mis-deeds in the name of culture.

Toks2008:
Before i dwell on the matter i would like to welcome every Lady Nairalander who has perfected the act of E-cursing to come on board especially those who are still far from the reality of marriage to call me names like monster,misogynist or any other name that comes to your mind.

Yes we know that philandering is a hell bound sin and adultery is very sinful so this is not about justifying or encouraging the act but does that change the fact that a man who will cheat on you will do and some guys will never cheat on the woman in their life but unfortunately there is no way this can be written on their foreheads.

Many ladies hate to hear the word "Polygamy" but do you know that POLYGAMY IS THE ANSWER TO THE PRAYERS OF MANY LADIES such as:

1.Many never married single ladies in the late 30s and in their 40s.
2.Many lady divorcées with children.
3.Many widows in their 30s and 40s

Apparently it is the married men that will fancy these set of ladies MORE and only a lady in their shoes will relate perfectly to my stands and i believe it makes no sense for a man to divorce an innocent wife because he desires another woman.

How hypocritical it is that ladies will prefer a man to be married to them alone and keep side dishes rather than for the same hubby to marry more wives and remain faithful to them? Same ladies that talk down on polygamy will be the same having affairs with married men and i just wonder at the level of hypocrisy and foolishness.

And even more pathetic is the fact that a lady will divorce her husband because he decides to marry or date another lady just for her to end up as a mistress to another married man or starts sleeping around shamelessly after divorce.
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SO IF YOU ARE NOT READY FOR THE POSSIBILITY OF SHARING YOUR HUSBAND WITH ANOTHER WOMAN EITHER AS A MISTRESS OR ANOTHER WIFE PLEASE DON'T BOTHER GETTING MARRIED.[/size]

I know many ladies will say a man should also be ready to share his wife too but please you are free as a lady to marry more than one husband at the same time if you can


This is not the way it should be but a fact you must accept as a lady or stay single for life.

Your whole post is baseless rubbish but first of all:

I wonder how as a man you know so much about women and what women want or what a woman should be or act like.

For someone who does not have female hormones or a uterus, you sure have a lot of opinions.

Plus, you always seem to go on and on about marriage and women in general.


First of all grow a uterus, then maybe you will stop disturbing people with these posts which are obviously based on your own personal orientation.

ineedajobfast:
where is MrsPhyno?

Nobody cares.

Why is Phyno dark in one picture and fair the next??

He's bleaching or nah?

popesam1:
Who told you I'm unemployment boy! I think you should get on with ur life

Sorry...but you sound unemployed.

My bad,

DashMeYansh:
Such a fvcking Retard you are. I made my intentions known right from when I was flirting with her. You missed the part where I said I was out for a hook up?...Dumbfvck. I was annoyed on her telling me the No-sex till marriage bullshiit after I had started "investing", that's just plain rude.

I use $50 as gas money in a month something you use to feed your family in a year now fvck outta here of you can't give respectable opinions

Hahahahaaaaaa....

Get your broke ass out of here.

See as the thing pain you, you come dey give long explanation. Who send you?

LOSER!!!!

Who is he seducing?

Someone that looks like The Michellin Man.

Any woman who gives her husband all her salary every month is just doing eye service.

popesam1:
In DJ Khaled Voice: Another One

LOL...Keep peppering, it won't take you out of chronic unemployment neither will it bring food to your table.

Be happy for others maybe God will shine favour upon you.

DashMeYansh:
[b]Aight, so theres this girl in one of my classes and shes been giving me the look but as a faithful guy to my Side-chick and ex-girl I always "boned" face for her.

Now the opportunity is open to hook up with her and probably start a relationship with her. So yesterday we went to see Ride along 2(Yes, we jobless on a Monday). After the movie she suggested a Chinese/Korean restaurant and we went.

Now as I was about dropping her she said thank you and we was making out in the car. So we stopped and I was like you want me to come inside and watch a movie(Sly things ) but she told me that sorry she doesn't believe in pre-marital sex

I "just weak". I wasn't sure how to respond...I spent almost $50 on our date and I hate Chinese and don't even watch movies . I have been enraged ever since I didnt even bother to pick her calls and the look on her face in class today showed that she knew we were done before we even started.


Ladies why don't you tell us stuff like this before we take you on dates?...It is a sin and I pray ladies that do it don't make heaven...Hungry Gold-Diggas, if it's Chinese you want SHOW some Dignity and stop giving fake looks to scam us if we not yo type, I might at least give you $20

So ladies why do you do this and Guys what will be yo reaction cus I have lost interest in her?[/b]

It says more about your mentality when you take a girl out for a meal and expect sex in return.

No one forced you to spend your 50 quid on a dinner date, you could easily have used meagre savings at the local market to buy ingredients for soup, that way you don't have to come here to lament to us because you didn't get sex in exchange for food.

A sense of entitlement is a terrible thing, she owes you nothing just because you decided to splurge on a date. Next time act and think like a decent human being.....not every girl has fish brain.

LOL..Btw who does this tho?? I spent 50 USD so I must fu$k you. LOL. Loser.

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popesam1:
Chai! Men don suffer, after she don Bleep many pricks, she's now forming house wife abi.
Wahala dey for men

Her husband doesn't care tho.....why the thing dey pepper you for body?

From a reliable source:

Some members of the Senate expected that some brown envelopes will reach them from Remitta through this baseless witch-hunting.

That's why they are shouting up and down, just so they can be placated with brown envelopes.

Hopeless monkeys.

Anyway....we watch and see.

Omotayor123:
Because, getting married is one of our social and even religious responsibility..
People tend to view unmarried adult (male and female) as socially irresponsible.

Though, marriage is not everything but we should endeavor to fulfill our responsibility!

Responsibility to whom please??

It doesn't matter what you wear, as long as it's decent and you look like a professional.

brainpower:
This blind support for Buhari has blinded a lot of Nigerians. There's no way on earth that the. Massacre can be justified. Infact I believe everything was planned from the beginning by El Rufai. This same man that these robots are condemning was being chased by El Rufai and APc's god Buhari, now they have won and he automatically becomes an enemy of the state.

Facts are; some Nigerians were murdered in cold blood, yes their act was an act of civil disobedience but in no way does it threaten the security of the nation. No wonder some people call this country a zoo.

El Zaksaky is no where to be found and nobody is talking because Buhari is involved. The two videos about this killing shows that this was a massacre. I pray for this country.

If anyone here likes let them insult me or not the fact that they can't deny is that their god, PMB is fast losing his goodwill from Nigerians. Let him keep junketeering.

Please speak for yourself.

Buhari's supporters are still in full support, besides where is the proof that he's behind the massacre?

This is not the time to encourage Muslim fundamentalists who refuse to respect the law.

Nigeria is bigger than El-zakzaky or his Shiite group.

Bleaching cream has become gold in Lagos because of almost everyone in these pictures.

If you see them in real life, you go tear race.

Poverty mentality is worrying your wife.

Sorry.

Ecoterrorism:
The dullard is on a witchunting bazaar

Better a dullard than a complete idiot like GEJ.

Someone that can't feed himself is here telling folks lies about how he bargained 10k for sex...

Lies from the pit of hell.

Hahahahaaaaaaaaa!!!!!!!

Goodbye!

killerman47:
please sire, respect yourself and comment responsibly...

You patronise pro$situtes/badoo babes and openly share the gist on social media.....

Is this responsible behaviour??

Abeg....make I see road.

killerman47:
Could girls be this Desperate? What's the meaning of this Nonsense?


So I saw an average looking girl on social media (badoo) and chatted her up, she replied and gave me her number, it was suppose to be a sex partner arrangement... and that should be it.... I called her later on to fix an arrangement, she told me she won't be available...... I called again later some days after, when I saw her flash.... We spoke, later that same day, she called me with another number and asked me to call her back, of which I did, she told me she was coming back from church (at about 9pm) I asked her if she could come over, she charged, "what responsible girl will come to see you at this Time? ! Please I'm not that kind of girl " immediately afterwards she started asking me, what I do for a Living? Where I Work? If I went to school ( I have never met this biatch before) , I quickly shunned her and ended the call....





No so the husband Don dey hungry girls Reach? Why all those questions? she couldn't even wait ..... It was suppose to be just sex, I don't even care knowing her name, never asked her, and wouldn't.... what's all this Rubbish? When I bring am now Bleep , she go want begin form GF , only God knows that I will give her rat poison ......

Stupid whores..

You're on social media talking boldly about how you patronise prostitutes??

Who is more stupid in you and the one you call a LovePeddler?

Where were you when God was sharing shame to mankind??

Ahaaa....What a shame.

Many Nigerians are too bitter....

I'm not certain what concerns anyone about Tonto's belly, people will have their own problems in Ghana Must Go bags infront of them but will pass hurtful comments and worry about others.

What they don't understand is that when they say such hurtful things to others, it reflects their own hurt and frustration in life, if your situation is better why do you try to bring another man down?

Worry about yourselves o....Leave Tonoto biko.

Eeewww....Ugly nipples.

kooletsa:
1. They don't do drama - They leave it for
younger women.
2. They aren't on a path to 'find themselves' -
They've gone past that stage
3. They prefer phone calls and not text
messages - unless it's an emergency, they'll
still call you anyway.
4.They'll never change for any man - they are
older and wiser now 5. They really want a committed relationship
- it's either all or nothing for them
6. They know the advantages of putting
themselves first sometimes - It creates a
balance and sanity in the relationship
7. They don't stalk their men on social media
8. They have pasts and know it might creep
up on them someday - They become open to
their partners so there'll no surprises later.
9. They let their men know when they are hurt
and move on by learning how to deal with it.

Truth.

prico32:
Hi NLders, I & my Besty has been close friends for years now. She has been single all the years busy working, always told her she needed a man in her life but she didn't border letting any guy in, she always said she has me she doesnt need another man. Told her i'm her best friend but she needs someone that will treat her like a lover.

Most times when I use I & my fiance pix as my dp she starts giving me attitude & all that...

Recently she finally started dating someone & kept it away from me, I even asked her when I noticed, she denied at first & later admitted she was dating someone, I was angry with her for keeping such good news away from me & even lied when I asked.

I scolded her for it but later told her how happy I am. Since then she stopped talking to me or replying my chats. what should I do?

Do nothing...

You have a fiancée now, allow your bestie have a life too.

Both of you go and flourish with your partners and leave this childish silly bestie business alone.

Marriage is serious adult business.

All of you folks saying this is not a picture of the universe.....

Please produce your own picture, since you know so much.

LOL...Men will be deceiving women uppandaan and think the women enter these relationships to play...

When God makes you smile by giving you one calm, mild mannered, non-problematic woman, your greed and lust will not allow you stay with her, you want more....as per Oliver Twist.

Sorry Sir, but next time be careful with your choice of lifestyle.

As we all lay our beds so shall we lie on them.

Don't let go o....Stay there until you meet your waterloo.

Abusive partners deserve to die alone. Single till they meet their maker.

cosmic22:
if you like die dere

if you like try to damage this country


still the world knows ...Nigeria is a great place


Nigerians are lovely and peaceful


just like every other country they will be bad eggs...

Somebody gets convicted of rape because he sexually assaulted 2 people and you're here talking about damaging Nigeria's reputation.

Please what is the correlation?

I heard this guy was one of the guys involved in the Sugabelly rape saga.....is why he couldn't show his face in his pre-wedding pictures.