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I really feel so connected to your story because of so many experience I have had in life, and still having daily. I'm happy you're getting heal and moving forward with your life. Thanks for sharing.

beautified:
The most painful statement ever said to me was from my mum. She said she wished she never gave birth to me and that I was menstruated out. She also said if I never amount to anything good in life, she's not bothered so far my other siblings come out doing well. She said these when I was 16 years old. I'm 27 now and it still rings in my head. I'm out of Nigeria now and doing far better than she ever thought.
We are not in talking terms anymore mainly because she's used to saying bad words and the worst thing I need around me is negative energy.

I could imagine how her words must have hurt you badly. Having said, please reunite with your mother..... Call her and make amend.

toluxe0075:
I believe that video was leaked. His consistent use of "sir" in the video indicates he was addressing a superior officer concerning what they were experiencing on the battlefield as against what they were told.

This really a brilliant reasoning. Thanks for making see everything from another perspective

His miseducation is dangerous to ignore.

The boldness of the Okolie guy to sue DSS suggest to me that he's innocent. I might be wrong though.

ubunja:
sure.

your moniker speaks volumes tho. I'm curious, why did you choose it?

Lol... I better not start

ubunja:
and that's the thing. Women want you to change. But after changing for them they'll leave you. Because by changing you have become a man THEY WOULD NOT BE ATTRACTED TO IN THE FIRST PLACE. Then they leave you. The only way out is never to change for a woman.

If a woman was genuinely attracted to that type of man she wants you to change into, she would have never came to you in the first place but would have gone to that type of man directly.

This is really deep. Thanks for always sharing your wisdom with us

Flyingngel:
Annexation of Bakassi always pain me. OBJ did not try at all.
International politics is more complex and fill with intrigue than the national one; but then he shld have put up a fight.
One day Calabar will get back that which belong to them.

His hands were tied. Nigeria as a country is surrounded by unfriendly francophone neighbours who are eager to see the disintegration of the country, for regional economic dominance . This and many others is what stop OBJ from putting up a good fight.

She could even be innocent.. Digging out picture in order to shame her is totally unnecessary.

unbitchable:
what is the capacity of Iran against the US?. A list of tiny islands that was previously funded by Obama before Trump's administration shredded the deal. the only threat an Iran could possibly pose is hitting of soft targets by its sponsored foot soldiers

Not as easy as you thing. Iran ranked 14th out of 137 countries in Military strength and sophisticated weapon

Lamanii22:
Right... I really hope they can be together...

If the guy is genuine with his intentions, his sister can stop him for long. It's only a matter of time before she gives in, after all he's mature enough to shoulder responsibilities.

ValCon888:
Nonsense and ingredient questions. Money changes situations. Just drop your Range Rover or Bentley key on the sitting room table and you'll be the one questioning her father.

In fact, he'll be giving you answers without you asking any question.

Not with some staunch elders in the village. If you like come with private jet, they will still drill you �

The older girl is a fool. At 19 you should be able to differentiate between left and right.

Lamanii22:
Awwwwn... The only reason your sister's disagreeing with you is cause the girl's her housemaid.. And the girl will not be as respectful to her as she used to..

This is her exact reason nothing more nothing less

Have you ever consider spiritual angle to your issue. Maybe you need to work on that, by trying to seek help

Digmygold:
Train them indeed. Like it isn't common knowledge who the children spend more time with. Better to have kids with an intelligent woman. Dumb mum dumber kids. Let the eye of that illiterate open small, i tell you you will forever regret going near her.

Your argument that illiterate mother breed dumb kids do not hold water. Have you not heard of so many straight A' students raise under poor and illiterate mothers.

It takes some level of wisdom to fully grasp the message the poster is trying to convey.

operationmoses:
Aboki higher institution

Ignorance. FPI is one of the high rated polytechnic in Nigeria.

oluwaseyi000:
That's is simply a minor typographical error from the website developer

As a software developer myself I hate it when client/people dwell mainly on minor typographical issue rather than functionality and speed, it shows their level of illiteracy

One question for the op: is the button functionality perfect, what about the response time, the people who develop that site may be far younger than op and many nairalanders or you think it's the rector that put it there

Thank you for this post.

dauddy97:
Good evening Nairalanders.

I am dying in silence

I discovered that I had pile during my secondary School days (2014). I didn't even know this has been on me for long, until I went to defecate with a friend of mine in the bush. Immediately he saw that red flesh coming out on my anus. He shouted "What is this!!". That was when I knew I had PILE.

I told my mum about this. She said she noticed something like that from the day I was given birth to. She said, she didn't keep quiet, and she asked the nurses what was in my anus. The nurses replied that, "it is normal" That it will still leave there. Now, I am in my twenties. This thing is now paining me seriously. In fact , I can't defecate easily.

Please, nurses and doctors in the house, come to my aid.

Note: I noticed that, I ejaculate within 3 to 4 mins during sex. I don't know maybe it's because of the pile?

Also, I have used and inserted some drugs (Anosoid or so, I can't really remember it spelling) recommended by a general hospital doctor yet, this thing is still stubborn. I have also visited Alagbo (herbal). In fact, The money wasted can't just be mentioned.

This night, I discovered the that its now out itself. Since all these while, it has been in, I only feel or see it while defecating.

I can't just imagine what people have been saying. like, "I wont be able to impregnate a lady" and all sorts of things like that.

Pls, help your boy.

Help for wider view .

I will appreciate all comments, remedy, solution, cure etc just to get this out of my anus.

Send a DM. I know someone that can recommend a very effective herbal medicine for you.

He tried as a 12 years old boy. However there are many of such things on the internet. Rules of divisibility is the first thing you learn in number theory. I.e divisibility by 2,3.......11

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You will just look back with nolstagia someday when you become a great lawyer like Gani, or business tycoon like Aliko, and believe me one of your greatest inspiration and motivation to people would probably be this little setback.

Because of the deflection of Felele toward the wind... We usually perboil the ball and give it to vulcanizer to inflate it with their pumping machine....

Shigo89:
Congratulations Toluwani..... I Felicitate with you. I was at her place this evening to rejoice with her and chop the Rice and Ciekin... Greater Heights by Christ grace.

Since you know her personally, encourage her to take programming class while she await Service(NYSC)

Hope777:
Always thought securing a future is always about working hard today and reaping the benefits tomorrow, however I am a now convinced that this is only an ideal case and your future is not in your hands like people say. There are external factors that interfere with our future.

I have basically been a hardworking person right from school, working hard to ensure my parents are proud and giving my best in any way I can. Unfortunately it seems like I am not destined for the great future I have always dreamt about.

I noticed early this year that I have a condition that makes me impotent. I can get erections while laying down but lose it while standing/sitting (I wouldn't mind if it will always remain this way but I hear it only gets worse) I visited several specialist doctors and it appears they barely understand this condition and end up saying it is psychological.

I have done my research for a long time now from global writings and forum and discovered I have a venous leak: this is a condition where the veins in the male genital drains blood faster than the inflow of blood through the arteries making normal erection impossible. This may be caused by an accident/damage to the veins.

There have been times where I have had traumas to my genital but I never thought this will be an issue and didn't even notice this condition because I haven't been sexually active.

Now from my research there is no cure to this condition and it only gets worse (meaning even erection when laying down may go eventually).

I have been depressed and sucidal; I feel like there's no point to my life if I can have such a damaging condition. Not being able to have sex isn't the problem, however the pyschological trauma this gives me about my future is the problem. I am still very young!! Will I ever get a wife? The thought of not being normal kills me!

I wonder what I did to deserve this, I am sad, depressed and sucidal. Why does God allow bad things happen to people? I feel I am running mad because I cannot stop thinking about this. I just want to sleep and not wake up, or discover this is a dream if I do. Cc: dominique could you move this to.

DM. I will give someone's number to explain your situation. He wont charge you for consultation

One used to work for me.. I have never seen someone more sincere in my entire life. She was well cultured and treated customers with utmost respect.

@GAZZUZ... Do you have office in Abuja I will love you to check my car

You have a rare germ. If you let her go, you may regret it for the rest of your life.

Depressed101:
will he charge for online consultation? How much will he charge, good morning

He doesn't charge for consultation.

Depressed101:
where I go see specialist dermatologist na, should I consult my general doctor instead...

search for 'Dr Paster Your health in your hands' facebook page and contact him.