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Thanks for reminding us GEJ

I know, we know that Nigeria
will overcome the current
challenges.

I am confident that no bad condition
such as the one Nigeria is experiencing is
permanent as Tough times don't last.

Thank you Sir for the encouraging words.

It now seems to me that the easiest way to kill oneself
is to indulge in crime.
As their ends are usually bloody.

alldemgirls:
Its disappointing how this ATM machines function most times.
Imagine going to an unknown city or town to write exams, a place
you don't even know anyone and you run short of cash for your transportation
back home..only to get to the nearest bank ATM to withdraw money and it eventually
traps your card...and this happens to be on a Saturday what will you do?

SOURCE:http://9ijaclicks..com.ng/2016/08/omg-mariah-carey-goes-hot-on-leather.html

I will do exactly what she did! Lol

Chijikenine:
Though am not new on nairaland and this is not my main handle but I need to hide my identity for some reason best known to me.
Pls I need mature advise from elderly people on this section. I married this man 6 yrs ago and God gave us a very handsome baby who is 5yrz old now. Some month after our wedding, I noticed that he spent more time on Fb but I was not bothered because of my condition(i got pregnant immediately after our wedding). Atimes I will beg him to make love to me but he will refuse and am not ugly at all. Even when I was pregnant, I always dress to kill and always make sure our home is very clean so i wonder why he's not making love to me. It continues like that till I gave birth and that is when the real beast in him came out.
I dnt have choice than to endure all the emotion pain he's causing me. I dnt nag nor ask him money for anything. Though he opened a mini provision store for me but the business was not profitable(provision business require reasonable amount of money) so I quit the business and decided to look for a better job with my ond certificate. All my effort to get a job was fruitless which made me to become a full house wife looking for what to do with my life. Though before we got married, he promise to send me back to school cos I told him he should allow me to go and complete my hnd and he said I will go to school from his house. So like 4 months ago, I opened his phone while he was sleeping and I wanted to download a worship song I heard in the church, a message came him from his girlfriend and that is when I opened his facebook inbox and what I saw shocked me. Imagine this man pleading and begging for sex from different women. I counted about 5 different women with different account, and this is a man that won't touch me foe 2weeks and even when he do he won't last more than 5mins. I have asked God several times why he gave me such man.
Early this year I told him I love interior decoration and he should give me money to go and acquire the skill, he didn't give me. My parent are poor and I have no where to run to. The only thing that still give me joy is my son, atimes I feel so useless and empty. I dnt love this man again cos he doesn't deserve My Love. I just want to move on with my life cos life is very short and i want to be happy for the rest of my life. Just advise me in your own way and I promise I will listen God bless you

I am sorry about what you are going through.
But to be candid, what you are going through is a script played out in many families.

An idiOt once told me that you cannot to have rice and beans as a meal you must
eat varieties.

It is either your husband never had to opportunity of having the girls he wanted when
he was single or he is a play boy that you must have sensed doing courtship.

He is just a typical man. He needs more of the fear of God in his life.
Listen to me,he loves you and never for one day doubt your love for him because
the moment you allow your love for him to die, your marriage begins to look for
a rock to hit.

Be a prayerful and loving wife.

A woman shared a prayer point she used that worked.
The prayer goes thus
The manhood of his husband should go dumb if he attempts to sleep with any woman besides me.

Soon, the man always came home angry and after sometime he no longer kept late nights
and later confessed to his wife.

Prayer is your best weapon in times of challenges like this.
It is not quarreling,not being disrespectful,not even calling his family members.

But not fainting in prayer. The ones outside or the girls he begs for sex are not better
than you and can never be better. He is just been a man.

He will send you to school or open that business you want for you very soon.
Just be a loving wife and of course a prayerful one.

Very soon he will ask himself what has this woman done wrong that i treat her this way.
It only a test for your love for him and how much you can go to make sure
your family is what God wants it to be.Just trying times my dear.

Many women that you admire their marriages have had to go through trying times
Work out your own marriage with wisdom that you can only get from God.

I know you will pull through.
Enjoy Marriage

Hin go tire for the facebook sef, they no go tell am.

Tony90:
dear nairalanders, i ve a friend who visited her married sister in Lagos recently, but the sister's husband is trying to molest her. on one occasion, while the sister went out to buy something in the night, he grabbed the lady's boobs from behind.the lady shouted at him but he seems not to hear because as the lady walked past,he hit her buttocks. now what does the lady do

Very simple.

1.Warn the molester straight to his face NEVER TO TRY TOUCHING her Again. She can have their discussions recorded

2.Tell her sister everything without leaving anything out.

3. Possibly end her Visit to her sisters place by going back to her home.

This sort of rubbish must not be tolerated in any form.

I am not surprised.

What advice do you have for the younger generation?
I only have one advice for them and it is for them to play hard and pray hard

A message of truth for the youth during hard and trying times Nigeria is going through currently.

Play hard and pray hard to win well.

Ynaira:
Source: http://www.breezereporters.com/unilag-alumnus-renounces-religion-says-i-know-i-have-disappointed-many/

Are you sure you disappointed many?

Bro you disappointed yourself.
I wish you the best.

lordkit2:
Awww this is so sweet.....BBC's Peter Okwoche shared pictures of Brazilian football fan rocking a Nigerian Jersey with Kanu's name behind.Kanu is not even at the Rio Olympics,he retired from football long time ago.But his fans are still celebrating him."

This guy told me "If Kanu were Brazilian, he'd have be considered alongside Pele, Maradona and Messi" Kanu is his favourite player of all time and BTW he's Brazilian!"......Peter Okwoche from Brazil.


......Kanu is still loved and admired by plenty fans.

Source:http://www.flexygist.com/2016/08/11/rio2016-football-fan-spotted-rocking-nigerian-jersey-with-kanu/

So good to see a Nigerian Jersey outside the chores of Africa.
Even more beautiful is the jersey of a Nigerian legend being worn by a non African.
Up Naija!

adek6555:
Exactly the same problem here PLUS how can a non-lagosian sell on jumia and konga? NOW COME IN CHUDY

The journey of having your online store (irrespective of where you operate from) on Konga starts from

kongadotcom/sell

Registration is free.

You can open your online store here
https://shq.konga.com

Get acquainted with Konga Mall here
http://selleracademy.konga.com

I believe you won't have problems when you
Vist these pages

Humbled officer meeting with one of the the world's true Democrat. It's a big and rare privilege.

Confirdagency01:
Lagos BRT drivers and ticketers strikes over unpaid salaries.
This strike affect Ikorodu residents. 
More detail later....
See photos bellow:

Source: http://www.prokotinz.com/2016/08/brt-workers-strike-over-unpaid-salaries.html

Expected when a country is in recession

dammy13:
http://www.vanguardngr.com/2016/08/5-money-mistakes-nigerian-girls-making/

Not only girls but guys alike.

A nice ploy to scare away thieves and men from the underworld

davesd:
After a restless desire of your wife to make a new hairstyle. She demanded N10,000 from you for the hairstyle which took you one week before giving her the money due to the hard times. What will you do if she brought this home?

I will simply complete the shaving of her hair and collect my 10k

Begging for alms when one is not decapitated is a criminal offence. How much more with rented children.

meekyrozzay:
CONFUSED RIGHT NOW

Why the confusion?
Don't you know whom your heart wants?

ex or present bf?

I believe you are someone that can be tossed around
anyhow. You don't know your left from your right.

I am really sorry for you.

My dear the choice is yours and not your family.
You will spend the rest of your life with whoever
you choose.

Think and choose wisely!

Perfect shot

Movie Title
>>>>>

It's all about trends these days.

I was somewhere yesterday a public gathering,
a young guy and a lady sat opposite me

The next thing I heard from the lady was "suck na,
suck it well"
I gazed in their direction only to see that the young
lady had brought out left breast with her top pulled up
persuading the young man to suck her breast.

Damn!

I just shook my head.

Moral decadence is on the rise like wildfire.

God will help us

My wife does not need my permission to know
the right way to dress before a camera

CollinsWeGlobe:
Three Able-bodied Men Paraded Unclad After Being Caught Stealing A Motorcycle In Delta

Three able-bodied were paraded unclad after being caught stealing a motorcylce in Agbor, Delta state on Wednesday, July 20th. The thieves were made to walk around with the stolen bike in a bid to shame them.

Source: http://lifedrama.com.ng/three-able-bodied-men-paraded-unclad-after-being-caught-stealing-a-motorcycle-in-delta-photos/

A nationwide unclad walking tour should be arranged for them.
Useless thieves

Does this post say anything that relates to the title?

Dandsome:
Thanks. I`ll try is tomorrow. Also abeg you sabi how I fit block my stolen phone? Its a Tecno W4

Brother sorry again about the loss of your phone
Have you been able to establish contact with your customer?

melvinjames:
PDP now controls the Senate, PDP now owns the position of Senate President and deputy.

Time to get rid of Buhari.

So on point

Congrats Big Sam on your new appointment.
Big Sam is a toughee
I hope he will fare well with the Three Lions

I am transferring all my cash save for 1k immediately.
First Bank is something else.

Na Bobby brown use the children for alms? Irrelevant picture against story.

Kolababe:
A 'Man of God' identified as Prophet Obi O. of Anchor of Restoration Church located at Owufuju Street, Asaba was this morning stripped to his underwear by the people who caught him red handed allegedly having sex with a married woman. He was made to hold his church banner while being paraded around in his underpants. No service on Sunday for his church

http://www.newseveryhour.com/2016/07/photos-pastor-stripped-to-his-pants-in.html

Awon eleyi won bad gan

God respects the choices you make. They have made theirs. If it good or bad for them, it has been made.
Wishing them all the best

idyjoe12:
Is there a remedy for stroke? I mean can someone that's down with stroke and partially paralyzed be restored to his former stage of health? I need answers urgently.

You may need to use Golden Six and Cordy Royal Jelly and cardibetter.
This will be very effective in the long run

DrHighchief:
What makes u feel d next relationship u wil go into will be better than d present? If d next relationship is not also favourable, will u also jump out for another one?

Well you are only speculating for now.
It asks the question "what if"

Because of "what if" should not warrant her to go into a marriage that she knows she won't be happy in.

None shall lack her mate Is34:16.

She will definitely find the man that will make her happier and make marriage worth venturing into.

We all look forward for a better tomorrow so let her look ahead to move ahead in life.