₦airaland Forum

Thanks be to God to his beautiful family.

PrettyCrystal:
This lady may not agree with those who say that women who have sex on their first date are not taken serious by men who want a long term relationship or marriage. Mrs Fagan who recently got married to her man (whom she probably had sex with on the first date) -took to her twitter handle to briefly address the issue as she threw subtle shades at those with opposing views. See below;

Source; http://www.nationalhelm.net/2016/07/sex-on-first-date-led-to-this-for-me.html

It is how far it carries you through married life that matters. Happy married life

Love Machine:
Don't let pastors and Bishops deceive you with sweet sermon.

I hear

Many Nigerians don't simply understand this insurance thing and really don't give it a think at all.

There is no star without a scar - Bishop David Oyedepo.

It's only the courageous that make it to the mountain top.

Good he chose to weather the storm which paid off big time.
Nice one

On a lighter note
The op and young 03 don make me laff well well.

I avoid as much as possible anything that will join me with UBA and Ecobank

As is it now, I will advise you meet the Branch Manager of the branch you obtained the card and table your complaint. He should offer to help.

Also kindly download their mobile app if they have one (I don't know if they have one as I don't use them) on your phone.
Once your alawee hits the account, transfer it to your main account ASAP. It saves you the stress of going to queue to cash.

Enjoy your service year

With the way jungle justice is metted on robbers, they keep increasing. Na wa.

cyberguy72:
she can suck my nippillles non stop for like 30mins while moaning.At times i fear she's just sucking my star away to oblivion

You may be correct.
She may have a mandate to suck
out your glory days.
Just have at the back of your mind,
Nothing is free!
You may just be trading places Spiritually.
Wise up Bro

Lol. Plenty of work for the owner. Does each battery have a specific assignment in the phone?

Feeling on the hot seat? Sit properly Bro. And get married. You are already feeling to Old being Single. No time Bro. make moves.

pacretus:
tnks man.how about the delivery.
Must i buy from someone withing my locality to be sure i'll recieve d product??.
Or jiji will have it delivered to me once paid for?

Safer you buy after meeting the seller one or one.
Verify seller properly before sending money. if the seller is not within your reach. Check and recheck and recheck.
Jiji will not deliver anything. Jiji only connects sellers to buyers and vice versa.
The seller is responsible for the shipping of the items you buy.

jhasper:
any thing I do she complains..
she feel dejected at my present, am always truth full, humble and honest to her. but what my be the cause?
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all she wants is divorce

Have you checked the company she keeps?

That's the way love goes.

Op you dey very funny.
Well show him the collection you have in a bedroom undies sexy show.
I am sure he will pass his compliments.

Good you embraced change.

pacretus:
planing on getting some stuffs from jij,.ng but i'm really sceptical about it.
Please if you have bought anything through jiji,ng how safe is money.wouldn't wanna play into the hands of fraudsters.

Very safe provided you adhere strictly to their warning.

Lovely and inspiring testimony.
And together they have gone a long way and achieved a lot.
Together they have blessed mankind and generations.
This is simply the beauty of marriage.

Looking forward to when I and my wife will share ours too after historic feats too.

RichieDaVinci01:
My dad hates me for reasons best known to him.I am Richard 17 years of age looking to gain admission. life has been miserable in my so called fathers house my mom and dad divorced 11 years ago I lived with my mom for some time before dad asked me to come over and stay with him I felt happy he's my Dad right? but thing is he has been treating me like a slave. dad is a drunk and a womanizer maybe that's why all the four wives he married left him. He comes home hours past midnight and beats me for not opening the gate for him I do all I can to please him even if they aren't necessary but still calls me worthless he makes feel embarrassed in public calls me and my mother 'big fools' he refuses to give me food he allows my step sisters torture me right in his front sometimes accuses of stealing his money beats the shit out of me and later recovers the money.what baffles me is that I am his only son. One expects that I be pampered but reverse is the case . he once flogged for almost 3 hours I passed out woke up and he continued I don't know why he hates me so much not like I have a bad attitude. It may be the Feud he had with Mom that is causing all this . He makes me feel miserable day by day I don't know what to do please help!

This is not new to teenagers
Here is my advice.
Pending when you find a better abode.
Thrive for a change of attitude.
But immediately, talk with your father. Simply put, discuss only the things about you that gets him angry.
Don't say anything bad your step sisters attitude towards u. He has been told so many negative things about you. So don't worry.

Some of things are right while many may be untrue.
Promise to be a better person and assure him that you won't let him down by becoming a failure in life.
Armed with that information, you begin to work

Let your attitude be more positive onwards
1.Embrace God and Godly things like never before.
2.Be more Kingdom minded, the time you spend doing nothing at home can be effectively channelled to evangelism and Church service (cleaning and others)
3. Let this new love find expression in you within your family at home.
4.Be on the low but with very high Spirit.
5. Stop hanging out if you hangout at all.
6.Pray for your dad and your sisters.

This is what happens, after a week of change of this attitude, it's the weaknesses in you that will be a point of attack. Never mind, you will solidify these weaknesses over time.

These are trying times for you, you need only God to get through. Wisdom from God to deal with the family troubles you are going through.
God shall help you.

More importantly, let this tribulations build you for a successful life. The trials will not tarry long but only a short time. But the way you handle this will have defining moments all your life.

Make the best out it. I wish you victory.

lafayette:
Anami developed these superhuman muscles through 20 years of practicing “V*ginal Kung Fu,” an ancient Taoist practice that helps strengthen the pelvic muscles.

Kim Anami is a 44-year-old intimacy coach and v*ginal weight lifter who claims she can lift up to 10 pounds with nothing but her genital muscles and can have up to 20 orgasms in a row..

The regular v*gina weight-lifting, according to her, has made her v*ginal muscles extra strong and consequently, extra tight.

Anami also adds that the benefits of having a strong v*gina are immense, and include better bladder control, a more youthful appearance, and increased s*xual pleasure, along with greater spiritual and emotional satisfaction.

See More Photos @ http://www.mygisthub.com/2016/07/photos-meet-woman-with-worlds-tightest.html?m=1

Good she has found her calling.

Sorry about the visitor that visited your balls this morning.
You can apply toothpaste or aloe vera gel if you can but of necessity....
.... Kindly get to hospital asap as we don't know the type of ant that bit you.
Kpele

Op, you may be right it is just that I don't have the stats.
I have met with several married people both male and female that engage in this act.

Early this year some unknown gun men stormed our area, they entered people's houses and made away with their belongings. They entered our house and ordered us (me, my husband and my daughter) to lie on the floor. One of them was pointing gun at us and told us he will shoot if we shout or get up. Others entered the rooms and started searching for money and other valuables. They made away with our money and my jewelries. On coming out of the room about going, one of them who acted as their leader ordered me to remove my clothes, I refused and he threaten to shoot my husband. so I did. He asked me to lie on the floor and wanted to have sex with me i refused him. He told me if I don't cooperate that he was going to shoot my husband. I was afraid and I lay on the floor and allowed him have his way. When he was done, the next person had his own. After that, they returned my jewelries and made away with the money. The next morning my husband told me to go to a hospital for test/treatment which I did. I was tested of HIV/AIDS and STD the results were all negative. But since that incident, my husband has refused to have sex with me. He's always giving me excuses. Is either he's tired from the day activities or he's not in the mood. I don't know what to do. I've gone for counselling. Please I need your advice. Thanks

The bone of contention was the bolded. The attack started on my person started with the first comment I made on this topic.
We all don't operate on the same psychological or emotional level. I as a person would be heart broken and stay away from sex for a while. Why the attack on my person.

As an imaginative reader this was what went through my mind when I was reading this post.

Three scenarios, and I will replay them as i read through.

GenAnsahCinC:
On coming out of the room about going, one of them who acted as their leader ordered me to remove my clothes, I refused and he threaten to shoot my husband. so I did. He asked me to lie on the floor and wanted to have sex with me i refused him. He told me if I don't cooperate that he was going to shoot my husband. I was afraid and I lay on the floor and allowed him have his way. When he was done, the next person had his own. After that, they returned my jewelries and made away with the money.

Scene 1 - Topic

Thief 1 - Make we even chop something before we go. Hey you Remove your clothes
Babe - *Shaking* No, what for?
Thief 1 - Are you mad? I say remove your clothes or do you want your husband's blood to spill?
Thief 2- *Pointing the gun on the husbands head* Are you deaf?
Man- *Lying down and shaking*
Thief 1 - * Getting angry" Woman it is either you cooperate or I blow your husbands head off
Babe - *Shaking, lying on the floor"oya I am ready
(at least the post say she allowed him)
Thief 1 and Thief two had their way and moved on.
The party is over but the experience lingers.

Pathetic event, mind shattering and a big trauma to the family.
The man was absolutely disturbed by the events.
Wife come to Nairaland for advice

I responded with my first post and the attack begun.

Scene 2 (another angle)
At least the op didn't tell us the utterances made by the man


Thief 1 - Make we even chop something before we go. Hey you Remove your clothes
Babe - *Shaking* No, what for?
Thief 1 - Are you mad? I say remove your clothes or do you want your husband's blood to spill?
Thief 2- *Pointing the gun on the husbands head* Are you deaf?
Man- *Lying down and shaking and Muttering some words*
Thief 1 - * Getting angry" Woman it is either you cooperate or I blow your husbands head of
Babe - *Shaking* I can't do it
Thief 2- *Corks the Gun on the man's head* 10 seconds to go and don't waste our time.
Man - * Fear creeping in* Baby go ahead
The consent that blew this thread off
Thief 2 - 4, ..... 3
Man - *Fear and shaking profusely* Common baby go ahead

The rogues have their way.
Couples are heart broken but the man actually played an active role in the events
that ensued by telling his wife to go ahead.
Man can help the wife easily here because he told her to go ahead

This I claim was clearly better than the first option. Insults were thrown at me.
What is damn wrong here?

Scene 3 (My Way)

Thief 1 - Make we even chop something before we go. Hey you Remove your clothes
Babe - *Shaking* No, what for?
Thief 1 - Are you mad? I say remove your clothes or do you want your husband's blood to spill?
Thief 2- *Pointing the gun on the husbands head* Are you deaf?
Man- *Lying down*
Thief 1 - * Getting angry" Woman it is either you cooperate or I blow your husbands head of
Babe - *Shaking* I can't do it
Thief 2- *Corks the Gun on the man's head* 10 seconds to go and don't waste our time.
Babe - I won't (insisting) Standing her ground
Narration : I love this.
Thief 2 - 4, ..... 3
Babe - * Fear creeping in* ok ,please i am lying down , please spare him
Man - *Praying* No don't do it.

Whatever that happens thereafter is my business.
I as a person will not live to see such. And this is exactly what I will do.
Why the hate and rants over my person?

If my Father in the Lord Bishop David Oyedepo will not compromise
his stand on an issue like this why should I?
I am not afraid of what man will do to me but what God will do to me
fears me most.

I may be crazy on my stance on scene 3, that is me , i am not
interested in what you will do in similar circumstance.

I will choose to be bold like Daniel, Meshak and Abdenego than
to be chicken hearted like Judas.
Which of course only a few men can do.

My sincere apologies to Mightykay,quivah,HaneefahRN and missspicey
and any other person that feel offended if I have insulted you in any
way . I am sorry

But again your collective opinions will not change my motion on the subject.

I am off this thread for good.

Thanks to everyone that has made this thread a learning ground. I gained
a few things from you.

@ OP To bad you went through this event if it was actually a true life event.
Don't worry your marriage will stand and I believe God with you and your
husband to get through this trying times and be a formidable force of positive
change to those around you and the incoming generation.

quivah:
sir you are funny very funny.
we are talking about rape at a gunpoint,, either man's life or her body..and you still feel wise to bring up cooperation.. permission from her husband before she gets rape while trying to save him
loool so even if she decided on her own, she is to be blamed for acting under such pressure in order to safe her beloved but this beloved shouldn't be blamed for going out (willingly) to have se.xx outside because his wife was gangraped while trying to save him..
you are not making sense!! absolutely no sense.
The shock people expressed on your post is an evidence of how senseless a human being can be..

just shut it, you really embarrassed your self on this one ...

except maybe you are trolling sha.. like really trolling
even dinachi can't come this low :p

I am so sure you came to this thread to look.
I don't have to go with reasoning of so many dummies.
I never blamed the op. Please read and re-read my post.
Many of you here which includes you are so shallow minded
when reading.

You don;t have to send insults to me because I made
comment,pass it on and go if you are not cool with it.

I don't need your opinion or what you think to live my life
I made a lot of sense even though it was not a popular
opinion which I don't care.
At least popular opinions have ruined this nation.

Abeg if you see no sense to what i posted, it means
you were blinded to the sense it carried.

So just pass and don't insult me.

quivah:
sweet Nairaland


oh mighty infogenius,, all hail the wisest Jesus hand man, oh righteous Infogenius,, you once advised the woman not to bother if her husband looks outside(for se.xx of course), and now you believe she should have asked for her husband's permission before opening her legs at gun point because se.xx is sacred, more sacred than the life she felt she was protecting lol but it wasn't sacred if the husband looked out for se.xx due to the situation at hand.
all hail infogenius

OK, she should kill the man if he looks outside? I tire for you. OK tell us what she should do.

Which one is easier to corporately agree on an action or decide on your own?

My dear, I want you to correct any of the above statements you quoted above and not to create strife on this thread.

mightykay:
Chai! and u already ve children in dis our volatile society, govt needs some work to do to clean up some mess cos of innocent children around cos dis ur madness is contagious n ve cant affoid treatment for congregation of mad ppl. Hope u er nt living lagos sha o cos dat will be worst. anyway we will handle u like ebola

People like you are the problem of this world. A retarde d generation of pretenders.

You go church on Sunday pretending and thinking you can deceive God.
You come out of church and do the exact opposite.
You are the problem this nation has and there are plenty like you out there that is you feel you have said something.
My parting shot
If you Mightykay succeeds, a whole generation will succeed and if you fail, a whole generation fails.
Your thinking sets the pace on the path you choose to follow.

mightykay:
The only ppl I pity in ur life are ur wife n children, they er really suffering and bleeding internally and u dont know. Take them to a cool place n let them comment about u, u will regret the u were born, the way u were brought, the kind of father n huband u ve bn. infact the bible says it is better u not born.But there is hope for u, a rebirth n new life, u need it more than evr b4

Shut up! You know nothing about the Bible.
Who are you to advice me?
Does your Bible teach you to compromise even at the point of death? Jesus would have done that several times. But he didn't
A Dummy like you will deny Jesus to live.

I now know that I have only wasted my time engaging you in a talk.
Tell your pastor what I said concerning the topic and get back to me.
Mumu like you. I even thought you had small sense.
You talk about Bible? I no fit laff. You need to learn more about Biblical principles to improving your already wretched life.

mightykay:
If u er above 20 yrs wt all these rubbish u er saying, u er already a minus in ur family n a disease in d society to be tackled immediately b4 spreading. I pray dat no woman will come near u except some similar mad ones like u and peradventure u er married i sincerely pass my condolence msg to them all

Tinykay,chickenkay, nonsense kay

I am a blessing to mankind and to this generation.
I am happily married with children and a father to many.

You can burn in hell for all I care that I am far better than you and have impacted more lives than you.
I am not timid and mad like you.
I am not commoner like you that needs to be managed and condoned.
Your condolence to your family once again.

I know you are not married and if you are I am too sure you are not in charge.

Marriage is not for boys and girls but for men and women that have a lot of sense.

mightykay:
can u imagine that boy talking about sacred. what is sacre? sex or life! we ve bn talking to a boy since. even killing him will not stop robbers from raping her and later kill her thereafter.

Girl, after he dies it will pleasure him that he didn't watch a movie.
What makes you think he will be killed?
Abeg little girl go and learn.
That is y you get tossed anyhow by circumstances of life.

mightykay:
@infogenius.if u er a failure and alive chances are high that one day u will meet sucess but s stupid bravery that caused ur live will receive additional punishment in hell. i dont even know if im talking a toddler here cos most ursubmissions paranoid pathetic and childish. I dont know when being raped is now a sin to God to the victim. I think I need to ask some questions here. 1. how old er u?2 what is level of ur education? 3. wht is the meaning of rape and sin? 4.what is the meaning of stupid, bravery, arrogance and failure? The ans. will determine further lecture

If you die doing the right thing, it is far better than to be foolish to live to do more wrongs.

I must admit here that she was not raped as you were meant to think, she allowed them to have a carnal knowledge of her to save her husband.
It was her choice.

Check the meaning of rape again

I understand now that you are a learner and I will no longer respond to whatever you say because you know nothing.
Well to tell you , I believe I am more learned than you in all spheres of life except foolishness.

Enjoy!

HaneefahRN:
Don't worry I'm sure your wife will even take the gun herself and blow your brains out . I'm sure you are the type of person that thinks every problem in marriage is caused by a woman. And people who will tell people that were raped to shut up cos they enjoyed it. Sick
See him talking like the woman planned to be raped or was happy about it. I've read about about these kind of occurrences and the woman usually suffers continuously for it at the end of the day. I wonder why women are still taking the risk and being sacrificial sef. Doesn't mean they won't still rape her even after killing the husband.
The husband never stood up for her! And now it's her fault.


And you are beyond fish brained, you are just pathetic, feels like I'm replying a psycho.

I thought you would have made some sense but you are another foolish lady out there.

Please go and understand the importance of sex in the lives of married couples.
Not the ones you watch on nollywood.

That pot of honey is sacred if you feel yours is not.

I have never seen anywhere or read anywhere that God clapped or will clap for any woman that compromises that way. Except mumus like you after all what do you know.

You are the physcho that uses her brain to lead your affairs in life knowing fully well you know nothing. And feel you have done the right thing.

Try it now and tell me your boyfriend pats you on the back. Dummy

mightykay:
so u prefer armed robber to kill u and ur daughter even the wife eventially cos u will be traumatised. u er nt cured yet

Yes I prefer that than to cause my wife to sin against God.

This is not common sense brother, tell your religious leader I call it higher sense.

I can authoritatively tell you that you live a fearful and chickly life. And honestly, you won't achieve much spiritually and physically this way.

Most probably end up a failure.

I proudly say I belong to the camp of the bold that stands on the truth from the Bible not willing to compromise even my life to stand for the truth than to join a camp of chickens like yours to please people.

Fear God my friend and damn any idiot. And tell me if God won't stand for you.

mightykay:
A dump like you can do that as we are not same. ur madness knows no bound wt this ur continous show of lunatism, comparing at gun point where u dont ve option or lose all the lives involved not the husband alone to a lecturer's advance where simple no can cause a rewrite of extral yr is unimaginable. let me start by asking what is the meaning of armed robber by any dictionary u know?. which is better being raped n save all lives involved or refused rape lose all lives including ur own. pls am sorry to say this u er an ebola to this generation

An idiot like you should fear God not even an armed robber. A robber that is a mortal like you.
Coward!

Imagine your foolish sense of reasoning. Tell your children this spew whenever you have one.

"That they can sleep with mummy if told to do so at gun point"

Wisdom is not for all and I am not surprised you don't have any.