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mightykay:
I have a great pity for those that gave to birth you and any woman in ur life. This is clear evidence of improper upbringing. Im still marvel at ur post and ur defence. I just wish u a similar experience and be alive to tell us ur action.

Pity yourself that you are a dump without senses and improper use of investment bestowed on you.

If your sister tells you a lecturer wants her to bed to pass. I am sure you will tell her to bulge.

I am not you, I can't reason like you cos it amounts to failure.

Your statements tells me more how you were brought up. Poorly my dear. So poor!

I will not experience such and if the scene arises God Forbid , I insist no man will sleep with my wife with me watching without my consent.

You can go to hell if my comments doesn't please you. I don't care

A dump like you can do that as we are not same.

Instead, the man can rally around his family and friends to raise money to pay dowry.
No matter the love, it remains the man's responsibility and not the lady.

babie78:
@infogenius are you for real . He should give her a nod to go ahead. Now I have read it all

That nod is still very far better than going ahead to do it without any word or sign from him.

armyofone:
are you for real?

Her husband is being ungrateful. They should be working it out together and not leaving the woman in the loop.
So you mean it would have been best he is dead?
Ummmm

Who says he will be killed?
When he was not properly beaten in the first place.

My sister, I will put my faith in God to play and restrain her from doing so.
That is me and that is exactly what I will do.

mightykay:
@infogenius
This is the highest stupid post I ve ever read in recent times, infact buhari has really damaged some brains. so the woman should ask for consent b4 robbers that are ready to kill her husband. If u er less than 20yrs u er pardoned for this rubbish u posted but if u er 20 and above, that is a wasted yrs already

I have invested my years wisely and possibly the one you are living is a waste already.
Yes, the man needs to give her a go ahead through a sign or vocally to communicate his agreement to the deal. It takes less than 2 seconds to do so. If there is a need for her to engage in the act.

You guys undervalue the importance of sex because it is everywhere and you get it cheap.
That is y you can write this rubbish.

misspicy:
I reject this type of man in my life in Jesus name

Niggur you are a saddist

Objectivity ko,chauvinistic buffoon

I see that you are shallow minded. Possibly having the fish brain and fishy way of thinking.

You call me a saddist and buffoon for stating a deep fact.

Listen to me, any woman that open her legs for any man besides her husband has disrespected and abused her marriage.

You don't go about opening your legs for fools and I watch the scene for about 10 minutes and you want me to say well done and praise your heroics.

I think you need to wake up and reset your brain.
For God's sake, how many real men have you heard of patted the backs of their wives for sleeping around without their consent to save his ailing health or to meet the immediate need of the family?
Tell me one real man.

If your man can pat your back for doing so, tell him I said he is a weakling and a buffoon

You think a man marries a wife for decoration?

A Man boosts his value through his wife and if for any reason outside an agreement of the husband a woman gives out the cherished pot of honey,that value is eroded.

If a woman is raped off the presence of the man, then he does his best to rally around and support her. Which I support.

You don't need to call me names for telling you what you don't know or for stating my opinion. I don't need to please anyone which includes you with my comment on a sensitive issue like this.

What transpired that night may go a long way to affect their generation.

Maybe you think it is a joke.

Many marriages have struggled today because many women in particular do not know the place and value of their husband's in the family and vice versa.

People mess up anyhow thinking that is all to life and they can be forgiven if they are eventually found out. That is why marriages are breaking up anyhow today like glass cups.

Simply because the woman or the man does not understand or have the necessary depth of understanding of the value and their roles in marriage.

My dear you still have a long way to go. Open your brain and learn beyond what you see and hear about marriage because they are not deep enough to take you far.

gidimasters:
just buy another domain chikena

Sure, that is the only way out.

WorldRichest:
This guy can keep a secret forever. Ask him, he knows who killed Dele Giwa, MKO Abiola, Sanni Abacha.

Lol!
As if you know.

bukatyne:
You are not objective here.

If the husband felt this way, why didn't he close his wife's legs and jump in front of the gun? Or while the wife was crying and stripping, why didn't order her to stand up and say he was willing to die?

The event is over now you are here saying she shouldn't have bla bla bla.

Fear God oga.

I am very sure you have very little understanding about marriage institution and moreover you didn't read my post objectively but sentimentally.

The truth remains as it is the woman has a job to do to make her husband warm up to her.

GenAnsahCinC:
My name is Gift Anthony (Real name withheld) I am in me early 30s, I got married three years ago and we are blessed with a girl-child. MY husband is a business man while I am a secondary school teacher in a private school. My husband is a man who enjoys sex and would want to have sex three times a week. I have never denied him sex whenever he demands for it. Early this year some unknown gun men stormed our area, they entered people's houses and made away with their belongings. They entered our house and ordered us (me, my husband and my daughter) to lie on the floor. One of them was pointing gun at us and told us he will shoot if we shout or get up. Others entered the rooms and started searching for money and other valuables. They made away with our money and my jewelries. On coming out of the room about going, one of them who acted as their leader ordered me to remove my clothes, I refused and he threaten to shoot my husband. so I did. He asked me to lie on the floor and wanted to have sex with me i refused him. He told me if I don't cooperate that he was going to shoot my husband. I was afraid and I lay on the floor and allowed him have his way. When he was done, the next person had his own. After that, they returned my jewelries and made away with the money. The next morning my husband told me to go to a hospital for test/treatment which I did. I was tested of HIV/AIDS and STD the results were all negative. But since that incident, my husband has refused to have sex with me. He's always giving me excuses. Is either he's tired from the day activities or he's not in the mood. I don't know what to do. I've gone for counselling. Please I need your advice. Thanks

I am back to talk objectively on the main scene in this post.

Quite frankly the op made a mistake. She made it for love as stated in the post.
Did your husband ask you to open your legs for touts? You willingly allowed those riff raffs have their way without ur husband's consent.

Not every man at that scene will understand the sacrifice you made because there was no mutual agreement between you two on what happened. You decided too.

The job of your husband amongst other things is to protect his family. He never gave you that mandate even at the cost of his life. How dare you open your legs without your husband's telling you to?

What makes you think that your husband is not even thinking that you just wanted to have fun?

The husband is mandated to protect his family which includes making the right decisions even at the cost of his life to achieve this.

There was a similar incidence in my area in Festac when I was growing up. According to the report, the woman was even moaning to the jerks of the touts.

That event ended her 6 yrs old marriage as her relationship with her husband broke until they finally divorced.

I will not open my eyes and watch touts ride my wife without telling her to do so. I will rather die.

I have an obligation to protect my wife even at the cost of life.

I am not perturbed by what anyone says about the man been unfair after the wife was raped because of him.

The man had the Final say even at gun point and since the woman gave in ignorantly, she has a lot job to do to win her man back

bukatyne:
It is not understandable.

The husband feels trauma and needs time to heal, yes. To turn to other women outside will be extremely ridiculous at this point. I will wonder if he sent the robbers initially.

Turning to other ladies outside is not acceptable to me either.

HaneefahRN:
You sound so selfish and ridiculous. Talking like the man is the main victim here. She was raped and you feel she should be fine with being cheated on too. God help women. Smh .

Call me anything selfish or whatever. I only told you what I felt about it. You peeps just want people to post book solutions here. That is good, I stated reality from a man's view. Whichever way you look at it, humans are generally selfish.

cococandy:
Listen to yourself. So she was raped and you think she should also be fine with being cheated on. SMH.

I have listened to myself several times and i mean what i have said.

I will rather die than watch a movie like that. You people feel the man too does not have feelings.

The man has to be psychologically okay to behave appropriately and accordingly and that is the simple truth.

He is not made from wood.

HaneefahRN:
You sound so selfish and ridiculous. Talking like the man is the main victim here. She was raped and you feel she should be fine with being cheated on too. God help women. Smh .

Call me anything selfish or whatever. I only told you what I felt about it. You peeps just want to people to post book solutions here. That is good I stated reality from a man's view. Whichever way you look at humans are generally selfish.

cococandy:
Listen to yourself. So she was raped and you think she should also be fine with being cheated on. SMH.

I have listened to myself several times and i mean what i have said. I will rather die than watch a movie like that.

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Kosigift:
This is unbelievable! Like seriously? How selfish can you get??

You don't understand. I'm not selfish, it is psychological. Guys with rubbish dicks take turns on you with your husband watching.

OK, how long will it take you to sleep with your husband after you learnt he had a foursome with prostitutes?
Will you bleep him the next day?

Thumps up brother. It may just be another global food brand in the making. God shall help you through.

Abeg must I visit the doctor for everything? Even to clean my ears! Go and give the common Naija man this advise and get his reaction. He neva chop bellefull na to go give school fees money to clean his ears.

Just forget about since you are not even sure who the father of your boy is.
What if your husband is the father and you went ahead to spill your filth?
It is only guilty conscience worrying you.
Live your life a better woman and bother less.

Very pathetic real life events. Baba God dakun no forget us and bless our hustle.

Possibly you don't do your job with a conscious effort. You may be easily distracted by your thoughts and events around you.

My advice is this. Learn to work under less pressure. Learn to relax a bit during work.
And when you are at work concentrate.

Maybe that is the area you need to work on.

Tell her to blast herself for being the man's fooool.

She made a great mistake by flipping through the man's privacy but will now have to live as a dunce knowing she has only the man's child.

She should not dare mess herself up by making any yeye call or else she may have seen the last of the lover boy.

To tell the truth, I may not touch you for a while if I were your husband.
Do you know what it is for your husband to watch riff-raffs take turns on you?
Too bad.

Just let him be. Don't worry him at home. Send messages to him through WhatsApp or sms telling him how much you yearn for his touch.

More importantly improve on the time you spend with him, pray with him and pray for him. And hopefully he will change.

Don't pick quarrels with him even if you perceive he his taking care of himself outside.

Understand that he is going through hard times.

Tell the man to seek knowledge.
He needs adequate knowledge to help pull off a successful marriage.
Getting him a ready to marry woman does not help him. The marriage will also crash if he refuses to update.

I am beginning to think a ritualist is behind all these Peace Mass transit accidents.
Travellers beware

JESUSBOIY:
Hello nairalanders, there is one boy in my compound who keeps looking at my Bum

Am getting freaked out already...
Any time we are walking on the same street, he will slow down immediately, so i can walk pass and the next thing is to start looking at my flat ass and smiling foolishly..

ah mean wtf



this is getting out of hand, please advice

Just be careful. Because if he catches you when you are alone in a corner, Hmmn
You will know exactly his intentions on that flat bum.

Story story..... Story

Ere gele Meaning Dangerous play.

freemanbubble:
I wonder how people still sleep this days at work when there are exciting foreign movies you can watch. my work is boring sometimes but I can never dooze off. I download movies with free WiFi. stay on social network all day.
I watch movies like mad with my laptop and phone to the extent that my boss sometimes remind me that we have closed for the day

Lovely! You were simply hired and paid to watch movies and hang around social networks.
Abeg I need a high paying like that.
Paid to watch movies.

googlepikins:
sir I will like to know if am doing something wrong. I have a review site and whenever I write an article I usually embed videos to it from YouTube.am I doing something wrong? Am also looking at embedding images from stock images that allow embedding. So my question is if I embed video instead of coping the link am I doing something wrong?

Nice thinking. You are not doing anything wrong provided you don't alter the content of the video in any way.

This report na Gist.
Pmb will never seek healing help from TB.
Just don't even imagine it.

The question now is how do i know i have a heart attack so i fetched
this.

Typical heart attack symptoms

Chest discomfort or pain

This discomfort or pain can feel like a tight ache, pressure, fullness or squeezing
in your chest lasting more than a few minutes. This discomfort may come and go.

Upper body pain

Pain or discomfort may spread beyond your chest to your shoulders, arms,
back, neck, teeth or jaw. You may have upper body pain with no chest discomfort.

Stomach pain

Pain may extend downward into your abdominal area and may feel like heartburn.

Shortness of breath

You may pant for breath or try to take in deep breaths. This often occurs
before you develop chest discomfort, or you may not experience any chest
discomfort.

Anxiety
You may feel a sense of doom or feel as if you're having a panic attack
for no apparent reason.

Lightheadedness

In addition to chest pressure, you may feel dizzy or feel like you might
pass out.

Sweating
You may suddenly break into a sweat with cold, clammy skin.

Nausea and vomiting

You may feel sick to your stomach or vomit.

Most heart attacks begin with subtle symptoms — with only discomfort
that often is not described as pain. The chest discomfort may come and
go. Don't be tempted to downplay your symptoms or brush them off as
indigestion or anxiety.

Don't "tough out" heart attack symptoms for more than five minutes.
Call 911 or other emergency medical services for help.

If you don't have access to emergency medical services, have someone
drive you to the nearest hospital. Drive yourself only as a last resort,
if there are absolutely no other options.

Heart attack symptoms vary widely. For instance, you may have only
minor chest discomfort while someone else has excruciating pain. One
thing applies to everyone, though: If you suspect you're having a heart
attack, call for emergency medical help immediately.

Source - http://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/heart-attack/in-depth/heart-attack-symptoms/art-20047744