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Forgive them.

You have gone through a lot but you are still alive due to the Grace of the Almighty.

Forgive them

SecretSpy666:
Greetings Nairalanders,
I want to seek for you peoples opinions regarding my family challenges.

I'm from a broken home. My parents divorced when I was a child of two years. I'm the only child from their union. My father and mother abandoned me and remarried to other spouse each. I passed through hell growing up with relatives who insulted me with all kinds of names and I was treated like a slave to their own children.

Because of public outcry about my dehumanizing treatment, my father came to village and took me to the city. It was from fry pan to fire experience as my father's new wife was maltreating me. At a point, my father asked me to leave his house that since my arrival, he don't have peace with his wife.

I packed to the house of a relative and work in a block industry to help myself. Most times, I slept in a CAC church close to the relative house as the two-room apartment is not enough for his family. My mother never care if I was alive. She never call me nor reply to letter I sent through someone to her. I continued working in the block industry and started a part time programme. I completed the part time programme and did my NYSC and master degree. I got a job with University of Ado Ekiti with the help of a course mate, managing myself now and surprisingly my mother and father started calling me often.

Both of them have 6 children each with their respective second spouse. Mother want his son to come and live with me, I refused and my father too have been requesting for financial assistance which I also refused. I don't want to have anything to do with both of them. My father's daughter recently called me to help her with school fees, I bluntly told her to ask her mother what she did to me and caught the call. Since then, she never call.

I'm alone and have just two friends. I don't have family. All of them calling now are just looking for what to get from me, not that they care about me. My mother never call me once to ask about my welfare even when I sent my phone number to her through her relative. I wrote WAEC, completed degree course before she started calling me and it is only to request for one thing or other. I'm planning to get married without telling them and build a separate family.

INFOTECH2:
Good day everyone

Please has anyone invested in Gold ETF in Nigeria?

Kindly guide us on steps to take.

Any response please

Good day everyone

Please has anyone invested in Gold ETF in Nigeria?

Kindly guide us on steps to take.

Can the e dividend forms be sent online to the registrar's instead of visiting them to submit physically.

emmanuelewumi:
Yes, the registrar is at Palm grove Lagos


African Prudential Registrar

Mary her now

Stop abortion

mrfranky:
Please Mods help push this to front page i need more advise please...

Have been caught up in a difficult situation. I have been dating this my lovely girlfriend for more than a year now. She is beautiful, humble, kind and a good girl. She is from a good family too. The parents are not too rich just average and doing very well. They are 2 girls and 3 boys and the elder sis is more of a slay queen i.e so beautiful and refuses to marry so the mother is hoping on this my girl to settle down, always encouraging her to settle down.

Now I am 29 years and I really love this girl and she loves me more than i actually love her, always ready to do my biding. She is just 22 and I wish to marry her someday but my finances are low. I have met the father and he said he doesn't need anything from me only things for the kinsmen or whatever but my parents are the opposite. Infact my dad won't even entertain my thought of getting married now because despite am staying alone, i still get small stipends from him monthly so he knows am not financially independent.

To cut the long story short.. My girl is pregnant again after several abortions in the past and she is refusing to take pills. She wants to keep this one and is urging me to come pay her bride price so we can move in together. This was not my dream way of getting married. I don't have a problem with her keeping the child but I just cannot marry now with my monthly salary of 40k which am struggling to feed and pay bills.

Please I need advice.
Pls no insult I knw the abortion act is wrong n never intended for her to take in again but it keeps happening...

Help me please i dont want to lose this lovely princess because she promise to end the relationship if she has to take another pill.

adecz:
Blackman has turned a "peaceful"
religion into one of fanaticism, illiteracy
& ignorance.


The Arabs who invented this religion
have closed all the holy places, mosques
& even the Ka'aba. Yet, blackman with
his usual stupidity is showing strong head.

The should use Amotekun to dislodge
them if police are dragging feet.

Nonsense!!

Point of correction

Islam was not invented by Arabs.


Origin of Islam: According to Islam
The origin of Islam is generally accredited to the prophet Muhammad but to the devout Muslim, Islam began long before Muhammad ever walked the earth. The Qur'an was dictated by Muhammad but, according to the Qur'an, it did not originate with Muhammad. The Qur'an testifies of itself that it was given by God through the angel Gabriel to the prophet Muhammad. "This is a revelation from the Lord of the universe. The Honest Spirit (Gabriel) came down with it, to reveal it into your heart that you may be one of the warners, in a perfect Arabic tongue" (Sura 26:192-195). "Say, 'Anyone who opposes Gabriel should know that he has brought down this (the Qur'an) into your heart, in accordance with God's will, confirming previous scriptures, and providing guidance and good news for the believers'" (Sura 2:97).

This type of post will never get traffic but bumbum shaking will.

Abeg have you started or in process of.

Why not try builderall?
It's free for building the web page

budaatum:
That is indeed true. But 300 year old trees will not produce a competitive yield. Its like the kolanut trees on my farm. I still get a crop from the trees my great great grandfather planted, but my newer trees yield more. Besides, some trees are modified to produce fruit out of what we call season. Imagine mangoes on trees all year round.

Very true

budaatum:
Ogbomoso in Oyo State has mango plantations farms. But having heard how mango trees are replanted ever 7 or so years in Australia, I wonder if we do have any plantations.

Love thread!

Mango trees live and produce fruit for many years, and with good growing conditions and without freezing weather that will kill the tree, mangoes can bear fruit for decades or longer. According to California Rare Fruit Growers Inc., there are mango trees reported to be bearing fruit that are older than 300 years.
https://www.hunker.com › how-lon...
How Long Do Mango Trees From Seedlings Bear Fruit? | Hunker

budaatum:
Ogbomoso in Oyo State has mango plantations farms. But having heard how mango trees are replanted ever 7 or so years in Australia, I wonder if we do have any plantations.

Love thread!

Never knew they had to be replanted every 7 years

Please which state or states in Nigeria has the largest plantation for mangoes?

Good day everyone

Please I would like to know if Lagos State Model schools charge for mock examinations.

I believe it should be free but you a family member wants to pay for it next week and I am thinking its wrong except the kid is just trying to raise extra cash.

Let me know.

ahiboilandgas:
The hunters and opportunist are here banking on the drop in rate to hunt for prey....worst come to worst buy an apartment (rentable and sellable) buy dollars or euros and keep , buy gold .......that my local advice for imvestors .....me self just expanded to 11 plc with only two trucks...cos i dont know the long time effect of dangote refinery but am sure oil and gas down stream will never be same

Boss
To the bold part.

How can I expand into this sector. Need your advice

rationalmind:
I have never met anyone who has anything good to say after giving out a vehicle, keke or Okada for transport on HP. Never. They all come back with the same story, it's only profitable if you're riding/driving yourself

All the same, I'm giving him benefit of the doubt. It's why I'll like to have his feedback one year later.

You will meet one today.

Almost 11 years ago I ventured into this business, bought a bike and gave it out on HP for a year. I got my capital and interest in about 16months.

This was because the mallam traveled in between the period. There were times that he had police issues but he resolved all on his own.

ukay2:
Please have you bought secondary market from any investment house recently after the new CBN directive?

You can tell me some investment house in can invest in NTB secondary market. .
Thank you Sir.

Fbn Quest

[quote author=Jimbadly post=78235060]Useless fast to a useless moon god.





I wonder how this is supposed to be news.[/quote

May Allah forgive you

Ikmontana1:
boss
pls is it possible to compound upfront interest in d secondary market ?
I.e I want to invest everytin, don't want to collect anytin, to enjoy d True yield.

Yes
It is possible to do that. At least I do that at first bank

Who is winning this game

This weekend will be filled with a lot of excitement as the first North London Derby for this season 2018/2019 comes up at the Emirates Stadium. Both teams are coming off wins and will be pumped up and ready for this fixture.

This match will also give a lot of bragging rights to the victors as it will prove be that the winners takes a big advantage over its rival.

If Spurs go ahead and win this game, which they would want to, they will go six points clear of their great rivals while Arsenal will go equal on points with spurs if they win this game and will shoot themselves into third place on the table.



Anyone who watched the first half of Spurs vs Chelsea will agree with me that Spurs were really up for the challenge and had technically won the game based on their first half performance but they will be coming up against the second half kings in Arsenal. Arsenal have performed better in the second half of almost all the games they have played in this season.

Arsenal are currently on a 17 match unbeaten run but they have been unable to lead by half time all season long. Their performances have always come from the second half as the team has been really slow in the first half of games.

The main worry for Arsenal is that if Spurs were to be fired up for the game and take the first half like they did against Chelsea, I think Arsenal might not stand a chance in the second half of the game which is why they need to have a game plan that works from the beginning of the match.



Spurs already have 10 wins this season and compared to Arsenal’s 8 they are performing better in this regard, where they need to put in some effort is at games they lose. They have 3 losses compared to Arsenal’s 2, with no draws, while Arsenal has 3 draws. Draws can be vital as teams get a point for their efforts.

Based on the style of play, I foresee Tottenham winning this game even though I would really like to see a strong second half performance from the gunners, once again.

http://firstimedaddy.com/2018/11/27/north-london-derby/

iLegendd:
I would really love to take things to WhatsApp, but it's against our management's rule. The only thing that goes to WhatsApp is someone who wants to purchase a product or a business idea. If it's advice or guidance on anything, it ends on Nairaland or Wetclef.com.

If you say it here, other people will benefit from it. I hope you understand. And if you do, thank you for your understanding, Sir.

Once you are through making the book how do you sell it

spartan117:
If only u could use a 'mouth gag' to keep urself from talking for one day,people might actually mistake u for a wise man

Back to d post, it's common among big cats and other felines especially leopards to eat out the sweet organs only and leave d flesh of their prey,especially when they ain't really hungry. All felines (cat family) drink d blood of their prey also

There is not likely a forest or jungle close to that village and wild animals live there.

They should just stalk it by putting a goat there because it will come back to hunt for food

Cyberleets:
Since u are not getting search engine traffic, just use facebook ads!!

That would be expensive

Good day


I run a website www.firstimedaddy.com and I have tried a lot to increase traffic but no way.

What can you advice please.

peacealways:
please anybody with eBook on snail should kindly send to me opheem@yahoo.com thanks

I would also like a copy

Winningteamxtra@gmail.com

Becoming a young man.

INFOTECH2:
Thank you everyone.
It's will be seven months on Monday 26th September 2016 that my baby was delivered and it's been eventful all the way.

I have been through a new experience and I truly want to document it.

I have decided to start a new website :

http://firstimedaddy.com/2016/09/14/a-baby-is-born-today/

This website I mainly about what it takes to b a first time daddy and th experiences you would go through.

It's time for school fees and a lot of parents will be stressed out and tired especially if fees have not been paid.

Please don't stress. Tell the school you will pay small small if you truly don't have but make sure you stick to the payment plan agreed on.

Try it

Napoleondegreat:
This is highly emotional. Well Kudos for having the courage to resign

Good that she resigned. But it should have been done long ago.
Better late than never

Onetop:
Can someone make good sales with fiction?

Not everyone is good at writing 'how to... books,' & getting the right people to outsource to could also be a problem.


Any suggestions?

cc mk82, INFOTECH2

Yes you can make good sales with fiction .

If you can write then your self then you have to outsource this part of the process.

Can they help you find your lost pet rabbit?

SoNature:
Help me promote my ebook and we will share everything 50/50.

The book is on how to write ICO (cryptocurrency) white papers.

It is the hottest subject on planet earth now

I've written over 20 ICO white papers this year

Much as I don't have time to promote it, the book has been selling.

But I believe it can do better than it is now as companies are launching ICOs and reverse ICOs every day.

I will give you my login details and you will promote the ebook while we share the monthly proceeds 50/50

Lemme know if it's something you want to do

Good day
I would love to promote your books for you.
Are they all on amazon?
Please send me a mail.
Thanks