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CultureRe: Igbo Women Are The Best In The World! by InkedNerd(f): 7:30am On Dec 22, 2010
alj harem:
no no  no sister, i did not mean it that way

i mean i have add some relationships with other women in other ethnic groups and i did not find any differences apart from they are different individuals

i did not mean to offend u sister  wink
alj harem, please don't mind me. I was just poking fun, so don't worry you haven't offended me wink. I know what you meant. Although I don't really know you, you seem quite respectful from some of the posts I've seen you write. By the way, I like your profile pic wink
CultureRe: Disability Awareness In Nigeria by InkedNerd(f): 7:22am On Dec 22, 2010
Gboliwe:
Did you say bank?thats the last place that'l take a physically changed girl.
They'l rather go for a silly but sexy school leaver than take me a disabled business administration degree holder!
Wicked world
cry cry cry
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Help! I'm Tripping For Inked_nerd! by InkedNerd(f): 6:51am On Dec 22, 2010
1759:
This thread still dey?
daduke2k:
shyt, diz thread stil on? Hw long hav i been gone?
Its still on because you two came back. It was dead and buried but I guess you two brought it back from the dead.

ayosmiles:
I am watching closely
Hehehe, don't bother. Before the thread was interesting. . . Not it died down a bit. . . Actually, a lot lol.

FamilyRe: Can Men's Libido Be Controlled by InkedNerd(f): 1:02am On Dec 22, 2010
bhusayor:
I decided 2 start this thread based on the responses i got in 'my wife wants a maid i dont want', i was so surprised to read some people views, everyone(male or female)i believe can have a sexual desire,but can be controlled, ability 2 control ourselves is wat differentiates us from animals, anyone who feels he cannot control his sexual desire needs to be checked!4get all dse medical back up of hormones,4get gurls walking around half unclothed,stop justifying wat is pointless,stop making faithfulness on d man's part' a FAVOUR' 2 the women, its self discipline on your own part n u earn respect 4 it, its not as if dse few minutes of pleasure prolongs your life, we have real men dat dont lust after everything in skirts!,
You're right. Often times on threads, you'll see NLanders bend over backwards to justify the man's actions. If one cannot control themselves [and commit to one person if they have promised themselves to that one person] then they shouldn't have gotten married in the first place. It reminds me of a thread I saw a long time ago where a young girl said her father was touching her in an inappropriate manner. Although some people in the thread felt sorry for the girl, others told her that if she was walking around in short skirts or shorts that she shouldn't do it because it may be what is causing her father to touch her. Comments like that really pissed me off because its was almost as though they were saying the father either wasn't responsible for his actions or that it was the girls fault.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Inked_nerd ! by InkedNerd(f): 12:23am On Dec 22, 2010
1759:
I see that your share price has continued to rise despite the economic slow down. cheesy
Lmao, you go kill me with laugh.
RomanceRe: Nigerian Virgin Girls - Keeping Our Virginity by InkedNerd(f): 10:27am On Dec 21, 2010
ikpakwu:
A candle stick can give you a good result.
Oh please. When are you men gonna realize that those archaic notions have no baring on a woman's virginity? Smmfh.
RomanceRe: Nigerian Virgin Girls - Keeping Our Virginity by InkedNerd(f): 9:30am On Dec 21, 2010
Well there's no sure way to test a girl either.
RomanceRe: Nigerian Virgin Girls - Keeping Our Virginity by InkedNerd(f): 8:46am On Dec 21, 2010
Hmmm, why is this program geared only towards girls?
RomanceRe: Nigerian Virgin Girls - Keeping Our Virginity by InkedNerd(f): 8:42am On Dec 21, 2010
JudgeDredd:
Not tryna pick up a fight but the bolded connotes a not too pleasant conclusion on an otherwise laudable project, but then again, its just my opinion. I could be wrong. wink
lol, I know you're not trying to pick a fight. We're cool. You're entitled to your own opinion.
RomanceRe: More Aam-nw Relationships Than Nm-aaw Relationship In The U.s by InkedNerd(f): 8:36am On Dec 21, 2010
[quote author=NY_WM link=topic=562042.msg7379407#msg7379407 date=1292916856]It seems too much of a contradiction to me. He admits a seemingly strong attraction to AA women, but he rules out a real relationship with one. If he is that much attracted to them, why rule out that possibility? Could it be his belief that most AA women dislike African men prevents him?[/quote]Perhaps. Or it could also be that there are some stereotypes about African American that he chooses to believe in. I suppose he'll clarify when he replies.
RomanceRe: Nigerian Virgin Girls - Keeping Our Virginity by InkedNerd(f): 8:27am On Dec 21, 2010
JudgeDredd:
^^^
Not a big fan of virgins myself but you shouldn't dissuade those who want to keep their virginity else your intentions, however independent they are, might be misconstrued.
I never pushed nor specified what my views were. All I did was laugh. If one wants to remain a virgin then that's totally up to them. To each their own undecided.
RomanceRe: More Aam-nw Relationships Than Nm-aaw Relationship In The U.s by InkedNerd(f): 8:12am On Dec 21, 2010
kobojunkii:
I am African and I am glad AAW do not like us.

As for me, I like fuccking AAW, afterwards I give them 20 dollars, most of them are my coworkers

Marriage wise AFrican> Asian> Indian> White.    AAW do not even come into the picture


I am yet to meet an AAM-NW relationship! I know I will personally kill my sister if she does that!
No offense, I know your her brother and you want to look out for her but who are you to tell her who she should or shouldn't date?

[quote author=NY_WM link=topic=562042.msg7379282#msg7379282 date=1292915369]That is unfortunate, Kobojunkii. Why would you rule out a real relationship with an AA woman despite your admitted attraction to them?[/quote]Seems more like he admitted that using them for sex. Having sex and wanting a relationship isn't really admitting that he wants to be with them.
CultureRe: Disability Awareness In Nigeria by InkedNerd(f): 8:07am On Dec 21, 2010
Gboliwe:
Even with my degree certificate,they wont even employ me!
Yes,I have an obvious disability. A bad leg! No corporate organisation wants to have me and misery is eating me up.
When I read what you wrote, I felt a deep sense of sadness. I can only imagine what that must be like for you. Please do stay strong. Its thins like that leads to depression. You feel like your not living to your full potential cry cry cry.

[quote author=hot-angel link=topic=571299.msg7378899#msg7378899 date=1292907187]Yes, care is necessary. It is a vital part of gaining independence and being able to walk again or live a "normal life".
I am glad to hear that your cousin is doing great!
I thank you for your willingness to help as well. You are needed.

And this goes out to everyone who wants to help, Please keep in mind that I will definitely keep you updated if anything comes up.
I will use this Thread as a means to share things with you all.

I really don't know how I am going to go by this, but I know God will make a way, and when that way comes, You all will hear of it, and your help with be very well appreciated.
But until then, don't just sit still. Begin to do something right now. As I stated earlier, it could be just clearing the path the disabled person is moving along.
Ensuring that Your house, shops, businesses, market area is accessible to physically disabled people.

God Bless you.[/quote]Thank you wink. Stay strong and keep us posted.
RomanceRe: Nigerian Virgin Girls - Keeping Our Virginity by InkedNerd(f): 8:04am On Dec 21, 2010
freecocoa:
I was trying so hard to control myself from laughing and you were busy laughing your a$$ off.what do you now expect me to do?lol
Lmaaaaoaooooo, sorry o. Just looking at the post again is making me laugh. Programs like that usually fail tongue.
RomanceRe: A Date At The Magic City by InkedNerd(f): 7:17am On Dec 21, 2010
[quote author=Mrs, Eve link=topic=572076.msg7379081#msg7379081 date=1292911795]It is a strip club in Lagos, but just pretend you have a Magic City in your AREA.  Now answer the damn question!  angry[/quote]Lmao, ok o. Well the dude I "chill" with already goes to strip clubs, and although I not a fan of strip clubs and strippers, I don't make a big deal out of it. If that's what he wants to do then that's what he wants to do. Its not like i could stop him. As long as he's not spending my or our money on strippers, then he can do whatever he wants. I wouldn't mind watching it out of curiosity I suppose. I remember last year, he suggested that I go to a strip club with him. So to answer question, my "booty call" goes to the strip club and I have no objections to it. He's a grown man and can make decisions for himself.
RomanceRe: Nigerian Virgin Girls - Keeping Our Virginity by InkedNerd(f): 7:10am On Dec 21, 2010
freecocoa:
Leave me alone o,hmmm.
. . . Did I say something wrong? huh
RomanceRe: A Date At The Magic City by InkedNerd(f): 5:44am On Dec 21, 2010
Oh my, chineke. I'm gonna have front row seats to this fight grin.
RomanceRe: More Aam-nw Relationships Than Nm-aaw Relationship In The U.s by InkedNerd(f): 5:42am On Dec 21, 2010
@OP: Where did you get your information from? These seem more like opinions rather than fact.
RomanceRe: Nigerian Virgin Girls - Keeping Our Virginity by InkedNerd(f): 5:39am On Dec 21, 2010
Lmaaaaaaaooooo tongue
CultureRe: Disability Awareness In Nigeria by InkedNerd(f): 5:38am On Dec 21, 2010
[quote author=hot-angel link=topic=571299.msg7378740#msg7378740 date=1292902862]Thanks. In fact I also saw some people crawling on all fours, their knees and hands. These are people that should have access to wheelchairs, and whatever else they would need to be independent but the government does not provide that.
Aside from what the government does not do, It's sickening as you said how fellow citizens treat the disabled.[/quote]I've seen the same as well. A lot of people seem to have to feel that because its not happening to them or someone they know, then its not important. I have two cousins who have needs as well. . . Luckily for them, they came from a family that had the financial means to provide the appropriate care they needed. In fact, one of those cousins, no one thought she would ever walk. With the care she was able to receive, she was able to learn to walk. If you ever start an campaign to help the disabled or mentally ill in Nigeria, please let me know. I wanna do whatever I can to help. I'm so sorry to hear about your accident, I hope that someday you will regain your ability to walk. Your unwillingness to give up shows the true strength you possess.
RomanceRe: A Date At The Magic City by InkedNerd(f): 5:25am On Dec 21, 2010
^^^ lol, careful you know Eve bites wink. Honestly I really don't know why I'm here. I read the post and I was like "Huh??"
FamilyRe: Nairalanders What Keeps You Motivated? by InkedNerd(f): 5:23am On Dec 21, 2010
What keeps me motivated is knowing that I can have a better tomorrow.
RomanceRe: A Date At The Magic City by InkedNerd(f): 5:17am On Dec 21, 2010
What the hell is Magic City?

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