₦airaland Forum

souldust:
the first time this question was asked i was not in support of it
but today i am begging to see things differently

men are beginning to see it as they are buying the woman
last night, i was listening to a programme on radio, and a lady said that
her would be husband told her that he has to test what he is going to buy

as a man myself i do not feel comfortable with that statement.
if i were a lady i would quit the relationship.
i do not know what you think.

macjive01:
I'm confused my wife of 10 years is beginning to act funny.
She walks around the house unclothed but avoid any kind of physical contact with me.

I'm 49 she is 35. I luv her and still lust over her, if I suggest let's hv an early night she wud rather stay up late- watching home videos !
She has also avoided kiss or cuddling. The last we had sex was at Christmas.
I do everything for her. I cook, clean and iron, buy her nice expensive things, yet. I paid for her mum's n sister's ticket to visit us last Xmas despite I was skint, I now hv so much debt that I will never be able to pay back.

I hv never had a reason to suspect my wife of infidelity but at this point i'm getting confused.

I summoned the courage and spoke to her mum abt it,  she suggested I "show my wife more love n shower her with more goodies", as if I wasn't doing enuf, that it cud b she is having  mid-life crises. I don't know but I think I buy her a lot already. I can't remember the last tine I went shopping  for myself. Im really tired but I can't afford a divorce at this age.

Are there married men out there having/had same or similar experience ?  Kindly advise me .

Timi1990:
Am fine o o o o , it just dat av been in skool since. Wats up wit you ? How's your family .

Skimpymoi:
hiya nerd! How u bin?

harakiri:
In my opinion, it's best to call the bluff of these Non-Nigerians who think they can come here and talk crap about by reminding them of the ills in their own countries e.g a bad mouthed south african should be reminded that their own countries have the unenviable record of highest HIV infected people in the world plus high murder rate and sexual assault. The American who thinks Nigerians are the most dishonest should be told that the words "scam" and "fraud" and most of the high profile scams that happen in their country is perpertrated by their OWN citizens. The ukrainian,bulgarian and romanian should remember they are "world leaders" in credit card and bank account phishing scams. The Russian bride scams are as notorious as the Nigerian dating scams but i dont hear anyone pulling Russia's name to the ground. Jamaicans have no competitors when it comes to weed smoking and their youths are leaders of a "higher" tomorrow. Peru,Bolivia,Colombia and Mexico are hard working hard drug economies and if they decided to stop exporting cocaine,herione,extasy and crystal meth, the youths in devoloped countries would "suffer". Asias just love feeding on human foetus and its a priced dish over there. Nigeria comes no where close to the madness in these countries and yet. . . Anyways, perhaps the mudslinging would reduce if Nigerians themselves stop putting each other done. Nuff said!

OAM4J:
I only stated an opinion of where I think the world is heading, didn't say it's a good or bad thing.

That said, I think marriage (good/happily ones) has its advantages and plays a role in an healthy society,

but then, I also think marriage is overrated and it is not meant for everyone.

olas2u:
Oloshi!Ashawo Newyork

olas2u:
Madam know everything