₦airaland Forum

harakiri:
First of all, i'm dead sick of all these "Nigerian this" and "Nigerian that" threads. We are humans like you and not "brand names". Secondly, this behavior has nothing to do with race. Some men (including myself) protect ourselves with a shell to avoid certain embarassments that occur when a man opens up 100% to a woman e.g putting his private life and affairs in the open JUST AS YOU HAVE ALREADY DONE! Call me a mysognist if you prefer (like i give a damn) but you women talk a lot and a lot of times,what you talk about are things the "victims" would rather be kept secret. Woe betide any man who bares his entire soul to a woman. Finally, you women are drama addicts. Even when your home is peaceful,blessed and stress free, you always look out for something to nag about e.g he doesn't think i'm the most beautiful woman anymore/he thinks i'm fat/he works too much/he doesn't work hard enough/he spends all his time in the office "abandoning" me and the kids. . .bla bla bla. No wonder men die mostly from heart related illness these days!

waybaloo:
My obervations are that nigerian men are so intent on creating their dynasty that they lose sight of who they are creating the dynasty for. And everything else going on for that matter. Well, of course they are creating it for themselves but it is also for their immediate nuclear family. Not just their ego. The ego is the main difference I see compared to western men. A western man may have an ego but of the ones I know it isnt determined by their material wealth.

Kc3000:
Yeah, I've noticed this attitude coming from SOME Ethiopians and Somalis, its laughable to me. Even in college, the Ethiopians broke away from the African Students Association (ASA) to form the ESA. Personally, I remind them that just because they came to America on refugee status, does not mean that they can mouth off to me, and I close by reminding them that we fed them and sent them aid throughout the 90's when they were starving. That usually does the trick.

horny4u:
Man's work is only with himself before turning your nose down remember you are not a judge so why not mind your business and use your energy to work on the reason where u are still on earth not in heaven your own weakness I mean. Your holier than though atitude will not clean u only working on you will. Oshi o da le pako.please stop hunting for sinners work on your own sins and you will inspire others.

sexyanna:
if he/her want to stay under my roof u have to changeur lifestyle

ThiefOfHearts:
How do you know? Were you there? you are comparing the mental cap[acity of a guy in his mid 20s or 30s to that of a 15 yr old? How do you know it wasnt even a forced situation? Cos you were there right? Self hating females that make excuses for pathetic weak boys.

chaircover:
@poster I appreciate your concern for your corper friend, but were you so concerned when the same paedophile corper was having sex in your apartment or did you close one eye to this?

If you warn off the corper, it is unlikely that he ever comes back . . . .where does that leave that young girl and the baby?

IMO he is man enough to get a young girl pregnant; a girl that he should have cared for and taught in school, but choose to betray his position of authority and therefore he should be man enough to accept the consequences.

If you want to be helpful, The only thing that you can do is to go and arrange a "begging team" to go and beg the father of the girl before the corper comes back.

Dont do that unborn baby and that girl an injustice. That wont be fair.

obowunmi:
Darling, whats making you angry ?