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by Sunday Akanni

We know already that God's Will is that all sexual pleasure should be shared between a married man and his wife inside the safe circle of their marriage institution alone, and that anything contrary is a sin that will fetch harmful repercussions (including premarital sex, extramarital sex, masturbation, pornography, homosexuality, etc).

Temptation is defined not only as "something attractive or seductive", but also as "pressure applied to your thinking designed to create wrong emotions which will eventually lead to wrong actions". Hence, sexual temptations are entities (persons, things, places, platforms, initiatives, etc) meant to entice you into committing sexual sins.

A temptation is meant to make you do something you already know is wrong. Sexual temptations are traps put in place by the devil and his agents, with the aim of making people become immoral. The aim is to make people dirty and separated from God their Creator, so he (the devil) will have the chance to steal from them, get them killed, and then destroy them.

Today, there are lots of Agents of Sexual Temptation out there (people, things, places, platforms, initiatives, etc that the devil is utilising to lure people into immorality). But in this short article, I want you to realise that the kingdom of darkness has colonised a large part of the territory of the world's movie industry.

It is necessary to know that the devil is always working on how he can pervert good intentions and inventions, as well as getting them channeled towards populating hell. Hence, while the inventors of the movie industry might have noble motives in the first place, it is unfortunate to note that the kingdom of darkness have invaded the industry and have been utilising it to corrupt millions of people in different parts of the world.

A lot of players and stakeholders in Hollywood, Nollywood, and several others, are doing the biddings of the devil - directly or indirectly, and only a few in the movie industry haven't bowed to the glistering offers of the devil. The hands of many of them have been sorely soiled with impurity.

Today, it is a common sight to see movies that promote indecency and tries to paint immorality in a positive light. Movies with tons of nude and semi nude scenes are all over the place. Unknown to many, these things keeps depositing lust in the hearts of the millions of viewers (including children). The lusts keeps growing in different degrees and forms, and you start seeing people practising what they saw in the movies. Where do you think kids of today are learning their erotic actions and dances from?

When you watch a lot of movies out there, it is difficult to restrain immoral thoughts and urges. These things corrupts people; they are toxic to our inner man; and cause separation between us and God.

What then should be done?

You have the liberty to watch any kind of movie you want. But if you want to be serious with God and want Him to use you for great exploits, then you can't go on watching just anything released in the already corrupted movie industry. There are some types of movies you shouldn't bother going for, as they will influence you negatively, or deposit debris of immorality into your subconsciousness.

We thank God for the rising of the Christian movie industry today. Personally, I'm always pleased with the Mount Zion Ministry (Evangelist Mike Bamiloye and his beautiful family - both immediate and extended). The Christian movie industry is now producing tons of superb movies that will entertain you (you will laugh and enjoy yourself), enlighten you (get you educated on important things you should know in today's world), then, most importantly, edify your spirit and encourage you to seek God the more (which help you grow spiritually).

So, rather than watching (and exposing your children to) movies that invade the mind with darkness, you should give more attention to the Christian movie industry.

"Therefore “Come out from among them And be separate, says the Lord. Do not touch what is unclean, And I will receive you.” 2 Corinthians 6:17

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by Sunday Akanni

You should understand that when God created our first parents - Adam and Eve - in the Garden of Eden, He created them in and into perfection. Unfortunately, immediately they sinned against God JEHOVAH by disobeying HIM, corruption crept in. Their corrupt nature has been passed from generation to generation, and every human born of a woman keeps inheriting a corrupt flesh that is always naturally eager to do what is wrong and sin against God.

That's why even a toddler will effortlessly do the wrong thing. The human flesh finds pleasure and comfort in going contrary to the Will of God. There is no exception when it comes to issues that pertains sex and sexuality. The average person will naturally be eager (and find it pleasurable) to indulge in immoral sexual activities (including premarital sex, extramarital sex, homosexuality, masturbation and pornography, etc)

There are a lot of people out there today who can't just hold themselves from sleeping around. They have lost count of the number of people that have seen their sacred unclothedness on the bed of immorality. Unfortunately, some are still ignorant of the fact that casual sex will get them ruined sooner or later (STDs, unwanted pregnancies, stepping on the wrong toes and being murdered as an act of revenge, giving the devil and his demons the chance to afflict them severely, etc). On the other hand, there are those who are aware of the wrongness and repercussions attached to immoral sexual activities, and have been struggling to stop.


The standard of the Lord remain sure and steadfast, despite how deep our society has been dipped into the dirty pool of corruption. The Will of God is that sex should be between a married man and his wife inside the safe circle of their marriage institution. And while your flesh would always crave for what is sinful (which will eventually lead you into trouble), you must partner with God to kill the flesh and its sinful cravings and compulsions

Our weak flesh powerfully oppose our willing spirit's intentions to please God and follow the Lord Jesus in the obedience of faith. Therefore, you must be determined to fight the flesh everyday, irrespective of your current situation. Understand that God has already given us what it takes to conquer the power of our weakness - He sent Jesus Christ to give us Victory over sin and to empower us (through the Holy Spirit) to live in complete holiness and purity. Therefore, the first major step is to embrace Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior, and surrender to His Lordship. Just call upon His Name wherever you are, and He will show you mercy.

When you made the wise decision to make Jesus Christ your Lord and Savior, you will become a new creature that starts walking in newness of life, made possible by living according to the Spirit and not walking according to the dictates of your weak flesh.


When you submit yourself to be led by the Holy Spirit, He guides you into truth, and you won't be enslaved to the cravings and compulsions of your flesh. Every moment, you must keep resisting the demands of the flesh. The devil's deceitfulness makes people feel they will be happier when they gratify the sinful desires of the flesh by indulging in sinful activities like sexual immorality. However, the truth remains that, by deciding to walk according to the Will of God in purity and holiness, you are only saving yourself from the terrible consequences that comes with sin (which are meant to destroy you). These things are true.

In conclusion, the Will of God is that you should have dominion over creation, and shouldn't be a slave to anything negative. You are not meant to be a slave to your sexual urges, but should have complete control over your body. Surrender yourself wholly to the Lord Jesus, and grow in your relationship with God. Be committed to the the things of the Spirit. Create a personal system, atmosphere and environment that will keep enhancing your relationship with God and keep flourishing with ease. Discipline yourself to pray at all times; study the Bible and other Christian literature; listen to spiritual and edifying songs and watch movies that will build your faith; let your close friends be fellow Christians that will always motivate you to get closer to God; ignore the companionship of sinners and unbelievers; ignore immoral books, songs, websites, movies, etc.

God loves you.

RapistOnBail:
You just won some souls to pornography. Tnx

The opposite bro. Souls have been liberated for the glory of God

Please note. Some will soon arrive and start saying there's nothing wrong with porn. Take note of such. Don't just ignore them, but also tell them things like: "I know you need help. I will be praying for you". You can also give them some advice on how to break free from pornography.

The reason porn platforms are still in business is because they are still getting much patronisers and viewers (hence, still making money). But a revival is coming soon, and these porn platforms will be forced to close - as people will no longer be interested in pornography (as well as other sinful ventures), and powerful entities will use their influence to cleanse their territory of pornography..

If you are a child of God reading this, please, pray for a revival of holiness.. Also contribute your quota in helping people break free from porn (start from where you are, with what you are).

Also, use your resources to sponsor persons and platforms that preaches purity and chastity. This are some of the things God expects from you.

Statistics has shown that a lot of people in different parts of the world are avid patronisers of pornography. Many young folks jumped into this immoral venture via the curiosity that emanated from inexperience and 'immaturity' (the inability to have full control over oneself)

There are also many adults who have become slaves to both the bitter pleasures associated with pornography, as well as its unpleasant side-effects. In fact, there are adults who found themselves swimming in the dirty pool of this immoral activity by initially giving reasons like "I'm only trying to learn how to please my partner on the bed". Unfortunately, the demons that governs the pornography territory and industry don't reason the way you reason, and they strike porn users hurriedly as soon as the chance comes.

It's unfortunate. There are so many people in our society currently under the intense yoke of pornography. Perhaps, you are also one of them. But today, if you are ready to cooperate with the Spirit of God, there will be a revival indeed.

There is really nothing good in pornography. It is a pervertion that defiles nature, as well as the divine order. The Will of God the Supreme Creator, is that sex should be a honourable and sacred activity, and sexual acts should be a private affair between a married man and his female wife in the safe circle of their marriage institution. Everything about porn is pervertion.

Let me also tell you this. Whenever you see a porn apologist (those saying there's nothing wrong with porn), please, don't only be wary of them, also flee from them. Let me expose them here. The average porn apologist is aware that everything is wrong with pornography, but they can't help but promote this immoral thing just for personal reasons. Some of them are directly working for the devil (terrible witches and wizards practicing diabolical occultism), and must do the biddens of their master the devil (which includes, luring and seducing others into sinful activities, so he can have a chance to afflict them). Don't be deceived by their outward appearances.

Some other porn apologists are doing what they do because they don't want to be the only ones that will go on suffering from the unpleasant repercussions that follows pornography. Privately and secretly, they personally regret starting the journey of pornographic pleasures, but as they are stuck, they want others to be like them, hence, they portray porn in a positive light. I'm telling you the truth! Don't be deceived by their outward appearances.

Time and space won't permit me to explore the terrible effects of pornography. I'm sure you already know some of them. But even more than you know, there are deeper bitter repercussions attached to pornography.

It is possible to totally overcome pornography addiction. The Will of God is that you should have dominion over everything, and you shouldn't be under the yoke of immoralites (and satan with hell)

You can reclaim your dominion and authority by accepting Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior. This is the first important step you must take. Anywhere you are, open your heart and just say, "Jesus, please come into my life". If you are sincere, God will definitely come to you (because He loves you)

The Holy Spirit will be sent to help you. You now have the power and authority to rebuke lust (even out of your heart and thoughts) and temptations too. One of the things that will happen to you when you give your life to Christ is that you will experience a shift of mindset, and your thought patterns will be divinely enhanced and rightly empowered. You will no longer find solace in porn (or things that will get you dirty and hurt you). You will know the proper way to live life, and will form new habits that glorifies God, and that will ensure you enjoy the dominion you have been destined to have (don't forget that been under sin makes people forfeit their right to rule their world)

On your part, it is helpful to be accountable to a matured believer around you. Set right boundaries and be busy with productive activities (including fulfilling your purpose, utilising your talents, engaging in constant spiritual activities like praying and studying of God's Word, etc). Also take appropriate sacrifices (such as putting away your smart phone for some time). You are on your way to victory.

Hallelujah! Glory to JESUS. Continue loving YAHWEH. Amen

How Lust Can Lead You Into Great Trouble

Lust is usually the culprit as far as sexual immorality is concerned. It is a fuel that has a capacity to push people into indulging in sexual immoral acts - premarital sex, extramarital sex, pornography, masturbation, and so on. Lust is one of the devil's most favourite weapons. When he struck with lust, many persons easily find themselves commiting sexual sins and attract afflicting afflictions into their lives.

Lust precedes sin; sin brings about separation from God. Separation from God your Creator will give the devil your enemy an access to ruthlessly plunder your life and destiny here on earth, and get you doomed in hell fire (which is for eternity).


A lot of people out there are under the shackles of lust, and it has vehemently corrupted their heart and mind and thoughts. Lust will always dip people into trouble. Jesus Christ said: "Whoever looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart." (Matthew 5:28). Imagine that. It means the curses attached to the person that indulged in the real act of sexual immorality can also follow the one who only lustfully imagined the pleasures in the heart.

I know a lot of people out there are still battling with lust You reading this right now might be one of them. The good news is that, you can be delivered from the demonic stronghold called lust today.

What should you do? Simply follow these steps:

1. Depend On The Finished Works Of Christ

The Bible revealed that the spirit is willing (to yield to the will of God), but the flesh is weak. Immediately after the fall of Adam and Eve in the Garden of Eden, the human nature became brutally perverted, and it was corrupted into becoming an entity that enjoys sin.

Therefore, you must realise that you can't conquer lust with your own futile attempts and strength. What should you do then? Depend wholly on what Christ has done for you. You must first accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior. If you haven't do that, say this prayer with sincerity:

"LORD Jesus, I accept You as Lord and Savior. I acknowledged that I'm a sinner. Please, Forgive me all my sins and wash me clean with Your precious Blood. Henceforth, I'm Yours alone. Amen".

When you dedicate (or rededicate) your life to Christ, you will have to die to self, and He will resurrect you. He will give you His Holy Spirit to help you live a life devoid of lust. Please, ask the Holy Spirit for help.

2. Empower Your Mind, Heart And Thoughts With The Word Of God

Your heart and mind can't be empty - it must be occupied and filled with something. To prevent lust from dominating your life, fill it then with the Word of God. Equip yourself with the Word of God, and you will be empowered not to sin. The Bible says: "Thy word have I hid in mine heart, that I might not sin against thee" (Psalm 119:11).

The Word of God is power, and it will strengthen you to resist sin of all types. Don't forget, you shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free (John 8:32).

3. Avoid All Lustful Entities And Appearances

While the Holy Spirit is always available and eager to help, you must also realize that you have your role to play.

You should avoid persons whose lifestyle (dressing, conversations, etc) brings about lust. You should ensure you don't give room for the flesh, and should avoid dirty things that erupts lustful desires and thoughts (dirty magazines, books, movies, music, etc). Don't be in places with an immoral atmosphere (clubs, wild parties, and so on) too. Avoid situations that brings breeds lust (intimate contact with sensitive parts of members of the opposite gender, and so on).

In conclusion, you are destined to live a life of purity and holiness, maintaining an eternal intimate relationship with God through Jesus Christ the Lord. This will empower you to adequately fulfill your destiny and have complete dominion over creation.

For ladies out that without self control.. You sleep around, mastubate, etc. You are just a step away from ruining yourself if you fail to repent and make amends with God! If you don't learn self control now, very soon, you will get to the stage where you can do ANYTHING just for immediate gratification (including abusing small boys sexually, lured into taking nude pics and videos, etc). Repent!

For those funny guys that always attack our messages of the truth.. I have something to tell you. When your lack of self control will push you into wrong things (raping, killing a lady for denying you sex, being caught and disgraced for having sex with another person's partner, picking sexual viruses, etc), we will be here to read your case on the front page of nairaland! We will only pity you and pray for you, while we remain at peace where we are. Repent!

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I was disheartened when I saw the news of the young man who killed his girlfriend because she refused him sex (https://www.nairaland.com/5961129/man-punches-girlfriend-death-oyo)

Looking at the picture of Shagbada Erigga (the guy's name) being interviewed by journalists, I couldn't help but feel sorry for him. He has obviously gotten himself into big trouble! His ambitions, dreams, goals, etc are all gone, because he failed to embrace God's injunctions that concerns purity.

I'm sure the young man right now will be regretting not adhering to the messages of the gospel; and will wish he can turn back the hands of time to start living a life of complete purity and chastity. It's a pity!

Listen to me, lack of self control will ALWAYS lead people into trouble. It's surprising when I see young people today telling themselves that they can't control their urges and desires (and they can't but indulge in premarital sex, adultery, masturbation, porn, and other dirty things)

I'm also a young person like you.. I'm just in my twenties.. And I've never had sex before! Guess what? I'm hale and healthy! I have urges like every other young person, but I will never be a slave to my urges, nor allow my body push me into acts that will ruin my life and destiny.

You must have full control over yourself! If you can't control your urges, irrespective of where you are currently in life (and what you have achieved), you can get ruined in the twinkling of an eye! At the height of sexual emotions and feelings, your body will be so keen on immediate gratification, common sense will fly away, and you won't mind doing something wrong just for the temporary pleasure. That's what happened to that young man! It can be you too!

If you don't learn self control and choose to honour God with your body by living a life of complete purity and chastity, you will soon find yourself in a regrettable position like that young man. You can become a rapist (it's after the act that you will come back to your senses)!

You can pick a sexual virus that will ruin your body! You can destroy your womb and cut off your life prematurely when you attempt abortion! Many young people have destroyed themselves because they have chosen to live contrary to the Will of God!

God's Will is that we have dominion over everything (including our sexual urges and desires), and we should not be slaves to our bodies, sin and satan.

You can live a life of complete purity and chastity if you will cooperate with the Spirit of God. Just embrace Jesus Christ, and keep asking Him everyday for Grace and strength to live according to His Precepts.

Avoid persons, things and places that will lure you into sexual immorality.. Discover your purpose in God. Get busy and occupied. And you will always be fine! God bless you.

ccffwx:
Good evening. I got your message. That would make it be in the public domain. I prefer a private correspondence. Is it that your email is inaccessible?

Good morning. Contact justakanni123@gmail.com

ccffwx:
I sent you an email concerning this message.

Good day sir. Please, can we discuss in an empty thread here on nairaland? Just mention me in an empty thread and tell what you want to talk about. God bless you

isthatso:
Stop deceiving women that they are destined to be queens. How many queens can you have in one town, local government. If everybody is a queen then there’s nothing special about being a queen. If anything programming women to think they are queens is why many end up sad, bitter and alone. Because they never develop the personality or skills to make them attractive for anything other than sex.

The biggest disservice done to women is telling them they are queens or special. They are not special and they are not queens. That is bullshit motivational pep talk that boots their egos in the short term but harms women in the long run. If you want to be special. Work hard at something g. There is no one who is special who hasn’t spent years perfecting a particular aspect of themselves. No one is special just for being born.

The major issue is attached to lack of identity. God, our Creator, is the King of kings, and as His children, we are Royals. This Truth becomes real indeed when you genuinely submit your life to Jesus Christ. It's a divine progression. When you know who God has destined you to be, you will only engage in noble activities (leaving the world with no choice but to tag you special). It's simple. Embrace Jesus Christ, and everything becomes beautiful (and Royalty).

Ladies, never forget this: "Don't allow any randy guy hinder you from becoming the Queen you are destined to be. Don't trade your royalty, dignity and destiny, on the bed of immorality."

Listen to me all women out there. One of the core reasons why most randy men feel they have a right to using your body as pleasure satisfying tool, is because they think you don't have any other thing to bring to the table apart from your body. Hence, it is necessary to get yourself empowered. Now, talking about empowerment, I'm not just talking about financial empowerment (because there are still many 'rich' ladies out there who still present their bodies as an immoral pleasure-satisfying-tool ). I'm however talking about True and Divine Empowerment. The empowerment of the Spirit, Soul and Body. How can you experience this?

It's simply by having an eternal relationship and communion with God through Jesus Christ His Son. When you surrender your life to Christ in truth, that's when you can have dominion over everything God created (spiritually and physically).

You will get to discover your purpose (the role God wants you to play in life). And He will help bring up resources needed to live a quality and fulfilled life (discovering your talents, getting busy with your vision, etc). This is True and Divine Empowerment. Hence, GENUINELY give your life to Christ, and embrace Him as Lord and Savior. Simply call upon the Name of the LORD, and you will be saved.

Today, it is not uncommon to see women that are always complaining about how they keep meeting men who are only interested in their bodies. In fact, some women now thinks there are no responsible men out there that still have full control over themselves and don't fornicate or commit adultery (or other immoral acts)

If you are a single lady out there who has been dumped by several guys because of your no-sex-till-marriage stance, and you are now getting tired (or about to compromise), my message is meant to strengthen you not to settle for less, and not to allow any guy make you sin against God your Creator.

What God has instructed is that sexual pleasures should only be shared between a married man and his wife inside the safe circle of their marriage institution. So, if you have made a decision to honour Jesus with your life (and body) by adhering to His commandments, then you should not allow anyone make you feel sorry for your purity stance, and you should not allow anyone push you off the path of sexual purity.

Many ladies do ask, "why do I keep meeting men that want sex before marriage?".. The answer is simple: "You keep meeting men who are ungodly".

I can assure you that there are still lots of God-fearing men out there who themselves are honouring God with their bodies. When I say God-fearing men, I'm talking about men that have made Jesus Christ their Lord and Savior, and are serving God in spirit and in truth. These are the type of men you should associate with. Unlike the "bad boys" out there, a born again Christian won't regard you as a mere tool for bodily pleasure, but will even contribute to your growth in important areas. In fact, a sure way to enjoy your marriage is by marrying a genuine born again Christian, where the foundation of your home is built on Christ. Such a man, who himself is Christ's bride, will know how to please God by treating you as the queen you are meant to be

I see some ladies today living anyhow they want and will always say, 'I want a God-fearing man' (or will always complain that all the men coming to them are only irresponsible sex-chasers). Well, likes will always attract likes. A born again Christian will want to marry a child of God like himself, and won't go for a lady that lives anyhow (indulge in acts contrary to God's Will).

Therefore, to attract a God-fearing born again Christian, you must be a guniune child of God too (God won't give any of His true sons to just any kind of lady that will ruin his sonship). So, you must make Jesus Christ your Lord and Savior and start living a life devoid of sin and iniquity. Focus on serving God in spirit and in truth, and He knows how He will connect you with a responsible God-fearing man that will ensure you have a joyful marriage

Please, don't compromise your purity stance. I know you are getting older and many of your mates are already married. But listen to me, God is about to do something great in your life if you will continue holding to His Word. You are facing those temptation because the devil already sensed your greatness, and he is doing all he could to hinder you from being the great woman God has destined you to be.

Men that are disturbing you for sex are majorly agents of satan that were sent to ruin your life. Please, don't allow them. If you are currently in a sinful relationship where you and the guy are already indulging in immoral activities, quit the relationship immediately, and ask God for forgiveness.

This is a generation where God is raising women (especially young women) that He will grant great authority and power to enact great influence in various spheres and sectors, with the aim of bringing Glory to His Name and establishing the Kingdom of God on earth. Don't allow any randy guy hinder you from becoming the Queen you are destined to be. Worship God in spirit and in truth through Jesus Christ our Lord.

Also take note of the number 5 point there. The truth is bitter. The molesters we see today are usually folks that failed to master self control. You too, that can't control yourself, but keep indulging in immoral sexual acts (premarital sex, extramarital sex, masturbation, etc), do you think you can't unwillingly degrade into a molester tomorrow? Repent of your sins and give your life to Christ!

Take note of the number 4 point up there..

In the first place, many parents are not aware of the need to give their children adequate sex education. Unfortunately, a large chunk of the few that do, are teaching their children contrary to the Will of God.. Don't tell the child, "If you know you can't abstain, then use condom". You have only succeeded in giving the child the go ahead to explore illicit sexual activities.. We must deal with these issues from the foundation..

Rather, tell them to not just abstain, but be chaste in all ways, honouring God with their bodies. Give them strategies to live a life of complete purity.

By Sunday Akanni

We have been experiencing lots of unpleasant issues both as individuals and as a society at large. Currently, we are battling with the constant case of rape, and every sane person must join hands together to deal with the issue.

Now, let's tell ourselves the truth. All these while, we know we have been trying to bring "intelligent" ideas and are engaging in "brilliant" conversations to solve the numerous problems staring us in the face. But let's be sincere. How effective has our efforts been? Just like the tortoise's shell refused to depart its body, our problems too are still with us!

What does this mean? It means we must be wise (and humble) enough to admit that as humans, we have huge limitations, and our imperfect nature cannot always provide solutions to our important problems. Our world is unable to create true solutions to significant problems we have created with our own hands.

Therefore, what should we do? Wisdom demands that if our world is unable to provide adequate solutions to our most important challenges, we should then look into another world (a higher and superior realm) for help. Yes, we should seek a Higher Intelligence.

The Word of God has proven to be True, Exotic and Perfect. And I'm assuring you with all boldness, that the Word of God is the Ultimate Solution to the pandemic called Rape.

Let's explore and embrace the Truth:

1. If everyone embrace Jesus Christ (the Word of God Himself) as Lord and Savior, we will become new creatures and will thirst and hunger only for righteousness and holiness. When Jesus is truly in you, you will become a regenerated creature who will crucify the flesh daily, and will cast your gaze only on things above (spiritual affairs of destiny).

Imagine if every human in our society will experience this! It will surely make a whole lot of difference, and everything will fall into their proper places!

As a true born again Christian, you will prioritise decent and modest dressing, and won't yield your body (as well as your dressing decisions) to be utilized by the devil to fan the flames of lust in the eyes of the opposite gender.

You reading this might currently be a rapist and molester. But listen, God did not destined you to be a rapist, and He loves you. Please, accept Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior, and He will cleanse your sin, and make you a new person. Just call upon the name of Jesus wherever you are right now.

As a genuine child of God, you will be disgusted by sin (including immoral appearances), and will be quick to ignore all indecent appearances around you - since you will be busy pleasing your God and Creator.

2. Therefore, we (who are currently in Christ) must prioritise Evangelism, preaching Christ, and doing all it takes to saturate the society with the message of God's Kingdom.

3. The society (especially the government) must encourage the Gospel and its adherents. They must provide adequate support, and the doors must be opened for Christians without hindrances (prison evangelism, school evangelism, street evangelism, bus evangelism, and so on). A society without an occultic/ulterior mindset will surely encourage the propagation of the Gospel, since everyone without a devilish motive will embrace what will ensure real peace in the society.

4. Parents must prioritise training their children in the way of the LORD, to have the fear of God. It is an aberration to tell your children they can practice "safe sex" (using contraceptives) if they can't abstain. Apart from the fact that such trainings are contrary to the Word and Will of God, it also mean you are telling them that it is impossible to gain mastery over their bodies and have self control.

5. Self control is key, and when you cooperate with the Holy Spirit, you will discover how easy and pleasant it is to have complete dominion over your sexual urges and desires.

I see some people today without self control, engaging in premarital and extramarital sex, and they are also condemning rape. And I tell myself, "don't these people know they too are potential rapists?" That's right! Without self control, as you go deeply into the ocean of immoral pleasure, it will consume you to the point where you will throw ethics to the wind just for immediate gratification.

Some rapists you see today were also once condemning the act. But since they discarded the need to master self control, it all happened hurriedly, and they found themselves molesting someone else (and then blame the devil for it).

Therefore, if you have been indulging in sinful and immoral acts (fornication, adultery, masturbation, pornography, etc), please repent, and make a decision to live a life of complete Purity, choosing to honour God with your body

The Word of God is Powerful, and can transform the dirtiest human into a pure Saint. Let's embrace the Word of God.

1 Thessalonians 4:7

For God has not called us for the purpose of impurity, but in sanctification.

For those asking "What if I discovered after our wedding that my partner do not have a functional sexual organ?"

Number one, if you are a genuine child of God, and He is the one that asked you to marry a particular person, you can be sure He won't give you a spouse you won't enjoy.

Two, If you are not sure that God is the one that asked you to marry that partner of yours, simply demand a medical check up/test. Before the wedding, in many churches, both parties must submit a medical report of things like their blood group, etc. With such, it will be easy for both parties to know the other person's body state if they are so concerned about it...

So, you see, sin can't be justified!

"For this is the will of God, your sanctification; that is, that you abstain from sexual immorality;" 1 Thessalonians 4:3

So a guy here recently published a piece claiming no sex before marriage is a scam..

At first, I was thinking he's just one of those loose guys who only justify sexual immorality because they can't be human enough to gain mastery over their bodies, and who can't control themselves and are slaves to their urges.. But I was shocked that this guy was attempting to justify an unholy act like premarital sex, with the Holy Scriptures..

I was like, JESUS, this guy must be stopped!

First of all, if you check the guy's profile, you will discover he is selling sex tools and products. Therefore, he is only trying to pervert people's mind so they could comfortably patronise him. He is aware that the Holy Words of God is a threat to the sales of his immoral sex tools, hence, he is trying to twist the scriptures for his own dirty motives.. If only he knew the danger of what he just did! Don't forget that the devil too is a master at twisting the Bible!

Nevertheless, please discard his claims.. The Word of God stands sure.. Premarital sex is a sin, because it is contrary to God's Will. God's Will is that all sexual experiences should be shared between a married man and his female wife only, in the safe circle of their marriage.

The Bible says in Hebrews 13:4: "Marriage is honorable among all, and (let) the marriage bed (be) undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge"

It means, those that indulged in premarital sex will not only hurt themselves (STDs, unwanted pregnancies, etc), but will attract punishments to themselves (and even the devil will have a chance to afflict them).

God Himself said: "...the sexually immoral...shall have their part in the lake which burns with fire and brimstone, which is the second death" Revelation 21:8

The guy even claimed that during the time of Mary and Joseph, virginity wasn't highly regarded. That's a lie from the pit of hell! Their society was a very conservative one, and women caught indulging in sexual immorality are usually stoned to death!

The guy also claimed that you can sleep around because "God only sees a clean and a pure heart". Can you imagine! If you wear a clean white dress, won't you avoid anything that can get it stained?

In conclusion, although the world is currently vehemently corrupt (as we are in the last days), I want you to know that there are still many of us (Sons and Daughters of YAHWEH) still obeying Him and living lives of total purity. And guess what? We are happy and blessed. We are enjoying our marriages, and raising godly and responsible children.

Happy Sunday everyone

God, the Supreme Creator of everything, never made a mistake creating you with your sexual urges. However, you must know that God has given you those urges for honourable purposes, and He expects that you will be human enough to put on the garment of self control, and never allow your sexual urges drive you into sinful and illicit sexual activities.

Today, different people are giving different opinions on issues pertaining sex and sexuality. However, wisdom demands that you don't build a pivotal aspect of your life around the fallible words of imperfect humans like yourself, but that you seek tested and trusted eternal and divine principles and truths.

Thus, as regards how you should approach issues pertaining sex and sexuality, you should prioritise and adhere only to what God is saying. And the Word of God is that the only sex partner you should have must be your married spouse (who must be a member of the opposite gender), only in the safe circle of the marriage institution.

WE ARE DESIGNED TO FLORUISH AND LIVE WITH THE WORD OF GOD

It is abnormal living outside the Word of God. Just like a fish is divinely designed to flourish inside the water, humanity can only find true pleasantness by embracing the Word of God and living in accordance to God's Will.

The Bible says, "By faith we understand that the worlds were framed by the word of God" (Hebrews 11:3). Meaning, what held the world together is the Word of God, and only through God's Word will our world make perfect sense. Since the Word of God is the Ingredient used in making this world, then God's Word is the key to the world's true fulfilment. God's Word is the formula for the world's well-being, as the Word of God is the foundation of the world.

No wonder our world is in its current state of unpleasant jeopardy - as individuals and institutions and nations are rebellious towards God's Word.

Jesus Christ is the Word of God Who has been with the Father from Eternity (John 1:1). Then scriptures says, "In Him (Jesus) was life, and the life was the light of men" (John 1:4).

Our world is a dark room filled with all manner of vices and harmful stuff. But when you embrace Jesus into your life as Lord and Savior, He resides in you and gives you Light. So you start living with clarity, knowing to do what is right, and ignoring harmful ventures of sin and the devil - which then empower you to have true dominion over the devil, sin and hell

So, you see, you must make Jesus Christ your Lord and Savior, and start living in accordance to the Will and dictates of God. This is what you are destined to do! This is what empowers you not to be a slave to sex or your urges!

Call on the Name of Jesus Christ now! Sincerely ask Him to come into your life.

BREAK THE CONNECTION WITH YOUR SEX PARTNERS

Since having sex with anyone that's not your legally married spouse is contrary to God's Word and Will, then you must break the relationship you have with your sex partner(s) - irrespective of who they are and what you benefit from them. It might be a tough decision, but please, do it immediately! And you will be eventually glad you did!

In conclusion, perhaps you've broken the relationship with your illicit sex partner, but you are still struggling with the urge to go back to them (or you still have fantasies or see yourself having sex with them in your dreams), you have to break the soul ties with prayers and the Word of God! Pray and fast fervently, and get occupied with spiritual and productive activities!

God bless you in Jesus Name!